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The Power of Paradox
Paradox arises from the logical tension between seemingly valid statements or ideas that cannot both be true at the same time. They help us make sense of a world that seems to make no sense. In Heartfulness way of living, Viveka and Vairagya are two techniques that provide the bedrock for good life.
The book is an exploration of twenty-two every day paradoxes combined with spiritual and scientific enquiry. Helmed with the Heartfulness way of living, these practices will help one clear the mind and unburden emotions of the heart.
The book is an exploration of twenty-two every day paradoxes combined with spiritual and scientific enquiry. Helmed with the Heartfulness way of living, these practices will help one clear the mind and unburden emotions of the heart.
208 pages, Hardcover
Published February 4, 2025
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About the author
Kamlesh D. Patel
18 books209 followersBorn in Gujarat, India, Kamlesh D. Patel showed an early interest in meditation and spiritual growth. In 1976, as a pharmacy student in Ahmedabad, he met his Guide, Shri Ram Chandra of Shahjahanpur (Babuji), the founder and first President of Shri Ram Chandra Mission.
After graduating with honours in 1980, he moved to the US and practised pharmacy in New York City, while also continuing the Raja Yoga system of Sahaj Marg, with great devotion. He continues to excel in both his material career and spiritual life.
Kamlesh continued to follow Parthasarathi Rajagopalachari (Chariji), the second President of Shri Ram Chandra Mission, after Babuji’s passing, and has held a number of increasingly responsible roles as well as offering his support to the growth of the Mission worldwide. In October 2011 he was proclaimed as Chariji’s successor, and in August 2012 was appointed Vice-President of SRCM with the full powers of the President, due to Chariji’s failing physical health. Following Chariji’s passing on the 20th of December 2014, he became the spiritual Guide of the Sahaj Marg system, and the third President of Shri Ram Chandra Mission. He is often endearingly referred to as Daaji.
Daaji and his wife have two sons. These days he is constantly travelling, conducting meditation with yogic transmission for seekers worldwide, and speaking at the Mission’s many centres and ashrams, as well as to the general public through newspaper articles, TV and radio. He is a vital role model for anyone wanting to evolve as a human being and expand consciousness. A spiritual catalyst, displaying the perfect blend of the Eastern heart and Western mind, he is able to connect with people from all walks of life and backgrounds, giving special attention to today’s youth.
After graduating with honours in 1980, he moved to the US and practised pharmacy in New York City, while also continuing the Raja Yoga system of Sahaj Marg, with great devotion. He continues to excel in both his material career and spiritual life.
Kamlesh continued to follow Parthasarathi Rajagopalachari (Chariji), the second President of Shri Ram Chandra Mission, after Babuji’s passing, and has held a number of increasingly responsible roles as well as offering his support to the growth of the Mission worldwide. In October 2011 he was proclaimed as Chariji’s successor, and in August 2012 was appointed Vice-President of SRCM with the full powers of the President, due to Chariji’s failing physical health. Following Chariji’s passing on the 20th of December 2014, he became the spiritual Guide of the Sahaj Marg system, and the third President of Shri Ram Chandra Mission. He is often endearingly referred to as Daaji.
Daaji and his wife have two sons. These days he is constantly travelling, conducting meditation with yogic transmission for seekers worldwide, and speaking at the Mission’s many centres and ashrams, as well as to the general public through newspaper articles, TV and radio. He is a vital role model for anyone wanting to evolve as a human being and expand consciousness. A spiritual catalyst, displaying the perfect blend of the Eastern heart and Western mind, he is able to connect with people from all walks of life and backgrounds, giving special attention to today’s youth.
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October 5, 2025
It was a mixed experience… the book included very nuanced and interesting formulations of humane concepts, blended with nonsense notions of pseudoscientific ideas 😅
Nevertheless, I found it worth reading.
Nevertheless, I found it worth reading.
February 27, 2025
In a world increasingly defined by polarization and binary thinking, Kamlesh D. Patel (affectionately known as Daaji) offers a refreshing perspective through his latest book, The Power of Paradox: Insights and Lessons from Apparent Contradictions. As the global guide of Heartfulness meditation, Daaji explores twenty-seven paradoxes that permeate our daily existence, providing a roadmap to navigate life's complexities with greater wisdom and equanimity.
