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Is She Really Going Out with Him?
A hilarious love story about a disillusioned divorcée who agrees to let her children play matchmaker.
Columnist Anna Appleby has left her love life behind after a painful divorce. Who needs a man when she has two kids, a cat, and uncontested control of the TV remote? Besides, she’d rather be single than subject herself to the hell of online dating. But her office rival is vying for her column, and no column means no stable source of income. In a desperate attempt to keep her job, Anna finds herself pitching a unique angle: seven dates, all found offline, chosen by her children.
From awkward encounters to unexpected connections, Anna gamely begins to put herself out there, asking out waiters, the mailman, and even her celebrity crush. But when a romantic connection appears where she least expected it, will she be brave enough to take another chance on love?
Columnist Anna Appleby has left her love life behind after a painful divorce. Who needs a man when she has two kids, a cat, and uncontested control of the TV remote? Besides, she’d rather be single than subject herself to the hell of online dating. But her office rival is vying for her column, and no column means no stable source of income. In a desperate attempt to keep her job, Anna finds herself pitching a unique angle: seven dates, all found offline, chosen by her children.
From awkward encounters to unexpected connections, Anna gamely begins to put herself out there, asking out waiters, the mailman, and even her celebrity crush. But when a romantic connection appears where she least expected it, will she be brave enough to take another chance on love?
368 pages, Hardcover
First published November 19, 2024
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6 books5,190 followersSophie Cousens has worked in television for twelve years. She attributes surviving this long to always knowing where the Post-it notes are kept, and her ability to carry six coffee cups at once.
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October 24, 2024
⚠️ Warning-reading this book may cause you to binge read her entire backlist!
This was my first book by Sophie Cousens and obviously-I LOVED it! ❤️
I laughed and I cried-it delivered ALL THE FEELS!
Columnist Anna Appleby has survived a painful divorce, but can she survive being made redundant at work? Her column-“ According to Anna” isn’t attracting the younger demographic that the new boss is looking for.
She has learned that she DOESN’T need a man, and that she quite likes the life she has made with her two kids, her cat, and uncontested control of the TV remote?
Yet, somehow she finds herself pitching a new “dating column” because she DOES need this job!
Online dating feels too much like a job interview, so she agrees to go on seven dates-NOT found online. And, these dates will be with people chosen by her children.
I won’t spoil the fun of these dates for you! 🤐
Her competition will be a column written by her colleague, Will, about a man only dating people found on dating APPs-with the two columns sharing a common theme each week.
But, will there be room at “Bath Living” for both columns at the end of the seven dates? And, can her kids actually choose someone for her that just might make her change her mind about the joys of being single?
Anna is one of the most likable and relatable characters that I have come across in a long time and I was rooting for her all the way!
Each chapter opens with a list of the HILARIOUS Google searches that she made each day!
The title of the book also gave me an ear worm, for the great Joe Jackson song released in 1978 with the same title-and Sophie Cousens gave us a great quote to go along with that song in my head: “some things in life you can’t choose, like the plot-but you CAN choose the soundtrack”!
Bravo to that!
And, bravo to this book which will be make my 2024 FAVORITES list in the romance category!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
The only negative-her cat Katniss, passes away from old age. 😿
Expected Publication date: November 19, 2024
A buddy read with DeAnn. Will this be a favorite for her too? Be sure to watch for her review!
Thank You to G.P. Putnam’s Sons for the gifted copy provided through NetGalley. As always, these are my candid thoughts!
This was my first book by Sophie Cousens and obviously-I LOVED it! ❤️
I laughed and I cried-it delivered ALL THE FEELS!
Columnist Anna Appleby has survived a painful divorce, but can she survive being made redundant at work? Her column-“ According to Anna” isn’t attracting the younger demographic that the new boss is looking for.
She has learned that she DOESN’T need a man, and that she quite likes the life she has made with her two kids, her cat, and uncontested control of the TV remote?
Yet, somehow she finds herself pitching a new “dating column” because she DOES need this job!
Online dating feels too much like a job interview, so she agrees to go on seven dates-NOT found online. And, these dates will be with people chosen by her children.
I won’t spoil the fun of these dates for you! 🤐
Her competition will be a column written by her colleague, Will, about a man only dating people found on dating APPs-with the two columns sharing a common theme each week.
But, will there be room at “Bath Living” for both columns at the end of the seven dates? And, can her kids actually choose someone for her that just might make her change her mind about the joys of being single?
Anna is one of the most likable and relatable characters that I have come across in a long time and I was rooting for her all the way!
Each chapter opens with a list of the HILARIOUS Google searches that she made each day!
The title of the book also gave me an ear worm, for the great Joe Jackson song released in 1978 with the same title-and Sophie Cousens gave us a great quote to go along with that song in my head: “some things in life you can’t choose, like the plot-but you CAN choose the soundtrack”!
Bravo to that!
And, bravo to this book which will be make my 2024 FAVORITES list in the romance category!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
The only negative-her cat Katniss, passes away from old age. 😿
Expected Publication date: November 19, 2024
A buddy read with DeAnn. Will this be a favorite for her too? Be sure to watch for her review!
Thank You to G.P. Putnam’s Sons for the gifted copy provided through NetGalley. As always, these are my candid thoughts!
November 29, 2024
Anna Appleby is a 38-year old magazine journalist for Bath Living (Bath, UK … not the tub.) She’s recently divorced from her ex, Dan, who’s busy re-inventing himself with the help of his 25-year old Swedish girlfriend. She’s fine … all she needs is their two kids, her cat and her job - if she can hold onto that last one!
When a corporate takeover of her struggling magazine happens, she has to prove to the new boss that she’s still worth keeping. She proposes a column about dating in the real world, with the creative twist that she’ll go on seven dates chosen by her children: twelve–year-old daughter Jess and seven-year-old son Ethan. A bonkers idea, but he bites! Too bad golden-boy co-worker Will horns in on her plan and proposes an alternate view column about his experiences with seven online dates. The new boss LOVES the his and hers column idea!
Will Anna and Will’s dual columns become a duel for their jobs or will working together have them fighting their growing attraction instead? Seven dates with others and one tech-free eco retreat together and you’ll see just how complicated the answer to that question is!
I know what many will say. Hasn’t this story been done a million times? The easy answer is yes. In one form or another, those who read the genre will see tropes aplenty. Among others, there are:
☑️ Enemies-to-lovers
☑️ Office romance
☑️ Forced proximity
☑️ One bed
☑️ Want different things
☑️ Against the odds
☑️ Age gap (she’s 38, he’s 30)
Honestly, the tropes are usually WHY we read the genre, aren’t they? We know what to expect!
What makes Sophie Cousens consistently stand out for me amongst the crowd is the way she writes her characters. As ridiculous as some scenarios might seem (a Jane Austen-inspired date while strolling publicly in Regency attire, anyone?) - her characters always feel like real people, with a whole array of depth and complexity. They’re never one-note and superficial, and I’m hard-pressed to dislike any of them, because even their worst behaviors are relatable to the human experience. She also balances tone like no one else. The “light” is never too light and the “dark” never goes depressing, so I feel the whole range of emotions with her smart, funny writing.
If you’ve never read a Sophie Cousens novel, I highly recommend you do, and this is a perfect one to start with. Listening along to the audio narrated by Kerry Gilbert was so good! You’ll love Anna and Will's banter and chemistry, Anna’s spunky sister Lottie, kids Jess and Ethan, elderly free-spirit Loretta, and meeting an array of Anna’s awkward but charming dates. I loved every second spent with them! My only minor complaint is that I wished for just a little more time to enjoy the ending, since Cousens pushes that resolution to the final pages. No matter, though. It was worth the wait!
★★★★ ½ ❤
Thanks to G.P. Putnam’s Sons, NetGalley and author Sophie Cousens for the digital ARC to honestly review and my library/Libby for the audio. It’s out now.
