A wonderful, thoughtful, intimate glimpse into Taiwan, history, cross-cultural identity, and family. Even though I know brenda and live in Taiwan, I still learned a lot about both! Definitely worth the read for anyone who wants to think about relationships, national identity, or ideas about home, or for anyone who wants an introduction to Taiwan through the eyes of multiple generations of residents--I particularly enjoyed how brenda interwove her family history, especially her grandparents' experiences from a very different Taiwan of the middle of the 20th century.