💓💅*Dramatic hair flip* To Hell With It💓💅. To Hell With It written by Claire Frances was deeply inspiring, raw, heart felt, pure, honest, and real. Before continuing with my review, I just want to say that there's many different forms of OCD and people cope differently than others, no two people are the same and not everybody has the same OCD, for me it's making sure everything is perfect, for example I like everything to be clean and straight, if something is misplaced or not facing the right way, I will literally go and fix it whether it's out in public or the comfort of my own home. The major and only issue I had with this book was the way the author tackled the subject of OCD with humor and making it seem like it was so easy to overcome, when really it's not that easy to just wake up one morning and be completely cured and everything is okay. I really enjoyed this story and the main character, but like I stated, I didn't agree with the author on how she represented OCD. I felt like the mental health representation was written poorly because the author made it seem like just because a man comes into your life you have to seem strong, when really life is lifing. I can't recommend this book enough, so mark your calendars for June 24th, 2025 because this book could be so relatable for those of you who suffer from OCD. Just because your OCD isn't the same as another person, you still matter, your still worthy, and you don't need a man to feel strong.
THANK YOU TO NETGALLEY AND HARPER 360 FOR AN ARC OF THIS BOOK IN EXCHANGE FOR AN HONEST REVIEW!!!!!!!!
"💓🌹Love is the soul's motivation, not control💓🌹".
"😭💔I hated goodbyes. I always felt left behind. I'm not sure why- maybe because it was always me left behind?😭💔"
"💝We are all wild at heart, dear💝".
"💗💪Just do your best, your best is good enough💗💪".
Pearl O'Reilly is the type of person who I want to sit down and have doughnuts and tea with🍩☕. Pearl is twenty-seven, nearly twenty-eight years old, and she's a true Irish woman with blue eyes, and thick black curls that cause her to always look like a scarecrow every single morning when she wakes up. Pearl was diagnosed with an obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD) at the age of eleven years old, and she possibly thinks she has attention deficit- hyperactivity disorder (ADHD), but she hasn't been confirmed nor tested for ADHD yet. Pearl also suffers from claustrophobia and acrophobia which is a fear of heights, but trees are her safe place, so she finds solace is climbing trees. Pearl's favorite color is salmon pink, her favorite number is three, and she likes going to the pub with her best friend Una the exact same night each week. Thanks to her OCD, Pearl has so many routines, from a checklist system to having the same breakfast each and every single that consists of two pieces of whole meal toast with margarine and peanut butter, Pearl counts the fourteen stairs in her apartment every morning and then eats her breakfast. Pearl has a fear of her hair straightener burning a hole into her bedroom carpet. Every Friday night, Pearl and Una to the pub. Una and Pearl are best friends, but they are more like sisters than anything, they met when they were just fourteen years old. Pearl is so brave, beautiful, and inspiring. I really liked Pearl, she was such a relatable main character, but I just wish she knew that she didn't need a man to make her feel strong, but I guess if it wasn't for Jack, Pearl wouldn't have gone to New Zealand and faced her deepest fears. It's so refreshing to have a character that's closer to your age knowing you aren't alone despite having OCD, everything will be okay. Did I forget to mention that Pearl HATES coffee?
Pearl lives in Drangan, Ireland which is a very small village. Pearl has never ever left her small village, but that is until one man comes into Pearl's life. The best way to describe Peal is a little bird that is too afraid to spread her wings and fly. One morning, Pearl wakes up with a gorgeous man in her bed and decides to say To Hell With It with her routines. Pearl and Jack got drunk at the pub and then decided to sleep with each other. Jack was on his way to Dublin, Ireland when his car broke down and it won't be done for a few days, so Pearl decides to do something she's never done before, she offers Jack her spare bedroom until his car is fixed and out of the shop. pearl hadn't slept with a man for nearly two years before she met Jack. If it wasn't for Jack, Pearl would be stuck in her little world and little life like a weirdo. Jack is twenty-nine years old and lives in New Zealand. Before he leaves Ireland for New Zealand after his car is fixed, Jack convinces Pearl to take a little vacation in New Zealand and come visit him. One day out of the blue, Pearl decides to say To Hell With It and go visit Jack, but when she arrives she learns that Jack is hiding a big secret from her. Pearl spends two weeks in Te Puke, New Zealand which is known for kiwi fruits. In Te Puke, Pearl hikes a mountain, she gives bungee jumping a try, and she gave the ocean a kiss (swimming naked). Despite the turn of events, Pearl has a blast and lives her life to the fullest despite having some fears. I learned something new while reading this book, the color blue in New Zealand symbolizes freedom💙, I don't know if that's true or not, but I thought it would be a cool fact to share with y'all.