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Stuck in the Middle With You
Marcello Donati
I'm 42, have ADHD and live with my mum. I've had the same job for twenty years and my love life is non-existent. I feel like I'm going nowhere fast. But that would be a lie because I don't do anything quickly, other than running for the Tube in the morning after I sleep in. Something's got to change, so when my colleague suggests I do a triathlon, I stupidly agree. Motivation is something I struggle with so it's a no brainer when vague associate, and super stylish, super buff, super confident Giles offers to be my training buddy. That is until spending time with Giles and his muscles and dancing moustache and short shorts starts to make me question if I'm as straight as I thought I was... or possibly having the most ridiculous mid-life crisis.
Giles Rivers
When I stopped having casual sex six months ago I did it so I could create space to meet somebody who will want to spend more than a few nights with me. This is what I do when things aren't going how I want them to; I take control. I did not do it so I could develop feelings for the straight guy who works down the road. But that's exactly what happens when Marcello and I start training together. He's funny, kind, and vulnerable in ways I'm not used to. So when he asks for me to show him the ropes when it comes to queer sex, I shouldn't agree, especially because it's because of a Speedos-wearing man at his swimming training. And yet, I do agree. I agree and I quickly discover that Marcello is warm and generous in so many other ways and I start to fall, hard. Just when I start to contemplate telling Marcello how I really feel, he discovers my dirty little secret and everything starts to unravel, including myself...
Stuck in the Middle With You is a spicy Bi4Pan MM/Achillean romance with gym bros to lovers, bi-awakening and queer sex lessons. There's ADHD (own voices) and OCD rep and both characters are in their 40s. Be sure to check the Introduction for content guidance.
I'm 42, have ADHD and live with my mum. I've had the same job for twenty years and my love life is non-existent. I feel like I'm going nowhere fast. But that would be a lie because I don't do anything quickly, other than running for the Tube in the morning after I sleep in. Something's got to change, so when my colleague suggests I do a triathlon, I stupidly agree. Motivation is something I struggle with so it's a no brainer when vague associate, and super stylish, super buff, super confident Giles offers to be my training buddy. That is until spending time with Giles and his muscles and dancing moustache and short shorts starts to make me question if I'm as straight as I thought I was... or possibly having the most ridiculous mid-life crisis.
Giles Rivers
When I stopped having casual sex six months ago I did it so I could create space to meet somebody who will want to spend more than a few nights with me. This is what I do when things aren't going how I want them to; I take control. I did not do it so I could develop feelings for the straight guy who works down the road. But that's exactly what happens when Marcello and I start training together. He's funny, kind, and vulnerable in ways I'm not used to. So when he asks for me to show him the ropes when it comes to queer sex, I shouldn't agree, especially because it's because of a Speedos-wearing man at his swimming training. And yet, I do agree. I agree and I quickly discover that Marcello is warm and generous in so many other ways and I start to fall, hard. Just when I start to contemplate telling Marcello how I really feel, he discovers my dirty little secret and everything starts to unravel, including myself...
Stuck in the Middle With You is a spicy Bi4Pan MM/Achillean romance with gym bros to lovers, bi-awakening and queer sex lessons. There's ADHD (own voices) and OCD rep and both characters are in their 40s. Be sure to check the Introduction for content guidance.
389 pages, Paperback
Published September 18, 2024
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Frances M. Thompson
31 books197 followersFrances M. Thompson writes stories about bisexual disaster heroes usually getting the HEAs they deserve in her spicy contemporary romance... but sometimes getting into a lot of trouble in her suspense thrillers.
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Frances loves chatting with her readers and the best places to do so is in her Facebook Readers' Group or on Instagram.
Originally from London, UK, but now based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, Frances is the author of the contemporary (and steamy!) romances, Five Sunsets, The Moon Also Rises, and Let Love Rule, sapphic romances Hummingbird and Butterflies, three short story collections (Shy Feet Short Stories Inspired by Travel, London Eyes Short Stories, and Nine Women: Short Stories), a collection of poetry called Lover Mother Other, and the London Killing series of fast-paced urban thrillers, including The Wait and The Weaker Sex.
To find out about Frances' upcoming books first, sign up to her newsletter.
You can find copies of her books (and more!) in her shop.
Frances also works as a freelance writer and blogger. You can read her (oft-neglected) blog, As the Bird flies. She is also the creator of WriteNOW Cards, positive affirmations cards designed to help writers build and enjoy a writing practice they love.
