Rating: 8/10
In Master of Change, Stulberg offers practical principles for cultivating a resilient mindset called "rugged flexibility," empowering readers to adapt, strengthen, and gain wisdom amidst life's constant fluctuations.
As someone who is going through a lot of pivotal moments of change, I found comfort in Stulberg's book. I'm usually open to change but sometimes when you're in the middle of the storm, it can be hard to remain optimistic.
One concept that I liked: respond not react
> Instead of being reactive to your environment, learn how to respond to it
> Stulberg introduces the 4P framework: pause, process, plan, and proceed
> First, pause and label your current emotions.
Second, process your emotions by not identifying with them but instead, observing them (ex. why did this situation cause me to feel this way?).
Third, plan by evaluating the different ways you can respond to the situation.
Fourth, proceed by taking whatever steps are necessary and adjusting your plan as you go.
> By learning how to respond and not react, you'll gain more confidence to face changes since you have the necessary tools and framework to help you overcome unexpected challenges and curveballs
If you're risk or change-averse, then I recommend reading Master of Change.