You Don't Have To Have A Dream: Advice for the Incrementally Ambitious

by Tim Minchin (Author, Narrator)

‘Here’s my idea of romance: You will soon be dead. Life will sometimes seem long and tough and, God, it’s tiring. And you will sometimes be happy and sometimes sad. And then you’ll be old. And then you’ll be dead. There is only one sensible thing to do with this empty existence, and that is: fill it.’

Tim Minchin has a reputation for writing a good speech, and has been asked to do so on several occasions. Drawn from three of Tim’s most beloved university commencement addresses, You Don’t Have to Have a Dream offers his inimitable thoughts and advice on life, art, success, kindness, love, and thriving in a meaningless universe.

Featuring specially commissioned illustrations throughout, You Don’t Have to Have a Dream is a rallying cry for creativity and compassion in our daily lives, and how it’s never too late to put something beautiful out into the world.

57 min.

Genres: Nonfiction, Audiobook, Self Help, Essays, Memoir, Personal Development, Philosophy

1 pages, Audiobook

First published September 5, 2024

About the author

Timothy David "Tim" Minchin is an Australian-British comedian, actor, and musician.

source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tim_Minchin

Reviews

[Colin]

If you're going to read life advice it might as well be short, illustrated and written in australian.

[Rawnie Whittow-williams]

Some of my favourite passages: ‘We seem to be in an era that wants to throw out old ideas just BECAUSE they’re old, and perhaps because they have failed to deliver utopia’

‘I hold a passionate - probably naïve - belief in art as the most powerful method by which we can share valuable ideas’

‘Stir in a couple of ideas like the Principle of Charity (listening to the views of others with the generosity you’d like to be listened to), and a dedication to rejecting in-group/out-group thinking, and you’ve got yourself a sweet little recipe for societal flourishing’

‘You don’t have to claim a soul to promote compassion.’

‘Science is not a body of knowledge nor a system of belief; it is just a term which describes humankind’s incremental acquisition of understanding through observation’

‘Home sometimes hurts’


Minchin has compiled three of his famous public addresses and provided each of them with a beautiful introduction, teeing up his mind and influences at the times of these speeches. Minchin has ability to take serious topics and breathe life into them. The book had been made a beautiful coffee table esque book which lovely supplementary illustrations.

[sophie]

you can tell tim wrote this for a cheque but i honestly respect that

[Clinton]

Three short, witty graduation speeches delivered by Aussie musician/comedian/actor Tim Minchin. A summary of one: Life is meaningless and then you will die, but you are astoundingly lucky to be alive and you can do lots of wonderful things to fill your fortunate time, including reading. Now, imagine that said in a way that is more witty yet profound, more entertaining and thought provoking, with an Australian accent, and you have a sense of the speeches. Great stuff. I’ve attended a few graduations and I remember none of the speeches. I’ll remember these (or at least some bits), and I’ll probably listen again (Tim Minchin is a favourite).

And two more memorable titbits from Tim:
1. His advice is to be kind to everyone (which reminded me of what politician Jacinda Ardern emphasised in A Different Kind of Power).
2. “…try to beautify ugly truths rather than swallow beautiful lies.“

[Rainbow Goth]

4.25 🌟

Firstly this is short and I mean short. I was able to read it when my food was cooking. This book is a delightful blend of beauty and wit, perfectly capturing the essence of Minchin's unique style. His humour is both clever and thought-provoking, making for an engaging experience. However, I found myself wishing for even more of his personal insights and stories woven between the three speeches. These narratives would have added even greater depth and context, enhancing the overall richness of the content.

Despite this minor yearning for more, I thoroughly enjoyed the piece and appreciate the creativity and charm that Minchin consistently brings to his work.

[Ellie Heffernan]

God he is such a wanker (self proclaimed, don’t worry) and yet I love him, his perceptions on life and the advice in this book. I just wish he went more in depth about his opinions rather than rehashing his commencement speeches. Did this on audio and it’s really short, so recommend for a walk or on a commute home.