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October 16, 2024
I wish I could like this book more but I can’t. So much misunderstandings, miscommunication, “NONcommunication” kills my joy. I can’t with this kind if cowardly characters. They’re always lying, hiding what they mean, what they think and what they want, always scheming and pretending. Not once had they been brave to tell the truth, it was a third person who cleared up the “fog” and the misunderstanding. All this lying and pretending made me more and more disappointed in them with each page. I understand insecurity and all but come on, at least one of them could have grown a pair.
Also, most of the MM books I read are written by female authors but it’s the first time for me that is so obvious that it’s written by a woman. The way Giles explains “gay sex” to Marcello, the info dump feels like the information the author googled when they did their research and now trying to impart it to us through what was supposed to be a romance book and not a sex education class. And the fact that Marcello wasn’t the brightest tool in the shed didn’t help. By the way, I don’t think I’m having Caesar salad anytime in the near future. 🤣 I don’t find it helpful for a romance book to get so into the specifics of gay sex, so clinical and …instructive unless the target readers are 18 years old gay guys. Older queer ppl already know this and women readers don’t need TMI about anuses and …other messy stuff. Not to mention that an avid MM reader already knows this stuff, and more. 🤣 But it’s just my opinion. It took me out of the romantic moments.
The book had cute moments and hilarious moments and I guess the mental disorders were well represented too. Can’t say I liked the guys too much though but some of the sex scenes were hot.
The writing is pretty good but I’m used to it from British authors. I would have liked more British and less Italian but oh well, again, that’s just my personal preference for words like “twat”, “geezer” and “bloody “ 🤣🤣
Also, most of the MM books I read are written by female authors but it’s the first time for me that is so obvious that it’s written by a woman. The way Giles explains “gay sex” to Marcello, the info dump feels like the information the author googled when they did their research and now trying to impart it to us through what was supposed to be a romance book and not a sex education class. And the fact that Marcello wasn’t the brightest tool in the shed didn’t help. By the way, I don’t think I’m having Caesar salad anytime in the near future. 🤣 I don’t find it helpful for a romance book to get so into the specifics of gay sex, so clinical and …instructive unless the target readers are 18 years old gay guys. Older queer ppl already know this and women readers don’t need TMI about anuses and …other messy stuff. Not to mention that an avid MM reader already knows this stuff, and more. 🤣 But it’s just my opinion. It took me out of the romantic moments.
The book had cute moments and hilarious moments and I guess the mental disorders were well represented too. Can’t say I liked the guys too much though but some of the sex scenes were hot.
The writing is pretty good but I’m used to it from British authors. I would have liked more British and less Italian but oh well, again, that’s just my personal preference for words like “twat”, “geezer” and “bloody “ 🤣🤣
October 12, 2024
✰ 2.75 stars ✰
“We began as training partners but became more along the way.”
The title of the book really speaks for itself. It is an opposites attract gym bros' romance of forty-five-year-old Scottish Giles & forty-two-year-old Marcello - two men stuck in the middle of their lives and by kindling a friendship that starts with the frequent visits Giles pays to 'the Italian café that makes the best chocolate croissants within a one-mile radius' that Marcello owns and is the manager of. 🤩 And when Marcello aims to participate in a triathlon in an attempt to reduce a bit of the pot belly he's got - one that Giles is quite fond of actually - he's still more than willing to set up a training regime for him to whip his body into shape. But, close proximity leads to questioning feelings - one that stirs up another desire for Marcello to explore his sexuality, asking for Giles to help him out in another - some detailed and insightful lessons into discovering and uncovering whether or not it is not too late for him to be more queer than he thought, or that maybe he may want Giles more than he ever though. 🏋🏻♀️🧑🏻❤️💋🧑🏼
“You are built like Adonis and I'm built like a donut.”
I appreciated the body positivity. 👍🏻 I liked that Giles loved Marcello as he was, but was a great bro willing to assist him both in the gym and in the bedroom. Marcello's insecurities about his body were believably expressed. The steady way in which their time at the gym slowly improved his health as well as toned his body was nicely done. Their rapport and banter during their sessions was heartfelt and sincere, marked with a gentle humor. I liked how reassuring Giles was of Marcello's looks - I loved that he loved him even before he asked him for his help - '...offered to be my training buddy out of the goodness of his own heart.' - in more ways than one! 😄
Despite his own issues, Giles with his attractive moustache and his 'wide and warm and genuine' was a decent bloke - considerate and compassionate, and empathetic, too. He radiated so much want for Marcello, and it was such a challenge for him to keep his feelings suppressed, always looking out for Marcello's own benefit of feeling that he was in a safe environment to try out new things. 'He's just too good to not get snapped up by somebody who’s just as good for him.' 🥺 His personality was so vibrant and kind that it was sad to see how he crushed himself over the weight of his own OCD, stemmed by his own past trauma he had not yet overcome. I liked how subtly but honestly Marcello helped Giles find a way to treat his OCD and that he was perfect just the way he was -even 'with idiosyncrasies and a brain that isn’t always easy to work with.' His reservations over his excessive need for control was convincingly portrayed, even though I did feel that the focus on that aspect overshadowed the romance. 😔
“...it’s the most perfect mess I’ve ever experienced. I’m addicted to it. I never want this to stop, this beautiful mess I’m making with Giles.”
