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Scusa, ho Mercurio retrogrado: Viaggio nell'era del pensiero magico
Perché soffriamo un po’ tutti della sindrome dell’impostore? Ed è necessariamente un male? Come diavolo ci siamo convinti di poter “manifestare” il nostro destino? E in che modo Mercurio retrogrado dovrebbe condizionare la nostra vita? In questo brillante saggio, Amanda Montell, scrittrice e linguista americana, esplora con umorismo e acume i bias cognitivi e le false credenze che permeano la nostra società solo apparentemente iper-razionale. Dall’effetto alone che ci fa idolatrare celebrità come Taylor Swift (e ce le fa odiare quando non soddisfano le nostre assurde aspettative), alla fallacia dei costi irrecuperabili che ci tiene bloccati in relazioni tossiche, l’autrice svela i meccanismi nascosti della nostra mente e ci conduce in un viaggio che ci fa guardare con occhi nuovi a elementi caratteristici della nostra quotidianità, con frequenti incursioni nella cultura pop. "Scusa, ho Mercurio retrogrado" è un invito a riflettere sui nostri processi mentali, a sorridere delle nostre contraddizioni e, forse, a trovare un po’ di serenità nel caos della vita moderna.
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First published April 9, 2024
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Amanda Montell
4 books3,692 followersAmanda Montell is a writer, linguist, and podcast host living in Los Angeles. She is the author of three nonfiction books, Cultish: The Language of Fanaticism, Wordslut: A Feminist Guide to Taking Back the English Language, and The Age of Magical Overthinking: Notes on Modern Irrationality (forthcoming April 9, 2024 from OneSignal). She is also a creator and host of the hit podcast, Sounds Like A Cult. Amanda’s books have earned praise from The Washington Post, The Atlantic, Kirkus Reviews, and more. Cultish was named a best book of 2021 by NPR, was shortlisted for several prizes including the Goodreads Choice Awards and getAbstract International Book Award, and is currently in development for television. Sounds Like A Cult won “Best Emerging Podcast” at the 2023 iHeart Radio Podcast Awards and was named a best podcast of 2022 by Vulture, Esquire, Marie Claire, and others.
Amanda’s essays and reporting have appeared in The New York Times, Harper’s Bazaar, Marie Claire, and elsewhere. She was born and raised in Baltimore, MD and holds a degree in linguistics from NYU. Find her on Instagram @amanda_montell or Substack at amandamontell.substack.com.
Amanda’s essays and reporting have appeared in The New York Times, Harper’s Bazaar, Marie Claire, and elsewhere. She was born and raised in Baltimore, MD and holds a degree in linguistics from NYU. Find her on Instagram @amanda_montell or Substack at amandamontell.substack.com.
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May 10, 2024
I have so many thoughts about this and need to gather them together. But I just have a theory about the author that I need to work on.
If you thought you’d get a non fiction about the current state of chronically online overthjnkers, this is not it. It’s like a collection of essays that are memoir ish and then just talking about well known psychological concepts. It feels so disjointed. Again, I’m struggling to find the words. But I wanted to give the author another try because unlike most, I was underwhelmed with Cultish. And randomly every chapter seemed to allude back to cults?
I’ll end it with saying I think that the author parades as someone who knows more than they do. And Im not a fan
Edit: my wrap up that includes my rant about this book https://youtu.be/4FtvhB5X10E?si=S9aU3...
If you thought you’d get a non fiction about the current state of chronically online overthjnkers, this is not it. It’s like a collection of essays that are memoir ish and then just talking about well known psychological concepts. It feels so disjointed. Again, I’m struggling to find the words. But I wanted to give the author another try because unlike most, I was underwhelmed with Cultish. And randomly every chapter seemed to allude back to cults?
I’ll end it with saying I think that the author parades as someone who knows more than they do. And Im not a fan
Edit: my wrap up that includes my rant about this book https://youtu.be/4FtvhB5X10E?si=S9aU3...
January 1, 2025
Do we now just write books and slap whatever title we feel like at the end?
This book had very little to do with what you'd expect. Mostly a memoir and honestly... not offense but who are you? I don't read memoirs unless they're on a topic I really care about or someone I'm interested in.
This collection of essays was all over the place and barely related to the topic.