The book stands as a profound exploration of how apparent contradictions can serve as portals for personal growth and spiritual evolution. Rather than viewing paradoxes as intellectual puzzles to be solved, Daaji presents them as transformative tools that can shift our consciousness from confusion to clarity, from stress to strength, and ultimately, from bondage to freedom.
Structure and Approach: A Journey Through Paradoxical Wisdom
The Power of Paradox is thoughtfully organized into six parts, with the first five exploring different dimensions of paradoxes:
1. Personal Growth and Development - Examines paradoxes like "Stability Promotes Change" and "Discipline Versus Regimentation"
2. Emotions and Relationships - Explores "The Passion Paradox," "If Love Is Blind, Why See Hate?" and others
3. Life's Meaning and Purpose - Investigates paradoxes such as "Less Is More" and "End or Means?"
4. Wisdom and Philosophical Concepts - Delves into "Two Sides of the Same Coin" and "Ignorance: Bliss or Sin?"
5. Spirituality and Holistic Well-Being - Contemplates "The Science of Spirituality" and "The Nothingness Paradox"
The sixth section serves as a practical toolbox, offering meditation techniques, contemplative exercises, and affirmations designed to help readers implement the insights gained from understanding these paradoxes.
What makes this book particularly valuable is Daaji's DARE to RESOLVE framework for approaching paradoxes:
- Dismiss: Rejecting the paradox as a misunderstanding
- Accept: Acknowledging the paradox without insisting on resolution
- Resolve: Dissolving the paradox by addressing underlying causes
- Explore: Using the paradox as a tool to expand understanding
This framework provides readers with practical strategies to engage with paradoxes in their own lives, transforming potential sources of confusion into catalysts for growth.
Key Insights: Wisdom from Apparent Contradictions
Throughout the book, several profound insights emerge that challenge conventional thinking and invite readers to adopt a more nuanced perspective on life:
The Unity in Duality
One of the book's central themes is that apparent opposites are often interconnected aspects of the same reality. In the chapter "Two Sides of the Same Coin," Daaji writes:
"Although there may be two sides, there is only one coin. Wisdom lies in understanding the profound connection between the two sides of any 'coin'. It is through integrating these opposites into our lives that we find a sense of wholeness."
This perspective offers a refreshing alternative to the either/or thinking that dominates much of modern discourse, suggesting that seemingly contradictory elements can coexist and even complement each other.
The Transformative Power of Paradox
Rather than viewing paradoxes as mere intellectual curiosities, Daaji presents them as powerful tools for personal transformation. He explains:
"A paradox is a launch pad to get to the next level of growth. You grow from worry to wisdom, from stress to strength, from bondage to freedom and from tension to tenacity."
This framing invites readers to embrace rather than avoid the paradoxes they encounter, recognizing them as opportunities for significant inner development.
The Heart as the Center of Integration
Throughout the book, Daaji emphasizes the role of the heart in resolving paradoxes. Unlike pure intellectual analysis, which often perpetuates dualistic thinking, heart-centered awareness allows for a more holistic understanding that transcends apparent contradictions.
In discussing the Heartfulness approach to meditation, he notes:
"When we meditate on the heart, the heart and mind work together as one—they form a coherent vibrational field, and this affects every aspect of life."
This integration of heart and mind offers a pathway to experience unity amid diversity, simplicity within complexity, and stillness amidst activity.
Practical Applications: From Theory to Practice
What distinguishes The Power of Paradox from many philosophical works is its emphasis on practical application. The sixth section of the book provides readers with concrete tools to work with paradoxes in their daily lives:
1. Pause - Creating space between stimulus and response
2. Relax - Releasing physical and mental tension
3. Introspect - Looking within with non-judgmental awareness
4. Contemplate - Reflecting deeply on paradoxical situations
5. Visualize - Using imagination to explore alternative perspectives
6. Meditate - Cultivating heart-centered awareness
7. Clean - Releasing accumulated mental and emotional impressions
8. Inner-Connect - Establishing a connection with one's deeper nature
These practices are presented with step-by-step instructions, making them accessible even to those new to meditation and contemplative techniques. Daaji emphasizes that consistent practice leads to progressive transformation:
"The combined power of heart and mind is unimaginable and takes us closer to experiencing the truths in our lives rather than just understanding them intellectually."