That is my issue. Sadly it's always my issue. 😞 I want to feel swept away by their feelings for each other, feel their emotions resonate on such a visceral level that their intimacy sends a shiver up my spine. I understand the importance of learning to be honest and receptive; feeling no shame in communicating openly about one's pleasures and aching desire, as well as being respectful of boundaries, while still feeling like it's testing the patience of restraint for how much there is that yearning for more. But, when it is built upon addressing all aspects of sexuality - it is harder to get into it. 🙎🏻♀️
There was also an itch in me that I could not explain that made it so difficult for me to enjoy it. For starters, their dynamic felt so drawn-out. It did not feel like a long book, but I felt like I was reading it for longer than necessary. 😮💨 Maybe it stemmed from my frustration that both of them were hiding their obvious feelings for each other, because of the fear that they might feel rejected and ruin this precious friendship they've worked so hard to kindle. As much as I am glad they were mature enough to know that these lessons would not damage their friendship, I wish it hadn't dragged to the point when the eventual truth does come out - it felt anticlimactic. 🙍🏻♀️
“Giles who then agreed to let me explore my sexuality with him, not knowing that it’s all because of him that I wanted to do so.”
Perhaps I missed the part about the queer sex lessons in the description, because I was so drawn to the pretty cover. But, even when it becomes a pseudo friend with benefits setup, there should be a way to make the lessons feel more personal rather than technical, which will make the reading more accessible and relatable rather than feeling like I'm being dictated a lesson. 😕 That distinction was not present for me. Maybe it was Giles' own dishonest reluctance to make it as impersonal as possible to cover up his feelings that invaded my own feelings, too. So, I guess the writing succeeded on that note... 🙃
There were also a few glaring typos here and there that also bothered me; one missing quotation mark is fine, two is acceptable, but when it starts picking up in the later parts, it does stand out. I feel awful that I am being so nit-picky, but when I start to feel disgruntled with the couple, then I start to take offense to even the smallest issues. 😮💨
“I’m not here to teach him anything. He’s not here because he wants to learn how to do this. We’re together because we want to be.”
Yet despite these grievances I still was appreciative of how Giles and Marcello overcame and discovered new things about themselves. It was cute when Marcello cursed in English, Sardo and in Italian. 🥰 Their true emotions may have been hidden, but they were very sincere in showing their honest acceptance of each other. 'We were both always where we wanted to be...' The mutual love and affection that at times was restrained out of fear, but still managed to come out when the time called for it. 🥹 Giles was a patient lover, and Marcello was definitely a willing participant. They faced a few hurdles of doubt, but when the air finally cleared, it was comforting and reassuring to see how comfortable they felt about taking the next steps forward in embracing these newfound parts of their lives - not afraid to rush into it, but take the time to live for it. 🌈❣️
“We began as training partners but became more along the way.”
The title of the book really speaks for itself. It is an opposites attract gym bros' romance of forty-five-year-old Scottish Giles & forty-two-year-old Marcello - two men stuck in the middle of their lives and by kindling a friendship that starts with the frequent visits Giles pays to 'the Italian café that makes the best chocolate croissants within a one-mile radius' that Marcello owns and is the manager of. 🤩 And when Marcello aims to participate in a triathlon in an attempt to reduce a bit of the pot belly he's got - one that Giles is quite fond of actually - he's still more than willing to set up a training regime for him to whip his body into shape. But, close proximity leads to questioning feelings - one that stirs up another desire for Marcello to explore his sexuality, asking for Giles to help him out in another - some detailed and insightful lessons into discovering and uncovering whether or not it is not too late for him to be more queer than he thought, or that maybe he may want Giles more than he ever though. 🏋🏻♀️🧑🏻❤️💋🧑🏼
“You are built like Adonis and I'm built like a donut.”
