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Good Grief
A mother- and daughter-in-law. To move on, one of them will have to move out in a hopeful and hilarious novel about widowhood and family friction by the bestselling author of Don’t Forget to Write.
It’s 1963, two years since Barbara Feldman’s husband died. Raising two kids, she’s finally emerging from her cocoon of grief. Not yet a butterfly, but she’s anxious to spread her wings.
Then one day her mother-in-law, Ruth, shows up on her doorstep with five suitcases, expecting a room of her own with a suitable mattress. Abrasive and stuck in her ways yet well meaning, Mother Ruth arrives without warning to help with the children. How can Barbara say no to a woman who is not only a widow herself but also a grieving mother? As Ruth’s prickly visit turns from days to weeks to what seems like forever, Barbara realizes Ruth has got to go. But Barbara has an ingenious introduce Ruth to some fine gentlemen and marry her off as fast as she can.
Soon enough, something tells Barbara that Ruth is trying to do the same for her. At least they’re finding common ground—helping each other to move forward. Even if it is in the most unpredictable ways two totally different women ever imagined.
It’s 1963, two years since Barbara Feldman’s husband died. Raising two kids, she’s finally emerging from her cocoon of grief. Not yet a butterfly, but she’s anxious to spread her wings.
Then one day her mother-in-law, Ruth, shows up on her doorstep with five suitcases, expecting a room of her own with a suitable mattress. Abrasive and stuck in her ways yet well meaning, Mother Ruth arrives without warning to help with the children. How can Barbara say no to a woman who is not only a widow herself but also a grieving mother? As Ruth’s prickly visit turns from days to weeks to what seems like forever, Barbara realizes Ruth has got to go. But Barbara has an ingenious introduce Ruth to some fine gentlemen and marry her off as fast as she can.
Soon enough, something tells Barbara that Ruth is trying to do the same for her. At least they’re finding common ground—helping each other to move forward. Even if it is in the most unpredictable ways two totally different women ever imagined.
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Published August 26, 2025
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August 30, 2025
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I've never read a book by this author before, and I am so glad I started with this one. It takes place in 1963 and is a heartwarming and funny story about the surprising friendship between Barbara, a young widow raising her two children, and her mother-in-law, Ruth, who is very abrupt and outspoken. Ruth shows up unannounced with five suitcases in tow, under the pretense that she's there to help with the grandkids. It's been two years since Barbara's husband died, and she is ready to get on with things, but Ruth's visit is getting on her nerves, so Barbara wants to hook her up with an eligible bachelor. Ruth has the same idea for Barbara: she's out to find her a husband. These two women and their scheming ways really bring out the laughter.
This was such a delightful and uplifting read that perfectly blends humour, heart, and hope. I loved the 1960s setting. It was a joy to read about Barbara coming out of her grief and handling motherhood and her mother-in-law. Even though Ruth can be a meddling hot-air bag, she has a heart of gold. I loved how witty the book was, and the writing style was easy to read. I learned a lot about Jewish culture, and it was heartwarming to read a loving story of a family dealing with loss and moving forward. Every page was a joy to read, and the characters were well-rounded, real, and showed such growth. It felt authentic and was very inspiring. I loved this charming tale about finding light in the darkest of places and the power of family and friendship. This is my new favourite genre: realistic feel-good fiction, also known as up-lit. All. The. Stars.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC.
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I've never read a book by this author before, and I am so glad I started with this one. It takes place in 1963 and is a heartwarming and funny story about the surprising friendship between Barbara, a young widow raising her two children, and her mother-in-law, Ruth, who is very abrupt and outspoken. Ruth shows up unannounced with five suitcases in tow, under the pretense that she's there to help with the grandkids. It's been two years since Barbara's husband died, and she is ready to get on with things, but Ruth's visit is getting on her nerves, so Barbara wants to hook her up with an eligible bachelor. Ruth has the same idea for Barbara: she's out to find her a husband. These two women and their scheming ways really bring out the laughter.
This was such a delightful and uplifting read that perfectly blends humour, heart, and hope. I loved the 1960s setting. It was a joy to read about Barbara coming out of her grief and handling motherhood and her mother-in-law. Even though Ruth can be a meddling hot-air bag, she has a heart of gold. I loved how witty the book was, and the writing style was easy to read. I learned a lot about Jewish culture, and it was heartwarming to read a loving story of a family dealing with loss and moving forward. Every page was a joy to read, and the characters were well-rounded, real, and showed such growth. It felt authentic and was very inspiring. I loved this charming tale about finding light in the darkest of places and the power of family and friendship. This is my new favourite genre: realistic feel-good fiction, also known as up-lit. All. The. Stars.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for the ARC.
August 26, 2025
Goodnight Barbara!
Goodnight Ruth!
I loved everything about this DELIGHTFUL novel starting with the whimsical book cover ! Sara Goodman Confino has a way of dropping you right into the story from page one, and I was engaged throughout!
It’s 1963, two years since Barbara Feldman’s husband died, and she is finally ready to let her mother return home, and start living life with her two young children on her own.
NOT SO FAST
Within days of bidding her mother goodbye, there comes a knock on the door. Her mother-in-law, Ruth, has invited herself to move in, arriving with five suitcases, and no plans to leave. I was reminded of one of my favorite insurance commercials when a newlywed couple has an “Aunt/Ant problem-knock knock-Aunt Joanie’s here! But I digress! 🤭
“Mother Ruth” is a “know it all” and fabulous cook (not!) and she is ready to help with the children. How can Barbara say no to her late husband’s lonely, grieving mother? But when days turn to weeks, Barbara realizes that Ruth has got to go!
Perhaps she can introduce Ruth to some fine gentlemen and marry her off to one of them?
But, soon enough, Barbara realizes that Ruth seems to have a similar plan of her own!
