Some books hit you with their stillness; reading them feels like a snowfall, initially beautiful and silent but gradually relentless and impossible to ignore. “The Land in Winter” by Andrew Miller belongs to that category of books. Set in the Big Freeze of 1962-63 in the UK, with the effect of WWII still lingering, it follows the intertwined lives of 2 couples in a rural area. Eric, the local doctor, who lives with his wife Irene in a strained marriage dulled by emotional distance and guilty secrets, and Bill, who recently left his academic background in order to work as a farmer and is married to Rita who is mentally ill. Both women are pregnant and they form a special bond even though they seem to be utterly different. Winter becomes a presence that plays its own role, pressing on the characters, magnifying their loneliness and forcing moments of reckoning. Miller’s writing is phenomenal. It is intimate, tender and unsettling. The descriptions are vivid without making the mistake of using flowery language or literary cliches. The characters are sharply defined, memorable and real; you feel empathy and want to comfort them. What this books gives you is atmosphere; you can literally feel the cold, the mental frustration, the suffocating loneliness. It makes you travel and feel you are a part of this world, making reading a meditative experience.
This is a book about the weather and unrelenting cold as a metaphor. Emotional isolation and loneliness. Disappointment and discontent. How people can live closely together, yet remain profoundly separate. A story about human relationships shaped by social expectations, convention and personal compromises. Marriage as both shelter and trap. About insincere couples that behave like strangers. Adultery, deceit and betrayal. Desire and longing. About complicated families and past scars. It is also a book about mental health issues and schizophrenia. Asylums, hearing voices and suicidal ideation. About pregnancy and motherhood. Maternal responsibility and duty. Women’s friendships in the context of class and socioeconomic status. Mostly though, this is a story about people that are frozen, stalled and resistant to change; people that need warmth instead. Quiet lives and the acceptance of living unhappily. About what true happiness is.
This is a 4-4.5/5 for me!
Why should you read “The Land in Winter”?
Because you will think how weather conditions, upon which you have no power, can set the mood and affect your life.
Because you will experience the ups and downs permanent relationships have.
Because you will accept that feeling betrayed can change you deeply, to your core.
Because you will realize how difficult it is to live a life that makes you feel sorry for yourself.
Because you will reflect on desire and whether it has the power to melt a frozen heart.
Because you will acknowledge the difficulties of living with a mental illness especially in the context of pregnancy and motherhood.
Favorite quotes:
“It is a powerful thing to please your father. It is a powerful thing to disappoint him, even his ghost”.
“He went to the kitchen and turned on the lights. That first instant when you see but don’t comprehend; the instant that follows when you understand everything with an exactness you will never be able to repeat, because you will never quite have the courage or the honesty”.
“Why do we imagine the past as more innocent? Because it came before Belsen? But it didn’t come before hunger or slavery. We confuse it with our own childhoods, perhaps, though even they, growing restless under glass, are not what they once were”.