This book feels like clickbait and a money grab.
Skip it.
Review: https://youtu.be/GJcV08D3NcE?si=LrBwd...
This book had very little to do with what you'd expect. Mostly a memoir and honestly... not offense but who are you? I don't read memoirs unless they're on a topic I really care about or someone I'm interested in.
This collection of essays was all over the place and barely related to the topic.
This book feels like clickbait and a money grab.
Skip it.
Review: https://youtu.be/GJcV08D3NcE?si=LrBwd...
April 20, 2024
Dnf at 37%.
This is mopey memoir masquerading as social science. I was a huge fan of Cultish and was excited to get to this book, but it is an exemplar of the very thing she is attacking. She rails against people who see something online and accept it as gospel but her level of rigor is barely better. While actually reading a study (as I assume she did) is better than circulating clickbait, it is only a skoosh better. She repeatedly cherry-picks research, generally relying upon a single study to support grand pronouncements about group dynamics in areas where a good amount of sound contradictory research and scholarship exists, and is never referred to. She also relies on a boatload of assumptions about human behavior she sets forth as universal, or at least typical, but which are not. As social science this is unforgivable.
If I read this as memoir or cultural criticism (which I see is what it is being advertised as, I had not read the blurb before starting this) the book is forgivable but lazy and out of touch. I am not one to rail against privilege displayed in a memoir. Privileged is not a corollary to happy, and being privileged does not mean that you are not interesting and/or do not have keen insights. And some might consider me privileged so I feel uncomfortable conceding that privilege makes a person's experiences and observations less than worthwhile. But even I was uncomfortable with references to her burning need to sojourn to Italy to find ballast. In the end, as memoir I found this boring and tone deaf and as cultural criticism it was a rehash of many things I have read before -- there is nothing fresh and little that is persuasive. This book is to cultural anthropology what GOOP is to epidemiology. A spectacular disappointment.
This is mopey memoir masquerading as social science. I was a huge fan of Cultish and was excited to get to this book, but it is an exemplar of the very thing she is attacking. She rails against people who see something online and accept it as gospel but her level of rigor is barely better. While actually reading a study (as I assume she did) is better than circulating clickbait, it is only a skoosh better. She repeatedly cherry-picks research, generally relying upon a single study to support grand pronouncements about group dynamics in areas where a good amount of sound contradictory research and scholarship exists, and is never referred to. She also relies on a boatload of assumptions about human behavior she sets forth as universal, or at least typical, but which are not. As social science this is unforgivable.
If I read this as memoir or cultural criticism (which I see is what it is being advertised as, I had not read the blurb before starting this) the book is forgivable but lazy and out of touch. I am not one to rail against privilege displayed in a memoir. Privileged is not a corollary to happy, and being privileged does not mean that you are not interesting and/or do not have keen insights. And some might consider me privileged so I feel uncomfortable conceding that privilege makes a person's experiences and observations less than worthwhile. But even I was uncomfortable with references to her burning need to sojourn to Italy to find ballast. In the end, as memoir I found this boring and tone deaf and as cultural criticism it was a rehash of many things I have read before -- there is nothing fresh and little that is persuasive. This book is to cultural anthropology what GOOP is to epidemiology. A spectacular disappointment.
April 27, 2024
What do people want from Amanda Montell? It’s been interesting to read the reviews from the people who think she’s the Messiah of Knowledge and the people who think she’s an Antichrist Fraud, and there seems to be little in between! It’s pretty fascinating and the kind of thing she might write about herself!
Me, I’m a more middle-of-the-road Montell fan, and I think I’m also a Montell completest? - in any case, I’ve read all her books and listened to most of her podcast episodes. My take on her is that she is like the very excellent college professor or AP high school teacher you either had, or you never had but sorely wanted, especially to learn about cultural criticism type stuff. She is great at taking basic popular social science concepts and frameworks, including from linguistics, psychology, and gender studies, and applying them broadly to relevant pop culture, social media, and other human interest topics at kind of a sophisticated 101 survey class level with an appropriate modicum of self-disclosure for relatability and humor. That’s her niche, and she doesn’t claim otherwise, and in my opinion, it’s a valid one. I’d rather people learn or review the kinds of things she writes about than never engage with them at all. She gets people excited about and connected to these concepts, and encouraging that engagement is a legitimate talent and can only be a good thing. Anything that can help people critique and more critically consume media and their own thinking and habits - I just don’t think that can really be a bad thing.
