Set in the 80s and 90s, a young woman searches for true love amid a sea of toads. From the high drama of teen romance to the awkward infancy of online dating, her soulmate may be waiting where she least expects it. . “Kissing Toads is a page turning and charming literary treasure. Danissa Wilson masterfully brings the reader through Annie’s search for love, as she learns lifelong lessons from many toads along the way.”—Danielle Augustin, JD, MA—Anaheim Hills, CA
“… a generational story that dives freely into matters of the heart and mind. Whether it be through shallow waters or the deepest of oceans, Danissa Wilson skillfully uses humor to guide us through the often-painful universal realities of life, rendering them into a beautiful portrait of self-discovery.” — Dakota Gorman, Writer/Director— NYC
“… From beautiful and relatable character development to witty banter and finding love in all the wrong places, readers won’t be able to put Wilson’s debut novel down. Kissing Toads will leave you laughing, crying, and reminding you that love lies where you least expect it.”—Taylor Littlejohn— Newport Beach, CA
"…Kissing Toads carries a resonance akin to the impactful narratives of Judy Blume that shaped a generation. … Full of humor, relatability, and heartfelt moments, Wilson proves herself to be a formidable new talent in the literary world, poised to make a lasting impact for years to come."—Jenni L. McCullum MFT, PCC—New Mexico
“,,, a compelling depiction of the human condition. We follow Annie's journey of life through the lens of comedy and tragedy in the pursuit of love, independence, and happiness. Despite Annie getting knocked down multiple times, we witness the true strength of humanity's perseverance and hope.”—J.T. McLean – Alta Loma, CA
“Kissing Toads is uniquely hilarious and heartfelt, a modern love story of self-discovery infused with Gen X nostalgia. Wilson’s smart and observant writing inspires both laughter and tears as we root for Annie to find her true love.”—Kristine Nikkhoo, MA — Fullerton, CA
A feminist tale at heart, Kissing Toads is a fictitious memoir that tells the story of a now 50-something-year-old woman named Annie who takes the reader on her decades-long quest to find her "Prince Charming." Believing that if she kisses enough toads, she will eventually find her prince, Annie has one goal as a budding young fetch herself a man. Set in the late 1970s through the mid-1990s, the reader follows Annie throughout young adulthood as she searches for her soulmate amid the backdrop of misogyny, a loving but overbearing mother, and gender and societal expectations. Sometimes cheeky, sometimes heartbreaking, Kissing Toadsexplores Annie's messy yet authentic misadventures in dating. But just when you think you've reached the happily-ever-after, brace yourself for an exhilarating plot twist. Kissing Toads is not just another coming-of-age tale; it's a celebration of self-discovery, liberation, and the courage to write your own fairy tale.
Initially inspired by one of her girlfriends who, fresh off a divorce, dove headfirst into the online dating scene (with disastrous results), DANISSA WILSON wrote this novel with the desire to explore the complexities of dating and finding one’s sexual identity in the late 20th century. A Southern California native, Wilson holds a BA and MA in English as well as a doctorate in education. She taught creative writing, literature, and composition at the college level for more than a decade and has been working as a college library dean since 2014. When not writing, Wilson enjoys reading novels, stargazing, and spending time with her devoted partner, her three fun-loving children, and her three loyal pups. Kissing Toads is her first novel
It’s the 1980’s in sunny SoCal, and Annie has entered her dating era at the ripe age of 16. We’re only a couple of chapters in before the toads come courting, and she finds herself lingering in a revolving door of unfulfilling romantic relationships. The toads bring the icks with fervor via heady combinations of commitment-phobia, narcissism, sex addiction, and toxic masculinity, to name a few. In her late 20s, Annie finally reels in a suitable amphibi-man, but when tragedy strikes, sending her into a spell of seemingly irrevocable despondency, current toad abandons pond before you can croak out a ribbit. Fortunately, Annie’s ride-or-die BFF and ultimate girls’ girl is always there to pick up the pieces and this time is no different.
