This is a 2024 college graduation speech with some sweet messages about creating magic. Here are some of my favorite ideas:
"What you hold in your hands is the commencement address I delivered when my son graduated from the University of Michigan in 2024 (p. 2)."
"Thank you for the people who believe in the thirteenth seed (p. 3)."
"This was their first proper graduation since middle school (p. 5)."
"Whatever the outcome, there they were, in the fourteenth row--my son in the aisle seat, staring straight at me. It was all that mattered (p. 6)."
"I thought I knew where all the high points would be--where the jokes would land and the laughter would come. As usual, I was completely wrong (p. 10)."
"A wave of energy nearly knocked me over as seventy thousand people interrupted me, refusing to let me speak, breaking into spontaneous applause. Because of kindness. Because of empathy. It had nothing to do with me. It's simply that, as a culture, we're exhausted by venom and cruelty--and we're starving for kindness and empathy (p. 12)."
"'If you really want to shock the world, unleash your kindness' (p. 13)."
"Learn the Uber driver's name. If you're nice to me and a jerk to the waiter, you're a jerk (p. 22)."
"Some things are unexplainable. They're just magic (p. 23)."
"They're just four types of tricks:
1. You make something appear.
2. You make something disappear.
3. You make two things switch places.
4. And finally, you change one thing into something else (p. 26)."
"What you need to make appear is YOU. I'm not just talking about showing up, but making the best version of you appear (p. 28)."
"I realized I wanted to be a novelist. And my girlfriend? She didn't laugh at that... That next book did get published. I owe her forever for that lift she gave me (p. 34)."
"Let's hear it for those who got us to this day! (p. 34)"
"When someone you trust sees your potential and says they believe you can be that person, it opens up a path and inspires you to become that version of yourself (p. 35)."
"That fear this woman brought out in me? It fueled me. It drove me (p. 40)."
"Make your fear disappear but not because fear is bad. Use your fear. Harness it. Let them underestimate you (p. 43)."
"That's what empathy is--switching places with someone else and putting yourself in their shoes (p. 46)."
"Mercy--and empathy--is what she showed us (p. 49)."
"What takes strength is switching places and putting yourself in someone else's shoes (p. 51)."
"Do not shut down. We need you. If you shut down, we're in trouble (p. 52)."
"Every family at your graduation has someone who they wish could be here today (p. 53)."
"As you go through life, every person you encounter is battling something you can't see (p. 54)."
"'One day, someone is going to hug you so tight that all of your broken pieces will fit back together' (p. 56)."
"The world needs more empathy, more humility, and, certainly, more decency. If you really want to shock the world, unleash your kindness (p. 57)."
"The hardest trick of all. Transformation (p. 59)."
"Never stop changing (p. 61)."
"When you write things in stone, everything becomes hard and brittle and starts collecting dust (p. 63)."
"As you start your next chapter, write in pencil and be unafraid to use the eraser (p. 64)."
"The most sophisticated and intelligent people I know are the ones willing to challenge their thinking and admit there's more to learn (p. 66)."
"Life will absolutely not be what you think it will be. It will be hard and wonderful and messy and rewarding, with more versions of you than you think possible (p. 67)."
"Keep transforming, learning, and never think you know it all. Instead, see yourself in the hall of mirrors--endless possibilities (p. 69)."
"Make the best version of YOU appear, make your fear disappear and harness it, switch places to find empathy, and never stop transforming (p. 71)."
"They take effort. They take you. Things don't just appear or disappear by themselves (p. 73)."
"Making magic, figuring out who you are, takes work, time, and intentionality... that's how magic is: full commitment to the bit, or it all falls apart (p. 74)."
"What you'll remember more than anything are those people who cheered for you along the way (p. 76)."
"Magic is never for yourself. It's a gift you give other people (p. 82)."
"Real magic, the most powerful magic... that comes from making memories. Memories that endure, like cherished friendships. Memories so powerful that even though they happened years ago, you can feel them now... see them now... conjured out of thin air (p. 82)."
"Sometimes magic is hiding right in front of you the entire time (p. 85)."
"This book was put in your hands because someone loves and believes in you. And they know one thing for sure (p. 91)."
"Don't ever forget: The only people who see magic are the ones who look for it (p. 97)."