I noticed that some people find her somehow overly critical or perhaps superior or something, and I have to say I don’t get that vibe. Of note, I’ve only listened to Montell on audio or podcast, and perhaps that’s why I have never gotten that impression. She reads her own works, and as such, her tone always seems very good-hearted toward others and benevolent and if anything, self-deprecating. If she can be a bit too much of a “we guy,” to appropriate a SATC term, I think it’s because she is only genuinely intrigued in the human condition and some of the commonalities and preoccupations and anxieties we share, although I find she is also consistently able to acknowledge her own privilege and different lived experience. I just don’t have any problems with her, and I like what she is doing. Overall, she may not be for everyone, but I can totally get why some people are quite happy to be assigned to Professor Montell’s section or classroom!
For background, the order in which I’ve personally preferred her books is: Cultish; The Age of Magical Overthinking; Wordslut. And, I love the podcast.
Me, I’m a more middle-of-the-road Montell fan, and I think I’m also a Montell completest? - in any case, I’ve read all her books and listened to most of her podcast episodes. My take on her is that she is like the very excellent college professor or AP high school teacher you either had, or you never had but sorely wanted, especially to learn about cultural criticism type stuff. She is great at taking basic popular social science concepts and frameworks, including from linguistics, psychology, and gender studies, and applying them broadly to relevant pop culture, social media, and other human interest topics at kind of a sophisticated 101 survey class level with an appropriate modicum of self-disclosure for relatability and humor. That’s her niche, and she doesn’t claim otherwise, and in my opinion, it’s a valid one. I’d rather people learn or review the kinds of things she writes about than never engage with them at all. She gets people excited about and connected to these concepts, and encouraging that engagement is a legitimate talent and can only be a good thing. Anything that can help people critique and more critically consume media and their own thinking and habits - I just don’t think that can really be a bad thing.
I noticed that some people find her somehow overly critical or perhaps superior or something, and I have to say I don’t get that vibe. Of note, I’ve only listened to Montell on audio or podcast, and perhaps that’s why I have never gotten that impression. She reads her own works, and as such, her tone always seems very good-hearted toward others and benevolent and if anything, self-deprecating. If she can be a bit too much of a “we guy,” to appropriate a SATC term, I think it’s because she is only genuinely intrigued in the human condition and some of the commonalities and preoccupations and anxieties we share, although I find she is also consistently able to acknowledge her own privilege and different lived experience. I just don’t have any problems with her, and I like what she is doing. Overall, she may not be for everyone, but I can totally get why some people are quite happy to be assigned to Professor Montell’s section or classroom!
For background, the order in which I’ve personally preferred her books is: Cultish; The Age of Magical Overthinking; Wordslut. And, I love the podcast.
February 4, 2024
I feel like this is a generous 3, but I could see others enjoying this a lot more than I did. Had this book been committed to being a memoir or short-essays, I may have gone in with different expectations, but instead I was anticipating a deep-dive into biases and paradigms. I got... mostly what felt like Amanda Montell defining one of those things, quoting a few scientists/artists/celebrities on the matter, then relating the concept back to her life in some way. Ultimately, the chapters didn't really commit in any one direction either - are these biases good? Bad? Human nature? Things we can work on? ... 🤷♀️
Oh well.
Oh well.
May 1, 2024
While this memoir-esque essay collection doesn't offer cutting edge, brand new insights, it's certainly smart, entertaining and timely. In eleven chapters, Montell ponders
- the halo effect
- proportionality bias
- sunk cost fallacy
- zero-sum bias
- survivorship biast
- recency illusion
- overconfidence bias
- illusory truth effect
- confirmation bias
- declinism
- IKEA effect.
What I particularly enjoyed is how she connects these, let's be real, rather well-known cognitive biases that amount to magical thinking to her personal life, pop culture and historic events, thus giving us entertaining examples that are often way too relatable: We might think that we're above these delusions, but then Montell tells her stories, and trust me, you'll also be like "oh no, I've been there". It's just a non-judgemental, frequently funny strategy to alert readers to tendencies that can also lead societies down dark, dangerous paths. To entertain an audience while almost secretly teaching lessons about cognitive shortcomings is an effective way to go: It's more empathetic than confrontative without rendering the inherent dangers of magical thinking harmless.