When a corporate takeover of her struggling magazine happens, she has to prove to the new boss that she’s still worth keeping. She proposes a column about dating in the real world, with the creative twist that she’ll go on seven dates chosen by her children: twelve–year-old daughter Jess and seven-year-old son Ethan. A bonkers idea, but he bites! Too bad golden-boy co-worker Will horns in on her plan and proposes an alternate view column about his experiences with seven online dates. The new boss LOVES the his and hers column idea!
Will Anna and Will’s dual columns become a duel for their jobs or will working together have them fighting their growing attraction instead? Seven dates with others and one tech-free eco retreat together and you’ll see just how complicated the answer to that question is!
I know what many will say. Hasn’t this story been done a million times? The easy answer is yes. In one form or another, those who read the genre will see tropes aplenty. Among others, there are:
☑️ Enemies-to-lovers
☑️ Office romance
☑️ Forced proximity
☑️ One bed
☑️ Want different things
☑️ Against the odds
☑️ Age gap (she’s 38, he’s 30)
Honestly, the tropes are usually WHY we read the genre, aren’t they? We know what to expect!
What makes Sophie Cousens consistently stand out for me amongst the crowd is the way she writes her characters. As ridiculous as some scenarios might seem (a Jane Austen-inspired date while strolling publicly in Regency attire, anyone?) - her characters always feel like real people, with a whole array of depth and complexity. They’re never one-note and superficial, and I’m hard-pressed to dislike any of them, because even their worst behaviors are relatable to the human experience. She also balances tone like no one else. The “light” is never too light and the “dark” never goes depressing, so I feel the whole range of emotions with her smart, funny writing.
If you’ve never read a Sophie Cousens novel, I highly recommend you do, and this is a perfect one to start with. Listening along to the audio narrated by Kerry Gilbert was so good! You’ll love Anna and Will's banter and chemistry, Anna’s spunky sister Lottie, kids Jess and Ethan, elderly free-spirit Loretta, and meeting an array of Anna’s awkward but charming dates. I loved every second spent with them! My only minor complaint is that I wished for just a little more time to enjoy the ending, since Cousens pushes that resolution to the final pages. No matter, though. It was worth the wait!
★★★★ ½ ❤
Thanks to G.P. Putnam’s Sons, NetGalley and author Sophie Cousens for the digital ARC to honestly review and my library/Libby for the audio. It’s out now.
January 30, 2025
It’s only the end when you're dead, darling
If there's something Anna’s unpredictable seven dates made me aware of is that there's always hope.
And I know hoping is one of the scariest thing a person can do, but what is the point of going through life imposing yourselves not to do it in case you’ll fail?
I'm in a mood, and that's all SC fault.
The giggles, the blushing, the kicking my feet were nothing compared to the awareness of wanting to be in a relationship I've felt. Sure, maybe that's the power of a great love story, but we know that’s not something we find in every romance book we read.
That sparkle, that seed of hope that you feel blossoming, that's all I need to confirm, year after year, that SC is a great writer.
↠ 3.8 stars
Thanks to Penguin Group PUTNAM and NetGalley, who provided me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest opinion.
If there's something Anna’s unpredictable seven dates made me aware of is that there's always hope.
And I know hoping is one of the scariest thing a person can do, but what is the point of going through life imposing yourselves not to do it in case you’ll fail?
I'm in a mood, and that's all SC fault.
The giggles, the blushing, the kicking my feet were nothing compared to the awareness of wanting to be in a relationship I've felt. Sure, maybe that's the power of a great love story, but we know that’s not something we find in every romance book we read.
That sparkle, that seed of hope that you feel blossoming, that's all I need to confirm, year after year, that SC is a great writer.
↠ 3.8 stars
Thanks to Penguin Group PUTNAM and NetGalley, who provided me with a copy of this book in exchange for an honest opinion.
February 11, 2025
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Publication date: 10 April 2025
(Thanks to NetGalley and Hodder & Stoughton Audio for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!)
Rating: 4 stars
'Is She Really Going Out With Him?' is an utterly fun and heartwarming rom-com about a divorcee rediscovering herself amidst the ups and downs of dating.
Cover: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Writing: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Storyline: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Main character(s): 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Secondary characters: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Romance: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Narration & Audio: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
I picked up this book expecting a light, cute listen, and it delivered just that, along with hilarious and touching moments that kept the story engaging throughout. Despite exploring some serious themes, the story maintained a light tone, making it an easy read that I could envision as a modern rom-com movie. The use of pop culture references added to the story's charm, and I loved the nods to popular movies, TV shows and other books. I also loved the whimsical Google searches in each chapter, as these injected humour into Anna's daily escapades. What's more, Kerry Gilbert's narration impressively brought the characters to life, conveying their emotions and distinct personalities with remarkable vocal nuances.
"you don’t have to be good at something to find joy in it."
We first meet Anna Appleby right before a breakdown, and her raw, complex emotions immediately made her character realistic and relatable. While her journey may not be groundbreaking, her struggles with co-parenting, relationships and her career as a recent divorcee in her late thirties made for a compelling narrative. Her character also shows both vulnerability and strength, making her easy to like and root for, even when she makes mistakes.
"True love does not cower in the shadows; it roars, loud and proud, until it has given it's all"
The secondary characters are equally vibrant, bringing unique quirks and dynamics that add depth to Anna's journey. In particular, I loved how the male lead encouraged Anna to pursue her desires, and this made their enemies-to-lovers relationship a standout element. Although their miscommunications were slightly frustrating, I enjoyed the adorable development of their connection as they spent time together. Their banter and petty teasing also constantly made me smile and kick my legs in delight - it was just too cute! Only readers looking for a steamy romance will be disappointed by the fade-to-black sex scenes, but these suited me just fine.
You can also find more of my thoughts and discussion questions on my blog!
Publication date: 10 April 2025
(Thanks to NetGalley and Hodder & Stoughton Audio for the ARC in exchange for an honest review!)
Rating: 4 stars
'Is She Really Going Out With Him?' is an utterly fun and heartwarming rom-com about a divorcee rediscovering herself amidst the ups and downs of dating.
Cover: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Writing: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Storyline: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Main character(s): 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Secondary characters: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Romance: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
Narration & Audio: 🌟🌟🌟🌟
I picked up this book expecting a light, cute listen, and it delivered just that, along with hilarious and touching moments that kept the story engaging throughout. Despite exploring some serious themes, the story maintained a light tone, making it an easy read that I could envision as a modern rom-com movie. The use of pop culture references added to the story's charm, and I loved the nods to popular movies, TV shows and other books. I also loved the whimsical Google searches in each chapter, as these injected humour into Anna's daily escapades. What's more, Kerry Gilbert's narration impressively brought the characters to life, conveying their emotions and distinct personalities with remarkable vocal nuances.
"you don’t have to be good at something to find joy in it."
We first meet Anna Appleby right before a breakdown, and her raw, complex emotions immediately made her character realistic and relatable. While her journey may not be groundbreaking, her struggles with co-parenting, relationships and her career as a recent divorcee in her late thirties made for a compelling narrative. Her character also shows both vulnerability and strength, making her easy to like and root for, even when she makes mistakes.
"True love does not cower in the shadows; it roars, loud and proud, until it has given it's all"
The secondary characters are equally vibrant, bringing unique quirks and dynamics that add depth to Anna's journey. In particular, I loved how the male lead encouraged Anna to pursue her desires, and this made their enemies-to-lovers relationship a standout element. Although their miscommunications were slightly frustrating, I enjoyed the adorable development of their connection as they spent time together. Their banter and petty teasing also constantly made me smile and kick my legs in delight - it was just too cute! Only readers looking for a steamy romance will be disappointed by the fade-to-black sex scenes, but these suited me just fine.
You can also find more of my thoughts and discussion questions on my blog!