Q: “ How old does someone have to be before a Jewish mother stops trying to fix them up?”
A. “Dead” 😆
I loved spending time with these two women, and looked forward to picking up this HOPEFUL, HEARTWARMING, FUNNY book whenever I had the chance.
4.5 shiny stars! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️✨
I just added the author’s entire backlist to my TBR! And, it just may find a spot on my favorites list at year’s end!
A buddy read with Marilyn and DeAnn. Be sure to watch for their reviews!
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Thank You to Lake Union Publishing for the gifted ARC provided through NetGalley. As always, these are my candid thoughts!
Goodnight Ruth!
I loved everything about this DELIGHTFUL novel starting with the whimsical book cover ! Sara Goodman Confino has a way of dropping you right into the story from page one, and I was engaged throughout!
It’s 1963, two years since Barbara Feldman’s husband died, and she is finally ready to let her mother return home, and start living life with her two young children on her own.
NOT SO FAST
Within days of bidding her mother goodbye, there comes a knock on the door. Her mother-in-law, Ruth, has invited herself to move in, arriving with five suitcases, and no plans to leave. I was reminded of one of my favorite insurance commercials when a newlywed couple has an “Aunt/Ant problem-knock knock-Aunt Joanie’s here! But I digress! 🤭
“Mother Ruth” is a “know it all” and fabulous cook (not!) and she is ready to help with the children. How can Barbara say no to her late husband’s lonely, grieving mother? But when days turn to weeks, Barbara realizes that Ruth has got to go!
Perhaps she can introduce Ruth to some fine gentlemen and marry her off to one of them?
But, soon enough, Barbara realizes that Ruth seems to have a similar plan of her own!
Q: “ How old does someone have to be before a Jewish mother stops trying to fix them up?”
A. “Dead” 😆
I loved spending time with these two women, and looked forward to picking up this HOPEFUL, HEARTWARMING, FUNNY book whenever I had the chance.
4.5 shiny stars! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️✨
I just added the author’s entire backlist to my TBR! And, it just may find a spot on my favorites list at year’s end!
A buddy read with Marilyn and DeAnn. Be sure to watch for their reviews!
AVAILABLE NOW!!
Thank You to Lake Union Publishing for the gifted ARC provided through NetGalley. As always, these are my candid thoughts!
August 26, 2025
Two years after the sudden death of her husband, Barbara Feldman is ready to emerge into the world again. When her mother-in-law, Ruth, arrives at her door, ready to move in, Barbara finds it impossible to tell her no. Soon Ruth is creating chaos trying to find a new husband for her daughter-in-law, while Barb is trying to find a way to politely kick her to the curb.
I always count on Sara Goodman Confino to deliver a laugh-out-loud story filled with humor and heart. Whether set in the present, like For the Love of Friends, or deep in the past like Behind Every Good Man, it is impossible not to find yourself utterly charmed with both the setting and the story, but even more so, with the quirky and relatable characters that fill the pages. And Good Grief is no exception.
The story of a widower and single mom living with her matchmaker mother-in-law felt so unique and ripe for a character-rich story, but one also filled with emotional depth. After all, both of our MCs are dealing with the grief they feel over the loss of one man, son, and husband. The comedy of errors that ensues, along with the mother/mother-in-law balancing act that many can relate to, made the story simultaneously entertaining and engaging. By the end, I found myself shedding tears, a sign that I had developed a significant connection to both Barbara and Ruth.
🎧 As is always the case with Confino’s books, Good Grief is equally fantastic on audio. The magnificent Helen Laser complements this already fabulous story brilliantly; her narration the added sparkle that makes this story shine even brighter.
Read if you like:
▪️1960s suburbia
▪️second chance at love
▪️stories about overcoming grief
▪️found family
▪️humorous fiction
▪️feel-good stories
▪️The Odd Couple
Check out my Bookstagram post here ♥
Thank you Amazon Publishing and Brilliance Audio for the advanced copies.
Buddy read ♥︎
I always count on Sara Goodman Confino to deliver a laugh-out-loud story filled with humor and heart. Whether set in the present, like For the Love of Friends, or deep in the past like Behind Every Good Man, it is impossible not to find yourself utterly charmed with both the setting and the story, but even more so, with the quirky and relatable characters that fill the pages. And Good Grief is no exception.
The story of a widower and single mom living with her matchmaker mother-in-law felt so unique and ripe for a character-rich story, but one also filled with emotional depth. After all, both of our MCs are dealing with the grief they feel over the loss of one man, son, and husband. The comedy of errors that ensues, along with the mother/mother-in-law balancing act that many can relate to, made the story simultaneously entertaining and engaging. By the end, I found myself shedding tears, a sign that I had developed a significant connection to both Barbara and Ruth.
🎧 As is always the case with Confino’s books, Good Grief is equally fantastic on audio. The magnificent Helen Laser complements this already fabulous story brilliantly; her narration the added sparkle that makes this story shine even brighter.
Read if you like:
▪️1960s suburbia
▪️second chance at love
▪️stories about overcoming grief
▪️found family
▪️humorous fiction
▪️feel-good stories
▪️The Odd Couple
Check out my Bookstagram post here ♥
Thank you Amazon Publishing and Brilliance Audio for the advanced copies.
Buddy read ♥︎
April 16, 2025
In 1963, Barbara Feldman has been a widow for two years, her husband Harry tragically dying incredibly young. She’s raising their two young children, Susie and Bobby and since Harry died she’s had the help of her mother and whilst Barbara is very grateful she now wants to stand on her own two feet. The day after she sends her mother home, her mother-in-law Ruth turns up on the doorstep, with five suitcases and a carpet bag. Now, Ruth is quite the tour de force and so Barbara decides that she’ll limit Ruths stay to two weeks. Will Ruth have other ideas? Quite probably and so Barbara will need to exercise all her ingenuity!
