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A truly unforgettable romantic story about family, love and serendipity, perfect for fans of Lucy Diamond, Beth Moran, and Jill Mansell ✨ Two people’s lives are about to collide… but will they find love?

Far away, on a beautiful Mediterranean island, a little girl writes a letter to the Universe, with one wish – for something to change so that her father, Luke, can be happy again.

Little does she know, there are two strangers in search of Luke already. Bee, who has just found out a deep secret about her past. And Alex, who dreams of his mother finding some of her memories again, and who believes Luke might be the key.

As Bee’s and Alex’s lives are drawn together – in entirely unexpected ways – will they only find what they’re looking for? Or could the Universe also have a love story planned for two people who might just be soulmates, if only their paths could cross…

330 pages, Kindle Edition

Published May 5, 2025

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Debbie Howells

40 books744 followers
Debbie self-published three women's fiction novels before writing The Bones of You, her first psychological thriller. It was a Sunday Times bestseller and selected for the Richard and Judy book club.
Since, she was written The Beauty of the End, The Death of Her, Her Sister's Lie, the e-book bestseller The Vow, and her latest, The Secret.
Her women's fiction novel, The Life You Left Behind will be published on 23rd February.

Follow her on Facebook at Debbie Howells writer and on Instagram @_debbiehowells.

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504 reviews1,912 followers
May 2, 2025
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3.5 Stars

Debbie Howells has been a hit or miss author for me. I loved both The Life You Left Behind and It All Started With You , but The Vow and The Girl I Used To Be were a bit of a miss. I am happy to say I was pleasantly surprised with this one and am so glad I gave the author another go.

This very emotional and moving story deals with loss and the bonds that tie us together. Our main character is Bee, and she is having a hard time with life, so she decides to look for the dad she has never known. Then we have Alex, who is dealing with a mother who is suffering from memory loss. Then, Bee and Alex meet and discover they are looking for the same man. Serendipity, right?

Howells always knows how to write stories that tug at my heartstrings. All her characters are thoroughly fleshed out and relatable; they're complex, and I became invested in their stories. I loved the emotional journey she took me on with Bee and Alex, it was both interesting and emotional. I so appreciated that Alex was such a sensitive man and cared so much about his mum. I liked the idea of found family, the emotional depth and the themes of grief and loss, which were written with a conscious sensitivity. I liked that when I turned the final page, I was left with a feeling of hope, even though some of the topics were tough.

What fell a little short for me was the pacing. The book felt a bit slow at times, and the plot took a long time to develop, but overall, I found the book to be very touching and emotional.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC.
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May 15, 2025
3.7 Stars

One Liner: This was sweet

When Bee loses her job, home, and boyfriend on the same day, she is at her lowest point. It doesn’t help that some guy spilled his coffee on her. However, she finally learns the name of her father, Luke Friday, a musician she has never met. Bee decides to search for him and find out more.

Alex is the guy who spilled coffee on her. At home, he takes care of his mother, whose memories desert her. In an attempt to help her, Alex wants to find a man called Luke Friday, someone with whom his mother played music once upon a time.

As Alex and Bee search for the same person, Luke’s nine-year-old daughter is trying to find something or someone to bring her father out of his grief. How will their paths cross? What happens next?

The story comes in Bee and Alex’s first-person POVs.

My Thoughts:

This is contemporary fiction and family drama where the lead characters are on their personal quests. Though their paths will eventually interact, it doesn’t happen until the last quarter.

The book deals with themes like dementia, being a caregiver, emotionally unavailable parent, loss of a partner and parent, loneliness, etc. While these make the story a bit heavy, the book doesn’t feel overwhelming.

It takes a little time to like Bee. However, her confusion, fears, vulnerabilities, etc., are well-presented. She is hesitant, sad, and ready to give up, much like how people react in similar situations. This elevates her character as the story progresses.

Alex is a good guy; someone easy to like, pretty much from the first. We can’t help but root for both main leads to find the ray of light in their lives.

Little Mack is adorable! God, I loved her! My heart broke for her, but she put it together with her childlike wisdom and innocence. The side characters are certainly interesting, and some of them have prominent roles.

Both main characters have careers related to nature (sort of), though we don’t actively see them at work. There’s a love track for them, which really doesn’t make any impact. It has been left too late and seems like a last-minute patch-up. Either they should have met earlier and shared a part of the journey, or their romance should have gotten a hint only at the end (like a slice-of-life ending).

