Widows have always far outnumbered widowers (who quickly remarry, usually
younger women). War, hunting and the uncertainties of long travel ensured
that most husbands died before their wives did. Mineke Schipper’s cultural
history of widows examines how these husband-less women have, throughout
history and mythology, been portrayed as helpless damsels, easy pickings for
men outside the family or clan, or as cunning witches who are suspected of
murder. In every case, the motive has been to exclude them and control them.
Schipper traverses the world, travelling across time, to collect and analyse
stories about widows and their treatment—the loss of status they face after
their husband’s death; the harsh rituals of mourning they are forced to perform;
the often brutal controls on attire, mobility and sexuality that they must submit
to. It is a global legacy of cruelty and shame—as also, occasionally, of resilience
and defiance—that has rarely been studied as deeply and thoroughly as in
this extraordinary work. Widows draws upon sources from Ancient Egypt and
Greece, medieval India and modern-day Europe, Africa and the Americas—
examining folk and real-life stories of communities in Fiji, Papua New Guinea,
Ghana, China, France, and several other countries and regions, as also stories
and images from comics and fashion magazines.
Impressively researched and entertainingly narrated, this book—its information
made distinctive by Schipper’s sharp insight and her humour—is an important
document that helps us understand our past and, through it, our present.