I appreciated the body positivity. 👍🏻 I liked that Giles loved Marcello as he was, but was a great bro willing to assist him both in the gym and in the bedroom. Marcello's insecurities about his body were believably expressed. The steady way in which their time at the gym slowly improved his health as well as toned his body was nicely done. Their rapport and banter during their sessions was heartfelt and sincere, marked with a gentle humor. I liked how reassuring Giles was of Marcello's looks - I loved that he loved him even before he asked him for his help - '...offered to be my training buddy out of the goodness of his own heart.' - in more ways than one! 😄
Despite his own issues, Giles with his attractive moustache and his 'wide and warm and genuine' was a decent bloke - considerate and compassionate, and empathetic, too. He radiated so much want for Marcello, and it was such a challenge for him to keep his feelings suppressed, always looking out for Marcello's own benefit of feeling that he was in a safe environment to try out new things. 'He's just too good to not get snapped up by somebody who’s just as good for him.' 🥺 His personality was so vibrant and kind that it was sad to see how he crushed himself over the weight of his own OCD, stemmed by his own past trauma he had not yet overcome. I liked how subtly but honestly Marcello helped Giles find a way to treat his OCD and that he was perfect just the way he was -even 'with idiosyncrasies and a brain that isn’t always easy to work with.' His reservations over his excessive need for control was convincingly portrayed, even though I did feel that the focus on that aspect overshadowed the romance. 😔
“...it’s the most perfect mess I’ve ever experienced. I’m addicted to it. I never want this to stop, this beautiful mess I’m making with Giles.”
That is my issue. Sadly it's always my issue. 😞 I want to feel swept away by their feelings for each other, feel their emotions resonate on such a visceral level that their intimacy sends a shiver up my spine. I understand the importance of learning to be honest and receptive; feeling no shame in communicating openly about one's pleasures and aching desire, as well as being respectful of boundaries, while still feeling like it's testing the patience of restraint for how much there is that yearning for more. But, when it is built upon addressing all aspects of sexuality - it is harder to get into it. 🙎🏻♀️
There was also an itch in me that I could not explain that made it so difficult for me to enjoy it. For starters, their dynamic felt so drawn-out. It did not feel like a long book, but I felt like I was reading it for longer than necessary. 😮💨 Maybe it stemmed from my frustration that both of them were hiding their obvious feelings for each other, because of the fear that they might feel rejected and ruin this precious friendship they've worked so hard to kindle. As much as I am glad they were mature enough to know that these lessons would not damage their friendship, I wish it hadn't dragged to the point when the eventual truth does come out - it felt anticlimactic. 🙍🏻♀️
“Giles who then agreed to let me explore my sexuality with him, not knowing that it’s all because of him that I wanted to do so.”
Perhaps I missed the part about the queer sex lessons in the description, because I was so drawn to the pretty cover. But, even when it becomes a pseudo friend with benefits setup, there should be a way to make the lessons feel more personal rather than technical, which will make the reading more accessible and relatable rather than feeling like I'm being dictated a lesson. 😕 That distinction was not present for me. Maybe it was Giles' own dishonest reluctance to make it as impersonal as possible to cover up his feelings that invaded my own feelings, too. So, I guess the writing succeeded on that note... 🙃
There were also a few glaring typos here and there that also bothered me; one missing quotation mark is fine, two is acceptable, but when it starts picking up in the later parts, it does stand out. I feel awful that I am being so nit-picky, but when I start to feel disgruntled with the couple, then I start to take offense to even the smallest issues. 😮💨
“I’m not here to teach him anything. He’s not here because he wants to learn how to do this. We’re together because we want to be.”
Yet despite these grievances I still was appreciative of how Giles and Marcello overcame and discovered new things about themselves. It was cute when Marcello cursed in English, Sardo and in Italian. 🥰 Their true emotions may have been hidden, but they were very sincere in showing their honest acceptance of each other. 'We were both always where we wanted to be...' The mutual love and affection that at times was restrained out of fear, but still managed to come out when the time called for it. 🥹 Giles was a patient lover, and Marcello was definitely a willing participant. They faced a few hurdles of doubt, but when the air finally cleared, it was comforting and reassuring to see how comfortable they felt about taking the next steps forward in embracing these newfound parts of their lives - not afraid to rush into it, but take the time to live for it. 🌈❣️
September 23, 2024
Sweet and sizzling hot! Beautifully flawed characters who you can’t help but love and cheer for despite their appalling communication strategies, or lack thereof! Often miscommunication is off putting, but this was so well done that it had me engrossed in the book and unwilling to put it down!
Thanks to the author for the early copy.
Thanks to the author for the early copy.
September 15, 2024
Oh Frances. You have done it again. Simply, amazingly, brilliantly wrote such a phenomenal, inclusive, sweet, hottttt, love story. Just when I think it can't get better than the last, you bring out another book to just blow me away. Giles and Marcello were everything. The OCH and ADHD representation was portrayed with so much care and truth and were represented beautifully. I love the way those two loved each other. It was also nice to see some of my other favs cameo throughout. I won't give away spoilers. But if you love a good MM, spicy 🔥, inclusive, sweet love story. Pick this up. Read it. Do it now. 🚴🏽🏋🏽🏊🏽👬🫖❤️🧡💛💚💙💜.
