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And Then You Were Gone
And Then You Were Gone
Nina, a popular fantasy author, maintains a reclusive existence. Aside from Nina’s work, her primary focus is her daughter, Sophie.
Incessant bullying at school and a public, mortifying falling out with another girl sparks a downward spiral in Sophie’s emotional state.
Nina watches helplessly as her daughter appears to be unable to move past this unfortunate event. Nina grows so consumed with Sophie’s suffering that she loses her desire to write. How does one help a teenage daughter in torment?
But then Nina has an idea—an unorthodox method to help her daughter. She is going to write a story—bringing in a special character into Sophie’s life. As the author, Nina can control the outcome of the story. Or can she?
As fiction and reality blur, Nina realizes that things have gotten out of hand. Is her story the blessing she hoped for or a curse she never expected?
Read this riveting and hauntingly poignant tale to find out more.
Nina, a popular fantasy author, maintains a reclusive existence. Aside from Nina’s work, her primary focus is her daughter, Sophie.
Incessant bullying at school and a public, mortifying falling out with another girl sparks a downward spiral in Sophie’s emotional state.
Nina watches helplessly as her daughter appears to be unable to move past this unfortunate event. Nina grows so consumed with Sophie’s suffering that she loses her desire to write. How does one help a teenage daughter in torment?
But then Nina has an idea—an unorthodox method to help her daughter. She is going to write a story—bringing in a special character into Sophie’s life. As the author, Nina can control the outcome of the story. Or can she?
As fiction and reality blur, Nina realizes that things have gotten out of hand. Is her story the blessing she hoped for or a curse she never expected?
Read this riveting and hauntingly poignant tale to find out more.
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Published November 27, 2024
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December 16, 2024
This is a highly original story that highlights the trials and tribulations of adolescence, and in particular focuses on the dire effects of bullying in schools.
The protagonist, Sophie, is a highly sensitive girl, and one who is in a sense, a misfit, because she hasn't found her tribe, and she is forced to compromise her own values in an attempt to fit in with the bully gang.
Gradually, she becomes more and more isolated, and loses her joy of life. But more important than this - she loses hope.
She sidelines the one boy at school - Nick - who really loves her, and, it seems, she gradually loses her grip on reality, retreating into a delusional fantasy world of her own. This fantasy world is one in which she falls into the arms of an enigmatic stranger - Tristan - and of course, he is unattainable, for reasons I will not disclose here.
I loved the way in which the author told the story with first person narratives, taking the introspective form of diaries. The text alternates between the viewpoints of Sophie, and her mother, an author, so no head-hopping in this book; the boundaries are carefully maintained. The sense of Time in the book is particularly well-handled and the ways in which the voices of author mother and misfit daughter mirror each other, whilst at the same time maintaining distinct voices, is compelling.
Author Ivy Logan raises questions about objectivity and subjectivity, reality and fantasy, and poses a question that I sometimes, as a fellow writer, ask myself - what if the characters from my pages came alive? Of course, this is an impossibility, and it is only in fantasy and dream-like wish-fulfillment that this could possibly happen.
In this ya fantasy, there is a very interesting twist in the tale which the reader only finds out at the climatic ending, which is quite chilling.
Easily a five-star read, and an admirable book which tackles the subject of mental health in a sensitive way.
The protagonist, Sophie, is a highly sensitive girl, and one who is in a sense, a misfit, because she hasn't found her tribe, and she is forced to compromise her own values in an attempt to fit in with the bully gang.
Gradually, she becomes more and more isolated, and loses her joy of life. But more important than this - she loses hope.
She sidelines the one boy at school - Nick - who really loves her, and, it seems, she gradually loses her grip on reality, retreating into a delusional fantasy world of her own. This fantasy world is one in which she falls into the arms of an enigmatic stranger - Tristan - and of course, he is unattainable, for reasons I will not disclose here.
I loved the way in which the author told the story with first person narratives, taking the introspective form of diaries. The text alternates between the viewpoints of Sophie, and her mother, an author, so no head-hopping in this book; the boundaries are carefully maintained. The sense of Time in the book is particularly well-handled and the ways in which the voices of author mother and misfit daughter mirror each other, whilst at the same time maintaining distinct voices, is compelling.
Author Ivy Logan raises questions about objectivity and subjectivity, reality and fantasy, and poses a question that I sometimes, as a fellow writer, ask myself - what if the characters from my pages came alive? Of course, this is an impossibility, and it is only in fantasy and dream-like wish-fulfillment that this could possibly happen.
In this ya fantasy, there is a very interesting twist in the tale which the reader only finds out at the climatic ending, which is quite chilling.
Easily a five-star read, and an admirable book which tackles the subject of mental health in a sensitive way.
December 12, 2024
A true powerhouse! This emotionally charged story left me breathless! Following the events (as they unfold and seamlessly flow page-to-page) and heart wrenching plight of Nina and Sophie, I was left both exhilarated and exhausted. Logan masterfully addresses the pervasive problem of bullying and the psychological impact on victims and their parents. Sucked into a vortex, in real time, ‘And Then You Were Gone,’ touches upon those issues that, more often than not, are not addressed enough! When should a parent step back and ‘enable’ a child to ‘fight’ back? How does one know when to step in or step back? As a parent, I often grappled with similar issues as my own children ‘grew into their own.’
This extraordinarily complex issue is beautifully sad, tragic, profound, and a visceral roller coaster ride! Admittedly, I cried. chuckled, and agonized over Nina and Sophie. Nina, a single mother, and accomplished author, could not have imagined the events that would tear her only child away from her. Fighting the urges to interfere with her child’s school life and the betrayals and torments she faces at the whims of her ‘popular’ friends, Sophie’s existence and psyche becomes ever-so more disturbing. Her childhood friend, Nick, is there at every turn. But, Sophie’s unending ridicule by those ‘cliques’ leaves her spent and spinning farther into a vortex of self-loathing and torment.
I really appreciated the diary format that Logan uses in this haunting story-
It is said-‘Be careful what you wish for’-
I can usually foreshadow an ending. Not here!
Come meet Tammy, Christina, Tim, Shalini, and Tristan along with a few other intriguing characters, too!
A brilliant story by Logan!
This extraordinarily complex issue is beautifully sad, tragic, profound, and a visceral roller coaster ride! Admittedly, I cried. chuckled, and agonized over Nina and Sophie. Nina, a single mother, and accomplished author, could not have imagined the events that would tear her only child away from her. Fighting the urges to interfere with her child’s school life and the betrayals and torments she faces at the whims of her ‘popular’ friends, Sophie’s existence and psyche becomes ever-so more disturbing. Her childhood friend, Nick, is there at every turn. But, Sophie’s unending ridicule by those ‘cliques’ leaves her spent and spinning farther into a vortex of self-loathing and torment.
I really appreciated the diary format that Logan uses in this haunting story-
It is said-‘Be careful what you wish for’-
I can usually foreshadow an ending. Not here!
Come meet Tammy, Christina, Tim, Shalini, and Tristan along with a few other intriguing characters, too!
A brilliant story by Logan!
July 14, 2025
A Poignant Read
"And Then You Were Gone" gripped me from the very first pages. Centered around Nina, a passionate fantasy fiction writer, the story unfolds with her navigating the complexities of single parenthood while raising her daughter, Sophie. The narrative pulls you into their world as Sophie faces the heart-wrenching struggle of being bullied at school.
