"This is a heart-breaking story, beautifully told. I hope it finds a million readers". - Andrew O'HaganJohn MacDonald must find his mother. Born into the slums of Glasgow in the late '70s, a 4-year-old John's life is filled with the debris of alcoholism and poverty. Soon after witnessing a drowning, his mother's addictions take over their lives, leaving him starving in their flat, awaiting her return.A concerned neighbor reports her, and he is forcibly taken away from his mother and placed into the care system. There, he dreams of being reunited with her. His mind is consumed with images and memories he can't process or understand, which his eventual adoptive parents silence out of fear as he grows into a young man within a strict Catholic and Romany Gypsy community.This memoir is about how John found his way to his true identity, Juano Diaz, and how, against all odds, his unstoppable love for his mother sets him free.
Juano lives in Wiltshire with his partner David and their son. He is an internationally acclaimed artist and collaborates with many others including Pierre et Giles and Grace Jones. His work has been exhibited in galleries across the world including at the Museum of Modern Art in New York. Slum Boy A Portrait is his debut memoir.
This book mirrored my own childhood in Glasgow, from birth parents - care - adoption, but thankfully minus the abuse. I therefore immediately connected with Juano’s story in an uncanny way. It felt as if I have been waiting for someone to explain it all, to my satisfaction at any rate. What better reason then to review and highlight its importance to a wider readership?
Juano’s insights are linked throughout his book leading to his final spiritual reunion with his Mother. The following are key extracts to illustrate of how he went about it.
I) His experience of need when in the children’s home “Even though I am being fed at the children’s home; the need to get more sits in the cave of me”(page 56);
ii) Adoption with the MacDonald’s. Being separated from his Granny MacDonald whom he loves: “You spend all your time over there and none with your family (Juano’s adoptive mother). So I hide away, locked in my new bedroom (page 123);
iii) Meeting Hannah his half-sister who describes his earlier life. “ I can feel my bloodline mystery unravelling with every question she answers” ( page 178);
iv) On hearing his Birth Mother is in a coma : “ I know my search is over. I have found my mother, not in life , but in death”(page 219).
In sum, Juano has described how he became a person with a true identity. I point the reader to other reviews which elaborate on this in more detail.
John is just four when he enters the Scottish care system as a result of neglect from his alcoholic mother. His life changes forever, uprooted from the only world he knows and placed in a children’s home where he waits patiently for his mother’s visits. And is often disappointed.
From there he gets adopted and begins a whole new life with a new family within the Romany Gypsy community. But trouble and tragedy are never far away and thoughts if his biological family often linger.
Yes this is certainly a moving story, one that will certainly tug at your heartstrings - but it’s also one of success. Slum Boy is about one lost little boy who eventually grew up to be a successful young man, leaving his past behind as best he could. Understandably, there’s a hell of a lot of pain and angst along the way, as John tries to work out who is he is and what he wants, whilst still hanging onto the ties that bind him to his biological family - and his adoptive family.
It’s an incredibly evocative memoir, the sense of poverty and despair is huge and at times difficult to read. But despite that I found it hugely compelling and inspiring to hear the author’s recollections and step into his world. SlumBoy is a book that will definitely stay with you.
edit: just as a heads up, you can appreciate and have sympathy for someone's trauma and life story and still not gel with the writing! that's all this is!
This one is for my good friend Howard since I know he’s watching.
I don’t typically enjoy books written from a child’s perspective but this one pleasantly surprised me. The author’s struggle to maintain a healthy relationship with his birth mother particularly resonated with me.
John is four-year-old and is living with his mother, he never knew his father a South African. John's mother goes out one day and doesn't come back, a neighbour makes a call which ends in John being adopted by a Traveller Catholic and Romany family, where he's taken from Glasgow to the countryside. At school John doesn't like all his lessons, so skips them, but Norma a teacher sees something in him. It's not long before John is working with his adopted father in the scrap yard. It's not long before John's only escape is Glasgow School of Art and the gay bars in the city. But what has the future got instore for John? I don't like saying to much and given anything away. This book is full with emotions, some are really heartbreaking. There is everything in this book, alcoholism, poverty, homeless, trauma, neglect and more. I read this book in one sitting as it gripped me from the start. Highly recommend.
Grabbed this on a whim when I saw it was set in Glasgow. Totally not what I normally read and even after reading the blurb not what I expected. Randomly before I started reading it I read a post online asking “what book have you read that made you cry”. I laughed and thought I don’t remember a book ever making me cry. I cried, more than once. My family returned home for the day & I told them I’d spent the afternoon reading this book. I cried again and then once more. Maybe it was because some of it resonated with me but I have decided because of this it definitely deserves 5 stars.
It’s hard to review a book that is so personal, and candid and often very very sad. You feel like you are peeping through a keyhole observing this painfully honest story and think at times you should be looking away. But as the sad bits quieten, incredible things do occur and you learn so much about the people and organisations that are there to help those in need. Juano , with the help of others at times, but mostly by his own resilience and curiosity and talent in art, pushes himself through such excruciatingly sad experiences and you fall in love with him at 4 and then all over again as he comes of age. I am fully aware of the extremities of post industrialisation poverty that ravaged too many areas of Scotland- my family are from the tenements of west end Glasgow - so reading this felt even more close to home- knowing the absolute hardship of so many are only a few miles away. I woke up this morning thinking about how so many children in the UK are still so neglected , suffering in squalor and poverty and this book really does a great job at describing every single aspect of struggle.
