Wow. Hearing the life story of Ben Carson pays so much tribute to his mother. His whole life was changed and steered in a direction of will power.
Love his moms no nonsense for things others thought might be impossible. And taught her boys to do better.
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“Bennie, if you can read, honey, you can learn just about anything you want to know.”
Sonya chose to limit her sons’ television viewing to two programs a week and took them to the public library. That choice changed their lives.
Each week the boys were required to check out and read two library books. Sonya required her boys to write a book report on one of those books each week.
Sonya Carson (Ben’s mother)
Quoted this poem often to her sons:
“You’re the captain of your ship”:
If things go bad for you--- And make you a bit ashamed Often you will find out that You have yourself to blame...
Swiftly we ran to mischief And then the bad luck came. Why do we fault others?
We have ourselves to blame...
Whatever happens to us,
Here are the words to say,
“Had it not been for so-and-so
Things wouldn’t have gone that way.”
And if you are short of friends, I’ll tell you what to do---
Make an examination,
You’ll find that fault’s in you...
You’re the captain of your ship, So agree with the same---
If you travel downward,
You have yourself to blame.
“Remember this as you go through life. The person who has the most to do with what happens to you is you! You make the choices; you decide whether you’re going to give up or ante up when it gets tough. Ultimately, it’s you who decides whether you’ll be a success or not, by doing what is legally necessary to get you where you want to go. You are the captain of your own ship. If you don’t succeed, you only have yourself to blame.”
Sonya Carson