This was a poignant and unexpected 4-star read that had me in my feelings. If my gay awakening is still forthcoming, I can only hope it manifests like it did here.
By the title alone, I knew this book was going to be worth a read. How many “toads” does one have to kiss before finding their perfect match? It’s a question those of us deeply ingrained in the dating culture ask ourselves all. the. time. And while main character Annie’s story takes place in the 80s and 90s, many of her experiences with—and positively hilarious takes on—dating ring true and relevant today.
The girlish notion of true love—from playing “bride” as children to allowing books and movies to shape your hope for your own happily ever after, only to realize that the real thing is much harder to find (let alone keep), while also navigating society’s (and sometimes family’s) impossible standards and expectations—is so perfectly captured. I loved how Annie approaches these sometimes very disheartening and discouraging disappointments with humor and grace and self-compassion. Humor is so critical, and I found myself laughing out loud so many different times.
I felt this one, you know? Like how you can feel something because you relate to it so deeply. It’s ultimately about writing your own destiny, that no matter how many toads you kiss, your life—and your story—belong to you and you alone.
A Nostalgic Dive into Love & Self-Discovery Set against the colorful backdrop of the '80s and '90s, Kissing Toads is more than just a romantic tale—it's a heartfelt journey of self-discovery. Annie, our quirky and relatable protagonist, takes us through the highs and lows of teenage romance, the awkward infancy of online dating, and the bittersweet lessons life throws at her. Danissa Wilson’s witty and poignant storytelling transforms Annie’s misadventures into a charming narrative that resonates with anyone who's ever kissed a “toad” in search of their prince.
Humor Meets Heartache What makes Kissing Toads truly shine is Wilson’s masterful blend of humor and raw emotion. Annie's journey isn't just about finding love; it's about understanding herself amidst societal expectations, gender norms, and a loving yet overbearing mother. Wilson injects moments of laugh-out-loud humor, making the heartbreaks and setbacks feel all the more real. This balance between comedy and tragedy keeps the story grounded while offering readers a rollercoaster of emotions.
More Than a Love Story At its core, Kissing Toads is a feminist tale celebrating independence, perseverance, and hope. It’s a generational story, reminding readers of the universal challenges of growing up and searching for connection. Annie's resilience in the face of repeated setbacks is inspiring, and her journey serves as a reminder that finding love isn’t just about meeting the right person—it’s about learning to love yourself.
A Fairy Tale with a Twist The plot twist near the end is nothing short of exhilarating, making this novel far from your typical romance. Wilson’s sharp, observant writing captures the essence of Gen X nostalgia while delivering timeless lessons on love and self-worth. If you’re looking for a read that will leave you laughing, crying, and cheering for Annie, Kissing Toads is your perfect pick!
Danissa Wilson’s Kissing Toads is a refreshingly candid and deeply relatable fictitious memoir that reinvents the classic "fairy tale" with a feminist twist. Through the voice of Annie, a woman in her 50s reflecting on her decades-long quest for Prince Charming, Wilson crafts a poignant, cheeky, and often heartbreaking narrative that resonates with readers on a deeply personal level.
Set against the backdrop of the late 1970s to the mid-1990s, Annie’s journey unfolds within the constraints of societal expectations, family dynamics, and the pervasive misogyny of the times. Her belief in the age-old adage that kissing enough toads will eventually lead to finding a prince becomes a metaphor for the messy, unpredictable, and sometimes painful pursuit of love.
Wilson excels in weaving humor and heartache together, capturing the essence of Annie’s misadventures in dating with authenticity and wit. The story is filled with moments that will make readers laugh out loud, nod in recognition, or feel a pang of empathy. Annie’s trials and triumphs become a mirror reflecting the universal struggles of navigating love, identity, and independence.