November 6, 2024
So stinking cute!!!!!
I’m really becoming a fan of Sophie’s writing. I really loved the development of Anna and the ups and downs of navigating life and dating post divorce. Freaking Will being a cutie pie!!!! You’ll love this one if you loved her previous The Good Part.
I’m really becoming a fan of Sophie’s writing. I really loved the development of Anna and the ups and downs of navigating life and dating post divorce. Freaking Will being a cutie pie!!!! You’ll love this one if you loved her previous The Good Part.
February 14, 2025
Columnist Anna Appleby pitches a new series in order to preserve her job - she will allow her kids to select seven dates for her offline, all to be written about in the column. But as dating mishaps ensue and Will Havers, the handsome co-worker Anna disregarded, shows her there is more to him than meets the eye, she begins to question what her endgame really is.
You know the books that are so good, you try to slow them down so they never end? And then as soon as you finish reading, you feel compelled to turn right around and reread it? This is one of those books. From just a few pages in, I knew this was going to be a winner, in large part because of Sophie Cousens’ pitch perfect humor. You will find yourself laughing out loud throughout.
While the plot is always solid in her books, her characters are the real standouts. They are always incredibly lovely, while also being completely relatable, and the situations in which they find themselves are those any of us could be in as well.
Anna is the every woman and Will, the quintessential book boyfriend. I simply could not get enough of these two. Full stop. I also loved the addition of Anna’s kids and ex-husband into the story, and all that chaos that ensues with modern blended families. Their roles felt like a welcomed addition to help us get a well rounded picture, and never a distraction from the main characters or the central storyline.
I cannot end this review without mentioning the insane level of chemistry Anna and Will have. For a book that’s primarily closed door, there are some steamy as heck scenes involving very little description. How Cousens pulls off these scenes so wrought with tension, while still maintaining a high level of subtly, is a mystery wrapped inside of an enigma, but I wish it was one more much more universally understood. I am thinking of one scene in particular involving text messages and a window that practically set the pages on fire (iykyk) 🥵
This book is the epitome of the romcom and I need everyone to read it immediately so we can discuss. And then I would encourage you to backtrack to her *backlist* because her writing is in fact, that good.
Read if you like:
▪️single parent romance
▪️dating catastrophes
▪️workplace enemies to lovers
▪️age gap
▪️the best banter
Pubs: Nov 19, 2024
Thank you Putnam for the advanced copy.
You know the books that are so good, you try to slow them down so they never end? And then as soon as you finish reading, you feel compelled to turn right around and reread it? This is one of those books. From just a few pages in, I knew this was going to be a winner, in large part because of Sophie Cousens’ pitch perfect humor. You will find yourself laughing out loud throughout.
While the plot is always solid in her books, her characters are the real standouts. They are always incredibly lovely, while also being completely relatable, and the situations in which they find themselves are those any of us could be in as well.
Anna is the every woman and Will, the quintessential book boyfriend. I simply could not get enough of these two. Full stop. I also loved the addition of Anna’s kids and ex-husband into the story, and all that chaos that ensues with modern blended families. Their roles felt like a welcomed addition to help us get a well rounded picture, and never a distraction from the main characters or the central storyline.
I cannot end this review without mentioning the insane level of chemistry Anna and Will have. For a book that’s primarily closed door, there are some steamy as heck scenes involving very little description. How Cousens pulls off these scenes so wrought with tension, while still maintaining a high level of subtly, is a mystery wrapped inside of an enigma, but I wish it was one more much more universally understood. I am thinking of one scene in particular involving text messages and a window that practically set the pages on fire (iykyk) 🥵
This book is the epitome of the romcom and I need everyone to read it immediately so we can discuss. And then I would encourage you to backtrack to her *backlist* because her writing is in fact, that good.
Read if you like:
▪️single parent romance
▪️dating catastrophes
▪️workplace enemies to lovers
▪️age gap
▪️the best banter
Pubs: Nov 19, 2024
Thank you Putnam for the advanced copy.
November 13, 2024
OMG guys… I absolutely LOVED this book!! Thank you so much @putnambooks for my gorgeous gifted copy!! Pub date is 11/19!! 🥳🥳Seriously run 🏃♀️ and get a copy!!
Wow!! I am super picky about my rom com’s as I don’t read them very often. I loved This Time Next Year SO much!! Why haven’t I read ALL of @sophie_cousens books?! I literally told my husband to buy me her backlist for Christmas. 😍😉 THIS is why I loved this book so much…
Anna is divorced and NOT looking for love… but her lovely boss..😠.. that was sarcasm my friends 😉…insisted that she up her game. You see …she writes a column.. one that does not appeal to her new boss…. he thinks she should date a bunch of guys and gives all the details.. in her column. EEEK 😳.. Ackward..
I forgot to mention she is basically in a competition with her annoying but extremely hot 🔥 coworker Will.
OMG this was hands down five stars ⭐️ for me!! Enemies to lovers is my absolute favorite and this was fantastic. I loved loved loved the snarky banter!! The fun disastrous dates were highly entertaining!! I can’t wait to read the rest of @sophie_cousens backlist!! 😍 Seriously This Time Next Year was on my favorites list of 2020!! I have no idea how I haven’t read more by this fantastic author.
Wow!! I am super picky about my rom com’s as I don’t read them very often. I loved This Time Next Year SO much!! Why haven’t I read ALL of @sophie_cousens books?! I literally told my husband to buy me her backlist for Christmas. 😍😉 THIS is why I loved this book so much…
Anna is divorced and NOT looking for love… but her lovely boss..😠.. that was sarcasm my friends 😉…insisted that she up her game. You see …she writes a column.. one that does not appeal to her new boss…. he thinks she should date a bunch of guys and gives all the details.. in her column. EEEK 😳.. Ackward..
I forgot to mention she is basically in a competition with her annoying but extremely hot 🔥 coworker Will.
OMG this was hands down five stars ⭐️ for me!! Enemies to lovers is my absolute favorite and this was fantastic. I loved loved loved the snarky banter!! The fun disastrous dates were highly entertaining!! I can’t wait to read the rest of @sophie_cousens backlist!! 😍 Seriously This Time Next Year was on my favorites list of 2020!! I have no idea how I haven’t read more by this fantastic author.
December 14, 2024
"Don't let life make you hard, Ana. It's the soft gooey middle that makes it all so delightful."
I'm in the minority and that's fine. I guess this was just not exactly my cup of tea. I did enjoy parts of it, so it was not a total bust.
I'm in the minority and that's fine. I guess this was just not exactly my cup of tea. I did enjoy parts of it, so it was not a total bust.
November 25, 2024
5 Stars for this novel, and 5 Stars for the song with the same name. RTC.
February 15, 2025
Happy Hallmark Holiday to all who celebrate!
Today I put away all the culty stabby stuff I have been gobbling up recently and blew the dust off my former Rom Com loving heart (while keeping my fingers and toes crossed for PG fade-to-black style sexuals instead of the gross-out variety filled with all sorts of overly descriptive encounters). Success! I’ll admit I knew going in that a Sophie Cousens would not be one to fail me, but this little baby was an absolute delight.
Anna and Will are co-workers who seem to be vying for the same assignments at the magazine they work for. When Anna is told she needs to freshen up her column or potentially find herself unemployed she goes along with a plan devised by her children – go on a series of dates with people THEY choose for her. What could possibly go wrong?
I’m telling you I loved every second of this . . . .
We’re talking a little touch of May/December, getting her groove back, enemies to lovers reminiscent of The Hating Game, OH NO THERE’S ONLY ONE BED! – even a grand romantic gesture . . .
Total winner.
