Be There When I Return: A Memoir of Epilepsy, Love, and Success

by Michael King

For fans of rags-to-riches stories, Be There When I Return is not just about overcoming epilepsy and finding success—it is also for those who are looking for a celebration of love in its purest form.

When thirty-one-year-old Michael King starts to act out of character, it gets the attention of his roommate and a woman he has started dating. After denying anything is wrong with him, Michael finally decides to visit a neurologist. His life takes an unexpected turn when he receives a life-altering diagnosis of epilepsy. What follows is a five-year saga of navigating the unpredictable terrain of seizures and the relentless pursuit of control. During this time, he finds solace in the unwavering support of the woman he is dating.

 

At thirty-seven, [Michael bravely elects to undergo surgery, setting a precent as the hospital’s first of its kind. The success of the procedure becomes a catalyst for a remarkable transformation. A serendipitous encounter with an old friend sets an unexpected career shift in motion just nine months post-surgery. Seizing the opportunity, Michael dives into the fast-paced world of Silicon Valley as a recruiter for software companies.

 

Be There When I Return is an intimate narrative of resilience, courage, and the unwavering pursuit of one's aspirations, set against the backdrop of a captivating love story. This memoir is not just a tale of overcoming health hurdles but a poignant narrative of seizing second chances and achieving professional excellence against all odds.

352 pages, Paperback

Published April 29, 2025

About the author

Michael King was born in San Francisco and raised in Daly City, California. He is an epilepsy survivor and the founder and CEO of King Recruiting. Michael is an avid sports fan. When he’s not placing marketers at top tech companies in Silicon Valley, you can find him chasing a little white ball on the golf course. Today, he lives in Sammamish, WA, with his wife and daughter.

Reviews

[Zara · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is my dad's review of the book :)

“Went the distance, now I’m back on my feet, just a man and his will to survive.” Those lyrics from Survivor kept playing in my mind as I finished Be There When I Return by Michael King, a moving, deeply human memoir of epilepsy, love, and success.

Michael’s journey navigating the uncertainties and realities of epilepsy is shared with unflinching honesty; it gave me a perspective on living life with epilepsy that I didn’t have before. What struck me just as much was the unwavering presence of his wife, Donnita, throughout the story. Her love, strength and support are felt on every page, a quiet force that anchors the entire narrative. Michael's successes shine through: not just in the professional sense (though there's plenty of that too), but in reclaiming identity, building family, and finding joy after years of challenge.

I loved the little nuggets of Michael’s life that are peppered throughout - stories from school, baseball, and his struggling actor/bartender days. They make the memoir feel rich and textured, like a well-lived life unfolding in layers. What made the book tick for me is how immediately I could empathize with Michael. I found myself turning every page hoping he wouldn’t have another episode, just as he, Donnita, and their family must live each day, holding that same hope.

Michael, thank you for trusting the world with your story. I took the rare step of reading it all in a single day, something I haven’t done since high school. Wishing you and your family strength, love, and peace in whatever comes next.

[Greg Browning · Rating 5 out of 5]

It is with admiration and heartfelt enthusiasm that I recommend Be There When I Return, a poignant and inspiring memoir by Michael King. This remarkable work chronicles not only the physical and emotional toll of living with epilepsy but also the unwavering love and strength that carried him through—ultimately painting a portrait of profound success, resilience, and humanity.
As someone who had the privilege of reading Michael’s story, I was deeply moved by the raw honesty with which he shared his personal journey. His vivid recounting of life’s trials, from unpredictable seizures to quiet victories, offers readers a rare window into the realities of living with a complex condition. The empathy and insight woven into each page stay with you long after you’ve closed the book.

Equally captivating are Michael’s early bartending days—full of color, camaraderie, and grit. Through those chapters, I felt as though I had stepped into the energy and rhythm of the barroom, seeing firsthand how Michael’s charm and work ethic shaped him into the person he is today. These scenes offer levity and a sense of grounding, showing that success is often forged in everyday places by extraordinary people.

Michael King’s memoir is not just a personal narrative—it’s a gift to others navigating adversity. I highly recommend Be There When I Return to anyone seeking perspective, inspiration, or a beautifully told story about the triumph of the human spirit.

Sincerely,

Greg Browning

[Michelle Tuite · Rating 3 out of 5]

Reading 2025
Book 113: Be There When I Return: A Memoir of Epilepsy, Love, and Success by Michael King

I have been reading various books where the main character or the memoir is about a person living with Epilepsy. This book was released on April 29, I preordered it.

Synopsis: For fans of rags-to-riches stories, Be There When I Return is not just about overcoming epilepsy and finding success—it is also for those who are looking for a celebration of love in its purest form.