What sets Kissing Toads apart is its powerful twist. Just when you think you’ve reached the inevitable happily-ever-after, Wilson challenges the reader to rethink the fairy-tale ending. Instead of focusing on the prince, the story evolves into a celebration of self-discovery, personal growth, and the courage to forge one’s own path.
With its vibrant blend of humor, heartbreak, and empowerment, Kissing Toads is not just a coming-of-age tale but a bold declaration of what it means to reclaim your narrative. This book is a must-read for anyone who has ever kissed a few toads of their own while searching for their own happily-ever-after.
Danissa Wilson’s "Kissing Toads" is a heartfelt fictitious memoir that takes readers through Annie’s decades-long quest to find her “Prince Charming.” Set between the late 1970s and the mid-1990s, the book vividly portrays Annie’s journey as she navigates love, societal expectations, and the challenges of growing up with a loving yet overbearing mother. The title’s metaphor of kissing toads perfectly encapsulates Annie’s sometimes cheeky, sometimes heartbreaking misadventures in dating.
The story doesn’t shy away from exposing the struggles women faced during those decades. From misogyny to the pressures of conforming to gender norms, Annie’s life is a mirror of resilience and authenticity. Each relationship she embarks on brings laughter, pain, and lessons, making her journey relatable and emotionally engaging. The rawness in Annie’s narrative is both captivating and thought-provoking.
Just as the narrative appears to follow a traditional coming-of-age arc, the book delivers a surprising twist that challenges the concept of “happily-ever-after.” This twist adds a refreshing depth to the story, turning it into more than just a tale of finding love. It highlights the importance of self-discovery and embracing one’s individuality.
"Kissing Toads" isn’t just a book about love; it’s a feminist celebration of writing your own fairy tale. Through Annie’s life, Danissa Wilson delivers a powerful message about breaking free from societal expectations and finding happiness within. The blend of humor, heartbreak, and empowerment makes this a must-read for anyone seeking a story with substance and soul.
This book is a witty, heartfelt memoir that takes readers on a nostalgic journey through the late 70s to the mid-90s. Follow Annie, a vibrant and determined young woman, as she navigates the tumultuous world of love, from the dramatic highs of teen romance to the cringe-worthy beginnings of online dating. Armed with the belief that kissing enough toads will eventually lead to her prince, Annie embarks on a decades-long quest for true love against the backdrop of societal expectations, gender roles, and her well-meaning but overbearing mother.
Equal parts cheeky and emotional, Book beautifully captures the messy, hilarious, and relatable misadventures of a woman growing up in a world shaped by patriarchy and shifting cultural norms. Annie’s journey is a rollercoaster of triumphs, heartbreaks, and self-discovery, all told with wit and authenticity. Whether she’s tackling misogyny or learning to embrace her true self, Annie reminds us that the path to finding love is often paved with personal growth and unexpected detours.
Just when you think the story reaches its fairy-tale ending, book delivers a jaw-dropping twist that will leave you reflecting on love, independence, and the courage to rewrite your own narrative. This feminist celebration of resilience and liberation is a must-read for anyone who’s ever dared to dream beyond convention and chart their own course. Annie’s story isn’t just about finding a soulmate—it’s about falling in love with yourself along the way.
What do you get when you mix the drama of teen romance, awkward ’90s online dating, and a girl determined to kiss every toad in the pond? One wildly entertaining, laugh-out-loud journey called *Kissing Toads*. Danissa Wilson takes us through Annie’s decades-long search for love, where every heartbreak, awkward first date, and plot twist feels like a lesson in love and life. Spoiler: the prince may not be who—or what—you expect!
Annie’s story is as relatable as it is hilarious. Between dodging societal expectations, surviving her overbearing mom, and tackling the dating pool of *yikes*, she’s the ultimate underdog we can’t help but cheer for. And just when you think she’s about to find her happy ending, Wilson flips the script in a way that’ll leave you shouting, “WHAT?!” (in the best way).