Dear me, Barbara is such a good tolerant person as I would have murdered Ruth within twenty four hours! Overstep much? Opinionated much? However, things do change and it’s entertaining watching the ebb and flow of their daughter-in-law/mother-in-law relationship. Some situations are quite amusing although not the roll around laughing kind. The two children add in some charm and humour too.
There’s a good sense of the time period as 1963 was of course a very pivotal year in US history. The situation for female workers in the 60s is well captured and is a very different world today. There are some good scenes set in the hospital in which Barbara works.
There are many likeable characters and even Ruth grows on me. It’s engaging and entertaining although both women have their grief it’s done very well. Barbara is a young woman and perhaps it’s time for her to move on – maybe Ruth will help her!
With thanks to NetGalley and especially to Lake Union for the early copy in return for an honest review.
Dear me, Barbara is such a good tolerant person as I would have murdered Ruth within twenty four hours! Overstep much? Opinionated much? However, things do change and it’s entertaining watching the ebb and flow of their daughter-in-law/mother-in-law relationship. Some situations are quite amusing although not the roll around laughing kind. The two children add in some charm and humour too.
There’s a good sense of the time period as 1963 was of course a very pivotal year in US history. The situation for female workers in the 60s is well captured and is a very different world today. There are some good scenes set in the hospital in which Barbara works.
There are many likeable characters and even Ruth grows on me. It’s engaging and entertaining although both women have their grief it’s done very well. Barbara is a young woman and perhaps it’s time for her to move on – maybe Ruth will help her!
With thanks to NetGalley and especially to Lake Union for the early copy in return for an honest review.
September 12, 2025
the setup…
Barbara Feldman’s husband passed away two years ago, leaving her with impossible grief and two young children. It’s 1963 and she now feels ready to handle her life on her own, allowing her mother to return to her own home. But not long after, Barbara returns home from her part time job at a hospital to find her mother-in-law Ruth waiting on her doorstep…with five suitcases. This doesn’t look like a temporary visit! Yes, Ruth plans to stay and now Barbara has to figure out how to get this woman out of her house.
the heart of the story…
As soon as I read the description, I wanted to read this book and it lived up to my expectations. Ruth is prickly but politely so and over the top overbearing. Of course she and Barbara have different notions about child rearing, cooking and just about everything else. Barbara’s scheming to find a husband for Ruth was hilarious, especially when Ruth turned the tables on her. Despite their differences, I liked how they were still respectful of one another and over time began to see each other differently.
the narration…
Helen Laser is one of my favorite narrators and her storytelling here was superb. I especially loved her voice for Ruth and she brought so much energy to the characters.
the bottom line…
While this was delightful and hilarious at times, underneath it all were deep seated emotions as both Barbara and Ruth were grieving widows and Ruth also lost a son. Unwittingly, these women provided a strange respite for each other that had a healing effect. The 1963 setting provides important context as well. I loved it all.
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(Thanks to Brilliance Audio and NetGalley for my complimentary copy. All opinions are my own.)
Barbara Feldman’s husband passed away two years ago, leaving her with impossible grief and two young children. It’s 1963 and she now feels ready to handle her life on her own, allowing her mother to return to her own home. But not long after, Barbara returns home from her part time job at a hospital to find her mother-in-law Ruth waiting on her doorstep…with five suitcases. This doesn’t look like a temporary visit! Yes, Ruth plans to stay and now Barbara has to figure out how to get this woman out of her house.
the heart of the story…
As soon as I read the description, I wanted to read this book and it lived up to my expectations. Ruth is prickly but politely so and over the top overbearing. Of course she and Barbara have different notions about child rearing, cooking and just about everything else. Barbara’s scheming to find a husband for Ruth was hilarious, especially when Ruth turned the tables on her. Despite their differences, I liked how they were still respectful of one another and over time began to see each other differently.
the narration…
Helen Laser is one of my favorite narrators and her storytelling here was superb. I especially loved her voice for Ruth and she brought so much energy to the characters.
the bottom line…
While this was delightful and hilarious at times, underneath it all were deep seated emotions as both Barbara and Ruth were grieving widows and Ruth also lost a son. Unwittingly, these women provided a strange respite for each other that had a healing effect. The 1963 setting provides important context as well. I loved it all.
Posted on Blue Mood Café
(Thanks to Brilliance Audio and NetGalley for my complimentary copy. All opinions are my own.)
June 21, 2025
Sometimes, I'm in the mood for a neatly packaged feel-good story that fits perfectly between deeper works. In this regard, Confino never fails to deliver. She has perfected the art of developing characters that readers quickly become invested in. They are relatable, as are the trials and tribulations they navigate. Good Grief is another example of a story executed perfectly in this way.
Barbara and her two children are two years past the death of her husband and their father. Her mother had moved in to help her through the hardest part of the transition, but now she feels ready to lead her small family forward without outside assistance. However, as she says goodbye to her mother, her mother-in-law steps into the picture.
Ruth is the perfect yet imperfect mother-in-law from the start. Her crazy antics provide comedic relief, even as they drive Barbara to the brink of pulling her hair out. Beneath it all, there is a deep loneliness, as Ruth's husband also passed away young, and she wants Barbara to navigate this new life differently than she did.
I laughed at the funny moments and felt the sadness and grief when appropriate. This well-written novel is just what the "doctor ordered" if you’re looking for light humor and a good time. Thank you to NetGalley and Lake Union Publishing for allowing me to read this novel in exchange for my honest review.
Barbara and her two children are two years past the death of her husband and their father. Her mother had moved in to help her through the hardest part of the transition, but now she feels ready to lead her small family forward without outside assistance. However, as she says goodbye to her mother, her mother-in-law steps into the picture.