September 25, 2024
This book was good because it was a different love story than I usually pick up! This one featured characters in their 40 who are both trying to navigate what this stage of their life is supposed to be. And honestly, I really loved it! There are a few cringe moments (looking at YOU Marcello) but overall I thought it was a good read. Wish I would’ve gotten more time to see Giles and Marcello’s mom bond, but that’s a small detail. I’ll have to check out more by this author.
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September 9, 2024Is this the best book I've ever written? No.
Is this a fun and feelgood romp that also challenges toxic masculinity and deep dives into the challenges of neurodivergence? Yes. And I'm very proud of that.
In short, Giles and Marcello 4eva.
Is this a fun and feelgood romp that also challenges toxic masculinity and deep dives into the challenges of neurodivergence? Yes. And I'm very proud of that.
In short, Giles and Marcello 4eva.
September 30, 2024
CW: negative body image, reference to bi/pan/homophobia, references to the AIDS epidemic, references to parental death, reference to ectopic pregnancy, gym accident, internalised biphobia, medical emergency
🌟 Gymbros
🌟 Friends to Lovers
🌟 Slow Burn
🌟 Spicy Lessons
🌈 Bi MMC
🌈 Pan MMC
🌈 ADHD rep
🌈 OCD rep
🌈 Italian MMC
🌈 Plus size MMC
Oh. My. God. Will she ever write a book I don't gobble up and savour? Jury says no.
As always, the representation is 🔥
This was such a sweet friends to lovers vibe, I normally don't read MM romance by female authors, but Frances truly embraces the WHOLE queer community with such a pure heart, with dignity and a lack of fetishisation, that I trust her implicitly.
Marcello and Giles were 😘👌 Normally I cannot tolerate the miscommunication trope, it's the bane of my existence, but these two sweethearts trying to navigate the others intentions and feelings, all the while being completely oblivious just warmed my cold heart. Their thought processes, especially with their respective neurodivergence, just worked. It made sense. It had it's rightful place in the storyline.
I cried. As usual. I laughed. As usual.
Coming to the 🌶 parts of the book. Frances always writes emotion and intimacy into these scenes so well. It's never just there for the sake of being able to say it's spicy. It has it's place, it's purpose, and it's importance to the story as a whole. That's something I will never cease to respect.
You should read this if you love slow burn friends to lovers, the gymbro stereotype being obliterated, and a queer story that respects all parties involved.
10/10
🌟 Gymbros
🌟 Friends to Lovers
🌟 Slow Burn
🌟 Spicy Lessons
🌈 Bi MMC
🌈 Pan MMC
🌈 ADHD rep
🌈 OCD rep
🌈 Italian MMC
🌈 Plus size MMC
Oh. My. God. Will she ever write a book I don't gobble up and savour? Jury says no.
As always, the representation is 🔥
This was such a sweet friends to lovers vibe, I normally don't read MM romance by female authors, but Frances truly embraces the WHOLE queer community with such a pure heart, with dignity and a lack of fetishisation, that I trust her implicitly.
Marcello and Giles were 😘👌 Normally I cannot tolerate the miscommunication trope, it's the bane of my existence, but these two sweethearts trying to navigate the others intentions and feelings, all the while being completely oblivious just warmed my cold heart. Their thought processes, especially with their respective neurodivergence, just worked. It made sense. It had it's rightful place in the storyline.
I cried. As usual. I laughed. As usual.
Coming to the 🌶 parts of the book. Frances always writes emotion and intimacy into these scenes so well. It's never just there for the sake of being able to say it's spicy. It has it's place, it's purpose, and it's importance to the story as a whole. That's something I will never cease to respect.
You should read this if you love slow burn friends to lovers, the gymbro stereotype being obliterated, and a queer story that respects all parties involved.
10/10
September 21, 2024
*I received an ARC of this book, the review and all the thoughts are my own.
*This review does not contain any spoilers
*Please read the content warnings of this book and take them very seriously.
Pairing - MM
Genre- Contemporary Romance
HEA/HFN - Yes
POV - Dual
*Review*
Stuck in the middle with you is an idiots-to-lovers romance of 2 gym bros who are both absolutely crazy for each other but have insecurities so strong that they refuse to tell each other their feelings and instead come up with an elaborate plan to sleep with each other. What could go wrong? Like I said, idiots-to-lovers. But they are both extremely loveable cutie idiots, which is weird to say about two men in their 40s, but that is what they are.