Wilson nails the perfect mix of humor, heart, and throwback vibes. From awkward flirting to deep moments of self-discovery, this book is a feminist anthem wrapped in a rom-com. Annie’s message? Forget chasing princes—find yourself first.
If you’re craving a feel-good read with retro nostalgia, sharp humor, and an empowering twist, *Kissing Toads* is *the* book to pick up. It’s messy, it’s magical, and it’s the love story you didn’t know you needed.
I am so glad I found this book! Kissing Toads is a delightful and poignant exploration of love, loss, and self-discovery. Annie, our endearing protagonist, takes us on a humorous and relatable journey through the trials and tribulations of young adulthood. The novel's sharp wit and candid storytelling make it an incredibly enjoyable read. Annie's voice is both humorous and heartfelt, and her honest portrayal of her experiences will resonate with readers of all ages. The author's ability to blend humor with poignant moments is masterful, leaving the reader both laughing and reflecting. Beneath the surface of the comedic tone lies a powerful message about the importance of self-love and independence. Annie's journey is not just about finding a romantic partner; it's about learning to love herself and to define her own happiness. Kissing Toads is a refreshing take on searching for love, and it's sure to leave a lasting impression on readers.
Being a Gen X’er I really loved all the old school references. So many memories came flooding back! And the writing. So hilarious! I laughed so much! Poor Annabelle named after hoity toity dog royalty, her overbearing Mother stuck in the mindset that women were meant to be wives and mothers and not much else, and then there was Sophie. Annabelle’s lifelong best friend who stuck by her side through high school boyfriends, collage boyfriends and beyond. These guy all were definitely ‘toads’! Such a fun and engaging story with some unexpected emotional elements. Who says you need Prince Charming anyway?
Thank you to Danissa Wilson for providing a copy of her book. It was a wild and crazy ride!
Reading Kissing Toads by Danissa Wilson felt like diving into a time capsule of love lessons, and I couldn't help but laugh, wince, and cheer along the way. Even though Annie's story is set in the 80s and 90s, my girlfriends and I couldn’t stop relating to her journey. Sure, we grew up with smartphones and swiped our way through the dating pool, but Wilson’s portrayal of awkward first dates, hopeful flings, and the sometimes harsh realities of romance had us nodding, laughing, and saying, “A toad is a toad, no matter the decade.”
I found myself reading parts aloud to my friends, and we’d all burst into knowing laughter. Annie’s life felt refreshingly real, with her mother’s relentless pressure and society’s mixed signals about love and independence. Wilson captures the highs and lows with such a mix of humor and warmth that we couldn’t help but feel Annie’s experiences mirrored some of our own. Ultimately, though, this book reminded us that the true fairy tale is learning to love yourself first. Kissing Toads was more than just a fun read; it was like a heartfelt conversation with friends, about the toads we’ve kissed and the lessons we’ve learned.
I was lucky enough to win a copy of this book on a Goodreads giveaway. I am so happy I did! I was hoping through the whole book that the ending was going to be what I’d hoped. And it was! A sweet and fun read :)
As a Gen-X woman, I’ve read my fair share of coming-of-age tales, but "Kissing Toads" stands out for its refreshingly honest, laugh-out-loud humor and Annie’s fearless journey. The book dives into the gritty realities of love, disappointment, and self-discovery in a way that feels all too relatable. Annie’s string of “toads” and mishaps had me both cringing and cheering, and her witty perspective on every “almost-prince” she encounters makes this an irresistible read.
But "Kissing Toads" isn’t just about the laughs; it’s about a woman taking charge of her story. I loved the 70s-90s backdrop and the nostalgic references to the staples of that era. Also, Annie’s search for love is a hilarious yet heartfelt exploration of breaking free from society’s expectations. The book’s humor is sharp, its themes are empowering, and Annie’s adventures reminded me of how important it is to write our own fairytale—even if it doesn’t look like the one we imagined.
This story is a treat for anyone who enjoys a fiercely feminist twist with wit, warmth, and a dash of irreverence.