So yes, this isn't groundbreaking research or anything, but I liked the concept and enjoyed listening to the audio book.
- the halo effect
- proportionality bias
- sunk cost fallacy
- zero-sum bias
- survivorship biast
- recency illusion
- overconfidence bias
- illusory truth effect
- confirmation bias
- declinism
- IKEA effect.
What I particularly enjoyed is how she connects these, let's be real, rather well-known cognitive biases that amount to magical thinking to her personal life, pop culture and historic events, thus giving us entertaining examples that are often way too relatable: We might think that we're above these delusions, but then Montell tells her stories, and trust me, you'll also be like "oh no, I've been there". It's just a non-judgemental, frequently funny strategy to alert readers to tendencies that can also lead societies down dark, dangerous paths. To entertain an audience while almost secretly teaching lessons about cognitive shortcomings is an effective way to go: It's more empathetic than confrontative without rendering the inherent dangers of magical thinking harmless.
So yes, this isn't groundbreaking research or anything, but I liked the concept and enjoyed listening to the audio book.
April 18, 2024
you could watch like five tiktok’s and garner the same level of nuance this book has to offer
November 30, 2023
I loved Montell’s previous book (Cultish) and I dare say this was even better. In The Age of Magical Overthinking, Montell breaks down the various cognitive biases that impact us in our post-COVID, hyper-online world. In “Are You Our Mother, Taylor Swift?”, she examines why we’re led to exalt public figures on a god-like level, and then get angry when they don’t match the impossibly-high pedestal they never asked to stand on in the first place. In “A Toxic Relationship is Just a Cult Of One”, she speaks about how social media makes us value the story of our lives more than the lived experience of it, and why we might invest even *more* energy and time into a situation that isn’t working just to maintain the narrative we’re trying to tell. If you’ve ever felt like the universe sent you a divinely ordained message in the form of a Tiktok tarot reading, felt super confident you can recreate that Pinterest DIY only to end up with a pile of garbage, or repeated a fact you heard without fully knowing if it's true, this book is FOR YOU. And, let’s be real, we’ve all been there.
Montell doesn’t speak about these things from a holier-than-thou, self-help and betterment perspective. She’s candid and genuine in these essays, speaking lots from her own experience. She talks first-hand about having been in a toxic relationship and not being able to leave, about getting sucked into the world of ‘beauty influencers’ and spending all her money on unnecessary products, about having a presence on social media even when she knows how harmful it can be. But she ties these experiences into a well-researched, well-articulated, and relatable piece of writing that perfectly captures our cultural moment, untangling the complicated web of why it feels so hard to just exist as a human being right now.
Montell doesn’t speak about these things from a holier-than-thou, self-help and betterment perspective. She’s candid and genuine in these essays, speaking lots from her own experience. She talks first-hand about having been in a toxic relationship and not being able to leave, about getting sucked into the world of ‘beauty influencers’ and spending all her money on unnecessary products, about having a presence on social media even when she knows how harmful it can be. But she ties these experiences into a well-researched, well-articulated, and relatable piece of writing that perfectly captures our cultural moment, untangling the complicated web of why it feels so hard to just exist as a human being right now.
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September 3, 2023as an ocd girly i need this immediately and literally can’t wait for it someone give me an arc
September 1, 2024
Going to save my thoughts for my podcast and maybe some truly unhinged videos. It’s both a 2.5 and 4.5 ⭐️
July 6, 2024
I have not read Cultish, so maybe my expectations are miscalibrated, but this book strikes me as scattered and short on research.
In only chapter 2, which is titled “I Swear I Manifested This,” Montell mentions in passing: the fact that educated women are the most likely to believe New Age mysticism; Aboriginal understandings of harmony with the world; and manifestation as a pipeline to QANON. And like, if you can weave all that together in one chapter with a clear through line, that’s awesome. But I feel like all of these things could be a chapter on their own! They could be their own books! And instead they each just get a cursory mention.
The rest of the book is similarly all over the place. Again, I appreciate that Montell is trying to tie together a lot of disparate ideas, but she frequently does not cement the connections.