[Bec]

"Life will sometimes seem long and tough. And you will sometimes be happy and sometimes sad. And then you’ll be old. And then you’ll be dead. There is only one sensible thing to do with this empty existence, and that is: fill it"

[Jasmin]

I enjoyed this snappy read by Tim Minchin. I’ve always enjoyed Tim’s quirky, authentic, talented take on life and creativity, and this piece of writing is perfectly in line with Minchinesque style. I spied the book while window/Christmas shopping, and enjoyed the creative layout of the physical book as well.

[Sharah Powell]

Thought provoking and entertaining.

[Helena]

My mum came back from shopping, showing off this book she bought for Harry (our lost sheep) and an hour later (during which Harry looked out a window) I update my Goodreads.

Liked that it was Australian, liked that it was selling kindness, humility and authentic sincerity. Didn’t like that sometimes the eloquent language was a bit too tricky to wrap your head around. It’s like eating crab. Such an effort to unwrap and then you finally get to the meat and it’s just like- it tastes like sea-flavoured chicken.

Y’know?

Anyway, I also think that Harry will not find help within this book because it’s targeted towards arts students and uses many sex metaphors and Harry… js not part of that audience.

It’s called You Don’t Have To Have a Dream, but barely even touched on not knowing what to do with one’s life so, slightly false advertising there. But you all know I’m going to tell my mum it was great anyway 😄

[Karyn M]

3.5 / If you have 1 hour to spare, and you want some humanism and satire, with inspiring philosophy, then welcome to your next read / listen.

Tim Minchin the pro-procrastinator shares his unique blend of flourish-lessness, observational wisdom and wit, along with his previous now “viral” speeches.

This is well worth the listen, and probably a re-listen for when you’ve forgotten everything he said.

My takeaways

Be kind
Be open
Embrace nuance

Marked up to 4 ⭐️

3.5 ⭐️ Audiobook read by Tim Minchin

[Lauren Austin]

Whilst this is just a printed version of three speeches in its essence, the forewords to each are great. Tim’s a genius.

[Sim ✨]

lived for every musical mention in this (and all the typical curly words Tim uses that I have no idea of their meaning)

[Hannah Telfer]

I adore Tim Minchin. This was short and sweet - a nice, funny, speech-style book.

[Joana Alves | Juca Mindscape]

Não é nada de revolucionário mas foi interessante e com ilustrações chamativas.
É sempre bom ler aquele livro calmo e que nos relembra coisas boas.

[Laura Sinclair]

Put in the world valuable ideas 💛

[Margaret]

“Eu nunca tive nenhum desses grandes sonhos e defendo a dedicação apaixonada à busca por objetivos a curto prazo. Concentrem-se e trabalhem com orgulho no que quer que esteja à vossa frente… Nunca se sabe onde poderão ir parar (…) Se se focarem em algo que esteja muito longe de vocês, não verão aquela coisa brilhante pelo canto do olho”.

Não conhecia o ator, músico e humorista australiano Tim Minchin, mas posso já dizer que fiquei fã com este livro, que reúne 3 palestras que deu a estudantes universitários. O primeiro texto é sobre lições de vida, o segundo é sobre música e o terceiro sobre ser ator. Além de um cínico sentido de humor, Minchin dá uma perspetiva diferente do que significa ser bem-sucedido na vida. Não menospreza quem busca a fama, mas mostra que há sempre dois lados na mesma moeda.

[Caitlin]

The title of this is everything.

“Life will sometimes seem long and tough and, God, it’s tiring. And you will sometimes be happy and sometimes sad. And then you’ll be old. And then you’ll be dead. There is only one sensible thing to do with this empty existence, and that is: fill it…It’s an incredibly exciting thing, this one, meaningless life of yours. Good luck.”

“Art is any expression of an idea into which you’ve put a bit of fucking effort.”

[Zak]

The bulk of it is a release of content he's put out in videos of speeches already, but there's some good commentary in there that fleshes it out and it's interesting to see how some of his perspectives have shifted with time / fame

[Teo]

I don’t know who Tim is, but this is exactly what I needed right now!

[B]

This book meant a lot to me before it was even published and it will stay with me for life.

[Brit]

Short, sweet and valuable! The kind of life view I want to surround myself with. 😍

[Lauren Putt]

Minchin inspires and uplifts us with this collection of his three key speeches. He takes the pressure off having a dream and encourages you to live kindly and compassionately, and to remember that you are lucky to be here. A good read if you need a good laugh and some inspiration!