Set in the vibrant 80s and 90s, this fictitious memoir takes us through Annie’s decades-long journey to find love. From teen drama to the quirky beginnings of online dating, Annie’s tale is as relatable as it is engaging. Every chapter brims with emotions—hope, heartbreak, and humor, making it impossible to put down.
A feminist core runs through the story, beautifully highlighting Annie’s struggles with societal expectations, family pressures, and her pursuit of the perfect partner. Her life is a rollercoaster of kissing toads in the hope of finding her prince, but what she finds instead might surprise you!
The dating misadventures Annie endures are both cheeky and bittersweet. Danissa Wilson masterfully paints the backdrop of a patriarchal society, yet Annie’s resilience shines through. With each failed romance, we see her grow stronger, more self-aware, and determined to craft her own destiny.
The plot twist hits hard—just when you’re expecting a fairy-tale ending, the story takes a bold turn, reminding us that life isn’t always about finding “the one” but finding yourself. It’s refreshing and empowering, leaving readers reflecting on their own ideas of love and happiness.
If you love heartfelt tales with humor, nostalgia, and a splash of rebellion, Kissing Toads is your next must-read. It's a witty ode to all the women rewriting their stories.
When I first began reading this book, I was expecting a light read about the funny (and often horrific) adventures of dating in the 80s and 90s. How I was surprised that Annabelle’s story is so much more than that! I laughed, and I cried. I cheered for Annie the whole time as her mom urged her to find her prince! Then, Annie faced a tragedy beyond my imagination and through her healing, found her true love. This was a fabulous first novel by the author, and I certainly hope to read more from her!
The story follows a young woman named Annie, whose journey of love and self-discovery takes center stage. Annie’s mother always dreamed of her finding her perfect "Prince Charming," and this aspiration became a guiding force in Annie's life. Inspired by the belief that you have to meet a few frogs before finding your prince, Annie embarked on her quest for true love.
Her search began earnestly in high school, where she dated Oz for four tumultuous years. During that time, she befriended Sophie, who later became her college roommate and closest confidante. Together, they navigated the ups and downs of college life, eventually moving into their own off-campus apartment.
Annie’s relationships were a rollercoaster of emotions and lessons. After a painful breakup with Nash, she sought stability and maturity, leading her to Quinton. Though he seemed perfect initially, he wasn’t the one. By her junior year, Annie still hadn’t found her "Mr. Right." Then she met Marshall—a smart, accomplished man who won her mother’s approval. Her mother even envisioned her grandchildren. But was Marshall truly Annie’s happily-ever-after?
This book is a heartfelt exploration of love, growth, and self-awareness. Annie’s experiences teach profound lessons about relationships and the search for a life partner. The unexpected and refreshing ending left me thoroughly satisfied. I highly recommend this compelling novel to anyone seeking a captivating and relatable story about finding love. Dive in—you won’t regret it!
A Heartfelt Journey: A Book Review of Kissing Toads by Danissa Wilson
Reading Kissing Toads by Danissa Wilson was such an emotional ride! I laughed, cried, and even found myself gasping in shock more than once. Annie’s search for true love had me hooked from the very beginning.
The way Wilson tells Annie’s story feels so real and relatable, full of ups and downs, just like life. Every time a new character came along, I thought, “This has to be the one!” I found myself rooting for her, convinced that this one was her prince charming—only to be proven wrong by the end of the chapter. It’s a testament to Wilson’s storytelling that I couldn’t put the book down, racing to the end to find out who Annie’s happily-ever-after would be.
If you’re looking for a story that will make you feel all the feels, this is it. You’ll fall in love with Annie, trust me. Kissing Toads is a beautiful, touching story that I can’t recommend enough. It’s the kind of book that stays with you long after you’ve turned the final page.