Logan skillfully explores the emotional turmoil that bullying inflicts on the victim. She highlights a critical issue—when silence prevails and proper support is lacking, the consequences can be devastating. Unfortunately, Sophie’s request for help is met with a callous suggestion to “adjust,” which only amplifies her stress and drives her deeper into an imaginary realm, away from the harshness of reality.
The plot thickens and culminates in a dramatic, unexpected ending that left me reflecting on the repercussions of ignoring such pressing social issues.
Logan’s storytelling is not only engaging, but it also sparks thought-provoking conversations about the importance of addressing bullying and providing proper resources for both victims and aggressors.
I wholeheartedly recommend "The And Then You Were Gone" to all parents and anyone who cares about the well-being of children. It serves as a powerful reminder of the impact that empathy and understanding can have in the face of adversity.
"And Then You Were Gone" gripped me from the very first pages. Centered around Nina, a passionate fantasy fiction writer, the story unfolds with her navigating the complexities of single parenthood while raising her daughter, Sophie. The narrative pulls you into their world as Sophie faces the heart-wrenching struggle of being bullied at school.
Logan skillfully explores the emotional turmoil that bullying inflicts on the victim. She highlights a critical issue—when silence prevails and proper support is lacking, the consequences can be devastating. Unfortunately, Sophie’s request for help is met with a callous suggestion to “adjust,” which only amplifies her stress and drives her deeper into an imaginary realm, away from the harshness of reality.
The plot thickens and culminates in a dramatic, unexpected ending that left me reflecting on the repercussions of ignoring such pressing social issues.
Logan’s storytelling is not only engaging, but it also sparks thought-provoking conversations about the importance of addressing bullying and providing proper resources for both victims and aggressors.
I wholeheartedly recommend "The And Then You Were Gone" to all parents and anyone who cares about the well-being of children. It serves as a powerful reminder of the impact that empathy and understanding can have in the face of adversity.
February 3, 2025
This is the story of a mother and daughter told from both their perspectives. Sophie in her diaries from early childhood through to her teens and then as she navigates the challenges she faces at school, and in Nina’s recollections as she attempts to find the point when the bond between them begin to fracture.
Bullying has been part of the life cycle it seems for an eternity, and our modern world where children are bombarded with poor examples on their devices has not helped eradicate one of the worst of human traits. There are many ways today to humiliate and share the success of that abuse online, and it is rarely an experience any person, young or old can shrug off without there being some mental and emotional trauma.
I am sure most readers will be able to relate to the damage suffered by the victim of bullying especially from an early age through to teens, if not in person or as a spectator. It is not pretty and in most cases is almost unstoppable, as it is usually a gang related activity and not policed effectively by the adults who should hold responsibility.
Ivy Logan has created characters whose lives are believable and relatable. A single mother devoted to her child’s well-being and a child whose sense of abandonment leaves her vulnerable to manipulation and unkindness from her peers. The lead tormentor has very recognisable traits as do her sycophantic followers desperate for her approval… Sophie’s only true friend, Nick is also well drawn, and one can only hope younger members of our own families would have such a staunch ally.
There is a mystery unfolding from the middle of the book. Has Nina found a way to reconnect with her daughter through her writing and show her there is much more that life has to offer? And, has Sophie found someone special and a time of peace enabling her to thrive?
This is an emotive read, bringing up memories for any reader who has suffered from bullying or seen its damaging effects on others around them. It is certainly a reminder to parents about how children may keep things hidden, rather than admitting to being a victim and how harmful that can be for everyone.
This is an intriguing concept and is well written with some interesting twists and turns along the way. I can highly recommend.
Bullying has been part of the life cycle it seems for an eternity, and our modern world where children are bombarded with poor examples on their devices has not helped eradicate one of the worst of human traits. There are many ways today to humiliate and share the success of that abuse online, and it is rarely an experience any person, young or old can shrug off without there being some mental and emotional trauma.
I am sure most readers will be able to relate to the damage suffered by the victim of bullying especially from an early age through to teens, if not in person or as a spectator. It is not pretty and in most cases is almost unstoppable, as it is usually a gang related activity and not policed effectively by the adults who should hold responsibility.
Ivy Logan has created characters whose lives are believable and relatable. A single mother devoted to her child’s well-being and a child whose sense of abandonment leaves her vulnerable to manipulation and unkindness from her peers. The lead tormentor has very recognisable traits as do her sycophantic followers desperate for her approval… Sophie’s only true friend, Nick is also well drawn, and one can only hope younger members of our own families would have such a staunch ally.
There is a mystery unfolding from the middle of the book. Has Nina found a way to reconnect with her daughter through her writing and show her there is much more that life has to offer? And, has Sophie found someone special and a time of peace enabling her to thrive?
This is an emotive read, bringing up memories for any reader who has suffered from bullying or seen its damaging effects on others around them. It is certainly a reminder to parents about how children may keep things hidden, rather than admitting to being a victim and how harmful that can be for everyone.
This is an intriguing concept and is well written with some interesting twists and turns along the way. I can highly recommend.
January 2, 2025
Something has happened to Nina’s daughter, Sophie. I had some guesses about what that could have been but ended up being wrong. The story quickly dove into the past, leading to Nina’s current fears. This is told through Sophie’s diary and Nina’s introspection until Sophie’s narration. Nina had an unsuccessful youthful marriage but found her way in writing books and raising her beloved daughter. They were very close since her ex was no longer in the picture until the bullying began at school for Sophie. She seemed unable to get past it even with her best friend, Nick’s support. This story hooked me from the first page, and I read it in one sitting just to find out what happened to Sophie. While tackling some deep subjects like bullying and its psychological effects, it also dove into family, friendship, and a mother’s love. Unexpected events followed Nina's well-intentioned efforts. A well-written story that I can highly recommend!
December 2, 2024
3.5 stars
And Then You Were Gone is a contemporary story about bullying.
Nina single-handedly raises Sophie, a quiet studious child who has a life-long friend in Nick. Sophie and Nick met in pre-school and remained friends. Even though they both tried to expand their friendship circles while at school, they always came back together.
It is common knowledge that negotiating the teenage years can be extremely hard and in this story Sophie suffered terribly at the hands of bullies. While Nina and Nick both tried to support Sophie, ultimately she chose her own survival methods.
The story is written mainly in diary and letter format—Sophie’s diary entries and Nina’s letters to her daughter. In places there is a natural overlap between how each one saw an event or experience and there was a small repetition. Nina is a successful writer and part of Sophie’s story involves the books and characters that Nina has written. I don’t wish to say more about this and spoil the story for others.
Bullying really is a terrible thing and is always sad to read about, while raising awareness of the subject is important, especially among teenagers.
And Then You Were Gone is a contemporary story about bullying.
Nina single-handedly raises Sophie, a quiet studious child who has a life-long friend in Nick. Sophie and Nick met in pre-school and remained friends. Even though they both tried to expand their friendship circles while at school, they always came back together.
It is common knowledge that negotiating the teenage years can be extremely hard and in this story Sophie suffered terribly at the hands of bullies. While Nina and Nick both tried to support Sophie, ultimately she chose her own survival methods.
The story is written mainly in diary and letter format—Sophie’s diary entries and Nina’s letters to her daughter. In places there is a natural overlap between how each one saw an event or experience and there was a small repetition. Nina is a successful writer and part of Sophie’s story involves the books and characters that Nina has written. I don’t wish to say more about this and spoil the story for others.
Bullying really is a terrible thing and is always sad to read about, while raising awareness of the subject is important, especially among teenagers.