"Life will sometimes seem long and tough. And you will sometimes be happy and sometimes sad. And then you'll be old. And then you'll be dead. There is only one sensible thing to do with this empty existence, and that is: fill it".

[Zoe]

‘You will soon be dead. Life will sometimes seem long and tough and, god, it’s tiring. And you will sometimes be happy and sometimes sad. And then you’ll be
old. And then you’ll be dead. There is only one sensible thing to do with this empty existence, and that is: fill it.’

[Anna P (whatIreallyRead)]

A quick read to close out the year. I bought this book because of the title and pretty illustrations (I'm shallow like that). It's a really nice, high-quality edition, and a quick, fun read. I've never heard of the author before - but apparently he's a successful Australian musician, actor and comedian. This book consisted of his 3 inspirational speeches he gave at universities - packaged with a nice design and illustrations.

I liked the "9 life lessons" the most. The other 2 were more applicable to those who are musicians or actors, which I'm not, so they were less relevant to me. Still, easy to read in a day.

[Liisa]

Tim Minchin’s first foray into non-fiction is as clever and quirky as you’d expect. A compilation of three commencement speeches, this slim volume is part pep talk, part philosophical musing, wrapped in Minchin’s signature wit. Illustrated with playful sketches by Andrew Rae, the book touches on happiness, luck, critical thinking, and the messy beauty of being human.

His advice is earnest and often endearing—“respect people with less power than you”, “exercise”, “be kind”—but also largely familiar. While Minchin’s voice shines through and the humour lands more often than not, these aren’t revelations so much as well-worn reminders, served with a wink.

The final speech, aimed at aspiring actors, narrows the audience a touch, but still offers thoughtful commentary on fame and success.

Ultimately, this feels more like a lovely keepsake or a graduation gift than an essential read. Inspiring, yes. Groundbreaking? Not quite. But for fans of Minchin’s work or those facing a crossroads in life, it might just hit the right note.

[Diogo Amaral]

Meh!

Fantastic premise, good presentation, falls flat as the content progresses. It feels like this is just a collection of random ideas/thoughts with nothing connecting them or even providing a flow. This book just isn’t for me.

[Amelie]

didn’t realise tim was funny along with being a great composer. very lovely book to have on your coffee table and easy to read in like fifteen minutes when you’re bored at a family dinner.

[Harriet]

Tim Minchin is such a clever human but this just wasn’t it for me. I feel like I just read a bunch of words but there was no actual content. Disappointing.

[XOX]

I like this book so much. 

Tim Minchin philosophy of life is so hopeful and sans nonsense. 

I hate woo-woo bullshit about purpose. There is no purpose in life. Making the best out of it and be kind is a good enough purpose. And add values. 

He is also quotable. 

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“Science is not a body of knowledge nor a system of belief; it is just a term which describes humankind’s incremental acquisition of understanding through observation.

Science is awesome.”

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“I said at the beginning of this ramble that life is meaningless. It is not a flippant assertion. I think it’s absurd, the idea of seeking ‘meaning’ in the set of circumstances that happens to exist after 13.8 billion years’ worth of unguided events. Leave it to humans to think the universe has a purpose for them. However, I am no nihilist. I am not even a cynic. I am, actually, rather romantic. And here’s my idea of romance: You will soon be dead.”

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“It is often the fast-thinking, bias-riddled, adrenalised, dehumanising part of our brain that tweets. It is the slow-thinking, contemplative, creative, self-aware, humanising part of our brain that makes art.”

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"The arts and sciences need to work together to improve how knowledge is communicated. The idea that many still be that the science of anthropogenic global warming is controversial is a powerful indicator of the extent of our failure to communicate.
(The fact that 30% of this room just bristled is further evidence still. The fact that that bristling is more to do with politics than science is even more despairing.") 

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It is refreshing to have someone so honest when he do speeches. And it is hopeful because it is not about fantasy. It is about reality. About things we can do in this life. Be kind to those who are at your level or lower. For those who are higher up and are assholes, kindly ask to f**k off. 

5 stars.