Today I put away all the culty stabby stuff I have been gobbling up recently and blew the dust off my former Rom Com loving heart (while keeping my fingers and toes crossed for PG fade-to-black style sexuals instead of the gross-out variety filled with all sorts of overly descriptive encounters). Success! I’ll admit I knew going in that a Sophie Cousens would not be one to fail me, but this little baby was an absolute delight.
Anna and Will are co-workers who seem to be vying for the same assignments at the magazine they work for. When Anna is told she needs to freshen up her column or potentially find herself unemployed she goes along with a plan devised by her children – go on a series of dates with people THEY choose for her. What could possibly go wrong?
I’m telling you I loved every second of this . . . .
We’re talking a little touch of May/December, getting her groove back, enemies to lovers reminiscent of The Hating Game, OH NO THERE’S ONLY ONE BED! – even a grand romantic gesture . . .
Total winner.
January 17, 2025
this one was cute! enemies to lovers isn’t my favorite trope but i liked that the characters were older and mature and the fake dating / journalism trope was entertaining.
overall i think it’ll be a bit forgettable for me and i never became super obsessed with the characters. i like my romances a bit more emo 🤣
but the themes of restarting your life, forgiveness, finding yourself in your 30s/40s, being able to fall in love again, etc. were all awesome. can see this appealing to a lot of audiences for that reason 💖
overall i think it’ll be a bit forgettable for me and i never became super obsessed with the characters. i like my romances a bit more emo 🤣
but the themes of restarting your life, forgiveness, finding yourself in your 30s/40s, being able to fall in love again, etc. were all awesome. can see this appealing to a lot of audiences for that reason 💖
December 14, 2024
**Many thanks to NetGalley, Penguin - Putnam, and Sophie Cousens for an ARC of this book!**
Let's say it's your birthday, and you've just arrived at your favorite restaurant. You slide into your favorite booth, and while the best waiter in the place hands you your menu, you look into the eyes of the loved one across from you...for just a minute, the world melts away. You settle in for a familiar, cozy, and DELICIOUS evening of fun and incredible food, and know there is true magic in the air. There's a certain buzz of excitement, but also a feeling of warm familiarity that wraps you up...because you just KNOW this night is going to be special and memorable, and you want to imprint those moments in your heart forever.
Well, I had the same sort of overwhelming feeling of pure BLISS after picking up Sophie Cousens latest (and in my opinion, greatest!) rom-com to date...and weeks later, I am STILL caught up in giddy reminiscing about one of my BEST reading experiences of 2024!
Starting off with a title that stuck a certain Joe Jackson song in my head for WEEKS on end (and trust me, I am an 80's music lover at my core - no complaints here! 🥰) this tale centers around Anna Appleby, a divorcee raising two kids and a lovable kitty who works as a writer. Although the divorce in question was no doubt the 'right' decision for all parties involved, Anna is still grappling with her hurt feelings about the entire situation, particularly since her ex Dan has ended up with a younger, blonde, minimalist health nut...the 'anti Anna,' if you will. Nevertheless, she takes her newfound freedom in stride and tries to embrace the freedoms she now has in spades. After all, she has the remote to herself, can parent and clean HER way with no intervention, and can spend hours watching trashy TV without fear of retribution (again, all power to Anna on that front!)
At work, however, things are a bit dicier: the magazine industry is going through major upheaval and Anna fears her job could be next to go. Her boss reminders her that the magazine's readers want spicy, exciting articles, and Anna is desperate for the chance to prove herself. But there's one smug, devilishly handsome young gun in the way: enter Will, her work rival, who never leaves home without a monogrammed polo. (Ew.) Not only does Will try to overshadow her at every turn, but it seems he might succeed...and Anna NEEDS her income now more than ever. Luckily, she comes up with a unique idea for a new column based on her latest dating woes: rather than trying to meet a man on a dating app, what if her KIDS handpicked her suitors? She won't get to veto the prospects, and she will write about her experiences on a weekly basis. But of course, Will isn't going to just roll over: HE is writing a column of his own, where he woos women in the 'new' way - via the same apps Anna is patently avoiding.
As the little game of cat and mouse continues, Anna makes her way through seven VERY unique and unexpected dates, including everyone from a next door neighbor to the mailman...and even her celebrity crush! But as the pair vie for the top spot at the magazine, and are forced to find a theme for their weekly updates, Anna starts to realize that all of the sniping may be hiding something deeper than loathing...and might EVEN be attraction. But she knows better than to open her heart again right as her wounds are beginning to heal...right? Will is just a fly-by-night playboy, incapable of commitment and 8 years younger than her 38 years...they couldn't POSSIBLY be a true and lasting fit. But after one fateful technology-free weekend retreat promises the forced proximity we all know and love...do Will and Anna have more in common than they thought? Or will a return to the harsh light of reality back home force these two rivals back to their respective corners... for good?
I truly can't say it enough: there is perhaps NO author (aside from Emily Henry) that delivers the kind of consistently, funny yet emotional, deep yet light, silly but so grounded romances as well as Sophie Cousens. From the first few chapters of the first book I read of hers (Before I Do) I got this unbelievably warm and fuzzy feeling...but not the sort of OTT, saccharine feeling I don't usually enjoy in romance novels. No, what makes Sophie's books so absolutely perfect for me and such a standout joy in such a CROWDED (and I mean crowded space) are her hallmarks:
*Lovable characters who ACT THEIR AGE: It seems strange to even have to list this as a high point, and I'm not sure if it's my inner octogenarian talking, but BOY are most main characters in romance novels essentially overgrown teenagers with raging libidos and not much between the ears. Sophie's characters are the POLAR OPPOSITE of this: each one is necessary, fun, full of life, and APPROPRIATELY mature for their age. I think Cousens honestly outdid herself with Anna Appleby, in particular: here is a woman who does not want to be defined by her divorce, be defined as 'just a mom', or to make a man the center of her life EVEN THOUGH sure, she'd love to have someone love her...and she was pretty burned by her ex. Rather than being spiteful, childish, or acting like a raging pile of hormones, she puts her career and her kids first...and romance second.
Is she a bit too cautious? Maybe, but as a fellow anxious and cautious person...I found this ACHINGLY relatable.
*Realistic, relatable conflicts: It's also such a breath of fresh air for the conflicts in the book to revolve around something other than the aftermath of nights out, petty conflicts between friends, or the like, but to have financial troubles, parenting struggles, et. al take the lead. So many romance novels resort to basic miscommunication or deception as their third age conflict, and BOY is this not only annoying to read, but frustrating! As a character in her LATE THIRTIES, this is exactly correct when it comes to REAL conflicts, and I absolutely adored Anna. She's that kind of MC you wish could pop out of the pages so you could go for a coffee!
*Snappy, witty banter: And I probably should be specific...I mean ACTUAL banter, that is fresh and authentic...NOT the type I find so often in other romances that is borderline rude (or perhaps IS just flat out rude). You can easily see the sparks between Will and Anna and they don't feel manufactured whatsoever. Neither of them has to be demeaning or nasty (or resort to making innuendo-tinged comments about one another's bodies to make their 'interests' known. The author even pulls back the curtain a bit on Anna's inner monologue of sorts with insights into her Google searches that were simply hilarious and ALWAYS caught me off guard...such a clever device!
*Journey of self-discovery: This is a skill that not every writer has, but as I mentioned earlier, it is something that Emily Henry and Sophie Cousens handle with ease. Self-love and discovery is such an important facet of these stories...in fact without it, the wheels would come off the plot entirely. Finding yourself and loving yourself SHOULD be an important foundation to finding love with others, and Cousens handled the aftermath of Anna's divorce masterfully in this particular book. From the inner turmoil she feels about her lost relationship, her husband's new girlfriend (and the feelings of being replaced that creep up), and trying to redefine herself as a single woman AND a mom...there is so much to unpack here, and Cousens never shies away from the hard discussions or the complex nature of these emotions...and her characters are ALWAYS better off for it.