October 29, 2024
I found Ivy Logan's latest artistic work full of intrigue and drama. This novella is suitable for either adult or young adult readers. The story begins like a great mystery should, giving pause for the reader to ponder and question exactly what doors are being unlocked in this journey into the realm of the teenage world. Author Logan depicts the teens in the book, "And Then She Was Gone" so true to life that the reader will feel as if he/she has been dropped into any high school around the world. The problems are the same: escalating bullying, hormones, coming of age drama, its effects, and the hopeless feelings of a parent. Heart pounding at times, tear producing at others, Ms. Logan brings a soul touching story that will cause the reader to stay up late into the night, flipping pages to discover the unbelievable twist in the end. Easy 5 stars, I wish I could give it 10/10.
January 11, 2025
A well written and original story, covering the difficult yet unfortunately quite common, subjects of bullying and mental health. Ivy’s take on this subject is very unique and very much a pageturner.
Nina is a somewhat reclusive fantasy author, and aside from her writing, Nina’s main focus is on her daughter Sophie.
Sophie’s mental state is on a downward spiral due to bullying at school and Nina is consumed by her suffering, and loses her desire to write.
Out of desperation to help her daughter, Nina thinks outside of the box and decides to write a new story, bringing in a special character into her daughter’s life.
As the story unfolds, Nina realises that things have become out of control, and fiction and reality become a blur.
An original story that’s main focus is on the effects of bullying. It shows how the psychological effects on the child, can go on to affect the parent, who bares witness to the child’s suffering and torment. The results being devastating for both. The story is written in the first person narratives, jumping seamlessly between characters as it does so.
A definite page turner, and a new take on such difficult, but unfortunately common, issues.
Nina is a somewhat reclusive fantasy author, and aside from her writing, Nina’s main focus is on her daughter Sophie.
Sophie’s mental state is on a downward spiral due to bullying at school and Nina is consumed by her suffering, and loses her desire to write.
Out of desperation to help her daughter, Nina thinks outside of the box and decides to write a new story, bringing in a special character into her daughter’s life.
As the story unfolds, Nina realises that things have become out of control, and fiction and reality become a blur.
An original story that’s main focus is on the effects of bullying. It shows how the psychological effects on the child, can go on to affect the parent, who bares witness to the child’s suffering and torment. The results being devastating for both. The story is written in the first person narratives, jumping seamlessly between characters as it does so.
A definite page turner, and a new take on such difficult, but unfortunately common, issues.
January 6, 2025
Wow, what a book! I did not see that ending at all. And Then You Were Gone is a heart-wrenching, yet incredibly intriguing story of not only a mother/daughter relationship, but also of the reality of this life. The struggles, the victories, bullying, secrets and the fine line between what is real and what is not. Nina is a single mom and an incredible author who wears her heart on her sleeve when it comes to her only child. Sophie, is a beautiful young girl with a promising future ahead of her, and a tragic reminder that continues to tell her differently. How far will a mother go to prove to her daughter that she is worthy of all this world has to offer? What happens when the good you do, ends with devastating consequences? And Then You Were Gone speaks right to the reader and the reality of what so many face on an everyday basis in this world.
Author Ivy Logan did a superb job penning this story down.
I highly recommend this book and a well-deserved and way-beyond five stars ✨
Author Ivy Logan did a superb job penning this story down.
I highly recommend this book and a well-deserved and way-beyond five stars ✨
December 11, 2024
Sophie lives with her mother Nina, a famous fantasy author. Their story is told from each’s perspective through their diary entries. Sophie’s story begins at age 7 and Nina’s from the time she met Sophie’s father.
The reader follows Sophie’s life as she grows up and develops a close friendship with Nick, a tried and true friend through everything
Then a series of incidents changes everything for Sophie and her adolescence becomes chaotic and dark.
Ivy Logan has created a gripping story about peer relationships: those Sophie could count on and those who shifted her world. Sophie struggles for years until she finds desperate ways to deal with her day to day realities.
This is a story that will remain with me for a very long time.
The reader follows Sophie’s life as she grows up and develops a close friendship with Nick, a tried and true friend through everything
Then a series of incidents changes everything for Sophie and her adolescence becomes chaotic and dark.
Ivy Logan has created a gripping story about peer relationships: those Sophie could count on and those who shifted her world. Sophie struggles for years until she finds desperate ways to deal with her day to day realities.
This is a story that will remain with me for a very long time.
February 7, 2025
A truly sad story in so many ways, told from two different but related perspectives. The author masterfully and seamlessly weaves between the two, advancing the plot at a comfortable pace before reaching its stunning conclusion and epilogue. While it's listed as "Contemporary Women's Fiction", it's appropriate IMO for high school-age readers as well, as it pertains to the subject matter. I'd go as far as saying it would spark open and honest conversations between parents and their teens. Definitely worth checking out, and bravo to Ivy Logan for having the strength and courage to share this with us.
December 21, 2024
Life
This was an inciteful read into the complex lives of a mother, a daughter, friends, and a bully. Adolescence can be a tough time for many, and with that comes differences between a mother and her daughter. No child should be bullied. Many bullied kids don't tell anyone about being bullied, and some kids take their own lives as they are desperate in how they feel. The bullied teen in this story did not take her own life. This story has all the feels, both good and bad. Coping mechanisms such as forgetting what one did happened. The story is short and read easily.
This was an inciteful read into the complex lives of a mother, a daughter, friends, and a bully. Adolescence can be a tough time for many, and with that comes differences between a mother and her daughter. No child should be bullied. Many bullied kids don't tell anyone about being bullied, and some kids take their own lives as they are desperate in how they feel. The bullied teen in this story did not take her own life. This story has all the feels, both good and bad. Coping mechanisms such as forgetting what one did happened. The story is short and read easily.
January 6, 2025
And Then You Were Gone by Ivy Logan was an intriguing story. A relationship between a mother and daughter can often be hard to navigate especially when a child who is happy suddenly begins to withdraw and the mother doesn't understand why.
The reality of kids being mean to other kids is often too real with sad results. Bullying can devastate a youngster trying to find their way in the tough world of peers and this story brings home how destructive it can be.
The author wrote an easy to read, page turning story. I found its complexity interesting, and at the same time quite sad because it is often a reality in our world.
The reality of kids being mean to other kids is often too real with sad results. Bullying can devastate a youngster trying to find their way in the tough world of peers and this story brings home how destructive it can be.
The author wrote an easy to read, page turning story. I found its complexity interesting, and at the same time quite sad because it is often a reality in our world.
September 6, 2025
I read this in one day. The author hooked me in and I kept wanting more.
Ivy Logan knows characters - I won't spoil it but she had me wondering.
There's this great flow from chapter to chapter.
A realistic story well told. I will definitely read more from this author.
Ivy Logan knows characters - I won't spoil it but she had me wondering.
There's this great flow from chapter to chapter.
A realistic story well told. I will definitely read more from this author.
December 9, 2024
Nina is a fantasy writer who has brought up her daughter Sophie alone after her marriage to Tim broke up, he sounds a nasty piece of work and Nina is better off without him. Sophie wishes she had her dad in her life but has never met him.
Nick is Sophie’s best friend throughout school until age 13 when she makes some girl friends, but are they really her friends or her enemies?
This book had me gripped from the first chapter as we discover what really happened or didn’t! An intriguing, thought provoking read which left me wondering.
Nick is Sophie’s best friend throughout school until age 13 when she makes some girl friends, but are they really her friends or her enemies?
This book had me gripped from the first chapter as we discover what really happened or didn’t! An intriguing, thought provoking read which left me wondering.