Review: Lots of life-changing events happen when Michael starts having seizures in his 20s. He loses jobs and friends. His strange behavior goes on for a while before he has a seizure while driving and has a serious accident. That is when he realize Epilepsy could kill him. I enjoyed the first half of the book, but once King starts detailing his new career, after brain surgery stops his seizures, I lost interest. The ins and outs of recruiting were not what I picked up the book to read about in that much detail. My rating 3.5⭐️.

[Alexandra Fell · Rating 5 out of 5]

"Be There When I Return" is an extraordinary and deeply moving memoir, remarkably easy to read and written with striking clarity, warmth, and honesty. This isn't just a story about overcoming epilepsy; it's a powerful narrative on love, grit, and the transformative power of human connection. Michael's courage in sharing his truth openly makes a profound impact.

The book traces his remarkable path from a devastating diagnosis to finding not only professional success in Silicon Valley but also purpose, deep resilience, and enduring love. It's a true rags-to-riches story in spirit, highlighting how love and support were crucial anchors in his rebuilding process.

This memoir powerfully reminds us that our greatest successes often emerge from our toughest challenges, and that the right people often appear in our lives exactly when we need them. For anyone seeking inspiration or a testament to what's possible, "Be There When I Return" is a must-read that will resonate deeply and leave you feeling truly inspired.

[Isabel R · Rating 5 out of 5]

This memoir is about Michael King’s life story of overcoming epilepsy through medical breakthrough, finding true love along the way and successfully building a career doing something he was passionate about. I appreciate his honesty in sharing the self-doubt at each point of his life when it’s time to decide against all odds and at the end finding the courage to do the “scary” things and come out winning. Michael was blessed to be surrounded by close friends and family who accompanied him through all turbulence in his life journey, and it was evident how much he valued them. Quoting Michael King: “There is no such thing as a straight path in our lives. Moving through this world can be chaotic, harsh, and unpredictable. But when we open our hearts and eyes to new opportunities and challenges, we will always end up exactly where we should be.” His story is relatable to anyone who has gone, or is going through adversity and other kinds of life challenges, be it health, relationships, career and more. I recommend this book.

[Tim Johnson · Rating 4 out of 5]

Eye Opening

One of my classmates had epilepsy when I was growing up but I never had any idea what it was like from her side of things. Michael is more than brave to let us into the workings, frustrations, and fears of living with epilepsy. Like cancer, joining the Big E Club is a lifetime membership. Even with the absence of seizures, leaving the drugs behind, and successful surgery, the specter of "what if it comes back?" is always there. To press forward and make a great life anyways is a testament to fortitude, having the right characteristics, his wife's phenomenal patience and support, and some plain old dumbass luck.

While everyone's journey through life-altering diagnoses is going to be different, 'Be There When I Return' is an excellent read. Everyone is struggling with something you don't know about so patience, kindness, and support -as Michael documents in his book - is so much more beneficial to everyone than distance, ridicule, or preconceptions.

It's a fast read and you'll be better for taking the time.

[Kelvin Y.]

This is one of the most inspiring and emotionally resonant memoirs I’ve read in a long time. It’s incredibly easy to read—written with clarity, warmth, and honesty—and I flew through it in just a couple of sittings.

This isn’t just a story about epilepsy or overcoming adversity (though those parts are powerful). It’s a story about love, unexpected turns, and how the people who show up in your life can change everything. If you believe that people meet for a reason—that fate has a hand in who we love and who helps us heal—this book will speak to your heart.

Michael’s journey from a devastating diagnosis to recovery and professional success is a true rags-to-riches story. But what makes it unforgettable is how love and support become the anchor that helps him rebuild. For anyone who’s ever believed that life puts the right people in your path when you need them most, this book is a must-read.

[Jarie Bolander · Rating 5 out of 5]

As someone who also writes memoir, I’m always looking for stories that strike the right balance between vulnerability and craft—Be There When I Return does just that. Michael King shares his journey with epilepsy, yes, but more than that, he offers a deeply human story about perseverance, love, and reclaiming your life after everything changes.

What stood out most to me wasn’t just the medical journey—it was the emotional honesty. The way Michael writes about his relationship with his wife, Donnita, is especially moving. Their bond is the kind of quiet, steady love that anchors you through the hardest chapters. It reminded me that some of the most profound acts of resilience happen in the everyday moments: showing up, staying close, holding on.

This isn’t a story that shouts—it resonates. If you're interested in memoirs that deal with identity, chronic illness, partnership, and personal growth without veering into cliché or melodrama, this is absolutely worth reading.

[Patchen Noelke · Rating 5 out of 5]

“Be There When I Return” isn’t a glossy, air‑brushed redemption tale; it’s blood under the fingernails and gravel in the mouth. What hit me hardest was how he keeps moving when most of us would lie down: nights that smell like disinfectant and stale coffee, mornings where hope feels heavier than pain, yet he still laces up his boots and pushes forward.