Still, the rest of it is rather good, so I’m willing to look over the issues. Also, a certain character I disliked doesn’t have a 360-degree change of heart. There’s no forced ‘family comes first’ nonsense. Here, family is found family. Just the way I like it.

To summarize, This Thing Called Love is a heartwarming book about finding your people, caring for your loved ones, and the power of music and memories for people with dementia.

Thank you, NetGalley and Boldwood Books, for the eARC. This review is voluntary and contains my honest opinion about the book.

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2,888 reviews451 followers
May 6, 2025
Bee, newly unemployed and shocked about her sudden breakup, finds herself at a crossroads. Forced to move in with her mother, a decision she’s not thrilled about, an unexpected twist unfolds. Bee discovers the name of her father—a man she never knew, a man her mother has kept hidden from her. Intrigued, she embarks on a journey to Majorca to meet the man she’s always wondered about.

Meanwhile, Alex, a kind-hearted young man, is deeply concerned about his mother, who has early-onset dementia. Struck with an idea to help alleviate her symptoms, he sets out to find and meet a man who might provide some assistance.

As fate would have it, both Bee and Alex are looking for the same man, Luke Friday. This story becomes one of self-discovery and emotional exploration for each of them. Bee finds an unexpected connection and surprise when she meets her father, while Alex’s plan to revive a cherished memory from his mother’s past brings a sense of comfort and joy.

This heartwarming and emotionally resonant novel weaves a tapestry of love, loss, and unexpected twists. With its warm and tender tone, it captivates the reader from beginning to end.

Many thanks to Boldwood Books and to NetGalley for this ARC for review. This is my honest opinion.
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2,274 reviews48 followers
March 23, 2025
Some stories don’t just unfold—they pull you in completely. This was one of them. I sat down on a Sunday afternoon, thinking I’d read a few chapters, and before I knew it, I had finished the entire book.

Debbie Howells captured something truly powerful here. Dementia isn’t just a backdrop; it’s a storm that arrives suddenly, turning a mother’s life—and her child’s—inside out. When it’s still in its early stages, there’s a cruel awareness to it, a heartbreaking push-and-pull between remembering and forgetting. And just when you think that’s enough to deal with, life throws another curveball—finding out there’s a father you never knew, living in Mallorca. Do you stay and hold onto the past, or do you leap into the unknown?

This book is about loss, but it’s also about discovery. About music, memories, and the unexpected turns that shape who we become. It’s raw, it’s real, and it lingers long after the last page.
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75 reviews
April 23, 2025
Beautifully written story of friendship, love, grief, heartbreak, and self-discovery!

from the first page, you are taken on this emotional but exciting journey with Bee. When life is at his lowest point, she goes on a journey to find her father. Here, a new chapter begins as she starts building a new life for herself.

My favourite quote is;

"The way I see it, some of our paths are intertwined long before we realise they are, only as our lives play out, bring us together with those of us who we are meant to share our journey with."

Loved this adventure. Thank you @@NetGalley_UK and @BoldwoodBooks for this advanced copy.
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388 reviews255 followers
May 27, 2025
This Thing Called Love is a heartwarming, wonderful book by Debbie Howells. On a day when Bee loses her job, her boyfriend, and her room she also bumps into someone who spills coffee all over her. What a day, right? Little did she know that all of these things would lead her on a journey in search of her father and maybe herself. Ever since Bee way born, her mother never told her about her father. Bee doesn't know his name to this day and she's an adult. There's no name on her birth certificate other than her mother's. When Bee has no other choice, she moves back in with her mother until she can find another situation. Her mother is not the warm, fuzzy type. She constantly harps on Bee that she can only stay a short time and that she needs to find a job. She's the only person in Bee's life who calls her by her full name, Bethany. One day when her mother is out, she finds her diaries and goes snooping for information about her father. When Bee finds a name, Luke Friday, she thinks he must be her father. When she asks her mother later, she is furious that Bee read her diaries, and found his name.

Bee looks Luke Friday up online and finds that he was in a band and now lives in Majorca. Bee knows what she has to do and books a flight to Majorca. She writes down Luke's information and proceeds to pack. Bee's mother is angry that she's going to find him, but she's angry about everything. The man who bumped into Bee on her bad day is Alex. He can't stop thinking about the pretty girl he bumped into that spilled coffee on her jacket. He's moved back home to be a caregiver for his mom, Rachel, who has early onset dementia. It's very difficult as she goes in and out of different times and memories. Alex has to help her do everything and keep the door bolted to keep track of her. Rachel used to be the lead singer in a rock band and Alex wants to try to track the band members down. There's research about music helping dementia patients with their memory and Alex is hoping it will help his mother.