Ruth is the perfect yet imperfect mother-in-law from the start. Her crazy antics provide comedic relief, even as they drive Barbara to the brink of pulling her hair out. Beneath it all, there is a deep loneliness, as Ruth's husband also passed away young, and she wants Barbara to navigate this new life differently than she did.
I laughed at the funny moments and felt the sadness and grief when appropriate. This well-written novel is just what the "doctor ordered" if you’re looking for light humor and a good time. Thank you to NetGalley and Lake Union Publishing for allowing me to read this novel in exchange for my honest review.
September 3, 2025
4.25⭐️
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I adore this author and she continues to woo me as a reader with ‘Good Grief’. I think for many this would be a 5 star read and legitimately so. Unfortunately didn’t hit the coveted rating this time, but I can honestly say… ‘it’s me, not you’.
Sara can write. As always, her work flows so well from page to page, chapter to chapter. Her writing is clear, enjoyable, humorous, relevant, and entertaining. This book, as her others, is written in a way the reader keeps coming back for more- the engagement from reader to her work is solid.
Each character is well developed. She does a wonderful job writing even the young children’s characters, that are adorable - writing children into books is no small feat!
The relationships made and bonds strengthened throughout this story were so heartwarming and so beautifully done.
All that praise and not 5 stars you wonder? This is where ‘it’s me’ comes in… it is a book about Grief… (well duh, you say) and I guess grief and I don’t mix well. It’s not a trigger, rather I don’t understand it. So for me, having difficulty moving on after many years and constant repeting of the deceased husbands name took away from the story for me. I’ve read some great books with similar storylines but heavy focus on not being able to move on is what I struggled with. I think the late Harry’s name being mentioned so much along with the grieving widow not seeing the new budding relationship all but slapping her in the face- is what lost me. Again- it’s a me thing.
All in all I recommend Good Grief for the spectacular writing, witty humor, extra sweet ending and would highly recommend other books by this author.
Triggers: death of a spouse
Recommended if you enjoy:
Strong family bonding
1960’s history
Strong independent lead female characters
Jewish history
Humor with grief
Women’s rights
🧳 🧳 🧳
Kindle Unlimited with Audio
I adore this author and she continues to woo me as a reader with ‘Good Grief’. I think for many this would be a 5 star read and legitimately so. Unfortunately didn’t hit the coveted rating this time, but I can honestly say… ‘it’s me, not you’.
Sara can write. As always, her work flows so well from page to page, chapter to chapter. Her writing is clear, enjoyable, humorous, relevant, and entertaining. This book, as her others, is written in a way the reader keeps coming back for more- the engagement from reader to her work is solid.
Each character is well developed. She does a wonderful job writing even the young children’s characters, that are adorable - writing children into books is no small feat!
The relationships made and bonds strengthened throughout this story were so heartwarming and so beautifully done.
All that praise and not 5 stars you wonder? This is where ‘it’s me’ comes in… it is a book about Grief… (well duh, you say) and I guess grief and I don’t mix well. It’s not a trigger, rather I don’t understand it. So for me, having difficulty moving on after many years and constant repeting of the deceased husbands name took away from the story for me. I’ve read some great books with similar storylines but heavy focus on not being able to move on is what I struggled with. I think the late Harry’s name being mentioned so much along with the grieving widow not seeing the new budding relationship all but slapping her in the face- is what lost me. Again- it’s a me thing.
All in all I recommend Good Grief for the spectacular writing, witty humor, extra sweet ending and would highly recommend other books by this author.
Triggers: death of a spouse
Recommended if you enjoy:
Strong family bonding
1960’s history
Strong independent lead female characters
Jewish history
Humor with grief
Women’s rights
🧳 🧳 🧳
March 31, 2025
What a fantastic book that encourages us to look outside ourselves for healing when consumed by grief. Barbara is overwhelmed, but when she realizes the importance of perspective taking and learns to lean on others (and vice versa), she opens up an opportunity for genuine connection and meaningful relationships. It’s so easy to stay insular and focused on ‘me’ when we are grieving. I think the author’s cautionary tale is needed as we’ll all experience being solo at one time or another. Being wrapped in humour makes the advice to pivot an easier ‘pill’ to swallow.
I also liked the message about finding common ground. It would have been so much easier to send Ruth on her way, but Barbara found an unconventional solution to her problem.
My takeaway: “take in more of the joy” - take mental snapshots of the experiences that make you smile and laugh so that you have a virtual scrapbook to look back on when the going gets tough.
I was gifted this copy by Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley and was under no obligation to provide a review.
I also liked the message about finding common ground. It would have been so much easier to send Ruth on her way, but Barbara found an unconventional solution to her problem.
My takeaway: “take in more of the joy” - take mental snapshots of the experiences that make you smile and laugh so that you have a virtual scrapbook to look back on when the going gets tough.
I was gifted this copy by Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley and was under no obligation to provide a review.
August 31, 2025
3.5⭐️ I love Confino’s writing (Behind Every Good Man, Don’t Forget to Write) and 1960 settings. While this book was a pleasant read, it wasn’t quite as much fun as the previous two. Also, it didn’t add much real estate to the Confino universe.
This book significantly overlapped with BEGM:
🅱️ Similar protagonist’s names: substitute Barbara for Beverly.
🥀 Husbandless women. A young widow instead of a divorcée.
🧑🧒🧒 Both raising two young children.
👵 Beverly’s mother moved in to help after the divorce. Mother-in-law, Ruth, also a widow showed up unannounced with five suitcases to assist Barbara.
***Mild Spoiler Ahead***
Anyway, while this is primarily women’s fiction with the barest hint of romance to sunset the story on a rosy note, it didn’t quite work for me. I actually got attached to Harry, Barbara’s first husband, from her anecdotes. By the end I wasn’t sold that either woman was prepared to pursue serious relationships.