King’s prose is plainspoken and sharp. Each chapter strips away another layer until the transformation is undeniable: a battered man finding the steel in his spine and the clarity in his soul.

If you want a story that doesn’t just inspire but kicks you in the ribs and dares you to get up, add this to your to-be-read stack now. King shows that perseverance fused with ferocious love can grind mountains to dust and then build something stronger.

[Andrew Boe · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michael King tells his story in a compelling and easy to read style that makes the reader feel connected from the start. From his early days on the Peninsula and San Francisco to his chasing his dream in Los Angeles (by way of Saint Mary's College), Michael weaves his way through good times and bad.

He opens up about the ordeal of being diagnosed with and treating Epilepsy. Life throws challenges at each of us, but I cannot imagine what its like to face Epilepsy and the courage it took to pursue treatment.

Along the way he paints a great picture of Los Angeles, chasing dreams, taking chances and winning the golden ticket.

There are at lest two stories here, plus a romance that anyone would connect with. After reading this, I feel like I know him and can relate to his challenges and victories.

[Lisa Sharapata · Rating 5 out of 5]

Be There When I Return is a powerful read. This book isn’t just a memoir about epilepsy—it’s a story of grit, vulnerability, and triumph.

Michael's willingness to share his truth so openly is nothing short of courageous, and the impact will reach far beyond the page. He takes us on his remarkable journey from a life-changing diagnosis to navigating the high-stakes world of Silicon Valley, where he not only found success—but also love, purpose, and deep resilience.

It’s a reminder that the greatest successes often rise from our toughest challenges.

If you’ve ever faced a setback, questioned your path, or needed a reminder of what’s possible—you need to read this.

[Steve Bach · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michael's memoir is very relatable and uplifting. As his mother reminds us: good things happen to good people. The hopes and health that young adults take with them to their first apartment and first job are met with many challenges. In Michael's case, the challenges are much deeper than most of us will ever have to face. But his journey will still seem familiar to you. The love, support and medical care from those who support him when he needs it most help him find the strength and optimism he needs. Through his journey we are reminded that with hope, love and some luck, there is always a path forward.

[Dave Yarnold · Rating 5 out of 5]

Extraordinary. Courageous. A terrific read as well. Imagine someone you’ve known for much of your life. Tall, good looking guy. Great athlete, successful businessperson. Someone you went to school with when you were young. You get reacquainted with him mid-career. He’s doing really really well. Seems like someone who’s had it made his entire life. We all know people like that. Intellectually, we know all is never as it seems. But rarely does someone share the gritty details of an unusually grueling journey the way Michael King does here. Read this memoir and you’ll be inspired, as I was. Well done, Mr. King.

[Kgianuario · Rating 4 out of 5]

I was awestruck by the author's journey. I kept thinking about how I'd handle getting that diagnosis. At that age, how would I think about my future knowing seizures could be a part of my life? How could I chase after a career, relationships, a family? Heck, how could I get through a day with all that uncertainty? Would I just give up?

Michael King's story is all about perseverance: getting a life-changing diagnosis, finding life-saving treatment, and bravely going through surgery. But more than that, it's about finding the love of his life and then making a future in a tough and competitive field.
Told in a warm and heartfelt voice, I just couldn't put this book down.

[Matthew Spaur · Rating 5 out of 5]

Figuring out our place in the world takes most of us years, decades, a whole life even. The task gets harder when you develop a dangerous disease out of nowhere, one that makes you unknowingly and unconsciously act weird at random moments.

"Be There When I Return" is Michael King's memoir of finding his place in the world in spite of--or maybe a little because of--his rare form of epilepsy. At turns funny, sad, scary, and touching, his story shows that we can all find a place of our own, even if it wasn't the one we expected.

If you're wondering how you life might turn out, or how to make sense of your own medical mystery, check out "Be There When I Return."

[C. Sean Rollings · Rating 5 out of 5]

I've known Michael for almost 20 years - but I clearly didn't KNOW Michael. Now I feel like I grew up with him! I loved this book. It is so well written. The story is so compelling that it is literally a page turner. I learned so much about epilepsy and I have so much more knowledge to have care and empathy for those with it. I'm thankful that Michael was in the right time of medicine that he could be an early candidate for surgery - and it was successful.

Whether you know Michael, or just want a great read with a hero who you'll bond with, please enjoy this book.

[Danielle Ryan · Rating 5 out of 5]

As a mother of a child with epilepsy, it’s often hard to truly understand this disorder, I’ve never experienced a seizure myself, and yet I’ve watched it steal so much from my son. Meeting Michael and reading his story about finding his way out of the darkness gave me something I desperately needed: hope. His journey shines a light on what’s possible and gives me strength as we face my son’s upcoming brain surgery. This disorder has pushed me to the sidelines, feeling powerless as I watch it affect my child’s life. Michael’s words remind me that healing and light can still find their way in.