It turns out that both Alex and Bee are looking for the same man, Luke Friday. Luke and his 9 year old daughter, Mack, are suffering terribly. Luke's wife and Mack's mom passed away in a tragic accident 2 months ago. Mack is very worried about her Dad because he's so sad and doesn't seem to be doing well. Will Bee find Luke and Mack? How will Luke respond to her being his daughter? Did he know her mother was pregnant? Did he choose to not be a part of her life? Will Mack enjoy having a half-sister? Will Alex find Luke and convince him to get the band back together for his mom? Will Alex and Bee remember each other after a casual bump a few months back? Will the music help Rachel become Roxy again? This is a wonderful book that will make you feel so many emotions. I really enjoyed This Thing Called Love and rate it 4 stars. The book is available now and should be added to your TBR pile! I'd like to thank NetGalley and Boldwood Books for an advanced copy of This Thing Called Love in exchange for a fair review. #ThisThingCalledLove
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103 reviews3 followers
April 26, 2025
They often say bad things come in threes. Bee, a social media expert with a passion for the environment, can attest to that: in one day, her boyfriend breaks up with her, she loses her job and her best friend tells her she can't rent with her anymore (meaning she has to move back in with her mother). It truly says something when the highlight of her day is a guy spilling coffee all over her. In his defense though, he is good-looking and has kind eyes.
We meet the owner of those kind eyes, Alex, in the next chapter, discovering the coffee-spill-meet-cute is a bit of a highlight for him too, as the rest of his day is spent working from home while simultaneously being the full-time caretaker of his Mum, Rachel, who has early-onset dementia.

Both Bee and Alex are on the cusp of something: Bee finally learns the identity of her father (which her Mum kept hidden from her all this time). Alex meanwhile learns his mother used to be the lead singer in a band. Bee decides to go to Mallorca to look for her father; Alex decides to attempt to bring Rachel's band back together, believing in the power of music in helping dementia patients.
And then there is 9 year-old Mack. A smarty pants little girl who sees her dad struggling every day and pleads with the Universe to do something to help. That plea may very well be the catalyst for changes in courses, crossing of paths, colliding with coffee.

This was such a sweet, sensitive story. While This Thing Called Love is a romance story, it ultimately is a story about many different kinds of love, and these love stories all shine. It's about love between Father and Daughter, Husband and Wife, Daughter and Mother. Between sisters. Between old friends (albeit reluctantly at times). Between a Son and his Mother. Even between neighbors. And if not about love specifically, there is a great deal of kindness and empathy here that just warms the heart. We all love a good Found Family story.

But this book is not saccharine sweet, it's not cloying. Plenty of believable dramatic moments happen. Besides Bee's Trifecta of Shit, there is the very strained and frustrating relationship between Bee and her mother, but Howells leaves in mature gray zones there. We of course read about Alex's responsibilites and lack of freedom as a caretaker of an ill parent. Alex: "When you're constantly caring for someone else, you tend not to think about yourself too much." It's on the nose, and something those of us in caretaker roles can relate to all too well. Howells has not written Rachel's dementia as too far advanced, so there is levity and a sense of hope, but we do see it wear on Alex. But he is that devoted to her, and it keeps him going. (Love!) Then we witness a couple of other characters go through intense grief, and it's handled with a "one step at a time" sensitivity.

This Thing Called Love showcases the power of showing up, and holding each other up, and just loving someone the best way you can, working with what you have at the moment.

Some things progress a little conveniently, or too quickly (gahhh I wish we got more on the band! The songs! Reminiscing!). Other things are repetitive. Hence the 4 stars. But it's still a book I highly enjoyed and would recommend.

I appreciated the unique approach to the romance element, letting it build slowly through little connections, almost in the background, trusting in the power of kismet. While I think some readers would like to see more emphasis on the romance, I liked how this novel allowed the other loves to shine as bright as they did. Those other love stories are so strong, they only give more power and a solid foundation to the romance at the ultimate center of it all.

Thank you NetGalley for the eARC.
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18 reviews1 follower
July 10, 2025
This Thing Called Love by Debbie Howells

I was genuinely surprised by how much I enjoyed this book. I went into thinking it would be a love story about Bee and Alex.