December 8, 2024
I can honestly say that I was committed to this book within the first few pages. The writing is accomplished and immersive, pulling me into the story in an incredibly short space of time. Discovering how Nina, Sophie’s mum, came to be a single parent was a tough read, but it led to an unbreakable bond between mother and daughter.
School is always tough for a child, but what Sophie had to deal with was straight from the pages of Mean Girls. The pain caused was tangible, and the stuff of nightmares. For Nina, it was impossible to observe how her daughter’s downward spiral accelerated towards a dark destination.
Using her writing to help Sophie escape was the best Nina could offer, but how could she know where that would lead?
This book is not for the faint-hearted and requires stamina to continue to the end. I felt every emotion as I turned the pages and never guessed how it would end. It is a must-read for anyone with a child entering senior school or who falls into the YA genre.
Hold on tight; it’s a white-knuckle ride!
School is always tough for a child, but what Sophie had to deal with was straight from the pages of Mean Girls. The pain caused was tangible, and the stuff of nightmares. For Nina, it was impossible to observe how her daughter’s downward spiral accelerated towards a dark destination.
Using her writing to help Sophie escape was the best Nina could offer, but how could she know where that would lead?
This book is not for the faint-hearted and requires stamina to continue to the end. I felt every emotion as I turned the pages and never guessed how it would end. It is a must-read for anyone with a child entering senior school or who falls into the YA genre.
Hold on tight; it’s a white-knuckle ride!
January 5, 2025
Such an interesting and intriguing story!
Sophie is a character who has issues with bullying and self esteem, you could see her closing herself off to the world.
Very emotionally charged story that made you think and wonder as you read further into the story.
A climatic ending sealed the story perfectly.
Sophie is a character who has issues with bullying and self esteem, you could see her closing herself off to the world.
Very emotionally charged story that made you think and wonder as you read further into the story.
A climatic ending sealed the story perfectly.
November 22, 2024
This is very thought provoking novel, which is written in a very interesting style. It touches on subjects very relevant to our society today.
Told from two perspectives the novel moves dramatically along making you wonder how it will end. I found it a riveting read and read it in a few days. The characterisation is very good and you find yourself rooting for the main protagonist.
It is both sad but inspiring and highlights some important issues facing our society today.
If you like a book with meaning and one that keeps you gripped, then this is for you. I enjoyed it very much. A writer with a great future.
Told from two perspectives the novel moves dramatically along making you wonder how it will end. I found it a riveting read and read it in a few days. The characterisation is very good and you find yourself rooting for the main protagonist.
It is both sad but inspiring and highlights some important issues facing our society today.
If you like a book with meaning and one that keeps you gripped, then this is for you. I enjoyed it very much. A writer with a great future.
October 11, 2024
Have you ever felt alone even knowing that there are people who love and support you? Have you ever felt the pressure become too much to bear?
Nina, in “And Then You Were Gone” by Ivy Logan, goes through an even worse experience. She has to watch her daughter Sophie suffer while trying to walk on the thin ice of respecting her child’s privacy and searching for ways to help.
Nina has had her share of disappointment in love and life, but now she is content with what she has. Her daughter Sophie is the most important person in the whole world for her. And her career as a fantasy writer fills the rest, making her feel fulfilled.
Nina recognises the signs that something is wrong in Sophie’s life. Alas, like most teenagers, Sophie believes that her mother is the last person who can solve her problems. But she doesn’t take into account that her mom is a writer, a person whose imagination works differently. The girl can’t imagine to what lengths Nina would go to help her get out of the vicious circle where her friends-turned-enemies herded her.
On the canvas of this tightly-knit small family’s ordinary life, the author draws a thought-provoking story. With every brush stroke – book chapter – Ivy Logan unravels the path of a girl from being a generally happy teenager to a tormented soul stuck in the aftermath of the trauma she experienced.
To me, both Nina and Sophie felt very relatable. As a teenager, I experienced bullying, but, fortunately, not from my close circle. Besides, I was lucky that older friends stood up for me. Even though those few episodes didn’t cause irreparable damage to my psyche, the fact that decades later I still vividly remember them speaks for itself.
And now, as a mother, I can acutely feel Nina’s desperation which made her turn to extreme measures. Her plan didn’t work out as she planned, but in the frenzy of trying to help her daughter, it is understandable that she didn’t think about the variety of consequences her actions could lead to. Moreover, she did what she did to help herself find the solution. She didn’t expect her writing gift to turn against her.
I highly recommend this book to everyone who appreciates an emotion-evoking story that tugs on your heartstrings and makes you look at seemingly usual things from a new perspective.
Nina, in “And Then You Were Gone” by Ivy Logan, goes through an even worse experience. She has to watch her daughter Sophie suffer while trying to walk on the thin ice of respecting her child’s privacy and searching for ways to help.
Nina has had her share of disappointment in love and life, but now she is content with what she has. Her daughter Sophie is the most important person in the whole world for her. And her career as a fantasy writer fills the rest, making her feel fulfilled.
Nina recognises the signs that something is wrong in Sophie’s life. Alas, like most teenagers, Sophie believes that her mother is the last person who can solve her problems. But she doesn’t take into account that her mom is a writer, a person whose imagination works differently. The girl can’t imagine to what lengths Nina would go to help her get out of the vicious circle where her friends-turned-enemies herded her.
On the canvas of this tightly-knit small family’s ordinary life, the author draws a thought-provoking story. With every brush stroke – book chapter – Ivy Logan unravels the path of a girl from being a generally happy teenager to a tormented soul stuck in the aftermath of the trauma she experienced.
To me, both Nina and Sophie felt very relatable. As a teenager, I experienced bullying, but, fortunately, not from my close circle. Besides, I was lucky that older friends stood up for me. Even though those few episodes didn’t cause irreparable damage to my psyche, the fact that decades later I still vividly remember them speaks for itself.
And now, as a mother, I can acutely feel Nina’s desperation which made her turn to extreme measures. Her plan didn’t work out as she planned, but in the frenzy of trying to help her daughter, it is understandable that she didn’t think about the variety of consequences her actions could lead to. Moreover, she did what she did to help herself find the solution. She didn’t expect her writing gift to turn against her.
I highly recommend this book to everyone who appreciates an emotion-evoking story that tugs on your heartstrings and makes you look at seemingly usual things from a new perspective.
January 12, 2025
The story begins with a prologue and Nina, a fantasy author, writing in her diary speaking to her daughter Sophie after reading Sophie’s diary, and her regrets about all that has transpired with her daughter. We’ll then learn all that comes to be when the diary stories begin. Nina writes about how her and her daughter’s journey began after being duped into an unhappy marriage with Tim, who eventually left her pregnant and alone, and that it was her agent, Beth, offering her a three-book deal at Nina’s low point, leaving her grateful to be able to take care of her daughter.
The book is written from each, mother and daughter perspectives of their lives, filling the pages with their thoughts, hopes and emotional wounds. Nina learns through her daughter’s diary entries that Sophie was bullied in school from middle school through high school. Sophie’s childhood friend (and heart crush), Nick, has been with her through thick and thin, and as we read on, we continue to wonder why Sophie won’t be Nick’s girlfriend when it seems he’s always been in love with her and she with him. But Sophie’s insecurities didn’t allow her to believe.
Through reading Sophie’s diary entries we’ll learn of her emotional torment as she is very affected by the bullying situation with ringleader, Tammy. From Nina’s perspective, we’ll learn from her introspect how her heart aches for her rather aloof daughter carrying a terrible burden reminding, there is a very fine line between protecting her daughter and giving her the space to stand up for herself.