This book has extremely empathetic approach to both neurological disorders (one MC has ADHD while the other has OCD). Often these disorders are used as an excuse for people to make fun of the person of are trivialised without realising what they are. This is a good book to understand how these disorders affect day-to-day life of people in an empathetic manner, while you also get a cutie patootie romance between two successful business owners in their 40s.
P.S. I follow the Montessori method, so my reviews are based on completion without ratings. If I didn’t like a book, I probably wouldn’t finish it and hence won’t review it.
*This review does not contain any spoilers
*Please read the content warnings of this book and take them very seriously.
Pairing - MM
Genre- Contemporary Romance
HEA/HFN - Yes
POV - Dual
*Review*
Stuck in the middle with you is an idiots-to-lovers romance of 2 gym bros who are both absolutely crazy for each other but have insecurities so strong that they refuse to tell each other their feelings and instead come up with an elaborate plan to sleep with each other. What could go wrong? Like I said, idiots-to-lovers. But they are both extremely loveable cutie idiots, which is weird to say about two men in their 40s, but that is what they are.
This book has extremely empathetic approach to both neurological disorders (one MC has ADHD while the other has OCD). Often these disorders are used as an excuse for people to make fun of the person of are trivialised without realising what they are. This is a good book to understand how these disorders affect day-to-day life of people in an empathetic manner, while you also get a cutie patootie romance between two successful business owners in their 40s.
P.S. I follow the Montessori method, so my reviews are based on completion without ratings. If I didn’t like a book, I probably wouldn’t finish it and hence won’t review it.
September 22, 2024
So this was the cutest of the cute. Gym bros/idiots to lovers with bi-awakening and the best trope ever, bedding lessons. Like what is not to love!
Thompson deals very sensitively with subject matter involving sexuality (conversations around consent, expectations and safety) as well as mental health (MMC1 has ADHD, MMC2 OCD). Considering that miscommunication is a part of the story, it was so refreshing to see Giles and Marcello attempting to be open with each other - there's one scene towards the end of the book which I don't want to spoiler but it's literally something I've never seen happen in a book before and it was so caring and just right for these characters to experience. I honestly believe in their love. Seriously, Thompson has done a great job here creating a story which manages to be very hot, funny, intimate and deeply caring. A really engaging all rounder of a story!
Make sure you check the content warnings, there's mention of some things that might be tough for some readers.
I read an advance copy of this book, my thoughts are very much my own.
Thompson deals very sensitively with subject matter involving sexuality (conversations around consent, expectations and safety) as well as mental health (MMC1 has ADHD, MMC2 OCD). Considering that miscommunication is a part of the story, it was so refreshing to see Giles and Marcello attempting to be open with each other - there's one scene towards the end of the book which I don't want to spoiler but it's literally something I've never seen happen in a book before and it was so caring and just right for these characters to experience. I honestly believe in their love. Seriously, Thompson has done a great job here creating a story which manages to be very hot, funny, intimate and deeply caring. A really engaging all rounder of a story!
Make sure you check the content warnings, there's mention of some things that might be tough for some readers.
I read an advance copy of this book, my thoughts are very much my own.
May 11, 2025
OK FUCK MY TBR. I don’t even remember why I picked it up. Doesn’t matter. I enjoyed this and that's all that matters now.
Marcello is an anxious, loveable disaster who lives with his mum, oversleeps, overthinks, and signs up for a triathlon like it's a casual Tuesday errand. Giles? Sexy, soft, emotionally aware, wearing short shorts and rocking a moustache that probably has its own personality.
Them falling in love slowly but obviously? UGH. That whole “we’re just friends who spend every waking moment together and share snacks and long gazes but like… totally platonic” thing? Yeah. Inject that shit straight into my bloodstream.
Other things I enjoyed: Gym bros with feelings. ADHD and OCD rep. Mid-life queer awakening.
Tiny grievance? The miscommunication plotline dragged a bit. Like, one of y’all Google “how to say I love you with your words,” and let’s move on. Meanwhile, the actual sex convo scenes were a lil too structured for me. Sir, you’re not preparing for a TED Talk, just get naked.
Still: adorable. And I now have a moustache kink. Thanks, Giles.
Marcello is an anxious, loveable disaster who lives with his mum, oversleeps, overthinks, and signs up for a triathlon like it's a casual Tuesday errand. Giles? Sexy, soft, emotionally aware, wearing short shorts and rocking a moustache that probably has its own personality.
Them falling in love slowly but obviously? UGH. That whole “we’re just friends who spend every waking moment together and share snacks and long gazes but like… totally platonic” thing? Yeah. Inject that shit straight into my bloodstream.
Other things I enjoyed: Gym bros with feelings. ADHD and OCD rep. Mid-life queer awakening.