If I had ONE quibble with this book (and only one!) it's that the door was actually a bit TOO closed at times! This is an odd comment coming from me, since I usually prefer more left to the imagination rather than steamy and outright spice. But in the case of Will and Anna, their bond was so electric, palpable, and REAL that I was almost disappointed with the lack of detail we got once fantasy uh, became reality (so to speak!) 😏 In the end, I just wanted more and more of these characters together and could not BEAR to let them go! (I'm just saying Sophie, if you're ready for a sequel, I wouldn't complain about it...) I also think the one (rather obvious) book that I HOPE Cousens will have in her someday is a Christmas book...because her books give me more warm fuzzies than a huge mug of cocoa, softly falling snow, a crackly fireplace, an electric blanket, AND a warm cat on my lap...COMBINED! 🔥 ☕ ⛄
With your favorite restaurant on a special occasion with your favorite people by your side, it's hard to imagine a scenario where anything could possibly go wrong. And when it comes to Sophie Cousens, it's nearly impossible to imagine a world where a BOOK of hers could go wrong.
At this point, I think it's safe to just consider her a Michelin Star Chef! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Bon Appétit! 🍽
4.5 stars, rounded up to 5
Let's say it's your birthday, and you've just arrived at your favorite restaurant. You slide into your favorite booth, and while the best waiter in the place hands you your menu, you look into the eyes of the loved one across from you...for just a minute, the world melts away. You settle in for a familiar, cozy, and DELICIOUS evening of fun and incredible food, and know there is true magic in the air. There's a certain buzz of excitement, but also a feeling of warm familiarity that wraps you up...because you just KNOW this night is going to be special and memorable, and you want to imprint those moments in your heart forever.
Well, I had the same sort of overwhelming feeling of pure BLISS after picking up Sophie Cousens latest (and in my opinion, greatest!) rom-com to date...and weeks later, I am STILL caught up in giddy reminiscing about one of my BEST reading experiences of 2024!
Starting off with a title that stuck a certain Joe Jackson song in my head for WEEKS on end (and trust me, I am an 80's music lover at my core - no complaints here! 🥰) this tale centers around Anna Appleby, a divorcee raising two kids and a lovable kitty who works as a writer. Although the divorce in question was no doubt the 'right' decision for all parties involved, Anna is still grappling with her hurt feelings about the entire situation, particularly since her ex Dan has ended up with a younger, blonde, minimalist health nut...the 'anti Anna,' if you will. Nevertheless, she takes her newfound freedom in stride and tries to embrace the freedoms she now has in spades. After all, she has the remote to herself, can parent and clean HER way with no intervention, and can spend hours watching trashy TV without fear of retribution (again, all power to Anna on that front!)
At work, however, things are a bit dicier: the magazine industry is going through major upheaval and Anna fears her job could be next to go. Her boss reminders her that the magazine's readers want spicy, exciting articles, and Anna is desperate for the chance to prove herself. But there's one smug, devilishly handsome young gun in the way: enter Will, her work rival, who never leaves home without a monogrammed polo. (Ew.) Not only does Will try to overshadow her at every turn, but it seems he might succeed...and Anna NEEDS her income now more than ever. Luckily, she comes up with a unique idea for a new column based on her latest dating woes: rather than trying to meet a man on a dating app, what if her KIDS handpicked her suitors? She won't get to veto the prospects, and she will write about her experiences on a weekly basis. But of course, Will isn't going to just roll over: HE is writing a column of his own, where he woos women in the 'new' way - via the same apps Anna is patently avoiding.
As the little game of cat and mouse continues, Anna makes her way through seven VERY unique and unexpected dates, including everyone from a next door neighbor to the mailman...and even her celebrity crush! But as the pair vie for the top spot at the magazine, and are forced to find a theme for their weekly updates, Anna starts to realize that all of the sniping may be hiding something deeper than loathing...and might EVEN be attraction. But she knows better than to open her heart again right as her wounds are beginning to heal...right? Will is just a fly-by-night playboy, incapable of commitment and 8 years younger than her 38 years...they couldn't POSSIBLY be a true and lasting fit. But after one fateful technology-free weekend retreat promises the forced proximity we all know and love...do Will and Anna have more in common than they thought? Or will a return to the harsh light of reality back home force these two rivals back to their respective corners... for good?
I truly can't say it enough: there is perhaps NO author (aside from Emily Henry) that delivers the kind of consistently, funny yet emotional, deep yet light, silly but so grounded romances as well as Sophie Cousens. From the first few chapters of the first book I read of hers (Before I Do) I got this unbelievably warm and fuzzy feeling...but not the sort of OTT, saccharine feeling I don't usually enjoy in romance novels. No, what makes Sophie's books so absolutely perfect for me and such a standout joy in such a CROWDED (and I mean crowded space) are her hallmarks:
*Lovable characters who ACT THEIR AGE: It seems strange to even have to list this as a high point, and I'm not sure if it's my inner octogenarian talking, but BOY are most main characters in romance novels essentially overgrown teenagers with raging libidos and not much between the ears. Sophie's characters are the POLAR OPPOSITE of this: each one is necessary, fun, full of life, and APPROPRIATELY mature for their age. I think Cousens honestly outdid herself with Anna Appleby, in particular: here is a woman who does not want to be defined by her divorce, be defined as 'just a mom', or to make a man the center of her life EVEN THOUGH sure, she'd love to have someone love her...and she was pretty burned by her ex. Rather than being spiteful, childish, or acting like a raging pile of hormones, she puts her career and her kids first...and romance second.
Is she a bit too cautious? Maybe, but as a fellow anxious and cautious person...I found this ACHINGLY relatable.
*Realistic, relatable conflicts: It's also such a breath of fresh air for the conflicts in the book to revolve around something other than the aftermath of nights out, petty conflicts between friends, or the like, but to have financial troubles, parenting struggles, et. al take the lead. So many romance novels resort to basic miscommunication or deception as their third age conflict, and BOY is this not only annoying to read, but frustrating! As a character in her LATE THIRTIES, this is exactly correct when it comes to REAL conflicts, and I absolutely adored Anna. She's that kind of MC you wish could pop out of the pages so you could go for a coffee!
*Snappy, witty banter: And I probably should be specific...I mean ACTUAL banter, that is fresh and authentic...NOT the type I find so often in other romances that is borderline rude (or perhaps IS just flat out rude). You can easily see the sparks between Will and Anna and they don't feel manufactured whatsoever. Neither of them has to be demeaning or nasty (or resort to making innuendo-tinged comments about one another's bodies to make their 'interests' known. The author even pulls back the curtain a bit on Anna's inner monologue of sorts with insights into her Google searches that were simply hilarious and ALWAYS caught me off guard...such a clever device!
*Journey of self-discovery: This is a skill that not every writer has, but as I mentioned earlier, it is something that Emily Henry and Sophie Cousens handle with ease. Self-love and discovery is such an important facet of these stories...in fact without it, the wheels would come off the plot entirely. Finding yourself and loving yourself SHOULD be an important foundation to finding love with others, and Cousens handled the aftermath of Anna's divorce masterfully in this particular book. From the inner turmoil she feels about her lost relationship, her husband's new girlfriend (and the feelings of being replaced that creep up), and trying to redefine herself as a single woman AND a mom...there is so much to unpack here, and Cousens never shies away from the hard discussions or the complex nature of these emotions...and her characters are ALWAYS better off for it.