But what do I know? It’s fiction. 🤷🏻♀️
This book significantly overlapped with BEGM:
🅱️ Similar protagonist’s names: substitute Barbara for Beverly.
🥀 Husbandless women. A young widow instead of a divorcée.
🧑🧒🧒 Both raising two young children.
👵 Beverly’s mother moved in to help after the divorce. Mother-in-law, Ruth, also a widow showed up unannounced with five suitcases to assist Barbara.
***Mild Spoiler Ahead***
Anyway, while this is primarily women’s fiction with the barest hint of romance to sunset the story on a rosy note, it didn’t quite work for me. I actually got attached to Harry, Barbara’s first husband, from her anecdotes. By the end I wasn’t sold that either woman was prepared to pursue serious relationships.
But what do I know? It’s fiction. 🤷🏻♀️
August 25, 2025
Good Grief is an engaging, female-centered novel that celebrates the connection between two women who both love the same deceased man. That is… a young widow and her mother-in-law.
The year is 1963 and the setting is the greater DC area. Barbara Feldman has 2 children, 6 and 4. Her mother moved in when her husband died very young of a massive heart attack. They realize that the time has come for Barbara and the kids to survive on their own, so her mother-in-law moves out.
They have exactly one day as a family of 3, when her Mother-in-law shows up on her porch with five suitcases. There is no room for argument, Ruth Feldman knows that Barbara’s mother has just left and she is taking her rightful place.
Hilarity ensues!
Okay- time for my trigger warning. What happens next is Ruth meddling and really going overboard on being intrusive. If you struggle with setting boundaries and/or are triggered by this, this is a major theme of the book and - I will admit - it raised my blood pressure a bit. I grew to really love Ruth in the end, but there were several times that I was full of anxiety at what she was doing. For example, Barbara has people coming to paint the kitchen a pale yellow and Ruth changes it to being pink. That kind of thing, over and over.
But all the while, you know that Ruth means well, and she really does love Barbara and her grandchildren. Barbara decides to play matchmaker to just get Ruth out of her house.
Historical fiction in the mid twentieth century can be a difficult plot for 2025 readers; authors make the mistake of making the characters unrealistic and having the culture/viewpoints of the typical 21st century reader. Authors also can make the time period overly nostalgic, but that isn’t the case here. The workplace is a hospital and very different than today’s society. You can change your own perceptions and see things through the eyes of characters who are
Immersed in another time.
It also made me grateful for the women of Barbara and Ruth’s time that made workplaces better for women and mothers like myself.
4.5 stars rounded up.
Thanks to NetGalley and Lake House publishing for the ARC. Book to be published August 26, 2025.
The year is 1963 and the setting is the greater DC area. Barbara Feldman has 2 children, 6 and 4. Her mother moved in when her husband died very young of a massive heart attack. They realize that the time has come for Barbara and the kids to survive on their own, so her mother-in-law moves out.
They have exactly one day as a family of 3, when her Mother-in-law shows up on her porch with five suitcases. There is no room for argument, Ruth Feldman knows that Barbara’s mother has just left and she is taking her rightful place.
Hilarity ensues!
Okay- time for my trigger warning. What happens next is Ruth meddling and really going overboard on being intrusive. If you struggle with setting boundaries and/or are triggered by this, this is a major theme of the book and - I will admit - it raised my blood pressure a bit. I grew to really love Ruth in the end, but there were several times that I was full of anxiety at what she was doing. For example, Barbara has people coming to paint the kitchen a pale yellow and Ruth changes it to being pink. That kind of thing, over and over.
But all the while, you know that Ruth means well, and she really does love Barbara and her grandchildren. Barbara decides to play matchmaker to just get Ruth out of her house.
Historical fiction in the mid twentieth century can be a difficult plot for 2025 readers; authors make the mistake of making the characters unrealistic and having the culture/viewpoints of the typical 21st century reader. Authors also can make the time period overly nostalgic, but that isn’t the case here. The workplace is a hospital and very different than today’s society. You can change your own perceptions and see things through the eyes of characters who are
Immersed in another time.
It also made me grateful for the women of Barbara and Ruth’s time that made workplaces better for women and mothers like myself.
4.5 stars rounded up.
Thanks to NetGalley and Lake House publishing for the ARC. Book to be published August 26, 2025.
July 24, 2025
Sara Goodman Confino has another hit with Good Grief! When a book can make me both laugh and cry, you know that the story and its characters are ones that I will remember for a long time.
It’s 1963. Barbara’s husband died very young, two years before the book starts. This hit home for me, as I lost a dear cousin that way (his father also had a bad heart and he inherited it, just like in this book). Barbara has two young children and her mother came to stay with her (FOR TWO YEARS!!) while she tried to pick up the pieces of her life. Barbara is finally ready to resume life without her mother’s 24-7 presence, and then her mother-in-law Ruth shows up without warning - with a lot of suitcases. Ruth obviously plans to stay for quite a while, and Barbara initially can’t wait to get her out of her home. Of course, things change. Gradually.
Confino explores grief, of course, but also learning to accept help from others, the value of community, appreciating the little moments of joy, the value of empathy, and more. She explores the difficulties of single parenthood, which is still a concern today. She also illuminates the limitations put on women in 1963 and beyond, in both personal life and in the workplace. I’m significantly younger than Barbara, but I still remember how stinging some of these things were, when I was just starting out (like not being able to get a department store credit card in my name or having to start as a secretary despite by college degree) and the discomfort of having to wear things like stockings and a garter belt!
The misguided efforts at matchmaking truly made me laugh. Another plus for me was the matter-of-fact Jewish representation. So refreshing. And if you’ve read some of her other books, you’ll be delighted at the mentions of characters you know from those books - and an appearance by one of them!
My husband and I listened to the audiobook version during a recent road trip and we were both entranced and absorbed in the story. Helen Laser did a great job with all the accents and voices.
