How to Not Suck as a Christian

by Jeremy Steele, Brian McLaren (foreword)

Jeremy Steele knows what it means to suck as a Christian-because he's an expert. How to Not Suck as a Christian takes an unflinching look at the ways Christians often miss the mark, from misusing scripture and manipulating others to failing at basic empathy. With chapters like Be Pro-Choice Because God Is and Stop the Homophobia, this book isn't afraid to tackle the controversial issues that make the more fundamentalist Christians squirm.



FAIR This book is as likely to provoke laughter as it is discomfort. But don't worry, discomfort is where the good stuff starts.

188 pages, Kindle Edition

Published February 11, 2025

Reviews

[Elizabeth · Rating 4 out of 5]

I bought this book because the author is coming to town to discuss the book. I found it to be very informative and eye opening. In life there are many times we are told something and we believe it because we trust the people who are giving us that information. But, what if it turns out those people were wrong? This books gives detailed and research supported reasons and explanations that go against many of the arguments we hear in today's society. It was also nice to have someone in a position of authority be on the same side you are on, especially when the opposing voices are so loud.

[CB Edwards · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wish it had been around 30 years ago

[Shayla · Rating 5 out of 5]

I’ve seen a few of Jeremy Steele’s videos on social media and I found what he spoke about really interesting so I bought the book and audiobook. He covers some similar stories & topics, but goes more in depth in the book.I enjoyed the stories of how he came by the typical fundamental Christian beliefs he was raised with and then what changed his thinking and why. He also talks about why those beliefs are problematic in general which was helpful. I think this is a very short, easy to read/listen to book. I flipped between listening to it and reading it on my kindle and both formats were great. This is the kind of book I wish I had when I was trying to think more critically about God and addresses some things I’ve always struggled with so I thought that was great and which I’d come across it earlier in my life. 4.5 stars

[John Doyle · Rating 5 out of 5]

As I began reading Jeremy Steele’s How to Not Suck as a Christian, I assumed it was about other sucky Christians—the kind it’s easy to critique from a safe distance. Instead, I quickly realized the book was talking about me. Even though I’ve been out of the church for decades, it stirred memories of all the ways I once got it wrong.

The lessons hit hard—but Jeremy leads with humility by starting with himself. His candor is what makes this book so refreshing and effective. There may be no more powerful message for the Church than honestly acknowledging the harm done in the name of God.

Jeremy explores familiar areas of church life—evangelism, tithing, Bible reading, purity culture—while also engaging real-world issues like homophobia, abortion, atheism, and racism. He approaches each with intelligence, humility, heart, and humor. The convictions are strong, but the tone remains compassionate and grounded.

His chapter Good Christians Doubt is especially meaningful. Doubt is treated not as a failure of faith, but as an essential part of it. That perspective alone makes this book worth reading.

How to Not Suck as a Christian is accessible, thoughtful, and deeply human. It invites honesty without shame and growth without denial—a rare and welcome combination.

[Gabriella Reyes · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was an amazing book and I highly recommend that evangelical christians read this.

[Emily · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book was amazing. It is a down to earth guide to unpacking the really bad and damaging parts of evangelical Christianity.

[Elizabeth · Rating 4 out of 5]

Heard the author speak at my church and picked up his book after. Challenged and tested my views for sure and enjoyed the author’s sardonic style.

[Jane · Rating 1 out of 5]

I am sure this book has helped many people. But this guy should not be a pastor. I would look elsewhere if you are interested in this type of content.

[Henry Hank · Rating 4 out of 5]

apart from a couple of typos, good overall book. The messaging is important in this day and age and Steele uses both scripture and logic to back up his argument.

[Christian · Rating 5 out of 5]

Entertaining and thought provoking. I should read a few chapters again and look at the suggestions for additional reading. Really like Jeremy!