Thank you to Atria for providing a review copy.
In only chapter 2, which is titled “I Swear I Manifested This,” Montell mentions in passing: the fact that educated women are the most likely to believe New Age mysticism; Aboriginal understandings of harmony with the world; and manifestation as a pipeline to QANON. And like, if you can weave all that together in one chapter with a clear through line, that’s awesome. But I feel like all of these things could be a chapter on their own! They could be their own books! And instead they each just get a cursory mention.
The rest of the book is similarly all over the place. Again, I appreciate that Montell is trying to tie together a lot of disparate ideas, but she frequently does not cement the connections.
Thank you to Atria for providing a review copy.
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December 23, 2024i liked this author's previous books, but this one felt underwhelming and more surface-level. the essays feel disjointed without a strong central thesis to tie it together, and so much of this could just be summarized in a tiktok rather than a book.
April 9, 2024
all of these essays felt like spoofs of sex and the city episodes (mr. backpack!?). reading the sentence "paying a wealthy stranger $26 a month for their dubious online manifestation course is just a version of Stockholm syndrome" almost took my fucking head off. good book to read if you want a reminder that people can literally just say anything
March 24, 2024
I'm really torn on my feelings for this one. I really enjoyed Amanda Montell's previous book 'Cultish' and was very excited to pick this one up.
In The Age of Magical Overthinking, Montell describes multiple types of cognitive biases that we face today in the digital age - from celebrity worship to overactive fight or flight response. With each chapter covering a different topic, there were a lot of thought provoking ideas & topics for discussion.
Overall, this book felt like it was lacking a conclusion or overall connectivity between the chapters. A lot of the chapters almost felt incomplete & left me wishing there were more things said on particular topics. As with any collection of essays, stories, etc. some will be better than others and it's up to you to decide what you might enjoy.
Montell is certainly a talented author and this is a book that a lot of people will be able to resonate with and relate to - for me, it was just okay.
Thank you to NetGalley & Atria Books for providing me with an electronic ARC of this book to review.
In The Age of Magical Overthinking, Montell describes multiple types of cognitive biases that we face today in the digital age - from celebrity worship to overactive fight or flight response. With each chapter covering a different topic, there were a lot of thought provoking ideas & topics for discussion.
Overall, this book felt like it was lacking a conclusion or overall connectivity between the chapters. A lot of the chapters almost felt incomplete & left me wishing there were more things said on particular topics. As with any collection of essays, stories, etc. some will be better than others and it's up to you to decide what you might enjoy.
Montell is certainly a talented author and this is a book that a lot of people will be able to resonate with and relate to - for me, it was just okay.
Thank you to NetGalley & Atria Books for providing me with an electronic ARC of this book to review.
April 16, 2024
After how much I enjoyed Cultish, I was really let down by this one. If you've taken a PSYCH 101 class, none of the insight into biases will be new to you. This book veers into memoir and personal anecdote far more than is warranted. While I recommended Cultish to anyone who would listen, I will caution readers against this one. I think Montell is less aware of her own biases than she pretends and this is not her area of expertise.
February 27, 2024
this was my version of the daily morning newspaper with a cup of coffee
May 2, 2024
I can't overstate how overwritten and underresearched this book is. Only finished because I was hoping this book would redeem itself at some point, as I quite enjoyed reading Cultish earlier this year. The author's voice feels very different in this one, it's as if she came up with a few generally popular topics and then asked someone else (or ChatGPT, which ironically is mentioned a few times) to write a few uninspired pages building on those. The leaps she makes are eye-roll worthy. There is almost as much talk of cults as in her actual book about cults. Some of the chapters could literally have been essays I'd have written for uni with lots of big empty words, making up the word count as best I could.
Perhaps it was a modern irrationality for me to finish this book and trash it here on Goodreads because it clearly added nothing positive to my life, but alas. I'm glad I didn't pay 35 Aussie dollars to read this and I would recommend you don't either. Thanks Spotify for the 15hrs of free audiobooks.
Perhaps it was a modern irrationality for me to finish this book and trash it here on Goodreads because it clearly added nothing positive to my life, but alas. I'm glad I didn't pay 35 Aussie dollars to read this and I would recommend you don't either. Thanks Spotify for the 15hrs of free audiobooks.