It ended up being so much more than that.

Alex is a patient and understanding son who wants to do something memorable for his mother who's just recently been diagnosed with dementia.

After a series of unfortunate events that all happened to her in one day, Bee decides to go on a journey to find her biological father.

On their own, individual paths, Alex amd Bee end up bringing together all these people who once played in a band together, a band that included Alex's mum and Bee's dad.

With the added flair brought by Bee's newly discovered younger sister, Mack, the book was new beginnings, trusting the path life puts you on and to just go with the flow. But also touched on making the most of what's given to you and learning to trust in your capabilities and the people around you. It reminded me to see the good in people.

Thank you Netgalley for allowing me to read it.
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239 reviews70 followers
May 2, 2025
Originally posted on Dreaming With Open Eyes

(4.5 rounded to 5)

Not Just a Romance—A Story of Healing, Hope, and Heart

🥹 Emotional | 💕 Heartfelt | 🇬🇧 Brighton / 🇪🇸 Majorca

I’ll admit—I often approach a book by a new author with cautious curiosity. You never quite know what you’re stepping into. But This Thing Called Love by Debbie Howells completely took me by surprise. What I found was a beautifully written, emotionally rich novel that stayed with me long after I turned the final page. It explores dementia, loss, loneliness, friendship and grief in a way that is heart-warming and filled with hope, and I truly enjoyed it.

Set between the vibrant life of Brighton and the sun-drenched serenity of Majorca, the story unfolds around three strangers: Bee, whose life is falling apart just as she begins a search for the father she never knew; Alex, devoted to his mother whose memory is slipping away, and hoping music might bring her back; and young Mack, a little girl on a quiet island, writing a letter to the Universe asking it to make her grieving father smile again.

Howells has created something truly special—a novel that isn’t a typical romance but rather a story that explores all kinds of love: the love between parents and children, love rooted in friendship, the ache of love lost, and the quiet hope of love yet to be discovered. The characters are multi-layered, flawed and real, and their stories intertwine with a kind of gentle magic that feels both grounded and deeply moving.

What I loved most was the emotional honesty and the sense of quiet bravery—characters taking chances, stepping into the unknown, and learning to trust again. Howells’ writing style is lyrical yet accessible, the kind that wraps around you and makes it easy to lose yourself in the story.

This book is a beautiful reminder that love can take many forms—and sometimes, when you least expect it, the Universe has already begun to bring the right people into your path. Highly recommended for readers who love heartfelt fiction with depth, soul, and just the right touch of serendipity.

I kindly received this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. Thank you so much Boldwood Books.
754 reviews12 followers
May 9, 2025
Originally reviewed for Chick Lit Central (www.chicklitcentral.com)

Debbie Howells does an excellent job of weaving storylines together that intertwine, compliment one another, and at times, parallel one another, all in an effort to eventually get the characters and their storylines to collide. Bee is down on her luck and feels she’s at the lowest point in her life–so much so, she finds herself back at “home” with her emotionally unavailable mother. This one choice propels her onto a path she never saw coming, with a small brief moment with a stranger somewhat fueling her on, not knowing just how serendipitous things will get for her.

The same can be said for Alex. While his mom isn’t emotionally unavailable, she is withdrawn and different, and he finds himself making all of the decisions for her, often putting his own needs aside. A chance encounter in a hospital leads him to discover more about his mom’s past–and for both Alex and Bee, all roads eventually lead to Luke. Luke is the central character that ties everyone together, mostly enlightening Alex on the stranger he remembers running into not so long ago, a time where he felt like maybe he could do something outside of his comfort zone, despite not really having the opportunity to do so.

What follows is a path to finding a way for everyone featured in This Thing Called Love to heal, all in different ways and what works best for them and their individualized characterizations. Bee is trying to figure out what family really means, and Alex needs to spread his wings more and know that in the end, everything will be OK. Luke could arguably be dealing with the most profound moments of healing out of everyone, and given everything he’s been through, it makes sense. Watching everyone grow and adapt was beautiful to see.

I wanted to discover where the storylines would end up, how the characters would deal with the collision, and the fallout (or wins) that would follow suit. The story was beautifully told and had a mix of everything I appreciate in a well-written romance/friendship novel–love; loss; heartbreak; perseverance; revelation. It was a definite five-star read!
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672 reviews11 followers
May 8, 2025
I discovered Debbie Howells, as an author, through her psychological thriller ‘The Bones of You’ back in 2017, and I have been a firm fan ever since. With the change in genre I read my first women’s fiction and was hooked.