This book dives into the messy, complicated journey of finding true love. Annie’s dating escapades are funny, relatable, and refreshingly honest, capturing the chaos of romance while balancing societal and family pressures. Her humor and grace throughout the highs and lows are uplifting, offering a powerful reminder that our lives and stories are ultimately ours to define.
Danissa Wilson's Kissing Toads is a nostalgic, heartfelt, and sometimes laugh-out-loud funny journey through the highs and lows of finding love in the 80s and 90s. At its core, it’s a coming-of-age story wrapped in a romantic memoir, following Annie as she navigates the minefield of romance, heartbreak, and self-discovery. Raised with the belief that a woman’s worth is tied to the man she lands, Annie embarks on a decades-long quest to find her “Prince Charming” by kissing an array of metaphorical (and sometimes literal) toads. Through first loves, bad boyfriends, and the chaos of early online dating, her story unfolds with a mix of humor, nostalgia, and a healthy dose of reality. But just when you think you’ve figured out where it’s headed, Wilson throws in an unexpected twist that flips the script entirely.
Wilson’s writing shines in its ability to be both sharp and self-deprecating. The humor is biting but never forced, and Annie’s voice is refreshingly honest. The opening chapter, where Annie details the absurdity of being named after her mother’s beloved golden retriever, immediately sets the tone. Lines like, “Being the namesake of the family pooch? Does it get more humiliating than that?” make it clear that this book isn’t just about romance; it’s about identity, self-worth, and breaking free from expectations. The book doesn’t shy away from the awkwardness of young love either. Annie’s high school relationship with the Ozzy Osbourne-worshipping, eyeliner-wearing “Oz” is painfully relatable, showing how teenage romance can be both intoxicating and utterly misguided.
One of the most compelling aspects of Kissing Toads is its exploration of societal expectations placed on women, particularly in past decades. Annie’s mother, a woman who abandoned her own dreams for the role of perfect wife and mother, serves as both a loving figure and a cautionary tale. She constantly reinforces the idea that Annie’s happiness hinges on finding a man. This generational pressure is woven throughout the book, making Annie’s journey all the more meaningful. When she starts to question whether she’s searching for love or simply fulfilling a script handed down to her, the book reaches its most thought-provoking moments. Scenes like her internal struggle over a sexist “No Fat Chicks” sticker she bought as a teen highlight the subtle ways misogyny is ingrained in everyday life. Wilson brilliantly captures how these influences shape Annie’s choices, often without her even realizing it.
The book's pacing is another strong point. Wilson moves seamlessly from high school heartbreaks to the cringe-worthy infancy of online dating, never lingering too long on any one phase of Annie’s journey. Each relationship teaches her something new, sometimes through devastation, other times through sheer absurdity. The dialogue is snappy, the 80s and 90s references are spot-on, and there’s an authenticity to Annie’s experiences that makes her deeply relatable. However, what sets Kissing Toads apart from a typical rom-com or coming-of-age novel is its refusal to tie everything up in a neat bow. Without giving too much away, Annie’s “happily ever after” isn’t what you’d expect but it’s so much more satisfying because of it.
This book is for anyone who has ever looked back on their past relationships and cringed, laughed, or wondered what the hell they were thinking. It’s for Gen Xers who lived through the rise of online dating, for women who’ve been told that their worth is measured by their romantic success, and for anyone who loves a story that balances humor with heartfelt moments. Wilson has crafted a novel that’s both wildly entertaining and deeply resonant, proving that sometimes, kissing toads isn’t about finding a prince, it’s about finding yourself. Highly recommended.
Danissa Wilson’s Kissing Toads is the kind of book that sneaks up on you. It starts out like your typical coming-of-age tale of a young woman, Annie, wading through the chaotic waters of romance in the '80s and '90s, hoping to find her Prince Charming. But as you turn the pages, you realize this is more than just a love story. It’s a messy, hilarious, and sometimes gut-wrenching journey of self-discovery, resilience, and the realization that sometimes, the fairy tale we’ve been chasing isn’t the one we actually need.
