In today's world many are rushing about to accomplish more, be more and meet all the expectations. Trauma Specialist, Dixie Hirschi, embraces the adventurous life she has, continually considering the gaps she discovers along the way. Her curiosity about life, herself and others led her to ponder the spaces in the awareness of the simple and the complex and to seek understanding of her values, purpose and expectations for relationships and goals.
She shares a series of experiences, stories gathered, and mindful practices that will help in identifying gaps, learning to notice and get curious.
In Mind the Gap,Stepping into Unknown Spaces to Embrace a Fuller Life, Dixie invites you to wonder and discover unnoticed gaps and then embrace minding what you discover. This is an opportunity to get curious, start or continue a conversation about what we may not notice or consider and how this impacts our life.
Mind the Gap by Dixie Hirschi is one of those rare books that doesn’t try to fix you—it simply sits beside you in the mess and says, “Me too.”
From the very first chapter, I felt like I was being invited into something real. Dixie doesn’t pretend to have it all figured out, and that’s what makes her voice so powerful. She writes about shame, identity, performance, faith, and healing in a way that feels deeply personal but also universally relatable. There’s a rawness to her storytelling that’s both brave and disarming—it made me reflect on parts of myself I often keep quiet.
The book doesn’t follow a neat arc, and at times it drifts or pauses longer than you might expect—but honestly, that felt like the point. Growth isn’t linear. Neither is grief or self-discovery. Dixie captures that tension—the gaps between who we are, who we think we’re supposed to be, and who we’re becoming—with so much compassion and clarity.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the in-between, if you’ve ever wondered how to close the distance between your inner and outer life, or if you’ve just needed someone to say “you’re not alone,” this book will speak to you. It doesn’t promise answers, but it does offer presence—and that’s sometimes even more healing.
A truly beautiful read that I’ll carry with me for a long time.