Thank you to Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley for the opportunity to read an advance readers copy of this book and to Brilliance Audio and NetGalley for the opportunity to listen to an advance copy of this audiobook. All opinions are my own.
It’s 1963. Barbara’s husband died very young, two years before the book starts. This hit home for me, as I lost a dear cousin that way (his father also had a bad heart and he inherited it, just like in this book). Barbara has two young children and her mother came to stay with her (FOR TWO YEARS!!) while she tried to pick up the pieces of her life. Barbara is finally ready to resume life without her mother’s 24-7 presence, and then her mother-in-law Ruth shows up without warning - with a lot of suitcases. Ruth obviously plans to stay for quite a while, and Barbara initially can’t wait to get her out of her home. Of course, things change. Gradually.
Confino explores grief, of course, but also learning to accept help from others, the value of community, appreciating the little moments of joy, the value of empathy, and more. She explores the difficulties of single parenthood, which is still a concern today. She also illuminates the limitations put on women in 1963 and beyond, in both personal life and in the workplace. I’m significantly younger than Barbara, but I still remember how stinging some of these things were, when I was just starting out (like not being able to get a department store credit card in my name or having to start as a secretary despite by college degree) and the discomfort of having to wear things like stockings and a garter belt!
The misguided efforts at matchmaking truly made me laugh. Another plus for me was the matter-of-fact Jewish representation. So refreshing. And if you’ve read some of her other books, you’ll be delighted at the mentions of characters you know from those books - and an appearance by one of them!
My husband and I listened to the audiobook version during a recent road trip and we were both entranced and absorbed in the story. Helen Laser did a great job with all the accents and voices.
Thank you to Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley for the opportunity to read an advance readers copy of this book and to Brilliance Audio and NetGalley for the opportunity to listen to an advance copy of this audiobook. All opinions are my own.
August 21, 2025
What an uplifting story full of character growth, heart, and love! Good Grief will grab you and pull you into a world of dynamic female characters, the sweetest kids and a scheming mother and daughter-in-law duo trying to help the other find a way to live and love again.
𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆?
This book absolutely had all the emotions! I was laughing, scolding characters, cheering, wanting to strangle characters and I could not get enough. It’s basically one of those stories where you feel like you become part of the family and want to experience everything with them.
𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲:
Strong Women
Supportive Family
Second Chances
Hope after loss
The 50s
Humor
𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲?
I absolutely binged this fast paced story. The fun banter between several characters also had me fully engaged and giggling during every chapter.
𝗗𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸?
This was a wonderful and rich story full of heart, life lessons, and quite a few humorous moments. I truly cannot recommend this book enough!
Thank you UpLit for this gifted copy in exchange from my honest opinions.
𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝗮𝗽𝗽𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗱 𝘁𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗺𝗼𝘀𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗿𝘆?
This book absolutely had all the emotions! I was laughing, scolding characters, cheering, wanting to strangle characters and I could not get enough. It’s basically one of those stories where you feel like you become part of the family and want to experience everything with them.
𝗥𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝗶𝗳 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲:
Strong Women
Supportive Family
Second Chances
Hope after loss
The 50s
Humor
𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘄𝗮𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲?
I absolutely binged this fast paced story. The fun banter between several characters also had me fully engaged and giggling during every chapter.
𝗗𝗼 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗻𝗱 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗯𝗼𝗼𝗸?
This was a wonderful and rich story full of heart, life lessons, and quite a few humorous moments. I truly cannot recommend this book enough!
Thank you UpLit for this gifted copy in exchange from my honest opinions.
March 31, 2025
2-1/2 ⭐️ rounded up
Good Grief by Sara Goodman Confino is a novel that delves into themes of grief, family dynamics, and the rich tapestry of Jewish culture and tradition. The story follows the protagonist as she navigates the complexities of loss and familial relationships, offering readers a blend of humor and heartfelt moments.
This was my first experience reading Sara Goodman Confino’s work, prompted by a friend’s high praise of her writing. I was eager to explore her storytelling and was fortunate to receive a copy from the publisher and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
The novel is imbued with Jewish culture and tradition, providing a rich backdrop that adds depth to the narrative. Confino’s writing style is engaging and often light-hearted, making complex themes accessible. However, I found the portrayal of the mother-in-law’s intrusive behavior particularly challenging. Having faced similar personal experiences with a meddling in-law, this aspect of the story was triggering for me, making it difficult to fully engage with the narrative. The lack of healthy boundaries depicted in the protagonist’s household added to my discomfort, and I struggled to find enjoyment in these parts of the book.
Ultimately, this one just wasn’t for me. I read for enjoyment, and this story, while well-written, didn’t provide that experience due to how strongly I reacted to the mother-in-law’s behavior. That said, I still appreciate Confino’s writing style and humor and plan to give one of her other novels a try—hopefully without a triggering, overbearing in-law in the mix.
Good Grief by Sara Goodman Confino is a novel that delves into themes of grief, family dynamics, and the rich tapestry of Jewish culture and tradition. The story follows the protagonist as she navigates the complexities of loss and familial relationships, offering readers a blend of humor and heartfelt moments.
This was my first experience reading Sara Goodman Confino’s work, prompted by a friend’s high praise of her writing. I was eager to explore her storytelling and was fortunate to receive a copy from the publisher and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.
The novel is imbued with Jewish culture and tradition, providing a rich backdrop that adds depth to the narrative. Confino’s writing style is engaging and often light-hearted, making complex themes accessible. However, I found the portrayal of the mother-in-law’s intrusive behavior particularly challenging. Having faced similar personal experiences with a meddling in-law, this aspect of the story was triggering for me, making it difficult to fully engage with the narrative. The lack of healthy boundaries depicted in the protagonist’s household added to my discomfort, and I struggled to find enjoyment in these parts of the book.