One thing I absolutely loved about Wilson’s writing is her ability to balance humor with heartbreak. Annie’s experiences range from laugh-out-loud ridiculous to moments that truly sting. These are the moments that make Kissing Toads feel so raw and real. Wilson doesn’t just give us a woman searching for love; she gives us a woman navigating a world that constantly tells her what love should look like, only for her to realize that maybe she’s had it all wrong.
Annie’s mother is relentless in her belief that her daughter’s ultimate goal in life should be to “fetch herself a man.” That pressure is both maddening and relatable. The contrast between Annie’s youthful determination to fulfill that expectation and her later, painful questioning of whether she wasted her best years chasing a dream someone else planted in her head is beautifully done. One of the most poignant moments comes when she wonders if she failed in getting her “MRS” degree while earning her BA. That single line encapsulates so much about the way young women are conditioned to prioritize romance over self-fulfillment.
And then, there’s the love story at the heart of it all, just not the one Annie expects. The book’s final act brings both a twist and a moment of clarity. After years of chasing after one "toad" after another, Annie doesn’t find a prince, but someone even more unexpected. That’s what makes Kissing Toads so satisfying it’s not about Annie magically finding love, but about her finally seeing herself clearly enough to recognize it.
I’d recommend Kissing Toads to anyone who’s ever been on the wrong side of a bad relationship, struggled under the weight of expectations, or just enjoys a damn good story with characters who feel like old friends. It’s funny, it’s sharp, and it’s got a heart big enough to make you laugh and cry in the same chapter. Danissa Wilson has crafted a book that doesn’t just explore what it means to find love but it questions everything we’ve been told about it.
"Kissing Toads" is a captivating and insightful exploration of love, self-discovery, and the complexities of womanhood. Told through the voice of Annie, a woman navigating the dating scene in the late 1970s and 1980s, this fictitious memoir is a witty and poignant reflection on societal expectations, gender roles, and the pursuit of happiness. Annie, with her unwavering belief in the "kissing toads" philosophy, embarks on a humorous and often heartbreaking journey to find her Prince Charming. The narrative seamlessly blends humor and heartbreak, offering a candid and relatable portrayal of Annie's dating misadventures. From awkward blind dates to disastrous first encounters, Annie's experiences are both entertaining and thought-provoking.
The pace is brisk, mirroring the fast-paced nature of dating itself. You'll find yourself quickly drawn into Annie's world, laughing out loud at her witty observations and empathizing with her struggles.
The book delves into the societal pressures and gender expectations that shaped Annie's life, highlighting the challenges women faced in finding their place in a world often dominated by male perspectives. However, "Kissing Toads" is not merely a lament on the past. It's a celebration of self-discovery and the courage to break free from societal constraints. Annie's journey is not just about finding a romantic partner; it's about discovering her own identity, her own voice, and her own definition of happiness. The book's ending takes an unexpected turn, challenging conventional notions of romance and offering a refreshing perspective on love and fulfillment. Reading "Kissing Toads" felt like having a deep conversation with a dear friend. It's a heartfelt and heartwarming story that resonates deeply with readers, offering a relatable and insightful look at the complexities of love, life, and the ever-evolving journey of self-discovery.
Kissing Toads, a mix of earnestness and cheekiness, represents the journey of Annie, spanning more than two decades of love, self-discovery, and independence. Almost like a time capsule from the 80s and 90s, this book offers readers readily identifiable experiences as Annie goes through many romantic rites of passage-from the heartaches of high school to the oddball early days of online dating.
What it boils down to essentially is that Kissing Toads is not just a romantic novel; it is a feminist critique of gender norms, family obligations, and resilience in the face of a woman insisting on her own happiness. With humor and honesty, Annie's voice engages the reader in her struggles and victories deeply. Wilson captures the complexities of love, indicating that every failed relationship is a lesson in self-discovery.
