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Wiser Now: Lessons Learned from an Ill-Advised Relationship
Wiser Now tells the story of a single woman whose poor judgment leads her to become involved with a man whose priorities diverge sharply from her sheltered upbringing.
Gayle is cash-strapped, lonely, and becoming desperate when she answers a personal ad in the local newspaper. During the short courtship with Jake, Gayle sees differences in their respective lifestyles and values but sets her concerns aside. During their two-year relationship, she has to deal with a controlling spouse, infidelity, emotional abuse, and encounters with alcohol-fueled rage.
Wiser Now is a cautionary tale that should hit home with any individual who has made—or is making—relationship mistakes, as well as friends and family who are concerned about a loved one who is walking a dangerous path, allowing their emotions to overcome rational decision-making.
Gayle is cash-strapped, lonely, and becoming desperate when she answers a personal ad in the local newspaper. During the short courtship with Jake, Gayle sees differences in their respective lifestyles and values but sets her concerns aside. During their two-year relationship, she has to deal with a controlling spouse, infidelity, emotional abuse, and encounters with alcohol-fueled rage.
Wiser Now is a cautionary tale that should hit home with any individual who has made—or is making—relationship mistakes, as well as friends and family who are concerned about a loved one who is walking a dangerous path, allowing their emotions to overcome rational decision-making.
92 pages, Kindle Edition
Published October 3, 2024
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March 12, 2025
Lessons learned
What a great read! I have never been in a situation as the author has, but not only did it make me aware of how blessed I have been but it also showed how resilient and strong the author was. I hope that others in similar circumstances can find the strength to overcome. The book was a fast read, well written.
What a great read! I have never been in a situation as the author has, but not only did it make me aware of how blessed I have been but it also showed how resilient and strong the author was. I hope that others in similar circumstances can find the strength to overcome. The book was a fast read, well written.
March 5, 2025
Wiser Now is not just a book; it’s an eye-opening account that strikes a chord, particularly with those who have experienced or witnessed similar struggles. Gayle Curtin openly shares her personal journey through a two-year marriage to a manipulative and abusive man, offering insight into the emotional and psychological turmoil that kept her trapped in the relationship longer than she should have been.
The book is a genuine page-turner. Even though I knew it was a story about abuse, I couldn’t help but find myself hoping that with every chapter, Gayle would find the strength to break free. The author’s storytelling ability kept me, and others I know, hooked until the very end. The suspense is intense, and despite knowing how it turned out, the slow build-up of events kept me cheering for her escape at every turn. Each obstacle she faces in leaving feels all too real, from fear and doubt to the social pressures that make staying seem easier.
One of the key takeaways from this book is the importance of protecting our hearts and learning when to say “no,” even, and perhaps even especially, when it’s uncomfortable. It reminds us that the “easier” or “quieter” path isn’t always the healthiest one. I’m grateful that Gayle’s nightmare lasted only two years—too many people endure such toxic relationships for far longer.
Wiser Now is an honest, sometimes heartbreaking, but ultimately uplifting story. Gayle Curtin’s bravery in sharing her experience will resonate with anyone who’s ever been in—or fears being in—a toxic relationship. She provides a cautionary message and a roadmap for recognizing red flags, finding the courage to leave, and reclaiming one’s self-worth.
I’m thankful for Gayle’s progress since those dark days, and I hope her story inspires others to take the steps needed to change their lives as well - the sooner, the better!
The book is a genuine page-turner. Even though I knew it was a story about abuse, I couldn’t help but find myself hoping that with every chapter, Gayle would find the strength to break free. The author’s storytelling ability kept me, and others I know, hooked until the very end. The suspense is intense, and despite knowing how it turned out, the slow build-up of events kept me cheering for her escape at every turn. Each obstacle she faces in leaving feels all too real, from fear and doubt to the social pressures that make staying seem easier.
One of the key takeaways from this book is the importance of protecting our hearts and learning when to say “no,” even, and perhaps even especially, when it’s uncomfortable. It reminds us that the “easier” or “quieter” path isn’t always the healthiest one. I’m grateful that Gayle’s nightmare lasted only two years—too many people endure such toxic relationships for far longer.
Wiser Now is an honest, sometimes heartbreaking, but ultimately uplifting story. Gayle Curtin’s bravery in sharing her experience will resonate with anyone who’s ever been in—or fears being in—a toxic relationship. She provides a cautionary message and a roadmap for recognizing red flags, finding the courage to leave, and reclaiming one’s self-worth.
I’m thankful for Gayle’s progress since those dark days, and I hope her story inspires others to take the steps needed to change their lives as well - the sooner, the better!
March 20, 2025
Sometimes, women get desperate, especially if a lack of money is involved. We want to provide well for ourselves and our children, and when we can’t, we can take some risky chances. Such was the case with G. Curtin in her second marriage. That desire to be loved and protected is very strong, but it can also lead us into disaster. This autobiography is a cautionary tale that should be read by anyone entering into a relationship. Planning to “fix” someone through marriage is a red flag for sure. I appreciate the author’s honesty and willingness to share her story. Let us all learn from her mistake.
January 4, 2025
I had intended to squeeze this quick read into my 2024 log but just didn’t have the time to pick it up. I did tonight on the 3rd day of January and this sad and deep glimpse into Gayle’s life was an inspiring reminder that things can get better and we can all make better decisions. so many red flags and glad she is out now.
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