Ultimately, this one just wasn’t for me. I read for enjoyment, and this story, while well-written, didn’t provide that experience due to how strongly I reacted to the mother-in-law’s behavior. That said, I still appreciate Confino’s writing style and humor and plan to give one of her other novels a try—hopefully without a triggering, overbearing in-law in the mix.
April 1, 2025
I LOVED it. I laughed and I cried. A beautiful story with so much heart. ❤️
Good Grief is relatable, funny, and heartwarming! Sara transports readers back in time and you realize some situations are relevant in every era. If you’re looking for a feel good read with a bit of drama and a happily ever after, look no further.
Good Grief is relatable, funny, and heartwarming! Sara transports readers back in time and you realize some situations are relevant in every era. If you’re looking for a feel good read with a bit of drama and a happily ever after, look no further.
September 15, 2025
4.5
Sara G-Contino is terrific and her humor is contagious.
Sara G-Contino is terrific and her humor is contagious.
September 21, 2025
3.5 stars
I loved this author’s other two book that I’ve read, but this one was just a little too sweet and predictable for me. With all the five star reviews I’ve seen, I’m clearly in the minority here.
I loved this author’s other two book that I’ve read, but this one was just a little too sweet and predictable for me. With all the five star reviews I’ve seen, I’m clearly in the minority here.
August 22, 2025
Finished reading: August 21st 2025
"That was what Ruth and my own mother didn't understand: sure, I needed help, but I needed Harry's help, not theirs. More mothers were just too many cooks in the kitchen, quite literally sometimes."
*** A copy of this book was kindly provided to me by Netgalley and Lake Union Publishing in exchange for an honest review. Thank you! ***
REVIEW
WARNING: it's another unpopular opinion!!
November 5, 2025
I love Sara Goodman Confino's sharp and witty writing, and Good Grief is her best novel yet and one of my top picks for 2025! This is saying a lot because all her novels are great and super enjoyable from beginning to end.
I found myself laughing and smiling so much, but also cried a few times. It's such a sweet story and I couldn't get enough of it! There were even cameos from Sara's previous novels. (Although this is a standalone, the cameos may include some light spoilers, so read her other books first.)
I loved all the interactions between Ruth and Barbara. Ruth meant well, but kept messing things up all the time, making things more challenging in Barbara's already chaotic life. Still, it was hard not to laugh all all the mishaps. I also loved how they were trying to set each other up with men for different reasons and all of the dating snafus that went along with these plans.
Really, there was nothing I didn't love about this novel and have been recommending it whenever possible. While a lot of novels explore grief, this one stands out. (There's another novel with this same title from the early 2000s that I also loved, but Sara's takes the cake!)
(Trigger warnings below.)
Movie casting suggestions:
I found myself laughing and smiling so much, but also cried a few times. It's such a sweet story and I couldn't get enough of it! There were even cameos from Sara's previous novels. (Although this is a standalone, the cameos may include some light spoilers, so read her other books first.)
I loved all the interactions between Ruth and Barbara. Ruth meant well, but kept messing things up all the time, making things more challenging in Barbara's already chaotic life. Still, it was hard not to laugh all all the mishaps. I also loved how they were trying to set each other up with men for different reasons and all of the dating snafus that went along with these plans.
Really, there was nothing I didn't love about this novel and have been recommending it whenever possible. While a lot of novels explore grief, this one stands out. (There's another novel with this same title from the early 2000s that I also loved, but Sara's takes the cake!)
(Trigger warnings below.)
Movie casting suggestions:
Barbara: Zoey Deutch
Ruth: Jami Gertz
Eddie: Emory Cohen
Joseph: Steve Guttenberg
December 11, 2025
I enjoyed this even though the plot required absolute suspension of credulity. Is anyone's mother-in-law truly this presumptuous or was I spoiled?
August 12, 2025
Thank you @getredprbooks and @saraconfino for the gifted copy
GOOD GRIEF by Sara Goodman Confino | 07.26.2025
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Sara Goodman Confino, HOW do you keep outdoing yourself?! I devoured Good Grief in a weekend and now I’m already missing Barbara and Ruth like they’re old friends. This book is everything I love about Sara’s writing: smart, funny, heartfelt, and packed with complicated, lovable women who feel so real.
Set in 1963, we meet Barbara, a young widow trying to find herself again, just as her hurricane of a mother-in-law, Ruth, blows in uninvited.
Ruth is blunt, overbearing, hilarious, and somehow still completely endearing. What starts as a total clash of personalities slowly becomes a story about healing, second chances, and building unexpected bridges.
I laughed out loud (multiple times), felt deeply for both women, and found myself rooting for their growth as much as any romance. There is matchmaking and potential love in the air (for both of them!) but the real heart of the book is the evolving relationship between Barbara and Ruth. It’s messy, honest, and ultimately beautiful.
If you love books that balance comedy and emotion, give you 60s nostalgia, and remind you that family is what you make it—Good Grief is a must-read. I’m still smiling thinking about some of these scenes!
QOTD: Who’s your favorite fictional character - someone who drove you nuts on the page but stole your heart by the end?
#GoodGrief #SaraGoodmanConfino #BookReview #HistoricalFictionWithHeart #MotherInLawChronicles #FamilyDramaDoneRight #FunnyBooks #BooksILove #AutoBuyAuthor #BookstagramReads #FictionWithFeels #RetroReads
GOOD GRIEF by Sara Goodman Confino | 07.26.2025
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Sara Goodman Confino, HOW do you keep outdoing yourself?! I devoured Good Grief in a weekend and now I’m already missing Barbara and Ruth like they’re old friends. This book is everything I love about Sara’s writing: smart, funny, heartfelt, and packed with complicated, lovable women who feel so real.
Set in 1963, we meet Barbara, a young widow trying to find herself again, just as her hurricane of a mother-in-law, Ruth, blows in uninvited.