Tiny grievance? The miscommunication plotline dragged a bit. Like, one of y’all Google “how to say I love you with your words,” and let’s move on. Meanwhile, the actual sex convo scenes were a lil too structured for me. Sir, you’re not preparing for a TED Talk, just get naked.
Still: adorable. And I now have a moustache kink. Thanks, Giles.
September 22, 2024
This was a charming bi-awakening romance with neurodivergent main characters and a body positive approach to "gym bros". Giles and Marcello are just adorable, and I loved the London setting.
It is longer than many contemporary romances, but I found it well paced and didn't lose interest
In this, you'll find:
✨MM Contemporary Romance
✨Italian-British cafe owner with ADHD
✨Super-fit Tailor with OCD
✨Bi4Pan
✨Later-in-life bi-awakening
✨Hidden crushes
✨Spicy lessons + First times
✨Both MCs in their 40s
✨Impulsive decision to do a triathlon
✨Living with your parent as an adult
✨Gym accident when lifting
✨Past death of parents
✨Appendicitis
✨Supportive parent
✨A HEA
I received an advance copy.
It is longer than many contemporary romances, but I found it well paced and didn't lose interest
In this, you'll find:
✨MM Contemporary Romance
✨Italian-British cafe owner with ADHD
✨Super-fit Tailor with OCD
✨Bi4Pan
✨Later-in-life bi-awakening
✨Hidden crushes
✨Spicy lessons + First times
✨Both MCs in their 40s
✨Impulsive decision to do a triathlon
✨Living with your parent as an adult
✨Gym accident when lifting
✨Past death of parents
✨Appendicitis
✨Supportive parent
✨A HEA
I received an advance copy.
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September 24, 2024Stuck in The Middle With You by Frances M. Thompson
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐/5
I loved reading this story, it was sweet, inclusive, and best of all hot. Seriously Frances, I don’t know how you do it but every story keeps getting better and better. I love everything about Giles and Marcello, they are definitely my favorite characters ever. The way Frances beautiful crafter the representation of OCD and ADHD, was just brilliant. The chemistry and love Giles and Marcello had for each other was just perfect. Stuck In The Middle With You, was such a sweet story to read. Definitely a must read book!
❤️ Gym Bros to Lovers
🧡 Bi-Awakening
💛 Queer Seggs Leasons
💚 ADHD Rep
💙 OCD Rep
💜 MCs in their 40s
🚿 Shower Fun
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐/5
I loved reading this story, it was sweet, inclusive, and best of all hot. Seriously Frances, I don’t know how you do it but every story keeps getting better and better. I love everything about Giles and Marcello, they are definitely my favorite characters ever. The way Frances beautiful crafter the representation of OCD and ADHD, was just brilliant. The chemistry and love Giles and Marcello had for each other was just perfect. Stuck In The Middle With You, was such a sweet story to read. Definitely a must read book!
❤️ Gym Bros to Lovers
🧡 Bi-Awakening
💛 Queer Seggs Leasons
💚 ADHD Rep
💙 OCD Rep
💜 MCs in their 40s
🚿 Shower Fun
July 2, 2025
“’Più bella cosa non c’è,’ I tell him. There’s nothing more beautiful than this. Than him.”
I think I read this in, like, two sittings? I really appreciated the OCD (and ADHD) rep, and I loved seeing Giles finally start to let other people into his world over the course of the novel. He was such a caring and attentive character— Can we talk about him immediately researching marathon training after having one (1) singular conversation with Marcello about his goal? Your honor, I love him— and I’m so glad he found the love he deserved.
I really enjoyed the body positivity in this one as well, and I loved that Giles both supported and loved Marcello as he was but also supported his goals at the gym. While I’m not the biggest fan of the miscommunication (non-communication?) trope— and I didn’t love how long it went on here either— I can (somewhat) appreciate the extra angst it added to the romance.
And while we didn’t get to see a ton of them, I also really liked the side characters in this one! I believe two of them have their own book already? So of course I had to add that to my tbr immediately.
Overall, this was a wonderfully neurodiverse and queer romance— as many of Frances’ books are!— and I can’t wait to read more from her.
3.75 stars.
I think I read this in, like, two sittings? I really appreciated the OCD (and ADHD) rep, and I loved seeing Giles finally start to let other people into his world over the course of the novel. He was such a caring and attentive character— Can we talk about him immediately researching marathon training after having one (1) singular conversation with Marcello about his goal? Your honor, I love him— and I’m so glad he found the love he deserved.
I really enjoyed the body positivity in this one as well, and I loved that Giles both supported and loved Marcello as he was but also supported his goals at the gym. While I’m not the biggest fan of the miscommunication (non-communication?) trope— and I didn’t love how long it went on here either— I can (somewhat) appreciate the extra angst it added to the romance.