Writing Style and Accessibility
Daaji's writing style blends philosophical depth with practical clarity. He draws from diverse sources—ancient wisdom traditions, modern science, personal anecdotes, and cultural references—to illustrate his points, making complex ideas accessible to readers from various backgrounds.
The book is enriched with stories and examples that ground abstract concepts in relatable human experience. From the tale of a crown prince's duty versus his inner calling to the Japanese response to scarcity during the Edo period, these narratives illuminate paradoxes in action.
Each chapter stands alone while connecting to the book's broader themes, allowing readers to engage with specific paradoxes that resonate with their current life circumstances.
Strengths:
1. Integration of Eastern and Western perspectives - Daaji seamlessly blends insights from both Eastern contemplative traditions and Western philosophical and scientific thought.
2. Balance of theory and practice - The book not only explains paradoxes conceptually but provides concrete practices for working with them.
3. Universal accessibility - While rooted in the Heartfulness tradition, the book's insights and practices are presented in a way that makes them accessible to people of diverse backgrounds and beliefs.
4. Depth without complexity - Complex philosophical concepts are presented with clarity and simplicity without sacrificing depth.
5. Progressive structure - The organization of paradoxes follows a logical progression that builds understanding systematically.
Who Will Benefit: Ideal Readers
The Power of Paradox will particularly resonate with:
- Spiritual seekers looking to deepen their understanding of life's complexities
- Practical philosophers interested in applying wisdom to everyday challenges
- Meditation practitioners seeking to expand their practice beyond technique
- Leaders and decision-makers navigating complex, seemingly contradictory situations
- Anyone experiencing internal conflict or struggling with apparent contradictions in their life
The book offers value both to those new to contemplative practice and to experienced meditators seeking fresh insights.
Conclusion: A Timely Contribution
In an era marked by polarization and oversimplification, The Power of Paradox offers a timely reminder of the richness found in embracing life's inherent contradictions. Rather than trying to eliminate paradoxes or choose one side over another, Daaji invites us to find the unity underlying apparent opposites.
Through practical wisdom and accessible practices, the book equips readers to transform potential sources of confusion into catalysts for growth. By engaging with paradoxes through the Heartfulness approach, we can develop what Daaji calls "the combined power of heart and mind"—an integrated awareness that leads to greater clarity, confidence, and purpose.
Whether approached as a philosophical exploration, a practical guide, or a companion to meditation practice, The Power of Paradox offers valuable insights for navigating life's complexities with wisdom and grace.
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I received a review copy of this book from Penguin publisher in exchange for an honest opinion. As I turned the final page of "The Power of Paradox," I found myself experiencing what Daaji might call a paradox of my own—simultaneously satisfied with the wisdom I'd absorbed yet hungry for more of his insights. Like the Japanese concept of "Ma" (the meaningful space between objects) that Daaji might appreciate, this book has created a meaningful space in my understanding—filling my mind with new perspectives while simultaneously emptying it of rigid thinking. For that transformative experience, I'm genuinely grateful to both the author and the publisher for the opportunity to engage with this work.
The book stands as a profound exploration of how apparent contradictions can serve as portals for personal growth and spiritual evolution. Rather than viewing paradoxes as intellectual puzzles to be solved, Daaji presents them as transformative tools that can shift our consciousness from confusion to clarity, from stress to strength, and ultimately, from bondage to freedom.
Structure and Approach: A Journey Through Paradoxical Wisdom
The Power of Paradox is thoughtfully organized into six parts, with the first five exploring different dimensions of paradoxes:
1. Personal Growth and Development - Examines paradoxes like "Stability Promotes Change" and "Discipline Versus Regimentation"
2. Emotions and Relationships - Explores "The Passion Paradox," "If Love Is Blind, Why See Hate?" and others
3. Life's Meaning and Purpose - Investigates paradoxes such as "Less Is More" and "End or Means?"
4. Wisdom and Philosophical Concepts - Delves into "Two Sides of the Same Coin" and "Ignorance: Bliss or Sin?"
5. Spirituality and Holistic Well-Being - Contemplates "The Science of Spirituality" and "The Nothingness Paradox"
The sixth section serves as a practical toolbox, offering meditation techniques, contemplative exercises, and affirmations designed to help readers implement the insights gained from understanding these paradoxes.