February 20, 2025
Rounding up to 5 because I would like to reread this multiple times.
I originally picked this up because I've been working on a cognitive distortion called magical thinking with my therapist. I thought the book might be helpful to me.
Felt like my seventh and eighth grade critical thinking classes except alive and modernized.
This is the third or fourth book I've read by Montell, and I've loved every single one of them. I'm a fan!
I originally picked this up because I've been working on a cognitive distortion called magical thinking with my therapist. I thought the book might be helpful to me.
Felt like my seventh and eighth grade critical thinking classes except alive and modernized.
This is the third or fourth book I've read by Montell, and I've loved every single one of them. I'm a fan!
May 24, 2024
✧.* this was like 50% social science, 40% Memoir and 10% gen z and millennial pop culture references
I enjoyed it but I think if you want some thing more scientific and less memoir maybe this wouldn't be for you. Also if you have any knowledge on biases you probably won't learn anything new...
I enjoyed it but I think if you want some thing more scientific and less memoir maybe this wouldn't be for you. Also if you have any knowledge on biases you probably won't learn anything new...
February 13, 2024
Amanda Montell has done it again! I've read her other two books and am a regular listener of her podcast, Sounds Like a Cult, so when I heard this book was coming out, I knew I had to check it out as soon as possible! In the Age of Magical Overthinking, Montell has tackled various components of our social media-centric culture and explored how our cognitive biases reinforce and influence how we interact with our surroundings.
I also really love Montell's writing style and her ability to combine non-fiction and personal anecdotes. Montell is able to articulate these complex topics and present them in a digestible way all while weaving in layers of thorough research (and pop culture elements) around each topic.
Although I was gifted a copy of a digital ARC, I intend on purchasing a physical copy of this book as well. I continually come back to Montell's books sometimes for a full reread and other times to reread a particular section. I imagine that I will do the same with this book.
I absolutely recommend this book for anyone who is interested in modern overthinking, irrationality, cognitive biases, and learning more about the collective human experience. I also think that Montell's books are a great place to start for anyone looking to incorporate more nonfiction into their reading habits.
Thank you to the publisher and to NetGalley for providing an e-ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
I also really love Montell's writing style and her ability to combine non-fiction and personal anecdotes. Montell is able to articulate these complex topics and present them in a digestible way all while weaving in layers of thorough research (and pop culture elements) around each topic.
Although I was gifted a copy of a digital ARC, I intend on purchasing a physical copy of this book as well. I continually come back to Montell's books sometimes for a full reread and other times to reread a particular section. I imagine that I will do the same with this book.
I absolutely recommend this book for anyone who is interested in modern overthinking, irrationality, cognitive biases, and learning more about the collective human experience. I also think that Montell's books are a great place to start for anyone looking to incorporate more nonfiction into their reading habits.
Thank you to the publisher and to NetGalley for providing an e-ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.
April 11, 2025
It's categorized as "autobiography/memoir". Which means Montell and her publishing team deliberately misled readers in making us believe this is a science-backed book rooted in psychology. No, this a disguised memoir of someone who isn't famous enough to have it blatantly stated. A self-obsessed writer.
Title should be "Privileged White Girl Talks about Unrelatable Rich Girl Experiences," because only someone completely entitled and delulu could turn to a BA from over a decade ago, spend 200+ pages talking about herself and her Italian travels, mask it all under a premise of "social science", regurgitate the research of others, and call herself a linguist.
Is this book a means to an end? Does Montell have any interest in what she's talking about, or does she simply want to reach stardom? Quite frankly, she seems obsessed with fame. At least, that is the tone I gleaned while reading this book where she name drops every celebrity she knows. Guarantee she'll try her hand at fiction then attempt to star in the movie adaptation of it. Stop giving book deals to every white girl who dresses well and has a "quirky" persona.
Title should be "Privileged White Girl Talks about Unrelatable Rich Girl Experiences," because only someone completely entitled and delulu could turn to a BA from over a decade ago, spend 200+ pages talking about herself and her Italian travels, mask it all under a premise of "social science", regurgitate the research of others, and call herself a linguist.