If I had ONE quibble with this book (and only one!) it's that the door was actually a bit TOO closed at times! This is an odd comment coming from me, since I usually prefer more left to the imagination rather than steamy and outright spice. But in the case of Will and Anna, their bond was so electric, palpable, and REAL that I was almost disappointed with the lack of detail we got once fantasy uh, became reality (so to speak!) 😏 In the end, I just wanted more and more of these characters together and could not BEAR to let them go! (I'm just saying Sophie, if you're ready for a sequel, I wouldn't complain about it...) I also think the one (rather obvious) book that I HOPE Cousens will have in her someday is a Christmas book...because her books give me more warm fuzzies than a huge mug of cocoa, softly falling snow, a crackly fireplace, an electric blanket, AND a warm cat on my lap...COMBINED! 🔥 ☕ ⛄
With your favorite restaurant on a special occasion with your favorite people by your side, it's hard to imagine a scenario where anything could possibly go wrong. And when it comes to Sophie Cousens, it's nearly impossible to imagine a world where a BOOK of hers could go wrong.
At this point, I think it's safe to just consider her a Michelin Star Chef! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Bon Appétit! 🍽
4.5 stars, rounded up to 5
November 18, 2024
Anna Appelby is a recently divorced mother of two and she's struggling with her new reality. Not to mention the magazine she works for is also struggling and redundancies seem to be right around the corner. This makes her work relationship with Will Havers even more toxic. He manages to get under her skin at every turn.
Then the opportunity arises for her and Will to work together on a column about dating. Each sharing their own experience in an effort to make the magazine more relevant and hip for younger audiences. Possibly saving both of their positions. Talk about a nightmare come true.
As they begin working together not only will they butt heads often but, is it possible, that sparks start flying too? You'll have to read this to find out.
Sophie Cousen's has done it again. She writes rom-coms for a more mature audience which I really appreciate. The characters tend to be 30's / 40's rather than fresh faced twenty year old's just out of university that dominate the rom-com market. They have kids, and mortgages, and work related issues that most of us can relate too. There is always humor, and heart, and witty banter. There is always a well rounded cast of lovable characters. She's become my go-to author when I want a book that feels like a hug. All I can say is keep 'em coming, Cousens! 4 stars!
Thank you to NetGalley and Penguin Group Putnam for my complimentary copy.
Then the opportunity arises for her and Will to work together on a column about dating. Each sharing their own experience in an effort to make the magazine more relevant and hip for younger audiences. Possibly saving both of their positions. Talk about a nightmare come true.
As they begin working together not only will they butt heads often but, is it possible, that sparks start flying too? You'll have to read this to find out.
Sophie Cousen's has done it again. She writes rom-coms for a more mature audience which I really appreciate. The characters tend to be 30's / 40's rather than fresh faced twenty year old's just out of university that dominate the rom-com market. They have kids, and mortgages, and work related issues that most of us can relate too. There is always humor, and heart, and witty banter. There is always a well rounded cast of lovable characters. She's become my go-to author when I want a book that feels like a hug. All I can say is keep 'em coming, Cousens! 4 stars!
Thank you to NetGalley and Penguin Group Putnam for my complimentary copy.
November 30, 2024
I loved the idea of this story but the execution wasn't what I expected. It was very predictable but I also thought the characters were bland. Anna honestly sounded quite juvenile and her personality didn't interest me at all. The shift from being rivals at work to being interested in each other was also very abrupt. The lack of communication between Anna and Will was frustrating. I wasn't convinced that they would make a good couple. Also, I feel like they barely had any genuine moments together and I couldn't even see their relationship develop. The last third of the book was cliché and I feel like I've read the same script several times in other books.
Thank you to G.P. Putnam's Sons for this ARC in exchange for an honest review!
Thank you to G.P. Putnam's Sons for this ARC in exchange for an honest review!
December 1, 2024
In order to make herself relevant again, recently divorced magazine columnist Anna Appleby is going to have to start dating. As someone who hasn’t had to date, because whatever relationship she has ever been in started as friendship, this is an overwhelming and daunting task for her. But her kids are all for it.
And, while she has to deal with annoying Will Havers, who is wanting her column at the magazine, what can readers expect?
In this cute, predictable, been-here-before, enemies to lovers, rom-com setting, readers will find themselves enjoying Anna’s journey and transformation.
4.5 stars
And, while she has to deal with annoying Will Havers, who is wanting her column at the magazine, what can readers expect?
In this cute, predictable, been-here-before, enemies to lovers, rom-com setting, readers will find themselves enjoying Anna’s journey and transformation.
4.5 stars
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December 1, 2024i'm a little late for this arc......but better late than never right?
December 17, 2024
the setup…
Anna Appleby is a divorced mother of two in her late thirties who writes a lifestyle column for a magazine called Bath Living. She’s good at her job and it provides the stability she needs to manage home and work life. While her social life consists of Netflix binge watching, she’s content with how things are…that is until her magazine undergoes a change in direction. Anna is a good journalist but what they need now is a ‘fresh” approach, one her nemesis Will Havers has advocated and is vying for her column spot. Now they’re pitted together to contrast their dating experiences with her’s having a unique spin…going out with men selected by her two children. Did I mention they’re twelve and eight years old?
the heart of the story…
Anna’s only been divorced for about a year and she’s definitely in a social rut. Her ex-husband left her and is now dating a twenty something. Though she has no desire to be with him, she’s adrift without a sense of her own identity without a clue how to date. Her rivalry with Will Havers who’s in his late twenties and seems to epitomize what the new management is looking for is the spark that motivates her. She wants to beat him at this game but in the process, is enjoying the experience and her columns are a wonderful expression of her own metamorphosis.
the narration…
Kerry Gilbert was fabulous in her performance! She seemed to inhabit Anna, capturing her every emotion, all laced with a wry sense of humor and vulnerability. Her storytelling skills were wonderful.
the bottom line…
I bonded with Anna so quickly as that prologue was priceless. She’s so authentic, as are the other characters, especially her children, pre-teen daughter Jess and Ethan who seemed to react as you’d expect them to for their ages. The dating experiences are often hilarious but it’s the insights they give to Anna that provides depth to the story. It’s her “coming of age’ that feels natural and real. And Will Havers serves as the perfect foil. It’s a mature style of romantic comedy that I wholeheartedly embrace.
Posted on Blue Mood Café
Anna Appleby is a divorced mother of two in her late thirties who writes a lifestyle column for a magazine called Bath Living. She’s good at her job and it provides the stability she needs to manage home and work life. While her social life consists of Netflix binge watching, she’s content with how things are…that is until her magazine undergoes a change in direction. Anna is a good journalist but what they need now is a ‘fresh” approach, one her nemesis Will Havers has advocated and is vying for her column spot. Now they’re pitted together to contrast their dating experiences with her’s having a unique spin…going out with men selected by her two children. Did I mention they’re twelve and eight years old?
the heart of the story…
Anna’s only been divorced for about a year and she’s definitely in a social rut. Her ex-husband left her and is now dating a twenty something. Though she has no desire to be with him, she’s adrift without a sense of her own identity without a clue how to date. Her rivalry with Will Havers who’s in his late twenties and seems to epitomize what the new management is looking for is the spark that motivates her. She wants to beat him at this game but in the process, is enjoying the experience and her columns are a wonderful expression of her own metamorphosis.
the narration…
Kerry Gilbert was fabulous in her performance! She seemed to inhabit Anna, capturing her every emotion, all laced with a wry sense of humor and vulnerability. Her storytelling skills were wonderful.
the bottom line…
I bonded with Anna so quickly as that prologue was priceless. She’s so authentic, as are the other characters, especially her children, pre-teen daughter Jess and Ethan who seemed to react as you’d expect them to for their ages. The dating experiences are often hilarious but it’s the insights they give to Anna that provides depth to the story. It’s her “coming of age’ that feels natural and real. And Will Havers serves as the perfect foil. It’s a mature style of romantic comedy that I wholeheartedly embrace.
Posted on Blue Mood Café
February 18, 2025
A romance worth reading!
Anna Appleby is a writer for a news magazine. She has her own column. However, now that the magazine has a new owner, she might lose her job if she doesn't perform well with the readers. This is something she can't afford. Anna is divorced and has two kids, Jess and Ethan, who are counting on her.
