A heart-stirring journey of when strangers become family...
"The Day I Found You" is a moving autobiographical story that expertly knits together the parallel journeys of two broken souls: a successful Israeli psychologist wishing for parenthood and a damaged Ukrainian youngster searching for belonging. Friedman's clinical competence is evident in her nuanced depiction of adoption, trauma, and the difficult mechanics of establishing trust between strangers who badly want to be family.
Set in modern Israel, the story avoids traditional adoption narrative tropes, instead providing genuine, honest glimpses into the difficulties of forming familial bonds across cultural and emotional divides. The author's direct experience adds credibility to both perspectives: Ariella's professional ability colliding with her maternal fears, and Angie's survival instincts vying with her need for connection. While some readers may find the pacing deliberate, this technique accurately depicts the slow, often painful process of emotional recovery and family development.
This extremely poignant depiction of an unusual mother-daughter connection reminds us that family bonds can be formed by choice, strength, and unwavering love, even in the face of prior pain. Highly recommended. I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book.