It isn’t until the last chapter where the story ties together, we learn the state of Sophie and the pyschological damage done to her, and that her mother, plagued with writer’s block, was writing a story with a character – Tristan, who she felt would be enlightening and hopeful for her daughter to read. But it appears Tristan becomes very real to Sophie, demonstrating Sophie’s emotional state as our heartstrings are tugged from the tormenting situation while Sophie continues to live in her sadness and silence.
The book brings to light the pain of bullying for a child and a parent, and the terrible repercussions of the psychological damage of mental anguish done to poor Sophie. This book should be in libraries for both teens and parents as a learning tool.
The book is written from each, mother and daughter perspectives of their lives, filling the pages with their thoughts, hopes and emotional wounds. Nina learns through her daughter’s diary entries that Sophie was bullied in school from middle school through high school. Sophie’s childhood friend (and heart crush), Nick, has been with her through thick and thin, and as we read on, we continue to wonder why Sophie won’t be Nick’s girlfriend when it seems he’s always been in love with her and she with him. But Sophie’s insecurities didn’t allow her to believe.
Through reading Sophie’s diary entries we’ll learn of her emotional torment as she is very affected by the bullying situation with ringleader, Tammy. From Nina’s perspective, we’ll learn from her introspect how her heart aches for her rather aloof daughter carrying a terrible burden reminding, there is a very fine line between protecting her daughter and giving her the space to stand up for herself.
It isn’t until the last chapter where the story ties together, we learn the state of Sophie and the pyschological damage done to her, and that her mother, plagued with writer’s block, was writing a story with a character – Tristan, who she felt would be enlightening and hopeful for her daughter to read. But it appears Tristan becomes very real to Sophie, demonstrating Sophie’s emotional state as our heartstrings are tugged from the tormenting situation while Sophie continues to live in her sadness and silence.
The book brings to light the pain of bullying for a child and a parent, and the terrible repercussions of the psychological damage of mental anguish done to poor Sophie. This book should be in libraries for both teens and parents as a learning tool.
February 9, 2025
“My beautiful girl, now gone – what if it’s forever?”
A unique and creative plot blurs the lines between fiction and reality. The narrative explores themes of bullying, family, and the power of storytelling. The book is primarily told through Sophie’s diary entries, spanning from ages 7 to 16, with her mother Nina providing responses.
Nina is a successful author of the Deadly Lives series. One diary entry that stands out to me is at the age of 10, Sophie asked her mother what would happen if Nina went to live in one of her books and why her mother needed to escape into a different world. As Sophie grows, her diary entries give us insight into her life, which is filled with both joy and the challenges of adolescence. She makes new friends, some of whom are not very nice. Sophie experiences bullying at school, but thankfully, she can express her feelings in her diary. Meanwhile, her mother worries and wants to help her.
The book clearly illustrates that Sophia has always had the love and support of her mother. Nina’s ex-husband, Sophie’s father, was an abusive figure who abandoned them before Sophie was born. As a result, Nina has become a fiercely protective mother, determined to shield Sophie from the bullying she experienced in high school. As a writer, Nina found solace in her words during her struggles with her ex-husband—could writing also help her daughter?
This story is thought-provoking and resonates strongly in today’s world. It beautifully depicts the powerful and emotional bond between mother and daughter, and the impact that adultescent bullying can have on an individual and family. Although this is a short read, it is artfully crafted. The desire to escape reality is something most of us readers think about. It’s pretty much why we read and/or write: to create a temporary world/moment of escape or entertainment from our current reality. For some, the mind is a powerful place; the stories we immerse ourselves in can both harm and protect us. While the book’s ending may leave some readers feeling unsettled, it conveys a hopeful message about the power of imagination and presents an optimistic conclusion that challenges society’s conventional views.
A unique and creative plot blurs the lines between fiction and reality. The narrative explores themes of bullying, family, and the power of storytelling. The book is primarily told through Sophie’s diary entries, spanning from ages 7 to 16, with her mother Nina providing responses.
Nina is a successful author of the Deadly Lives series. One diary entry that stands out to me is at the age of 10, Sophie asked her mother what would happen if Nina went to live in one of her books and why her mother needed to escape into a different world. As Sophie grows, her diary entries give us insight into her life, which is filled with both joy and the challenges of adolescence. She makes new friends, some of whom are not very nice. Sophie experiences bullying at school, but thankfully, she can express her feelings in her diary. Meanwhile, her mother worries and wants to help her.
The book clearly illustrates that Sophia has always had the love and support of her mother. Nina’s ex-husband, Sophie’s father, was an abusive figure who abandoned them before Sophie was born. As a result, Nina has become a fiercely protective mother, determined to shield Sophie from the bullying she experienced in high school. As a writer, Nina found solace in her words during her struggles with her ex-husband—could writing also help her daughter?
This story is thought-provoking and resonates strongly in today’s world. It beautifully depicts the powerful and emotional bond between mother and daughter, and the impact that adultescent bullying can have on an individual and family. Although this is a short read, it is artfully crafted. The desire to escape reality is something most of us readers think about. It’s pretty much why we read and/or write: to create a temporary world/moment of escape or entertainment from our current reality. For some, the mind is a powerful place; the stories we immerse ourselves in can both harm and protect us. While the book’s ending may leave some readers feeling unsettled, it conveys a hopeful message about the power of imagination and presents an optimistic conclusion that challenges society’s conventional views.
December 16, 2024
'And Then You were Gone' is the perfect title for this story of interconnected yet fragmented lives. This is the story of Nina, how she attempted to build a life for her daughter Sophie, and how she longed to bring her healing. It is also the story of Sophie, how she tried to find her way in life, and how this way was lost.
The novel opens with Nina, a single parent, grieving the loss of her teenaged daughter Sophie, and the author immediately establishes, with great sensitivity, the impact this absence creates. At this point, please do not make assumptions about what must have happened. Let Nina and Sophie tell it, and simply receive it. Honour it.
We shift to the diary of Sophie at age seven, and here the innocence and simplicity of a child's point of view is beautifully captured. We follow Nina and Sophie through Sophie's childhood and into the teen years, through the playdates and makeup parties and baking visits with a loyal childhood friend to the coming of adolescent age and the essence of meanness revealed. The merciless bullying Sophie endures in middle school follows her into high school, and Nina witnesses the breakdown of her beautiful child into a tormented young woman.
Nina is a writer, and perhaps she hopes to help her daughter--and herself--to process and understand the agony of Sophie's life through writing. Nina's writing, however, has unexpected and drastic outcomes and suddenly, Sophie is gone.
The story is simple but gripping in its realistic portrayal of the world of bullying. Many of us have met Sophie, and will recognize her and her peers as we read. The outcome might seem extreme, but it is very, very real, and truer than we should have to admit. It is not perhaps a young adult novel, as the adult point of view is part of the telling, but as an educator, I do feel Ms. Logan's novel has a place in our schools. To read her words, and the remarkable poem by her daughter, written as a teenager, might bring a ray of hope to a Sophie, or a glimmer of affirmation to a Nina.
It is a remarkable novel, and I highly recommend it.
The novel opens with Nina, a single parent, grieving the loss of her teenaged daughter Sophie, and the author immediately establishes, with great sensitivity, the impact this absence creates. At this point, please do not make assumptions about what must have happened. Let Nina and Sophie tell it, and simply receive it. Honour it.