Anna pitches a new series of articles. She will go on dates, and her children will be picking the men she goes out with. As a counterpart, her co-worker Will Havers will be writing a column about the women he goes on dates with using an online dating app.
Anna doesn't like Will. She assumes he is entitled and always gets away with everything. But what happens when what you thought you knew is wrong?
As a fan of Sophie Cousens and "This Time Next Year," it was with pleasure that I grabbed "Is She Really Going Out with Him?" This author knows how to write a fulfilling enemies-to-lovers trope. Her protagonists are always relatable. The situations they find themselves in can be embarrassing at times. The humor is always on par. This one had me smiling quite a bit.
Another winner in my book!
Cliffhanger: No
4/5 Fangs
A complimentary copy was provided by G.P. Putnam's Sons via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
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Anna Appleby is a writer for a news magazine. She has her own column. However, now that the magazine has a new owner, she might lose her job if she doesn't perform well with the readers. This is something she can't afford. Anna is divorced and has two kids, Jess and Ethan, who are counting on her.
Anna pitches a new series of articles. She will go on dates, and her children will be picking the men she goes out with. As a counterpart, her co-worker Will Havers will be writing a column about the women he goes on dates with using an online dating app.
Anna doesn't like Will. She assumes he is entitled and always gets away with everything. But what happens when what you thought you knew is wrong?
As a fan of Sophie Cousens and "This Time Next Year," it was with pleasure that I grabbed "Is She Really Going Out with Him?" This author knows how to write a fulfilling enemies-to-lovers trope. Her protagonists are always relatable. The situations they find themselves in can be embarrassing at times. The humor is always on par. This one had me smiling quite a bit.
Another winner in my book!
Cliffhanger: No
4/5 Fangs
A complimentary copy was provided by G.P. Putnam's Sons via Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.
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August 27, 2024
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This was such a cute story! I loved the watching the FMC navigate life & love after divorce and adored the dates chosen by her kids! The banter and the tension between the FMC and MMC was palpable from the start!
What I loved…
- Top tier banter
- work rivals to lovers
- I was legitimately kicking my feet and giggling
- Read in one sitting
- unique story
- wonderful relationships (family & friendships)
What I didn’t love…
- I’m convinced these two are going to eventually break up
Thank you NetGalley and Penguin Group Putnam for sending this book (eARC) for review consideration. All opinions are my own.
This was such a cute story! I loved the watching the FMC navigate life & love after divorce and adored the dates chosen by her kids! The banter and the tension between the FMC and MMC was palpable from the start!
What I loved…
- Top tier banter
- work rivals to lovers
- I was legitimately kicking my feet and giggling
- Read in one sitting
- unique story
- wonderful relationships (family & friendships)
What I didn’t love…
- I’m convinced these two are going to eventually break up
Thank you NetGalley and Penguin Group Putnam for sending this book (eARC) for review consideration. All opinions are my own.
January 17, 2026
5⭐️ Paul Hollywood is honestly not mentioned in romcoms often enough and I’d like to formally thank Sophie Cousens for remedying that. As if I didn’t love her books enough already!!!
IS SHE REALLY GOING OUT WITH HIM was an absolute delight! The premise is darling: a newly single mom allows her kids to set her up on dates in an attempt to spice up her online column.
I’m not going to say much about the nitty gritty of the plot because I loved the not knowing. In a very minor and wonderful way this reminded me of Beth O’Leary’s THE NO-SHOW where you don’t definitively know the love interest until you’re deep into the story.
On that note, I also can’t even tell you one of the details I liked most for fear of spoiling things, but I can say the ending was especially refreshing.
One of my favorite things about Cousens (other than her membership in the Paul Hollywood fan club) is her sense of humor and the way she writes banter. No one does it* better!
*cheeky British chick lit with so much depth and tension and heart 😏
🏆this is officially tied with THIS TIME NEXT YEAR as my favorite SC book!
IS SHE REALLY GOING OUT WITH HIM was an absolute delight! The premise is darling: a newly single mom allows her kids to set her up on dates in an attempt to spice up her online column.
I’m not going to say much about the nitty gritty of the plot because I loved the not knowing. In a very minor and wonderful way this reminded me of Beth O’Leary’s THE NO-SHOW where you don’t definitively know the love interest until you’re deep into the story.
On that note, I also can’t even tell you one of the details I liked most for fear of spoiling things, but I can say the ending was especially refreshing.
One of my favorite things about Cousens (other than her membership in the Paul Hollywood fan club) is her sense of humor and the way she writes banter. No one does it* better!
*cheeky British chick lit with so much depth and tension and heart 😏
🏆this is officially tied with THIS TIME NEXT YEAR as my favorite SC book!
January 4, 2025
I loved this one! It was funny, heartwarming, and all the things that I enjoy in a romance.
✔️ A fantastic main character that gets out of her comfort zone and tries new things. I don’t think there was anything about Anna that I did not love!
✔️ Excellent secondary characters that do not get lost in the book. Anna's kids were the best!
✔️ The dialogue was funny at times and the plot felt relatable.
✔️ Enemies-to-lovers genre. I had the hardest time trying to figure out Will and his feelings for Anna.
Is he just a coworker, a competitor, a friend, or something more? I like how the book was a mystery on the intentions and actions of Will, not only for Anna but for me as well.
I’m very judgy about my romcoms, likely more than I should be. 🫣😂
There’s not much to judge about Is She Really Going Out With Him? and I had a blast reading this one. I will definitely read more by Sophie Cousens in the future.
It’s a great way to start the year with a feel good romance that just worked for me!
✔️ A fantastic main character that gets out of her comfort zone and tries new things. I don’t think there was anything about Anna that I did not love!
✔️ Excellent secondary characters that do not get lost in the book. Anna's kids were the best!
✔️ The dialogue was funny at times and the plot felt relatable.
✔️ Enemies-to-lovers genre. I had the hardest time trying to figure out Will and his feelings for Anna.
Is he just a coworker, a competitor, a friend, or something more? I like how the book was a mystery on the intentions and actions of Will, not only for Anna but for me as well.
I’m very judgy about my romcoms, likely more than I should be. 🫣😂
There’s not much to judge about Is She Really Going Out With Him? and I had a blast reading this one. I will definitely read more by Sophie Cousens in the future.
It’s a great way to start the year with a feel good romance that just worked for me!
June 23, 2025
THIS WAS SO CUTE!!!
i had so much fun!!
anna is a divorced mother of two who is a journalist who needs to spice up her column and so she agrees to let her kids pick out her dates so she can write about them & hopefully bring more viewership to her column. but her workplace rival has annoying way of making things difficult..
one of my favorite parts of this book was the fact that her kids play a significant role in the story. a lot of times when the FMC is a mother, the kids kind of fall by the wayside and seem like a subplot & a hinderance in the woman’s life (looking at you finlay donovan). but she’s a mother first and i love her for that.
the MMC??? he’s flirty and cocky and funny and sweet and so hot. love him so much. next time someone asks me what my type is i will direct them to this book. (although i’m pretty sure he’s blonde but let’s not dwell on that hehe)
the FMC was great as well. she cares for her kids, she’s learning who she is outside of her divorce and she looks forward to her future with hope. proud of her 🫶🏽
overall, the characters were very realistic and they were three dimensional which i loved. we learn a lot about them and they’re stories and when the two fall in love it’s believable because they’ve spent so much time together.
i literally laughed out loud multiple times as well. i say this a lot, but often times when romance authors try to be funny i get cringed out and don’t find the humor in it at all. but not here.
one thing i didn’t love was there was a little section where sex became a driving factor in their relationship. while there wasn’t explicit scenes shown on page, we knew they were happening. but that part of the story didn’t last super long.
🔥SPICE🔥innuendo and foreplay shown. we know the deed is being done, but the scene changes before anything explicit happens. there’s lots of tension & buildup though.