Is this book a means to an end? Does Montell have any interest in what she's talking about, or does she simply want to reach stardom? Quite frankly, she seems obsessed with fame. At least, that is the tone I gleaned while reading this book where she name drops every celebrity she knows. Guarantee she'll try her hand at fiction then attempt to star in the movie adaptation of it. Stop giving book deals to every white girl who dresses well and has a "quirky" persona.
May 28, 2024
-I learned that humans are the only living species with chins
-"toxic relationships are just a cult of one" was my fav quote
-the crafting chapter made me want to start crocheting
-loved the discussions about nostalgia and all the terms I learned in that chapter
-"toxic relationships are just a cult of one" was my fav quote
-the crafting chapter made me want to start crocheting
-loved the discussions about nostalgia and all the terms I learned in that chapter
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May 11, 2024i don’t think i’m an overthinker🤔 also i’m not sure if this is really about overthinking🤔 but my goal is reading 50 nonfiction this year and this is my second book so far😔 plus it has a nice cover😍 so let’s see what is it about👀
May 15, 2024
This attempted to give so much, and yet gave nothing at all.
July 20, 2024
Unpopular opinion time: This was my favourite Amanda Montell book. Unlike her previous works, this book draws more on psychology than linguistics, exploring the cognitive fallacies that have taken hold of our society. This is also much more personal than her previous books, with the author pulling many of the examples from her own life. There are reflections about being the victim of a toxic relationship and the ways her time as a beauty editor influenced her.
I personally really like the direction Montell's writing is moving in, but those who especially liked the linguistics focus of her previous books might be disappointed. I would definitely recommend this to my fellow fans of memoirs and pop psychology!
I personally really like the direction Montell's writing is moving in, but those who especially liked the linguistics focus of her previous books might be disappointed. I would definitely recommend this to my fellow fans of memoirs and pop psychology!
August 5, 2024
2 stars
Sadly i'm not the audience for this. Each chapter felt so much like scrolling through someones disjointed tumblr posts on current trending topics, that I ended up skimming through the second half.
Maybe I've just curated my social media feed in a way that i've already come across these topics and seen them discussed with more nuance and by people with more knowledge on the subjects. It felt like she just wanted to chat about things on her mind, while I on the other hand was expecting some deep-dive-style essays. To each their own.
Sadly i'm not the audience for this. Each chapter felt so much like scrolling through someones disjointed tumblr posts on current trending topics, that I ended up skimming through the second half.
Maybe I've just curated my social media feed in a way that i've already come across these topics and seen them discussed with more nuance and by people with more knowledge on the subjects. It felt like she just wanted to chat about things on her mind, while I on the other hand was expecting some deep-dive-style essays. To each their own.
February 24, 2025
I had high expectations for The Age of Magical Overthinking after really liking Cultish, Montell’s previous book. TAOMO was interesting enough, but I definitely didn’t love it. Montell explores the concept of magical thinking and cognitive biases, how sometimes people believe their thoughts can impact unrelated events in the world. While the concept intrigued me, the book felt a bit scattered.
April 24, 2024
When I discovered Amanda Mantell’s new book, I rushed to secure a copy in order to see some of her latest thoughts. Having loved her previous two books, I was sure this would be another great read and I was not disappointed. Mantell seeks to explore the mind’s tendency to overthink, as well as the societal means by which it is overtaxed and sent on the path towards hyper-stimulation. With great commentary and witty asides, Mantell does a stellar job at exploring some highly technical and analytical topics while keeping it digestible for the layperson who needs a good laugh along the way!
While Amanda Montell captivated readers with her two previous publications, they pale in comparison to the exploration of the mind’s wiring and how biases help to rewire things for individuals in such a way that they are unaware of being duped. Montell does so by synthesising a number of these preconceived notions and ideas through filters of sociological influences and societal norms, while also peppering the tome with her own experiences, so as to keep the reader feeling grounded and as though they are not alone in the revelations. Montell has a witty way of telling her reader about things that trick the mind, shedding light on the numerous examples, while enveloping it in fact and study-based information.
The premise of the book, ‘magical thinking’ comes from the idea that internal thoughts and sentiments can help to create changes in the outside world. Manifesting something simply by casting light on it inside one’s mind to ensure it happens might seem silly to those who are peering in, but Montell explores how we all do it to some degree or another. Social media helps push the idea that we can change things simply by wanting to do so, or that our thoughts are an ever-evolving set of newly intuited thoughts is a falsehood that is not corrected at any point. Montell seeks to advise the reader of how these influences shape our lives and how we are duping ourselves into thinking we can simply ‘choose’ our pathway by manifesting that it happens.