The latest in these books ‘This Thing Called Love’ is both uplifting and enveloping, though don’t be fooled, Debbie doesn’t shy away from challenges and there are many serious issues dealt accurately and with sensitivity throughout, like dementia. Having watched my own dad as he fought his battle with Alzheimer’s, I can attest to the way dementia affects Rachel’s (aka Roxy) behaviour. Her son, Alex, such a strongly developed character, was a joy to follow as he looks for ways to help his mum.

The other main character, Bee, grows throughout the book and the reader observes her facing her struggles and gradually revealing her past, helping her learn about herself and what she is seeking.

Set across two contrasting locations, Majorca and the UK (largely Brighton but also an arboretum), I found myself ‘seeing’ the raw, natural beauty of the island of Majorca and learning more about the importance of trees and their calming powers. Environmental issues were gently included, cleverly raising my understanding of the importance to our planet.

There are no spoilers here, so no further comments on the plot, this is an excellent read. I highlighted several meaningful passages to refer back to. One particular one, coming from a child, facing her own hardships, was that ‘sometimes we are given what we need rather than what we want’. The intricacies of the plot development were lovely, some predictable but always enjoyable.

I was left reflecting on so much, the beauty within, the paths of people crossing, how dementia changes people’s realities, the power of music for dementia sufferers and the importance of friendship.
1,006 reviews18 followers
April 6, 2025
I love everything about “This Thing Called Love.” The characters and the storyline filled me with joy, made me laugh and allowed me to escape to exotic locales I had only dreamed about. Our group of friends, both old and new, were surrounded by beautiful music, the magic of romance, family togetherness and the wonders of faith. Dee was at a crossroads in her life and set off to Majorca to seek out her father, praying with all of her heart that he would be happy to see her. Alex returned home to care for his mom who has early onset dementia. His days are filled with working from home and worrying about his mom, with little time for anything else. When the opportunity arose for him to also travel to Majorca, he jumped at the chance to take a little time for himself.

Back in the day, Alex’s mom was in a rock band and they had quite the following. Alex hoped that by bringing music back into her life that perhaps she would feel better about everything else that was going on. As luck would have it, they ran into Kevin, who was the drummer and Leo, who was one of the roadies. From this miraculous event came the reunion of the band, plans for a one night performance, and new beginnings for everyone. Even though I worried about Alex’s mom throughout the book, it was important to become educated about early onset dementia, and to understand that someone’s life is not over when they are diagnosed. When his mom got on stage and the lights dimmed, she sang like an angel and mesmerized the audience. Love conquered all that night and everyone’s lives were brighter because of the faith they had in each other.
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1,405 reviews12 followers
July 22, 2025
In this charming new story about wishes and family, readers follow Alex, Bee, and Luke as they are brought together under unlikely circumstances. Bee has just discovered a shocking secret, while Alex is trying to help his mother remember her past, and both of their stories are connected to Luke, whose daughter wants him to be happy again. With fate perhaps working in their favor, Bee, Alex, and Luke all collide at the same time in the same place that might just bring them all to the happy ending they wanted. The alternating perspectives really bring the characters to life, and readers will particularly enjoy the characters’ different relationships with each other and with minor characters from the book. Their personalities and backstories are complex and developed, and the characters are definitely the stars of this book for a variety of reasons. The setting and plot are excellent backdrops to their growing relationships, and the connecting threads add a fantastic layer to the story. With such well-written and detailed characters, emotional relationships, and vibrant settings, readers will love this beautiful, happy, and atmospheric new novel from Debbie Howells, especially if they want something heartwarming, emotional (and emotionally rewarding), and vibrant.

Thanks to NetGalley and Boldwood Books for the advance copy.
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5,094 reviews59 followers
April 4, 2025


Bee, quien acaba de perder su trabajo, su casa y a su novio el mismo día, decide embarcarse en un viaje a Mallorca para buscar a su padre biológico, un músico llamado Luke Friday. Mientras tanto, Alex, quien cuida de su madre con demencia, también se ve arrastrado por el destino hacia Luke, pues cree que él puede ser la clave para recuperar algunos de los recuerdos de su madre.

