Scott Berkun is one of my favorite writers and the author of The Year without Pants, one of the best books on managing people I've read. If you have anything to do with management, go and read that book.
On the other hand, if you are a designer, I would not recommend reading Why Design is Hard.
Honestly, I barely made it through the first chapter. By nature, I'm very optimistic and always try to find a way to make things happen. So reading a book that feels like an endless moaning and whimpering about the hardships of being the designer no one in the organization takes seriously is a real pain. And this moaning, in various ways, takes up about 80% of the book.
As a designer, I feel almost offended that the author takes such a stance and proclaims that all designers behave like narcissistic crybabies focused only on their art. Yeah, there are designers like this, but definitely not most of them. And it's not just about designers—you can find people like this in all professions.
So, is design actually hard? Well, guess what? It is. Design is not just drawing pretty pictures; it is also a lot about communication and working with other people. Designers are typically not solitary artists. They need to communicate their ideas with other people. And this exactly is the big revelation the author serves us in the book. Well, that is a bit underwhelming, isn't it? And the author's advice on how to overcome this? *Seek power.* Seriously. If you are a designer, no one takes you seriously, so seek power to push your ideas forward.
I disagree. First, you need to actually provide value with your designs—to the users first, to the business second, and always to both. Then, you need to clearly communicate this value with others. Yes, it is not easy, but what is?
If you want to read a really good and practical book on thriving as a designer in the real world, read UX for Business by Joel March. And mainly - quit bitching how hard the life is and go and do something about it.