What makes this book particularly valuable is Daaji's DARE to RESOLVE framework for approaching paradoxes:
- Dismiss: Rejecting the paradox as a misunderstanding
- Accept: Acknowledging the paradox without insisting on resolution
- Resolve: Dissolving the paradox by addressing underlying causes
- Explore: Using the paradox as a tool to expand understanding
This framework provides readers with practical strategies to engage with paradoxes in their own lives, transforming potential sources of confusion into catalysts for growth.
Key Insights: Wisdom from Apparent Contradictions
Throughout the book, several profound insights emerge that challenge conventional thinking and invite readers to adopt a more nuanced perspective on life:
The Unity in Duality
One of the book's central themes is that apparent opposites are often interconnected aspects of the same reality. In the chapter "Two Sides of the Same Coin," Daaji writes:
"Although there may be two sides, there is only one coin. Wisdom lies in understanding the profound connection between the two sides of any 'coin'. It is through integrating these opposites into our lives that we find a sense of wholeness."
This perspective offers a refreshing alternative to the either/or thinking that dominates much of modern discourse, suggesting that seemingly contradictory elements can coexist and even complement each other.
The Transformative Power of Paradox
Rather than viewing paradoxes as mere intellectual curiosities, Daaji presents them as powerful tools for personal transformation. He explains:
"A paradox is a launch pad to get to the next level of growth. You grow from worry to wisdom, from stress to strength, from bondage to freedom and from tension to tenacity."
This framing invites readers to embrace rather than avoid the paradoxes they encounter, recognizing them as opportunities for significant inner development.
The Heart as the Center of Integration
Throughout the book, Daaji emphasizes the role of the heart in resolving paradoxes. Unlike pure intellectual analysis, which often perpetuates dualistic thinking, heart-centered awareness allows for a more holistic understanding that transcends apparent contradictions.
In discussing the Heartfulness approach to meditation, he notes:
"When we meditate on the heart, the heart and mind work together as one—they form a coherent vibrational field, and this affects every aspect of life."
This integration of heart and mind offers a pathway to experience unity amid diversity, simplicity within complexity, and stillness amidst activity.
Practical Applications: From Theory to Practice
What distinguishes The Power of Paradox from many philosophical works is its emphasis on practical application. The sixth section of the book provides readers with concrete tools to work with paradoxes in their daily lives:
1. Pause - Creating space between stimulus and response
2. Relax - Releasing physical and mental tension
3. Introspect - Looking within with non-judgmental awareness
4. Contemplate - Reflecting deeply on paradoxical situations
5. Visualize - Using imagination to explore alternative perspectives
6. Meditate - Cultivating heart-centered awareness
7. Clean - Releasing accumulated mental and emotional impressions
8. Inner-Connect - Establishing a connection with one's deeper nature
These practices are presented with step-by-step instructions, making them accessible even to those new to meditation and contemplative techniques. Daaji emphasizes that consistent practice leads to progressive transformation:
"The combined power of heart and mind is unimaginable and takes us closer to experiencing the truths in our lives rather than just understanding them intellectually."
Writing Style and Accessibility
Daaji's writing style blends philosophical depth with practical clarity. He draws from diverse sources—ancient wisdom traditions, modern science, personal anecdotes, and cultural references—to illustrate his points, making complex ideas accessible to readers from various backgrounds.
The book is enriched with stories and examples that ground abstract concepts in relatable human experience. From the tale of a crown prince's duty versus his inner calling to the Japanese response to scarcity during the Edo period, these narratives illuminate paradoxes in action.
Each chapter stands alone while connecting to the book's broader themes, allowing readers to engage with specific paradoxes that resonate with their current life circumstances.
Strengths:
1. Integration of Eastern and Western perspectives - Daaji seamlessly blends insights from both Eastern contemplative traditions and Western philosophical and scientific thought.
2. Balance of theory and practice - The book not only explains paradoxes conceptually but provides concrete practices for working with them.
3. Universal accessibility - While rooted in the Heartfulness tradition, the book's insights and practices are presented in a way that makes them accessible to people of diverse backgrounds and beliefs.