What sets this book apart is really brave - just when the reader is expecting the fairy-tale ending, Wilson provokes a thought about what love and fulfillment really mean. Starkly diverging from the convention of "finding the one," it is a comforting reminder that happiness is truly an inside job.
With its blend of mirth, nostalgia, and empowerment, Kissing Toads becomes refreshing for anyone who enjoys the tales of love, personal growth, and taking charge of one's destiny. This book is highly recommended to those who believe that at the core, the one true romance is truly one's relationship with oneself.
I’ve been in a reading rut lately, but when I saw Danissa’s cover for Kissing Toads, I could tell there would be voice galore in her narrative, an authentic sense of humor, and dare I say, some grit. I was like… "sign me up.”
What I received within the pages was a retrospective tale of a play-it-my-way woman named Annie, who honestly and wittingly shares her journey in finding love during the greatest music decades of all time, in my humble opinion. Her escapades with the gents (or more aptly, the lack there of) she meets garners lessons that will push her toward a happily-ever-after—and a hero—she never saw coming.
This page-turning love story is about so much more than who’s your soulmate: it’s an exploration into self-love and self-discovery. Moreover, with the humor and backdrop of the 70s through the 90s, when technology was becoming a main gateway to finding love, the reader’s ride is epically entertaining. I was laughing out loud as much as I was tugging my heart for this woman.
I love the heart of this book and Annie shines as an example of how to write your own story against whatever your modern society norms are…or what your parents think. What anyone thinks really.
Your life is yours. Kiss the frogs (whatever your metaphorical frogs are). What lesson is on the end of that journey for you?!
Would give this eleven stars if I could. Again, brilliant cover to capture the tone of this read, too.
When I first saw the book cover, I was instantly intrigued. It's bold and gave me a good laugh! So that made me eager to start reading. I spent about three hours reading -- I couldn't put it down! Annie is a smart young woman growing up in the second half of the 20th century, and her mother always tells her that she needs to find her Prince Charming. Annie seems to think that her worth is based on a man, and Kissing Toads follows her journey through high school, college, and adulthood as she searches for her Prince Charming. Unfortunately, most of Annie's encounters with men are met with distaste, disgust, and relief when either she or they end the relationship. This book makes you consider choosing a life partner carefully and be careful of all the "toads" out there. Thankfully, Annie has a wonderful friend and roommate, Sophie, her North Star throughout the book. Unfortunately, Annie suffers a horrible tragedy as a young adult, revealing the true colors of one of the "toads" and the steadfastness of another. Annie does receive her Happily Ever After -- but you have to read the book to see! I recommend this one -- I loved it!
Annie's luck in the dating field is anything but lucky. Her mom being from a different time believes Annie should just settle become a wife and mother. Annie struggles with what her mom perceives should be done. All while trying her hardest to find that true love to sweep her off her feet. Struggling to find her place in the ever changing times and world.
Being born in the 80s Annie's character is relatable. Our grandmother's and mother's went through a time of what society demanded them to be. Breaking away from that mold was unheard of. Those who did were looked on as rebels. Times have changed where women have become a force to be reckoned with. Living their dreams and being who they were truly meant to be. This story displays that from beginning to end. We can all learn a lesson from reading this while we laugh, cry, and get angry. A truth of women being who they want to be not a mold of society.
At first, Kissing Toads was a bit of a struggle to get into. The pacing felt slow, and I found myself wondering if it was going to be worth sticking with. The beginning dragged a little, making it hard to connect with the characters or feel invested in where the story was going.
But as I kept reading, things started to shift. The characters became more developed, the dialogue felt more natural, and the situations became increasingly relatable. By the halfway point, I was fully engaged and rooting for the protagonist. The emotional depth and humor that might have felt lacking at the start really came through later, making for a satisfying read.
In the end, I’m glad I pushed through the slow start. Kissing Toads turned out to be a charming, heartfelt story with moments that hit close to home. If you can get past the initial drag, it’s worth it.