Yes, there’s a happy ending , but that is rare. A story full of strength , amazing characters who are all real, and such a sense of sibling love, and great friendships from all ages; old people really can be such a wise and hopeful beacon of experience and strength. And lastly, that art and escaping into something you love - can ultimately be the saviour of you.
I don’t like to give non fiction ratings but this is one of my favourite books of 2024!!!
You know when you start a book and instantly know this book is for you. When the first few lines are hard hitting and you feel immersed immediately… Slum Boy was that book for me. If you’ve been here a while, you’ll know I don’t like to give star ratings for non-fiction but believe me when I say I thought this was an incredible memoir.
Slum Boy is a heartbreaking story of a little boy taken into the Scottish care system when his Mum is no longer capable of taking care of him. We follow his life, through the ups and downs as he makes his way back to his Mum and his true identity.
As the quote on the front of the book says, if you liked Shuggie Bain you will most definitely “enjoy” this book. The scene is easily set within the council estates of Glasgow and the poverty within the city, with themes of drugs, drink, abuse and crime. I’d say my heart broke within the first few sentences of this book, but the writing is also so beautiful. Slum Boy is tender, raw and Juano has completely opened himself up to the reader. One thing that’s amazing about humans is their ability to persevere. I really loved the use of the Glaswegian dialect, it always adds an extra layer to the story and was a lightness in some darker places.
An interesting looking into the Scottish care system for children and the sad reality of growing up in the central belt of scotland where drink and drugs can destroy full families.
A sense of loss and question which can only be understood by a child abandoned by either a single parent or both wanting to know why.
Devastating, heartbreaking - a tough read but incredibly well written. One of the best memoirs I’ve read, offering a vivid and impressively coherent snapshot of Diaz’s childhood, adolescence and young adult life.
I really did feel for the author and how much trauma he faced, however the second half of the book fell away for me which stopped it from getting a higher rating
I couldn’t put this book down. This memoir is heartbreaking. Diaz gives reader an honest account of experience of the care system in Glasgow during the 80s. Diaz is able to give real insight into the complexity of his relationship with his birth mother, adoptive parents and siblings. I can’t recommend this book enough.
A beautiful & brutal book full of life’s memories, events, relationships, drama, grief & moving forward, it’s a portrait of the life of Juano Diaz, poignantly written with waves of emotion which you’ll ride from start to finish, leaving you wanting more, highly recommended!
3.5/4 This was a heartbreaking read. I’m always conscious about reviewing memoirs as it’s hard to critique a plot that’s based on someone’s life! I met Diaz at the Paisley Book fest and got a signed copy of his book after hearing him discuss it.
The good points: beautifully honest storytelling, Diaz compellingly wrote about the complexity of loving family members that can’t love you in the way you need. I also think he did a good job of writing people empathetically, taking time to explain that many of these people were deeply flawed but not evil (with a couple of notable and correct exemptions).
My one critique is that I’m not sure what the overall message or point was. The story was seemingly about Diaz finding his mother but the plot felt convoluted with other narratives about sexuality, homelessness, and the struggle of identity as someone with experience of care and adoption. I think the latter was actually the more compelling theme but it felt watered down with the authors clear intent to talk about his birth mother. I also feel there was more to be clarified and explored with his relationship with his adoptive mother - was I supposed to like her? Hate her? Love her? It was quite confusing. All this being said, this is why I struggle to review memoirs - life is messy and naturally memoirs are too.
Overall though, lovely wee book. Will look out for the next instalment!
Wow! What an inspirational story about coming up from hardship and thriving. Diaz’s work was so easy to read, the moment I picked this up I was pulled in.
If you want an inspirational memoir, this one is for you.
Thank you, Mobius Books & Net Galley for a copy of this book!
I really enjoyed the way the author wrote the story in terms of language, the way it progressed representing the child aging. I am personally not much of a non fiction reader however I was hooked, concerned and finished In 3 days.
Slum Boy by Juano Diaz is a memoir but written in the style of a novel. It's bursting full of emotion, it's heart-breaking and absolutely beautifully written.
Born into extreme poverty in 1970's Glasgow with alcoholism and addictions rife in the family, John is eventually taken into care. He is later adopted and there begins John's journey to becoming his true, authentic self, Juano Diaz.
It's a story packed full of powerful feeling, it's harrowing and quite a difficult read at times and will certainly have you crying. That someone can survive such awful abuse and loss and still come out the other side, like a phoenix rising from the flames, is astounding.
It's a sobering story, it's riveting and genuine and I read this book in just one day. It's quite rare for me to read a full book in just one day, which is a testament to the book's quality.
Thank you for sharing your story with us Juano, it will stay with me for quite some time to come.