Homes” by Amy Friesen is an essential guide for families who are navigating through the complexities of elder care. As life expectancy is increasing, eldercare resources are now more necessary than ever. Many families have to manage the dual responsibilities of caring for their children and aging parents while still trying to work full-time. The author utilizes her extensive knowledge and experience to offer a compassionate roadmap that will empower caregivers by providing them with the knowledge and strategies that they need to make informed decisions long before they are faced with a crisis.
The book is divided into two parts: New and Unfamiliar Territory and Preplanning. In the first section, Friesen adeptly organizes the numerous issues families face and presents them in a manageable format that will help reduce the overwhelming nature of this journey. This approach will be beneficial to caregivers who are feeling lost while trying to handle both the emotional and strategic challenges that will present themselves while caring for declining loved ones.
In Preplanning, Friesen delves into the various senior living options available. This will help equip readers with information and vital questions to ask as they research housing alternatives. She addresses important factors such as pricing, quality of care, and the continuum of care that can range from independent living to fully assisted living. This thorough review will aid families in making proactive rather than reactive decisions. This in turn will help alleviate a great deal of stress on both the caregiver and the loved one.
What makes “Breadcrumbs” especially poignant is its relatability. Most readers will resonate with the examples of real-life situations that are provided throughout the topics. I appreciate that she includes a Where are They Now section to follow up on the families discussed. The emotional weight of this journey is palpable. Readers will see that they are not alone in trying to navigate through these difficult times. Friesen’s insights into the intricacies of caregiving are invaluable. She also offers a section that addresses caregiver burnout. This is critical reading. We need to know how to take care of ourselves and set healthy boundaries. In addition to raising awareness of this issue, it will help alleviate feelings of guilt from those of us who are feeling bad about having negative thoughts arise.
This book serves as a reminder that in addition to caregiving, family members must also advocate for their loved ones to ensure that they receive the best possible care. Although it is tailored for a Canadian audience, its principles are universally applicable, which makes it an important resource for anyone dealing with aging relatives.
As someone who is currently grappling with similar challenges, I recommend “Breadcrumbs,” by Amy Friesen to all adults with aging family members. I wish I had this information years ago because I spent a lot of time learning things the hard way. It’s never too early to prepare, and this valuable resource offers a blend of empathy, practicality, and wisdom that will help ease the burden for readers facing these issues.