We shift to the diary of Sophie at age seven, and here the innocence and simplicity of a child's point of view is beautifully captured. We follow Nina and Sophie through Sophie's childhood and into the teen years, through the playdates and makeup parties and baking visits with a loyal childhood friend to the coming of adolescent age and the essence of meanness revealed. The merciless bullying Sophie endures in middle school follows her into high school, and Nina witnesses the breakdown of her beautiful child into a tormented young woman.
Nina is a writer, and perhaps she hopes to help her daughter--and herself--to process and understand the agony of Sophie's life through writing. Nina's writing, however, has unexpected and drastic outcomes and suddenly, Sophie is gone.
The story is simple but gripping in its realistic portrayal of the world of bullying. Many of us have met Sophie, and will recognize her and her peers as we read. The outcome might seem extreme, but it is very, very real, and truer than we should have to admit. It is not perhaps a young adult novel, as the adult point of view is part of the telling, but as an educator, I do feel Ms. Logan's novel has a place in our schools. To read her words, and the remarkable poem by her daughter, written as a teenager, might bring a ray of hope to a Sophie, or a glimmer of affirmation to a Nina.
It is a remarkable novel, and I highly recommend it.
January 4, 2025
This amazing book is written from the perspective of Nina, the mother, and Sophie the daughter. The author does a wonderful job of keeping the flow with the obvious change in language and perception. Nina's role is revealed through letters and memories while Sophie's view is shared from snippets of her diaries.
Nina is a single mother who has been supporting them as a successful fiction writer. From the beginning it is obvious Sophie is her whole world and she tries to protect her. Nina entertains her daughter by reading her the stories as she writes them.
While very young, Sophie realizes how empty her mother's life is. She worries her mother will one day decide to go live inside her books and vows to be the perfect child.
Nick is the boy next door and he is smitten with Sophie from day one. They play together and he always finds excuses to be with Sophie.
While in elementary school, Sophie gets accepted into the "in crowd". They spend time at her house and she is urged to end her friendship with Nick. One day something goes wrong and she finds herself on the receiving end of the crowd's bullying. She hides it from her mother because she doesn't want to worry her.
Nina notices the change in Sophie's behavior but can't figure out how to help. This is a typical problem with parents. They want to help, to understand, but when the teenager won't talk they are left to helplessly watch the downward spiral.
Sophie has Nick and another girl (sorry I forgot her name) to help her, but she is unwilling to take their words to heart. As the years go by, Sophie becomes more depressed and more certain of her worthlessness.
Nina decides what Sophie needs is a hero. She secretly writes a story where Tristan is everything her daughter needs to deal with her demons. It was supposed to be her personal coping mechanism to cope with her inability to help her daughter. Unfortunately, it has a disastrous effect.
I will not give any spoilers. Suffice it to say the ending was a twist I never saw coming.
This is a powerful tale of bullying and the toll it takes on everyone.
Kudos to the author.
Nina is a single mother who has been supporting them as a successful fiction writer. From the beginning it is obvious Sophie is her whole world and she tries to protect her. Nina entertains her daughter by reading her the stories as she writes them.
While very young, Sophie realizes how empty her mother's life is. She worries her mother will one day decide to go live inside her books and vows to be the perfect child.
Nick is the boy next door and he is smitten with Sophie from day one. They play together and he always finds excuses to be with Sophie.
While in elementary school, Sophie gets accepted into the "in crowd". They spend time at her house and she is urged to end her friendship with Nick. One day something goes wrong and she finds herself on the receiving end of the crowd's bullying. She hides it from her mother because she doesn't want to worry her.
Nina notices the change in Sophie's behavior but can't figure out how to help. This is a typical problem with parents. They want to help, to understand, but when the teenager won't talk they are left to helplessly watch the downward spiral.
Sophie has Nick and another girl (sorry I forgot her name) to help her, but she is unwilling to take their words to heart. As the years go by, Sophie becomes more depressed and more certain of her worthlessness.
Nina decides what Sophie needs is a hero. She secretly writes a story where Tristan is everything her daughter needs to deal with her demons. It was supposed to be her personal coping mechanism to cope with her inability to help her daughter. Unfortunately, it has a disastrous effect.
I will not give any spoilers. Suffice it to say the ending was a twist I never saw coming.
This is a powerful tale of bullying and the toll it takes on everyone.
Kudos to the author.
October 12, 2024
Ivy Logan creates a beautifully written, poignant story of every parent’s nightmare…how do you help a child who is emotionally slipping away from you? How do you read the nuances of unhealthy relationships and the subtle signs of distress? Especially when the child knows that “telling” will only make matters worse.
Nina, a fantasy author, is a single mom of a bright and cheerful child, Sophie. As Nina’s focus, the two have developed a close bond, Sophia is healthy and thriving with a network of friends. Things change dramatically when a bullying incident goes terribly wrong resulting in Sophia taking the blame. That’s when Sophia begins too emotionally spiral. Logan does a wonderful job of making her reader feel the turmoil and indecisions of both characters. Although supportive, Nina feels helpless and loses her desire to write. She eventually decides to write a story giving Sophia a special friend and a happy ending. But not all good intentions have the effect you hoped for. Tristin appears to be the perfect solution to Sophia’s depression. But is everything as it seems? No spoilers here.
I love the relevance of this story to so many children who deal with bullying every day, with most parents unaware. This story has a wonderful message for parents, using real life situations. There is a fine balance between doing what is right for your child and wanting to protect them socially. As your child pleas for you to let it go, fearing retribution, do you fight, or do you go along? It is hard as a parent to decide what is the best action for the child’s wellbeing.
I was immediately drawn into the story and didn’t put it down until the last words. It moves quickly and took me on an emotional rollercoaster, with an ending I didn’t see coming. I highly recommend this emotionally charged story that brings to light a universal struggle that never seems to find an end.
Nina, a fantasy author, is a single mom of a bright and cheerful child, Sophie. As Nina’s focus, the two have developed a close bond, Sophia is healthy and thriving with a network of friends. Things change dramatically when a bullying incident goes terribly wrong resulting in Sophia taking the blame. That’s when Sophia begins too emotionally spiral. Logan does a wonderful job of making her reader feel the turmoil and indecisions of both characters. Although supportive, Nina feels helpless and loses her desire to write. She eventually decides to write a story giving Sophia a special friend and a happy ending. But not all good intentions have the effect you hoped for. Tristin appears to be the perfect solution to Sophia’s depression. But is everything as it seems? No spoilers here.
I love the relevance of this story to so many children who deal with bullying every day, with most parents unaware. This story has a wonderful message for parents, using real life situations. There is a fine balance between doing what is right for your child and wanting to protect them socially. As your child pleas for you to let it go, fearing retribution, do you fight, or do you go along? It is hard as a parent to decide what is the best action for the child’s wellbeing.
I was immediately drawn into the story and didn’t put it down until the last words. It moves quickly and took me on an emotional rollercoaster, with an ending I didn’t see coming. I highly recommend this emotionally charged story that brings to light a universal struggle that never seems to find an end.
January 17, 2025
Ivy Logan's "And Then You Were Gone" is a powerful and emotionally resonant young adult novel that delves into the devastating consequences of bullying and the complexities of mental health. Told through the alternating diary entries of Sophie, a sensitive and isolated teenager, and her mother Nina, a successful author, the story offers a unique and intimate perspective on the struggles of adolescence.
