I had this on my wish list for a bit and was pleasantly surprised when it came up on the kindle monthly deals this month (You can still grab it now at 99p on Amazon until 31st)
I’ll admit that one I was a big MIC fan back in the day and two that I don’t really drink, except for the odd Mojito so I was merely here for the gossip and the back story and what led to this book, rather than the true self-help aspect.
She’s brutally honest and says that “This is not a sob story, it’s a sobriety story”, there’s no woe for me or pity me narrative, and you can you be rest assured when you see the cost and expense of some of her solutions and practices and how the turning point for her was in the middle of the Med on a private yacht after an alcohol induced panic attack.
Although we can’t all relate to this incredible backstory, we can relate to aspects of it. Millie was self-medicating alcohol and prescription Xanax in a dangerous cocktail to suppress and numb her trauma and anxiety. She was on the breach of losing it all. Her husband Hugo had confided in her that if she didn’t sort it out soon. It would be the end of them. With one divorce already in her past, she was conscious she wasn’t heading towards her second and made some real life changes. She met with her sober coach, changed her priorities, shifted her focus and went to therapy to deal with her repressed trauma and resulting anxiety head on.
Life changed for Millie, she had more time and patience for her two daughters. She was more present, more focused, but she hated socialising, Weddings were now a mystery without alcohol, she lost friends, now that she was no longer the party girl, but she gained perspective, new hobbies and a more understanding circle.
This book isn’t anti-alcohol, but rather it’s an amuse bouche for the sober curious. It’s a step into what life could be like, if you so choose it. She admits she struggled that first year and she held on to that emergency Xanax in her purse. Going cold turkey is never easy, it’s that honesty and clinical reassurance from Co-author Dr. Ellie Cannon that makes the book.
Definitely recommend and surely worth the 99p