I cannot believe that I reached the penultimate day of women’s history month 2025. At the beginning of the month I noted that I might not be able to read women exclusively this year having no concrete plans. After reading a number of memoirs at the beginning of the month I realized that I would be shortchanging myself and women if I did not stick to my original plans. Yes, I gravitate toward sports and history writing. A library pile is currently staring at me, and I am getting all big eyed, excited to read through the stack; however, that is for another day. I read Americanah eight years ago when I engaged in a reading women of color from around the world project. Women writers I had never heard of ended up on my reading list that year, but Americanah stood out to me as a story of what happens when immigration to the United States is not streets paved with gold and a dollar on every tree and a chance to better oneself. The protagonist ended up returning to Nigeria and living happily ever after with her first lover. Eight years have passed, and the author has written odes to both feminism and grief and has become a sought after speaker in the literary community. She has also experienced life to know that everything is not a happy ending even though this reader wishes it were. To finish my reading for women’s history month 2025, I selected Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s new novel Dream Count, a story of women, mothers and daughters, and how they persevere in their lives.
During the first year of Covid, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie lost both of her parents in close succession. Granted she has reached a point in her life where loss happens, but not in this capacity, and so close together is not fathomable even in those times. It was either in a review that I read or in a section of the book that stated that the disease is killing off a generation too soon. Needless to say I do not want to relieve that year again over and done with. In lieu of a novel, she wrote notes on grief while mourning her father and then published a lovely children’s book under a pseudonym. The kernel of an idea for this novel, her first in ten years, occurred while grieving her mother. The concept is four interlocking stories of women and their relationships with their mothers and how it effects their life choices. Each character receives their due in a section of the book; yet, the other three women are present, acting as sounding boards for those life choices that do not perpetuate the so called American dream. One character goes so far to say that Americans are provincial in thinking that the whole world revolves around them when really it does not. Chimamanda splits her life between the United States and Nigeria. This book is written from the perspective of someone who has a foot in both worlds, giving way to multi layered characters in various stages of grief.
In Nigeria the dream of all mothers is for their children marry well, preferably someone from the same station in life with similar values, so as not to taint the family’s legacy. Older generations held sway to these values, many marrying cousins to keep family lines pure. Not so the generation born after the Biafra war, which Chimananda writes of in her first novel, which gave way to young people attending university in the UK and United States, never to return. The first protagonist we meet is Chiamaka (Chia) who has lived in the United States since university. She is nearing her mid forties and still single, giving her parents, especially her mother, a reason to grieve. The family comes from money, and the mother thinks that it allows her to control her middle aged daughter’s life, but not so fast. We discover that Chia is a novelist who has taken a time out to travel the globe and write for magazines as a freelancer. Her father sponsors this endeavor, much to her mother’s chagrin, only because she wants her daughter to marry and have children before it is too late. Love has not come easy, with Chia reminiscing of past lovers during lockdown in what she refers to as her dream count. Some of these men had potential, two standing out to me, and one being downright awful; yet, none of them allowed Chia to love for love’s sake. In her mind, marriage is about love, not convenience, and she is convinced that the moment of true love might never occur for her. She compensates for not being married by forging strong relationships with other single women, each of whom is not married for a myriad of reasons. In these female friendships, one wonders if marriage is essential for true happiness. It does give pause for thought in this female centric novel.
Zikora is raising her son Chidera as a single mother because her ex-lover balked at fatherhood. A high powered attorney with means, she manages to get by although it is apparent that she distrusts all men and treats most of them with malice. Readers find out that her mother has also suffered a difficult relationship with her father due to her inability to bare children. Although she has always had a strained relationship, she drops everything to move in with her daughter at the time of impending birth. Zikora finds new respect for her mother that she never though she had. Meanwhile, the foil for Zikora is Omelogor, Chia’s cousin. The two women tolerate each other, with Chia being the middle ground that holds them together. Omelogor has chosen to remain in Nigeria. She is most definitely a successful businesswoman but has characteristics often associated with men. As she climbs the corporate ladder of success, she rarely has the time for romance, each fling ending after a few months. While she lives life as the hostess with the mostest in Abuja, it is her mother and aunts who wonder if she is happy and ask her if she would consider adopting a child. For many people, children are one’s ultimate legacy, but both Omelogor and Chiamaka show how one can be happy and successful outside of the traditional definition of a nuclear family. It is up to their mothers to accept them as they are.
While Chiamaka is the glue who perpetuates the relationships in this novel, the star is Kadiatou who has immigrated from Guinea in search of a better life for her daughter Binta. Of the four women, it is Kadiatou who clings to her African values while also pampering the other women with African food and love in their time of need. It is Kadiatou who received asylum along with her lover Amadou only to find this love evaporate in the United States. While working as a maid in a stately Washington hotel, she encounters Chia, who hires her as a personal caretaker, the relationship becoming one of friends and Chia acts as a fun aunt for Binta, the one character in the book who is achieving the American dream to the fullest. Binta was Kadiatou’s impetus for immigrating; with no children, she would have been happy staying in Africa. It is Kadiatou who experiences abuse followed by racial discrimination due to her inability to grasp English. Chia and Zikora come to her aid in this time of need because that is what friends do. Chimamanda notes that she crafted the character of Kadiatou based on a maid named Nafissatou Diallo who suffered abuse at the hands of a wealthy hotel guest in 2011. In real life, the maid’s union galvanized around Nafissatou whereas online posters believed the guest due to his ability to hire top attorneys and shape the narrative. The same is true for Kadiatou, her saga appearing as close to real life as any event in the novel. It is her female friends who support her both emotionally and financially during this time, all four women shaking their heads at the American perspective of justice, all the while looking out for each other’s well being.
I have noticed writers plunging into their craft as a means of expressing grief. Chimananda notes that her mother would have loved the character Kadiatou, who is the woman with whom most readers would choose to empathize. I tend to read other reviews prior to crafting my own, and one item that stood out is that this female centric novel is told from the perspective of men. Is it, though? Yes, all four of the protagonists experience levels of grief with men in terms of marriage or lovers breaking apart. The one man who relates to women best happens to be gay. But is the novel told through the eyes of men? I found this to be a powerful novel told from the point of view of four successful women who are chasing their own dreams apart from what their mothers desired for them. Even though the four women have yet to experience an epiphany in terms of true love, I would not say that this book is told from the eyes of men. It happens that Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is married with children but has experienced life enough to craft well drawn out characters from distinct stations of life than her own. Dream Count ended up exceeding my expectations, only because I did not know what to expect after a ten year gap in novels. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is regarded by many as a top novelist of this generation. Dream Count cements that status. Thus concludes women’s history month 2025. It has been both enriching and rewarding.
4.5 stars