A lo largo de la novela, Bee y Alex se embarcan en una aventura que no solo les lleva a descubrir más sobre sus propios pasados, sino también a encontrar nuevas conexiones, sanar viejas heridas y, de manera inesperada, experimentar el amor. Lo más conmovedor de este libro es cómo muestra que, aunque la vida nos ponga a prueba con situaciones difíciles, siempre hay espacio para la esperanza, la amistad y el amor.


Cuando leí la sinopsis, imaginé que la historia seguiría un camino predecible, pero me llevé una grata sorpresa cuando paso lo inesperado. Más que un romance, que existe en diversas formas a lo largo del libro, el verdadero enfoque de la novela es el viaje hacia el autodescubrimiento, la búsqueda de una familia y la amistad.


Mi personaje favorito fue Mac.



Thanks to NetGalley, the publisher and the author for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.
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477 reviews11 followers
May 6, 2025
This Thing Called Love by Debbie Howells
Far away, on a beautiful Mediterranean island, a little girl writes a letter to the Universe with one wish – for something to change so that her father, Luke, can be happy again.
Little does she know two strangers are already searching for Luke. Bee has just found out a deep secret about her past. Alex, who dreams of his mother finding some of her memories again, believes Luke might be the key.
As Bee's and Alex's lives are drawn together – in entirely unexpected ways – will they only find what they're looking for? Or could the Universe also have a love story planned for two people who might be soulmates if only their paths could cross…
Whether it's uplifting novels like The Last Days of You and Me and The Girl I Used to Be or psychological thrillers such as The Vow and Her Sisters Lie, Debbie certainly knows how to thrill her audience. Her stories lure you in from the very first page and hold onto your attention until the last word is read.
This book is no exception; it has strong characters, a strong plot, and exceptional writing.
I want to thank publishers Boldwood Books, author Debbie Howells and Rachel's Random Resources for providing a copy to read and review.
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May 8, 2025
Debbie Howells' This Thing Called Love marks my first encounter with this charming author.

As we follow Bee, also known as Bethany, we embark on a journey of self-discovery. She faces the loss of her beloved job, her adored boyfriend, and the home she shared with her friend as she seeks to find her long-lost father, Luke Friday. Meanwhile, Alex has returned home to care for his mother, who is becoming increasingly dependent on him due to her fading memory. He believes that reintroducing someone into her life may help her recall the past. That person is Luke Friday, but Alex is not familiar with him. The plot thickens with the inclusion of a little girl trying to support her daddy in his grief, and that daddy happens to be Luke Friday! Talk about coincidences!!

I found it challenging to immerse myself in the story and maintain a connection. I set it aside and returned to it multiple times over the course of three or four days. However, this may have been influenced by my recent week in the hospital battling pneumonia, rather than any shortcomings in the narrative. I discovered the story to be deeply emotional and relatable for many, and I believe you will find it resonates with you as well.
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2,031 reviews63 followers
May 10, 2025
This Thing Called Love by Debbie Howells

I received an advance review copy for free thanks to Rachel's Random Resources and I am leaving this review voluntarily.

Blurb

Two people’s lives are about to collide… but will they find love?

Far away, on a beautiful Mediterranean island, a little girl writes a letter to the Universe, with one wish – for something to change so that her father, Luke, can be happy again.

Little does she know, there are two strangers in search of Luke already. Bee, who has just found out a deep secret about her past. And Alex, who dreams of his mother finding some of her memories again, and who believes Luke might be the key.

As Bee’s and Alex’s lives are drawn together – in entirely unexpected ways – will they only find what they’re looking for? Or could the Universe also have a love story planned for two people who might just be soulmates, if only their paths could cross…

My Opinion

This Thing Called Love was a relatively quick book to read with some delightful characters. From the opening pages the reader is taken on an emotional journey as Bee discovers more about herself and Alex takes on the role of being a carer for his mother. A sweet read.

Rating 4/5
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April 1, 2025

Bea worked in an arboretum, something she loved until she lost her job and her boyfriend on the same day. Then her flatmate wants her out in order to move her boyfriend in. She moves into her mothers but knows this is only temporary as Mother isn't something that has been done. She at long last finds out the name of her father and decides to go in search of him.

Alex looks after his mother who is sadly suffering with dementia. One day he takes a break and bumps into a lovely looking woman, spilling her coffee in the process. She doesn't want to stop, however she isn't someone he can forget easily. His mother is getting worse and he thinks maybe the man she played music with may be the key to getting his mother her memories back.

A book of hope and more. We all go through changes one way or another, sometimes of the toughest type and this shows that taking that small step can make things so, so different if we try. Its drama, its friendships and a little romance all rolled in together. A wonderful read I most thoroughly enjoyed.