Sophie's journey is a heartbreaking one, as she navigates the treacherous waters of high school cliques, compromising her values in a desperate attempt to fit in. The relentless bullying she endures gradually erodes her self-worth, pushing her further into a vortex of despair and fantasy. Logan skilfully portrays Sophie's descent into a delusional world, where she finds solace in an unattainable stranger, Tristan.
The novel's strength lies in its dual narrative structure, allowing readers to experience the story through both Sophie's and Nina's eyes. This creates a compelling dynamic, highlighting the challenges of parenting a teenager grappling with mental health issues. Logan masterfully handles the themes of reality versus fantasy, blurring the lines between the two as Sophie's internal world bleeds into her external reality.
While the characters' actions occasionally strain believability, the reviewer acknowledges that this complexity mirrors the unpredictable nature of real life. The intimate tone of the diary format draws readers into the characters' inner worlds, creating a sense of empathy and understanding.
"And Then You Were Gone" is a unique and thought-provoking novel that tackles difficult subjects with sensitivity and grace. The chilling climax and unexpected twist add to the story's impact, leaving a lasting impression on the reader. This is a highly recommended read for those seeking a story that explores the depths of human experience and the enduring power of hope.
Sophie's journey is a heartbreaking one, as she navigates the treacherous waters of high school cliques, compromising her values in a desperate attempt to fit in. The relentless bullying she endures gradually erodes her self-worth, pushing her further into a vortex of despair and fantasy. Logan skilfully portrays Sophie's descent into a delusional world, where she finds solace in an unattainable stranger, Tristan.
The novel's strength lies in its dual narrative structure, allowing readers to experience the story through both Sophie's and Nina's eyes. This creates a compelling dynamic, highlighting the challenges of parenting a teenager grappling with mental health issues. Logan masterfully handles the themes of reality versus fantasy, blurring the lines between the two as Sophie's internal world bleeds into her external reality.
While the characters' actions occasionally strain believability, the reviewer acknowledges that this complexity mirrors the unpredictable nature of real life. The intimate tone of the diary format draws readers into the characters' inner worlds, creating a sense of empathy and understanding.
"And Then You Were Gone" is a unique and thought-provoking novel that tackles difficult subjects with sensitivity and grace. The chilling climax and unexpected twist add to the story's impact, leaving a lasting impression on the reader. This is a highly recommended read for those seeking a story that explores the depths of human experience and the enduring power of hope.
February 2, 2025
Nina is a best-selling author, reclusive and self-absorbed on the one hand and over-involved in her daughter’s life on the other. When daughter Sophie becomes the target of intense bullying at school, her mental health and happiness suffer, and the cracks in the mother-daughter relationship start to widen until they eventually break.
The structure of the story is interesting. Part One begins after the break. Sophie is “gone,” and Nina, in an effort to figure out what happened, reads Sophie’s diaries. The reader gets to look over Nina’s shoulder at the entries between observing Nina’s reactions and reflections on her own life. With her writing career at a standstill, Nina has an idea that might help her deal with her daughter’s experience.
Part Two is Sophie’s story, what happened to her, and how she dealt with it, or didn’t deal with it. She keeps most of her pain to herself for years. The devastating impact of bullying on adolescents is the strongest aspect of the story, and the author lays it out expertly. Then things take a turn, and Sophie meets someone who brings joy back into her life. The ending was a complete surprise with a blurring of reality and fiction where the reader is left to decide what’s real.
The book starts a little slow with Nina’s backstory, but it picks up significantly when Sophie’s tale begins. Her story, emotions, experience of bullying, and helplessness to do anything about it are heartbreaking. As often happens, the adults in her life are useless, including her mother. She pushes away her friends, even those who are loyal to her, leaving her without any support system. Her decline is realistic and riveting. She was the character that I connected with the most.
Readers who enjoy family dramas, psychological thrillers, and tales with a paranormal twist will find a lot to like about this story. It’s hard to put down.
The structure of the story is interesting. Part One begins after the break. Sophie is “gone,” and Nina, in an effort to figure out what happened, reads Sophie’s diaries. The reader gets to look over Nina’s shoulder at the entries between observing Nina’s reactions and reflections on her own life. With her writing career at a standstill, Nina has an idea that might help her deal with her daughter’s experience.
Part Two is Sophie’s story, what happened to her, and how she dealt with it, or didn’t deal with it. She keeps most of her pain to herself for years. The devastating impact of bullying on adolescents is the strongest aspect of the story, and the author lays it out expertly. Then things take a turn, and Sophie meets someone who brings joy back into her life. The ending was a complete surprise with a blurring of reality and fiction where the reader is left to decide what’s real.
The book starts a little slow with Nina’s backstory, but it picks up significantly when Sophie’s tale begins. Her story, emotions, experience of bullying, and helplessness to do anything about it are heartbreaking. As often happens, the adults in her life are useless, including her mother. She pushes away her friends, even those who are loyal to her, leaving her without any support system. Her decline is realistic and riveting. She was the character that I connected with the most.
Readers who enjoy family dramas, psychological thrillers, and tales with a paranormal twist will find a lot to like about this story. It’s hard to put down.
December 9, 2024
Ivy Logan’s And Then You Were Gone is a haunting and thought-provoking exploration of trauma, mental health, and the complicated bond between mother and daughter. Nina, the mother, carries the scars of psychological abuse and abandonment by her narcissistic husband. Her daughter, Sophie, becomes her everything, but then Sophie faces relentless bullying and emotional turmoil.
Sophie’s struggles with anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem shape her view of the world, affecting her intimate relationships and sense of self. As Nina desperately tries to help, she creates a fictional narrative to control Sophie’s fate, blurring the line between reality and fiction.
The novel powerfully captures the emotional toll of trauma but offers little hope or resolution, making it an unsettling read for those seeking closure. It challenges readers to consider how the past shapes our present and how the stories we tell ourselves can both protect and harm us. A raw and emotional read, And Then You Were Gone is deeply affecting and, at times, a difficult story.
I give And Then You Were Gone by Ivy Logan a solid 4 out of 5 stars. The novel is powerful and emotionally charged, offering an insightful exploration of trauma, mental health, and the complex dynamics between mother and daughter. Logan’s writing is haunting, and the depth of the characters, particularly Nina and Sophie, draws you in from the start.
However, while the story is beautifully crafted, its lack of hope or resolution left me feeling unsettled. The emotional intensity of the book might be difficult for readers seeking closure or a more optimistic ending. Despite this, the book’s thought-provoking themes about trauma and self-perception make it a compelling and deeply affecting read.
Sophie’s struggles with anxiety, depression, and low self-esteem shape her view of the world, affecting her intimate relationships and sense of self. As Nina desperately tries to help, she creates a fictional narrative to control Sophie’s fate, blurring the line between reality and fiction.
The novel powerfully captures the emotional toll of trauma but offers little hope or resolution, making it an unsettling read for those seeking closure. It challenges readers to consider how the past shapes our present and how the stories we tell ourselves can both protect and harm us. A raw and emotional read, And Then You Were Gone is deeply affecting and, at times, a difficult story.
I give And Then You Were Gone by Ivy Logan a solid 4 out of 5 stars. The novel is powerful and emotionally charged, offering an insightful exploration of trauma, mental health, and the complex dynamics between mother and daughter. Logan’s writing is haunting, and the depth of the characters, particularly Nina and Sophie, draws you in from the start.
However, while the story is beautifully crafted, its lack of hope or resolution left me feeling unsettled. The emotional intensity of the book might be difficult for readers seeking closure or a more optimistic ending. Despite this, the book’s thought-provoking themes about trauma and self-perception make it a compelling and deeply affecting read.