🤐LANGUAGE🤐 10 uses of the F word. a few minor swear words, but not much.
i had so much fun!!
anna is a divorced mother of two who is a journalist who needs to spice up her column and so she agrees to let her kids pick out her dates so she can write about them & hopefully bring more viewership to her column. but her workplace rival has annoying way of making things difficult..
one of my favorite parts of this book was the fact that her kids play a significant role in the story. a lot of times when the FMC is a mother, the kids kind of fall by the wayside and seem like a subplot & a hinderance in the woman’s life (looking at you finlay donovan). but she’s a mother first and i love her for that.
the MMC??? he’s flirty and cocky and funny and sweet and so hot. love him so much. next time someone asks me what my type is i will direct them to this book. (although i’m pretty sure he’s blonde but let’s not dwell on that hehe)
the FMC was great as well. she cares for her kids, she’s learning who she is outside of her divorce and she looks forward to her future with hope. proud of her 🫶🏽
overall, the characters were very realistic and they were three dimensional which i loved. we learn a lot about them and they’re stories and when the two fall in love it’s believable because they’ve spent so much time together.
i literally laughed out loud multiple times as well. i say this a lot, but often times when romance authors try to be funny i get cringed out and don’t find the humor in it at all. but not here.
one thing i didn’t love was there was a little section where sex became a driving factor in their relationship. while there wasn’t explicit scenes shown on page, we knew they were happening. but that part of the story didn’t last super long.
🔥SPICE🔥innuendo and foreplay shown. we know the deed is being done, but the scene changes before anything explicit happens. there’s lots of tension & buildup though.
🤐LANGUAGE🤐 10 uses of the F word. a few minor swear words, but not much.
April 1, 2025
exactly what I ordered! sophie cousens is quickly becoming one of my favorite authors 🥰
December 14, 2024
genuinely would rather be six feet under then act like that at 38
April 25, 2025
This is exactly how a rom-com should be. It has to make you feel connected to the characters, root for them and care about the outcome. This did that in spades. Lovely read.
October 26, 2024
i really, really loved this book, and i love sophie cousens even more for writing it!!
“is she really going out with him?” follows anna, a single mom and writer fresh out of a rough divorce, who’s determined to keep things stable and stay “happy on her own” for the sake of her kids—and her career. but then will enters the picture, and while he’s annoyingly charming, he is also an ambitious writer who is not-so-secretly after her column.
in a desperate move to keep her job, anna lets her kids take the reins and set her up on ten dates with people from “real life” to write a column on offline dating culture—shared, of course, with none other than will himself.
i had so much fun reading this book and cousens did a phenomenal job with anna’s journey! it was raw and relatable, and anna was so easy to root for. watching anna’s skepticism slowly transform as she opens herself to love and dating after a painful split was so beautiful to read, especially as her rivalry with will blossomed into something much deeper and sweeter.
cousens perfectly captures the awkward, sometimes painful, but ultimately beautiful experience of rediscovering yourself and finding love after a rough patch. “is she really going out with him?” comes out this november, and i highly recommend checking it out! a special thank you to netgalley and penguin group putnam for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
“is she really going out with him?” follows anna, a single mom and writer fresh out of a rough divorce, who’s determined to keep things stable and stay “happy on her own” for the sake of her kids—and her career. but then will enters the picture, and while he’s annoyingly charming, he is also an ambitious writer who is not-so-secretly after her column.
in a desperate move to keep her job, anna lets her kids take the reins and set her up on ten dates with people from “real life” to write a column on offline dating culture—shared, of course, with none other than will himself.
i had so much fun reading this book and cousens did a phenomenal job with anna’s journey! it was raw and relatable, and anna was so easy to root for. watching anna’s skepticism slowly transform as she opens herself to love and dating after a painful split was so beautiful to read, especially as her rivalry with will blossomed into something much deeper and sweeter.
cousens perfectly captures the awkward, sometimes painful, but ultimately beautiful experience of rediscovering yourself and finding love after a rough patch. “is she really going out with him?” comes out this november, and i highly recommend checking it out! a special thank you to netgalley and penguin group putnam for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.
July 11, 2025
Reading *Is She Really Going Out with Him* felt a bit like scrolling through social media when you’re bored, it’s entertaining enough, but you're not exactly invested. This is my second rendezvous with Sophie Cousens, and much like *The Good Part*, it left me feeling... fine.
The story is cute, predictable, and has its charming moments. But let's be honest, it's not the kind of book that haunts you when you're away, desperately pulling you back to read just one more chapter. Two weeks later, I’m struggling to remember the finer details, and if I’d waited any longer, the plot would probably be a distant blur.
Cousens has a knack for crafting light, easygoing reads that don’t ask much of you, which is great if you’re in the mood for something breezy. But would I recommend it? Probably not. It’s pleasant enough, but it’s like that background music in a coffee shop—nice while it’s on, but you won’t be humming it on your way out.
Thank you to NetGalley and PENGUIN Geiup Putnam for an advanced copy so that I may give my honest feedback and review.
The story is cute, predictable, and has its charming moments. But let's be honest, it's not the kind of book that haunts you when you're away, desperately pulling you back to read just one more chapter. Two weeks later, I’m struggling to remember the finer details, and if I’d waited any longer, the plot would probably be a distant blur.
Cousens has a knack for crafting light, easygoing reads that don’t ask much of you, which is great if you’re in the mood for something breezy. But would I recommend it? Probably not. It’s pleasant enough, but it’s like that background music in a coffee shop—nice while it’s on, but you won’t be humming it on your way out.
Thank you to NetGalley and PENGUIN Geiup Putnam for an advanced copy so that I may give my honest feedback and review.
February 6, 2025
Calling it early, but I'm pretty sure this will be one of my top 10 favorite books of 2025.
After a painful divorce, Anna tried to venture into the world of online dating which turns out to be a disaster. When she finds out her office rival is vying for her column, Anna decides to take things into her own hands and pitches an idea for a new dating column. She agrees to go on seven in-person dates who will all be chosen by her children and will write about each of the dates weekly in her column. Her rival will go on the same amount of dates, but will find his dates using online dating apps and will also write about his experience each week.
This book was just so good and a lot of fun! Though it deals with life after a messy divorce and there are some heavier topics addressed, overall it had a lighter tone. Anna was just so relatable. I laughed out loud so many times while listening to this book. I also loved Anna's Google searches at the end of every chapter. Absolutely loved it. 5 brilliant stars ✨
After a painful divorce, Anna tried to venture into the world of online dating which turns out to be a disaster. When she finds out her office rival is vying for her column, Anna decides to take things into her own hands and pitches an idea for a new dating column. She agrees to go on seven in-person dates who will all be chosen by her children and will write about each of the dates weekly in her column. Her rival will go on the same amount of dates, but will find his dates using online dating apps and will also write about his experience each week.
This book was just so good and a lot of fun! Though it deals with life after a messy divorce and there are some heavier topics addressed, overall it had a lighter tone. Anna was just so relatable. I laughed out loud so many times while listening to this book. I also loved Anna's Google searches at the end of every chapter. Absolutely loved it. 5 brilliant stars ✨
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November 18, 2024I knew where this was going from the first 30 pages but it was still a fun ride
December 3, 2024
4.5 🌟 so freaking good!!! I’d never read a book with this premise before, where the fmc’s kids choose her dates and I loved it so much!! It was so funny and cute. I truly loved every character in this book. I was invested in Anna’s job and her workplace/what would happen with that. I loved reading about all of the silly dates and how great things came from those for her, her character growth as a person, partner, and mother, and of course her relationship with Will 🥹 rivals to lovers, bickering, bantering, acts of service, what more do I need!!! There were so many different pieces to this story that made it so special and unique and I really loved it so much. Might even be a 5 star the more I sit with it!!!
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