4. Depth without complexity - Complex philosophical concepts are presented with clarity and simplicity without sacrificing depth.
5. Progressive structure - The organization of paradoxes follows a logical progression that builds understanding systematically.
Who Will Benefit: Ideal Readers
The Power of Paradox will particularly resonate with:
- Spiritual seekers looking to deepen their understanding of life's complexities
- Practical philosophers interested in applying wisdom to everyday challenges
- Meditation practitioners seeking to expand their practice beyond technique
- Leaders and decision-makers navigating complex, seemingly contradictory situations
- Anyone experiencing internal conflict or struggling with apparent contradictions in their life
The book offers value both to those new to contemplative practice and to experienced meditators seeking fresh insights.
Conclusion: A Timely Contribution
In an era marked by polarization and oversimplification, The Power of Paradox offers a timely reminder of the richness found in embracing life's inherent contradictions. Rather than trying to eliminate paradoxes or choose one side over another, Daaji invites us to find the unity underlying apparent opposites.
Through practical wisdom and accessible practices, the book equips readers to transform potential sources of confusion into catalysts for growth. By engaging with paradoxes through the Heartfulness approach, we can develop what Daaji calls "the combined power of heart and mind"—an integrated awareness that leads to greater clarity, confidence, and purpose.
Whether approached as a philosophical exploration, a practical guide, or a companion to meditation practice, The Power of Paradox offers valuable insights for navigating life's complexities with wisdom and grace.
---------------------
I received a review copy of this book from Penguin publisher in exchange for an honest opinion. As I turned the final page of "The Power of Paradox," I found myself experiencing what Daaji might call a paradox of my own—simultaneously satisfied with the wisdom I'd absorbed yet hungry for more of his insights. Like the Japanese concept of "Ma" (the meaningful space between objects) that Daaji might appreciate, this book has created a meaningful space in my understanding—filling my mind with new perspectives while simultaneously emptying it of rigid thinking. For that transformative experience, I'm genuinely grateful to both the author and the publisher for the opportunity to engage with this work.
February 5, 2025
In The Power of Paradox, Kamlesh Patel gives his personal experiences of dealing with many of life's dilemmas. A thought provoking book by a world-renowned teacher of Ashtanga Yoga through Heartfulness.
July 17, 2025
A lovely read !!! .This book is a must read for your bucket list. Daaji presents 27 everyday paradoxes that combine science and spirituality. Going through each chapter unravels the deeper connections between these paradoxes. An excellent way to understand the content is by juxtaposing ideas while analyzing your inner thoughts about their similarities and differences, thereby leading to self-consciousness. The ideas in the book open up new opportunities only when you experiment with them yourself..
February 18, 2025
What a lovely read!
I've read Daaji's other books—Heartfulness Way, Designing Destiny, and Spiritual Anatomy—and I've got to say that this one is a completely different style. Heartfulness Way was very conversational and felt like you were witnessing a teacher-student conversation while Spiritual Anatomy feels like you're being tutored by a wise uncle on 'what lies ahead' on the spiritual journey.
Power of Paradox on the other hand tells you like it is. Think spiritual teacher meets business executive. It's got short and sweet chapters, straightforward writing, and very actionable concepts for you to digest. Every chapter includes a concept that you can sit with for a few hours, and it often deals with a life struggle that feels relatable and relevant.
I've read Daaji's other books—Heartfulness Way, Designing Destiny, and Spiritual Anatomy—and I've got to say that this one is a completely different style. Heartfulness Way was very conversational and felt like you were witnessing a teacher-student conversation while Spiritual Anatomy feels like you're being tutored by a wise uncle on 'what lies ahead' on the spiritual journey.
Power of Paradox on the other hand tells you like it is. Think spiritual teacher meets business executive. It's got short and sweet chapters, straightforward writing, and very actionable concepts for you to digest. Every chapter includes a concept that you can sit with for a few hours, and it often deals with a life struggle that feels relatable and relevant.
February 17, 2025
Excellent book
June 13, 2025
It was a good read however, the flow of paradoxes and its discussions take a deroute often and I personally felt it could have been more impactful. Whatsoever, the book is a good read.
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