EMILY KENDAL FREY is the author of THE GRIEF PERFORMANCE as well as several chapbooks and chapbook collaborations, including Airport (Blue Hour 2009), Frances (Poor Claudia 2010), The New Planet (Mindmade Books 2010), and Baguette (Cash Machine 2013). A second collection, SORROW ARROW, was published by Octopus Books in 2014. She lives in Portland, Oregon, where she hosts The New Privacy.
The magic of an EKF poem is that it feels both improvisational and intensely focused. Sorrow Arrow is a collection so stabby and jabby and oozy and woozy, it deserves a status higher than poetry. It's a real person in a real body in a real life and one that will feel connected to you if you keep your heart open. Also, it's funny and daringly sexy at times. It's a weird gift, tied in an elaborate and fucked up bow.
Emily writes some beautiful lines. She uses these really fantastic images and words that remind me of a lot of my other favorite contemporary poets, but there's also a really deeply personal quality that makes it feel like you're doing some real emotional math here with her. Like the two of you together are sitting down and really hashing out deep questions about how we're supposed to make sense of living and interacting with each other. I love this book, Emily. Thank you.
Really sad, really inventive, really fucking good. I am a really dumb poetry reader, but the vibe I got changed a lot as I moved through the book. In earlier poems I felt an acerbic playfulness, but towards the end I just wanted to stay in my apartment and feel bad about everything, but in the best way possible, because a piece of art had just presented a beautiful, controlled, haunting way of looking at the world, and I was like, fuck, with the possible exception of nacho preparation, l'll never be this good at anything.
Something about Emily's poetry (some of the first I encountered in this single-line stanza format that is everywhere these days) seems pivotal. Sentimentality, bawdiness, brutality, grotesquery, tenderness — and, yup, sorrow — pierce these odd assemblages repeatedly, poking holes of light through which we glimpse a number of relationships and one singular mind.
A delightful collection of poetry, stream of consciousness writing, using familiar words combined in creative and unusual combinations, observations of life and the world around us. Often ironic, sometimes funny, sad, erotic, a swirl of the emotions of life, fun to read and reread.
A series of lines that are, on the surface, non-sequiturs but allow the book to be read both forwards & backwards. I, personally, prefer the backwards reading. There are some absolutely stunning lines in here.
What works in these poems is a blend of surprising turns from line to line, including humor, crassness, imagery at once urban and pastoral, a sense of the speaker divulging a secret, something private, and an intellectual power that pulls it together. So many of these in a book (the whole in the same form), I inevitably picked and waited for favorites, but pretty much every single one hits the mark at some point if not throughout.
"You are unmoored There's a word for it In some countries they are napping Waves hitting the shore How did we get so naked Out back there are rats in the compost Egg shells and oranges The neighborhood babies We want not to suffer We suffer from this want Hour by hour Piss and toilet paper The mighty will not be felled by syllables Sometimes I miss not one thing The back of my throat a perfect road With a new haircut Your identity crisis got on the bus I saw a barn in the distance I had no intention I wanted it to be our barn I'm no more angelic than an albino pigeon Made of French Fries Made of park sex"
Skinned down to the bone, each line absent of excess meat, these poems hit me like the bullet I actually try to nail myself with. They are heartbreaking, emotional without the sap, and bizzarely sexy, all while consistently showcasing original, whimsical talent. Frey certainly knows how to make me want to tear and chuckle in a single cropped line. She makes this art look so damn effortless. Keep your mind open as you read these. She won't give it all away at once. Oh, and she's a Portland poet. Hell yeah.
Have you ever been so drunk or high you looked around the room pointing at things and naming them aloud in sequence? Tall box. Ripe banana. Coffee table. And then you throw in some nonsense for the hell of it. Green dog. Sorrow arrow. Wooden blanket. And then you get to the end of a page, think you have a poem, and move on to the next beer or the next joint and the next room.