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595 reviews9 followers
April 27, 2025
What an emotional read that looks at human nature from so many different perspectives. Topics including dementia , grief, loneliness and friendship are so sensitively explored in this beautifully written book. When Bee loses her job, her boyfriend and home she has absolutely no idea what to do. Forced to move back home to her mum’s, who she doesn’t have a great relationship with, and never knowing who her father is she decides to find out. Little does she know that in Mallorca a little girl, Mack, is writing to the universe asking for her grief stricken dad Luke to be happy again. There’s also a young man called Alex who cares for his mum who has dementia. He is trying to get the band she used to play in back together to try and help her as he knows that music can be a great help for those with dementia. They are all linked and as the story weaves its way through their lives, reconnecting them, Bee goes through her own journey of self discovery, believing in the process and following her instincts. Wonderful characters with some absolutely heartbreaking, and heartwarming , moments this is a must read
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2,558 reviews60 followers
June 29, 2025
I’m either starting to get very bad at gauging the tone of books based on blurb and cover, or narratives are getting complex in all they are trying to achieve.

This story covers emotional connections between parent and child ( both the good and the bad), friendships old and new and even environmental sentiments. I don’t mean to make it sound like there are too many things happening since they all worked well in tandem.

Our lead pair cross paths in the beginning and in true movie fashion only the readers know that their paths are running in sync until almost the end. The number of times they almost met again was almost annoying. The caring for the environment seems to be an almost after thought since it is only a small angle to what the protagonists consider important in their lives for immediate access.

It was an unexpected book but I think I will need to read more books by the author before I decide whether the writing style works for me or not.

I received an ARC thanks to Netgalley and the publishers but the review is entirely based on my own reading experience.
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193 reviews11 followers
May 3, 2025
"Life goes on, I remind myself. Just not always the way you'd imagined it would."

What an interesting ride! Typically in books, unfortunate events happen slowly to the main characters over time - but this was not the case for Bee, our FMC. She has one VERY bad day, but then embarks on a journey of self-discovery, found family, and feels the impact of just showing up.

"I'm a firm believer that there are times in our lives where we have to stop procrastinating and just do things. After all, we are put on this earth not to fester quietly, but to live."

Bee leaves everything she's ever known to find her recently revealed father in another country. Meanwhile, a stranger she once had a chance run-in with (literally) is also looking for him in an attempt to aid his mother with dementia. You'll have to read this one to see if their paths collide in their searches.

Thank you to NetGalley and Boldwood Books for an e-arc of this book!
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264 reviews3 followers
May 4, 2025
Thank you NetGalley for this Arc!

I think the description and title was a bit misleading on this one. Luke was not a big part of the story as I expected him to be and the romance was an even smaller part of the story. I enjoyed the way the everyone in the story wanted to help and look out for each other. I enjoyed Mabel’s character. I liked the lesson of taking time for yourself and your happiness. But I did not like Bee, I would often roll my eyes at her and when she dropped her bomb of who she lost I couldn’t garner no sympathy for her. I did not like how her mother’s character was thrown in just for a villain when it seems clear her mother was also dealing with a lot. I didn’t understand how Alex could be so patient with his mother but annoyed with Kevin when they both were suffering and acted the same way, angry and said no filter on what they say.

It was a nice story overall. I liked the ending.
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151 reviews1 follower
May 5, 2025
This book by Debbie Howells is a beautifully written masterpiece about friendship, heartbreak, and family, delicately blended with a touch of romance. It follows the lives of two strangers—Bee, who is searching for the father she never knew, and Alex, who is caring for his mother with dementia—whose paths cross in unexpected ways.

The characters are skillfully developed to highlight the story’s central themes of love, loss, and the healing power of connection. Set against a backdrop of music, memory, and second chances, the author crafts a steady, emotionally rich plot that holds the reader’s interest throughout.

This novel is perfect for readers who enjoy heartfelt contemporary fiction with emotional depth, nuanced characters, and a quiet, hopeful charm.

Thank you to the author Debbie Howells, the publisher, and NetGalley for the opportunity to read and review this heartfelt novel.
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2,811 reviews117 followers
May 11, 2025
Oh wow, this was an emotional read, they don’t lie when they say heartbreaking, but luckily they also aren’t lying that it is an ultimately uplifting read. You will be left with a feeling of hope and optimism even with some tough issues and your heart going through the wringer, but I shouldn’t be surprised as Debbie Howells has a way of always doing this to me.