And while we didn’t get to see a ton of them, I also really liked the side characters in this one! I believe two of them have their own book already? So of course I had to add that to my tbr immediately.
Overall, this was a wonderfully neurodiverse and queer romance— as many of Frances’ books are!— and I can’t wait to read more from her.
3.75 stars.
November 8, 2025
OMW this was a great book. It follows Giles and Marcello and how they slowly and painstakingly fall inlove. There were times when I wanted to smack them both and times when i wanted to hold them and comfort them. It loved how they started out and trying to understand their emotions. I absolutely fell inlove with both of them and their journey to self discovery and finding love. I could feel their emotions and when they were stubborn I wanted to smack them up side the head. But all in all this was a really great story of 2 people that overcame alot, grew in ways they didn't know they needed to be with and love each other
September 17, 2024
Loved this whole book from start to finish! The mental health and queer representation was amazing. Such a fun, lighthearted romance while still touching on deeper subjects! Happy Bi visibility month 🩷💜💙
Read if you love:
▫️ Bi-awakening
▫️ Friends to lovers
▫️ OCD and ADHD rep
▫️ Light angst
▫️ Spicy lessons
Genre/type: Queer Romance
Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice: 🌶️🌶️🌶️.5
Series or standalone: Standalone
Tropes or themes: Bi4Pan, OCD Rep, ADHD Rep, Spicy Lessons, Friends to Lovers, LGBTQ Rep, MM Romance, Light Angst, Mutual Pining, Mid Life Crisis
Read if you love:
▫️ Bi-awakening
▫️ Friends to lovers
▫️ OCD and ADHD rep
▫️ Light angst
▫️ Spicy lessons
Genre/type: Queer Romance
Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Spice: 🌶️🌶️🌶️.5
Series or standalone: Standalone
Tropes or themes: Bi4Pan, OCD Rep, ADHD Rep, Spicy Lessons, Friends to Lovers, LGBTQ Rep, MM Romance, Light Angst, Mutual Pining, Mid Life Crisis
September 24, 2024
🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟
🔥🔥🔥🔥
Absolutely loving this author! I read let love rule and then discovered this had just come out. What an absolute gem it is! I fell head over heels for these two! The concept of the gym bros is brilliant but there is a real story with some hard hitting topics covered in a really sensitive way.
And it’s super sexy.
-Pan / Bi
-Discovering sexuality
-Sexy lessons
-Gym bros
-MH rep x2
-Friends to lovers
-MCs in their 40s!
🔥🔥🔥🔥
Absolutely loving this author! I read let love rule and then discovered this had just come out. What an absolute gem it is! I fell head over heels for these two! The concept of the gym bros is brilliant but there is a real story with some hard hitting topics covered in a really sensitive way.
And it’s super sexy.
-Pan / Bi
-Discovering sexuality
-Sexy lessons
-Gym bros
-MH rep x2
-Friends to lovers
-MCs in their 40s!
December 19, 2024
Lovely
This story was lovely. Two mature, kind men building a friendship and finding love and healing with one another.
I loved the neurodivergent rep (ADHD and OCD) and how the author showed how it impacted the characters' lives and also how they coped with it.
Yay for therapy!
The spice was good, less super sexy and more relatable hotness, like frank discussions about prep and stuff that in turn led to spicy times.
Very well done.
This story was lovely. Two mature, kind men building a friendship and finding love and healing with one another.
I loved the neurodivergent rep (ADHD and OCD) and how the author showed how it impacted the characters' lives and also how they coped with it.
Yay for therapy!
The spice was good, less super sexy and more relatable hotness, like frank discussions about prep and stuff that in turn led to spicy times.
Very well done.
July 31, 2025
Lovely
This was a lovely read and I loved the fact that both MCs were in their 40s. I enjoyed the way their relationship grew & grew and the side characters were great too. All in all it’s a lovely book
This was a lovely read and I loved the fact that both MCs were in their 40s. I enjoyed the way their relationship grew & grew and the side characters were great too. All in all it’s a lovely book
August 26, 2025
I surprisingly did really love this one, but the way certain parts or types of OCD was briefly talked about came off very invalidating, which was shocking compared to the rest of the book and how accepting the overall vibe was
September 25, 2024
I just love these men! Grown up men with real issues you can relate too. Such a sweet friends to lovers story!
October 14, 2024
Well, ok. This was way better than I first expected. It's sweet but approaches some heavier topics in a way that feels natural and just part of the story.
March 21, 2025
If you want to read a bi/pan, MM romance with spice, heartwarming moments, and neurodivergent representation, this is the book for you! It had me feeling ALL of the feels
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