Debbie Mirza is a best-selling author, restorative coach, and singer/songwriter. She is the author of The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse, Worthy of Love: A Gentle and Restorative Path to Healing after Narcissistic Abuse, and The Safest Place Possible: A Guide to Healing and Transformation.
In addition to her books, she has created helpful resources for people who have been through relationships with covert narcissists such as online courses, guided meditations, and an informational YouTube channel.
Debbie looks forward to writing more books and creating more projects that will help people heal and be able to see the truth of their own magnificence.
I wanted to love this book. A few chapters in, I would've settled for liking it. This book is a must-read if you are into stories of people growing weary of trying to make their marriages work for decades and then being labeled as "covert narcissists" once they decide to leave, despite having never shown any clinically narcissistic traits. I have read many popular psychology and self-help books, but this is unfortunately a hard pass. It was bad enough that I returned it.
This book. I started by highlighting what felt validating to me…and I quickly realized I’d highlight the entire book. I had no idea I had been married to a covert narcissist until a trusted counselor and friend suggested this book to me.