[Bryan T · Rating 5 out of 5]

I really enjoyed this book. It showed how a person's life can change suddenly... and it shows how it can take a long time for someone to accept the change.

I also liked how this book showed that life can suddenly change for the better. In Michael's case, he found love and a career. His career path was especially unexpected since he didn't have experience as a recruiter, and he didn't have much experience with technology. For those wanting to learn more about how companies are built, this book gives important background.

[Tim · Rating 5 out of 5]

Reviewed in the United States on May 16, 2025
One of the most beautiful and compelling stories I’ve read in a very long time. Michael’s bravery to take a leap of faith for his epilepsy is unmatched and so important for all to experience and explore. It is also a great love story with his wife Donitta and their commitment to each through thick and thin. I couldn’t put it down and a page burner. Congrats Michael and so proud of all your accomplishments

[Matt C · Rating 5 out of 5]

A Story Which Inspires


Michael’s story was an exciting read. I picked it up and did not put it down until I was finished. His honesty, humor and inner soul is present throughout the read. So many people touched Michael while he traveled his journey. The book shows that true friends and loved ones can and will act as a support system to Michael’s determination and perseverance to beat the odds.

[Cynthia C · Rating 5 out of 5]

The author takes you on his journey through good times and bad. It was so well written, that it was difficult to put down. He describes the scene so well, you feel like you were there. Michael shares so many life’s lessons. His description of being diagnosed, and all the challenges he faces, to the relationships that he shared. Through the kindness of strangers, he overcame yet another hurdle; and another, and another. It is truly inspiring.

[Kirsten · Rating 5 out of 5]

An inspiring story of dogged determination in one man’s journey through dealing with an epilepsy diagnosis. From a baseball career, to an acting career, to a recruiting career, Michael leads us along the winding path of his life. I always look for people who don’t have a victim mentality, but rather a problem solving mentality, and Michael is that person. This is a story of love, support, and overcoming a frightening diagnosis.

[Francesca · Rating 5 out of 5]

I could not put this book down. It is a personal story full of meaning and inspiration. It felt like Michael was telling me his story personally. Adversity is our superpower, but only if we keep thinking positively. I also enjoyed the nostalgic references to the dot-com boom. It's an excellent read for everyone, but especially if you need a shot of encouragement and a reminder that "good things happen to good people. " I highly recommend it.

[Mandeep Khera · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michael King's Be There When I Return: A Memoir of Epilepsy, Love, and Success is an amazingly beautiful book. The book is not only educational about epilepsy, which we most of us don't know anything about, it's also very entertaining. It's also a story about perseverance, resilience, and human connections. The book is very easy to read and Michael has weaved in many interesting stories, interactions, and pictures from his life journey. Loved every part of and highly recommend it!

[Michael Basoah · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book by my good friend Michael King is a testament to love, honesty, perseverance, vulnerability, friendship, commitment and a "never say die attitude". Not only is it a journey of triumph over adversity, it's an example to us all that, no matter what life throws at you, whether seemingly justified or not, no situation is insurmountable. Thank you Michael King for sharing your journey with us. You are the best. Thank you for being my friend.

[Reader · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michael has done an amazing job with this book. It was really moving to read about his life - the highs and the lows, and the lessons he has shared so openly. He has brought out insights we often take for grant in such a genuine and personal way. I was amazed not just by how much he remembered the intricate details of his life from years ago, but by how beautifully he has brought it all together.

[Inga Puhova · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michael's journey will inspire you to believe in the impossible and seize the moments that can change literally everything. An inspirational story about an unexpected turn when Michael King receives a life-altering diagnosis of epilepsy ! A personal story about overcoming epilepsy and also finding success!!!
Loved it!

[Reader · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michael is a true inspiration. He has been through so many hard situations and never gave up. Just kept pushing through. I was recently diagnosed with epilepsy and this story has given me so much hope that it will work out, and I’ll be better on the other side. Thanks, Michael for sharing your story!

[S.X. Cummings · Rating 4 out of 5]

A deeply moving and insightful read

As a parent of a child with epilepsy, I found this story both powerful and profoundly resonant. The author captures the emotional and personal transformation that can come from living with, and loving someone through, a condition like this. The journey depicted in the book gave me a deeper understanding of what my son may be experiencing, in ways I hadn’t considered before. It offered not just empathy, but perspective, and you truly can’t put a price on that.

[John J. · Rating 5 out of 5]

Michael King, who I have known since age 13, takes an intimate look into his battle with epilepsy in great detail, with support by his wife, family, and co-workers. He uses clippings and photos to put you right there as he battles this disease with determination rarely possessed. A great read.--John Donohue