Perhaps one of the most salient aspects of the book is Montell’s argument that the modern Information Age has flooded the brain with stimuli and factoids that it can no longer cope with ease, forcing the brain to snatch a few tidbits and scurry away for protection. Overstimulation and constant changes to the norm make it hard to truly find the path down which we ought to stroll, which can lead to the need to be praised or fit into a specific box. Montell does not dismiss the reader who feels this or even those she uses as examples, but rather explain it as a means to an end.
Montell’s writing is easy to comprehend and well-balanced in the chapters presented. Her ideas are both clear and easy to digest, while also pushing the envelope to challenge the attentive reader. Using many sources to substantiate her ideas, Montell develops themes in her chapters and argues them effectively, so as to ensure the reader can follow the thread and apply things from earlier in the book to the latter chapters. This cogent approach left me feeling not only educated, but feeling as though I could actually take something way from the book and apply it in future. While this might not be the subject matter for everyone, I cannot say enough about Montell’s work or how much I admire her for being so well-grounded in her arguments or daily living. I am eager to see where she will take readers next and know that I will be queued up, ready to participate once more.
Kudos, Madam Mantell, for a highly engaging book that I will surely share with others.
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While Amanda Montell captivated readers with her two previous publications, they pale in comparison to the exploration of the mind’s wiring and how biases help to rewire things for individuals in such a way that they are unaware of being duped. Montell does so by synthesising a number of these preconceived notions and ideas through filters of sociological influences and societal norms, while also peppering the tome with her own experiences, so as to keep the reader feeling grounded and as though they are not alone in the revelations. Montell has a witty way of telling her reader about things that trick the mind, shedding light on the numerous examples, while enveloping it in fact and study-based information.
The premise of the book, ‘magical thinking’ comes from the idea that internal thoughts and sentiments can help to create changes in the outside world. Manifesting something simply by casting light on it inside one’s mind to ensure it happens might seem silly to those who are peering in, but Montell explores how we all do it to some degree or another. Social media helps push the idea that we can change things simply by wanting to do so, or that our thoughts are an ever-evolving set of newly intuited thoughts is a falsehood that is not corrected at any point. Montell seeks to advise the reader of how these influences shape our lives and how we are duping ourselves into thinking we can simply ‘choose’ our pathway by manifesting that it happens.
Perhaps one of the most salient aspects of the book is Montell’s argument that the modern Information Age has flooded the brain with stimuli and factoids that it can no longer cope with ease, forcing the brain to snatch a few tidbits and scurry away for protection. Overstimulation and constant changes to the norm make it hard to truly find the path down which we ought to stroll, which can lead to the need to be praised or fit into a specific box. Montell does not dismiss the reader who feels this or even those she uses as examples, but rather explain it as a means to an end.
Montell’s writing is easy to comprehend and well-balanced in the chapters presented. Her ideas are both clear and easy to digest, while also pushing the envelope to challenge the attentive reader. Using many sources to substantiate her ideas, Montell develops themes in her chapters and argues them effectively, so as to ensure the reader can follow the thread and apply things from earlier in the book to the latter chapters. This cogent approach left me feeling not only educated, but feeling as though I could actually take something way from the book and apply it in future. While this might not be the subject matter for everyone, I cannot say enough about Montell’s work or how much I admire her for being so well-grounded in her arguments or daily living. I am eager to see where she will take readers next and know that I will be queued up, ready to participate once more.
Kudos, Madam Mantell, for a highly engaging book that I will surely share with others.
Love/hate the review? An ever-growing collection of others appears at:
http://pecheyponderings.wordpress.com/
June 2, 2024
The Age of Magical Overthinking is a collection of essays which explore cognitive biases through the lens of modern, popular culture with the author's own personal experiences thrown into the mix. It is very current in its approach which means it'll likely show its age sooner than other books, but having read the book during the year of its release, I thought the approach was fresh and interesting.
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May 9, 2024
This was not what I was expecting… I was expecting to enjoy it. I don’t think Amanda wanted to come off like an entitled white lady in this book but that’s what I got.
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