As ever her characters are wonderful , so realistic, thoroughly human and relatable; You will love the journey Bee and Alex take you on, yes it’s emotional, but it’s also so very interesting and uplifting. I adored how much Alex cared for his his mum, such sensitivity, but sensitivity is a key theme and this book is written with so much sensitivity when it deals with grief and loss.

This Thing Called Love is an ultimately heartwarming novel full of a a warm and loving tone, it will captivate you from the start, it did for me.

I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
1,846 reviews4 followers
May 6, 2025
The book’s premise is an interesting one and while it is not the typical romance books which I love, I enjoyed reading this a lot. Mack’s letters are so full of hope and so innocently sweet and I enjoyed seeing her grow closer and closer to Bee as they spent more time together.

The book also focuses on caregiving and its difficulties. Both Bee and Alex perform some form of caregiving for their loved ones and it highlights how tiring it can be—both mentally and physically—to care for another.

Most of the book is based in Majorca and the place sounds absolutely amazing. I would totally love to visit someday and soak in the nature and peace. The romance in this book is quite underwhelming though and honestly this was more of a journey for Bee to discover herself, rather than a love story. So do read this with the right expectations.
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608 reviews668 followers
May 7, 2025
This is a warm, emotionally resonant novel that explores all the different ways love shows up in our lives—from romance and caregiving to friendship and forgiveness. Bee and Alex’s slow-building connection is sweet and subtle, but it’s the relationships with family, friends, and community that truly shine.

This story balances humor and heartbreak beautifully, with standout moments of levity even amidst serious themes like dementia and grief. I adored little Mack, loved the found-family dynamic, and appreciated how the romance was allowed to breathe in the background while other emotional arcs were given space to flourish. Honest, hopeful, and deeply human—this one left a mark on my heart.

Thank you Boldwood Books, NetGalley, Rachel's Random Resources, and the author for providing me with an ARC of this book. all opinions are my own.
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154 reviews2 followers
April 30, 2025
3.5 rounded down

This book was a heartfelt and hopeful story about resilience, connection, and the many forms love can take. Despite a few pacing issues, it’s an emotionally rich read with relatable characters and moments that will stay with you.

It’s a “found family” trope tale full of warmth, empathy, and heart. But it’s not overly sweet or unrealistic—serious challenges are thoughtfully portrayed, such as Bee’s rocky relationship with her mother and Alex’s quiet sacrifice as a caregiver. The book handles these moments with emotional maturity and hope.

My favourite part was the Dear Universe letters and in the final quarter, where all the paths interwined.

Thank you NetGalley and Boldwood Books for the ARC.
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88 reviews7 followers
April 28, 2025
One of the reviews I read for this book said it was perfect for fans of Lucy Diamond and Jill Mansell, who are two of my favourite authors. So I had high hopes, and they did not disappoint, despite a blurb that didn’t come close to describing what the book is actually about.

I loved how this book started, with a letter to the Universe from 9yo Mackenzie, and how the theme of trusting the Universe recurred throughout. This book explores dementia, loss and grief in a way that is heart-warming and filled with hope, and I really enjoyed it.

Thank you to NetGalley and Boldwood Books for sending me an advance copy.

3.5 stars rounded up to 4 stars
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3,667 reviews12 followers
May 7, 2025
It's been an age since I last read one of Howell's books and then I remembered why I liked them so much. Her stories are beautifully written with warmth and come from the heart.

This Thing Called Love is a story of love and the wonderful ways in which it works. It's a story of friendships, family and self discovery.

I found all of the characters to be likeable and they were so easy to take to heart. It's light on the romance front and made way for many issues facing people today such as loneliness, dementia, and grief.

It was a thoroughly enjoyable book and took me on quite the emotionally charged journey
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3,883 reviews136 followers
May 11, 2025
What a lovely read this proved to be,
Despite grief, loss and dementia you’ll see.
A story of memories, family and fresh starts, too,
Along with romances that are new.

One young daughter wants her Dad not to be sad,
Another just hopes to connect with her Dad.
A son hopes to connect his Mum with her life and friends
Read it for yourself to see how it ends!

There’s mystery and personal history to explore
Journeys, relationships and so much more.
It truly is an uplifting read
One that I hope you’ll need.

For my copy of this book I say a huge thank you to
As I share with you this, my honest review.
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