January 1, 2025
And Then You Were Gone is the first book I’ve read from this author and I liked her style of writing.
Although the main theme is disturbing, that of bullying during the life of a teenager, it is sensitively portrayed.
The story is what I call a slow burner and is told in two sections: the early chapters reveal the emotions of both Sophie as the young teenager and that of her mother, Nina, who is a successful fantasy writer. As a single parent after her divorce she has watched her daughter grow and change over the years, until the inevitable time when the relationship between them is altered by external actions and reactions. And the reader sees how this affects Nina.
In the second part the perspective is from Sophie in present time. The narrative is threaded through with memories of trust betrayed, of the steady friendship between Sophie and the boy she met in her early years in school, Nick. But also of the lasting effects of bullying, and of the way she has wrestled with these recollections alongside dealing with her life now.
I never reveal spoilers in my reviews, and I’ve found it difficult not to do this here. Suffice it to say, there are lighter themes in this book that balance out the darker themes to some effect. It’s an interesting story written primarily between Sophie’s diary entries and Nina’s attempt to help her daughter by both writing letters to her daughter and creating stories.
In today’s world bullying is enabled through social media, as well as real life. It comes in all guises, it affects the families of the bullied, as well as the victim. Ivy Logan’s And Then You Were Gone shows the results.
Although the main theme is disturbing, that of bullying during the life of a teenager, it is sensitively portrayed.
The story is what I call a slow burner and is told in two sections: the early chapters reveal the emotions of both Sophie as the young teenager and that of her mother, Nina, who is a successful fantasy writer. As a single parent after her divorce she has watched her daughter grow and change over the years, until the inevitable time when the relationship between them is altered by external actions and reactions. And the reader sees how this affects Nina.
In the second part the perspective is from Sophie in present time. The narrative is threaded through with memories of trust betrayed, of the steady friendship between Sophie and the boy she met in her early years in school, Nick. But also of the lasting effects of bullying, and of the way she has wrestled with these recollections alongside dealing with her life now.
I never reveal spoilers in my reviews, and I’ve found it difficult not to do this here. Suffice it to say, there are lighter themes in this book that balance out the darker themes to some effect. It’s an interesting story written primarily between Sophie’s diary entries and Nina’s attempt to help her daughter by both writing letters to her daughter and creating stories.
In today’s world bullying is enabled through social media, as well as real life. It comes in all guises, it affects the families of the bullied, as well as the victim. Ivy Logan’s And Then You Were Gone shows the results.
January 28, 2025
3.5 stars
Thanks to author D.G Kaye for recommending this book, which primarily focuses on Sophie, a victim of childhood/teenage bullying at school, and her mother Nina, a successful writer. The book is written in diary/letter format.
Sophie is bullied dreadfully for years by classmate Tammy, and also by Tammy’s friends. She speaks to nobody about it and instead writes all about her hurt and anguish in a diary. Nina sees Sophie’s mental health decline and knows she is unhappy about something, and tries in vain to help. However, when she discovers Sophie’s diary she decides to read it in the hope of finding out what is making her daughter miserable.
Sophie has only two friends; Nick, a staunch friend from early childhood, and Shalini, a friend she makes at school. When Sophie begins to retreat from the world, Nina reads in her daughter’s diary of Tammy’s constant bullying and that Nick has found a new girlfriend in Christina. Nina knows what to do to end Sophie’s suffering.
This is where a fantasy element creeps in, which I was rather disappointed about because I prefer realistic situations. However, there was a good twist at the end, but if I say too much I will give away spoilers. You will have to read the book to discover how Nina comes to Sophie’s aid. It was this fantasy part which in my opinion takes this short read from four stars down to three and a half, simply because I would have preferred the book to stay realistic all the way through.
Thanks to author D.G Kaye for recommending this book, which primarily focuses on Sophie, a victim of childhood/teenage bullying at school, and her mother Nina, a successful writer. The book is written in diary/letter format.
Sophie is bullied dreadfully for years by classmate Tammy, and also by Tammy’s friends. She speaks to nobody about it and instead writes all about her hurt and anguish in a diary. Nina sees Sophie’s mental health decline and knows she is unhappy about something, and tries in vain to help. However, when she discovers Sophie’s diary she decides to read it in the hope of finding out what is making her daughter miserable.
Sophie has only two friends; Nick, a staunch friend from early childhood, and Shalini, a friend she makes at school. When Sophie begins to retreat from the world, Nina reads in her daughter’s diary of Tammy’s constant bullying and that Nick has found a new girlfriend in Christina. Nina knows what to do to end Sophie’s suffering.
This is where a fantasy element creeps in, which I was rather disappointed about because I prefer realistic situations. However, there was a good twist at the end, but if I say too much I will give away spoilers. You will have to read the book to discover how Nina comes to Sophie’s aid. It was this fantasy part which in my opinion takes this short read from four stars down to three and a half, simply because I would have preferred the book to stay realistic all the way through.
February 23, 2025
And Then You Were Gone, the tender psychological story written by the talented Ivy Logan, touched my heart on many levels while I journeyed with the characters throughout this gripping tale.
I’m a person who has experienced mockery and disdain during childhood due to the misguided notions of the ignorant because I had a special needs brother. So, I found Sofia’s poor self-esteem, which developed at a very young age and ultimately followed her through grammar and high school, totally relatable. Sofia holds Nick, her dear friend and loving mainstay since they were very young, at arm’s length many times due to the complications that arise when they begin school and follow them over the years – troubles mostly suffered by the sensitive Sophia.
Sophia’s mother, Nina, has also faced disturbing disappointment and emotional abuse, from her ex-husband and Sophia’s absent father. Nina buries the sad outcome of her marriage in her published works as a fantasy author. I applauded how Nina had become a very successful professional and did her best to guide and champion Sophia through her childhood and teen trials, but she doesn't seem to fully grasp the depth of Sophia’s emotional traumas. Until she finally gets it and comes up with a plan…
Because Sophia keeps secrets…
Oops, since I never reveal key spoilers when I review, suffice it to say this dramatic story is beautifully written using two major points of view and remains a touching tale that will stick with me for a long time. I award five stars for this emotionally driven saga and will end with this: WOW. I didn’t see that conclusion coming at all. Bravo, Ms. Logan. Incredibly well done.
I’m a person who has experienced mockery and disdain during childhood due to the misguided notions of the ignorant because I had a special needs brother. So, I found Sofia’s poor self-esteem, which developed at a very young age and ultimately followed her through grammar and high school, totally relatable. Sofia holds Nick, her dear friend and loving mainstay since they were very young, at arm’s length many times due to the complications that arise when they begin school and follow them over the years – troubles mostly suffered by the sensitive Sophia.
Sophia’s mother, Nina, has also faced disturbing disappointment and emotional abuse, from her ex-husband and Sophia’s absent father. Nina buries the sad outcome of her marriage in her published works as a fantasy author. I applauded how Nina had become a very successful professional and did her best to guide and champion Sophia through her childhood and teen trials, but she doesn't seem to fully grasp the depth of Sophia’s emotional traumas. Until she finally gets it and comes up with a plan…
Because Sophia keeps secrets…
Oops, since I never reveal key spoilers when I review, suffice it to say this dramatic story is beautifully written using two major points of view and remains a touching tale that will stick with me for a long time. I award five stars for this emotionally driven saga and will end with this: WOW. I didn’t see that conclusion coming at all. Bravo, Ms. Logan. Incredibly well done.
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