Ruth is blunt, overbearing, hilarious, and somehow still completely endearing. What starts as a total clash of personalities slowly becomes a story about healing, second chances, and building unexpected bridges.
I laughed out loud (multiple times), felt deeply for both women, and found myself rooting for their growth as much as any romance. There is matchmaking and potential love in the air (for both of them!) but the real heart of the book is the evolving relationship between Barbara and Ruth. It’s messy, honest, and ultimately beautiful.
If you love books that balance comedy and emotion, give you 60s nostalgia, and remind you that family is what you make it—Good Grief is a must-read. I’m still smiling thinking about some of these scenes!
QOTD: Who’s your favorite fictional character - someone who drove you nuts on the page but stole your heart by the end?
#GoodGrief #SaraGoodmanConfino #BookReview #HistoricalFictionWithHeart #MotherInLawChronicles #FamilyDramaDoneRight #FunnyBooks #BooksILove #AutoBuyAuthor #BookstagramReads #FictionWithFeels #RetroReads
August 20, 2025
The year is 1963, and it's been two years since Barbara Feldman's husband, Harry, passed away, leaving her to care for their two young children. Her mother had moved in to assist, but Barbara informed her that she was prepared to manage things on her own, and it was time for her to move out. But then her mother-in-law, Ruth, shows up on Barbara's doorstep with five pieces of luggage. It's her turn to move in. Surely Barbara can handle the judgmental Ruth for a week or two. But Ruth has other ideas.
In Good Grief, Sara Goodman Confino brings two widows together in this witty and heartfelt novel. The characters are endearing, even the exasperating yet well-intentioned Ruth, whose heart is in the right place. The author skillfully balances the journeys of two resilient women dealing with grief with some very humorous situations. Their attempts at matchmaking were especially amusing. It's a relatable and entertaining book about second chances that will put a smile on your face and may make you shed a tear or two.
Many thanks to Lake Union Publishing | Amazon Publishing for the advance.
4.5 stars.
Review posted on MicheleReader.com.
In Good Grief, Sara Goodman Confino brings two widows together in this witty and heartfelt novel. The characters are endearing, even the exasperating yet well-intentioned Ruth, whose heart is in the right place. The author skillfully balances the journeys of two resilient women dealing with grief with some very humorous situations. Their attempts at matchmaking were especially amusing. It's a relatable and entertaining book about second chances that will put a smile on your face and may make you shed a tear or two.
Many thanks to Lake Union Publishing | Amazon Publishing for the advance.
4.5 stars.
Review posted on MicheleReader.com.
October 18, 2025
The title describes the book. It is about grieving after the death of a husband. But it is also funny, uplifting and entertaining.
The widow, Barbara, has 2 young children. Her mother-in-law moves in to “help”. She interferes, complains, sets the kitchen on fire and so on. She causes havoc. But, she always means well (eyeroll).
The setting is the early 1960s, a time when life was much different than it is now. Women played a completely different role in the family and society. We watch Barbara emerge from her grief and settle into her new life. But she also learns that it’s okay to lean on others. I liked the characters, the storyline, and the pace of the book. I also liked the fact that a couple of characters from one of her other books briefly drop into this one.
I have read three other books by this author, she has become one of my favourites. Her books are easy and fun reads. I loved her Author's Notes at the end where she explains how it is very loosely based on her family's story.
And, I loved the happy ending. It might have bordered on corny but that's ok. It was very fitting for this story. I was smiling when I finished.
The widow, Barbara, has 2 young children. Her mother-in-law moves in to “help”. She interferes, complains, sets the kitchen on fire and so on. She causes havoc. But, she always means well (eyeroll).
The setting is the early 1960s, a time when life was much different than it is now. Women played a completely different role in the family and society. We watch Barbara emerge from her grief and settle into her new life. But she also learns that it’s okay to lean on others. I liked the characters, the storyline, and the pace of the book. I also liked the fact that a couple of characters from one of her other books briefly drop into this one.
I have read three other books by this author, she has become one of my favourites. Her books are easy and fun reads. I loved her Author's Notes at the end where she explains how it is very loosely based on her family's story.
And, I loved the happy ending. It might have bordered on corny but that's ok. It was very fitting for this story. I was smiling when I finished.
August 31, 2025
5 stars. 🎧
September 4, 2025
4.25/5 stars
It’s official, Sara Goodman Confino is one of my very favorite authors! This book is
heartwarming, emotional, and funny. What a treat!
Although one of the themes of the book centers on grief, this is not a heavy or necessarily sad book. It was the right book at the right time for me. It is set in the suburbs of Washington DC in 1963. The main character, Barbara Feldman, is a widow who is finally ready to take on life on her own. Then her mother-in-law shows up on her doorstep and doesn’t plan to leave anytime soon.
Some highlights |
•grief and healing
•matchmaking
•funny antics
•a bit of romance
•Jewish culture
•strong, capable women
‘Never underestimate what determined women can do.’
I really enjoyed this one! 🧡
It’s official, Sara Goodman Confino is one of my very favorite authors! This book is
heartwarming, emotional, and funny. What a treat!
Although one of the themes of the book centers on grief, this is not a heavy or necessarily sad book. It was the right book at the right time for me. It is set in the suburbs of Washington DC in 1963. The main character, Barbara Feldman, is a widow who is finally ready to take on life on her own. Then her mother-in-law shows up on her doorstep and doesn’t plan to leave anytime soon.
Some highlights |
•grief and healing
•matchmaking
•funny antics
•a bit of romance
•Jewish culture
•strong, capable women
‘Never underestimate what determined women can do.’
I really enjoyed this one! 🧡
July 22, 2025
This novel is set in 1965. It’s been two years since main character Barbara’s husband died only in his 30s, and she’s just told her mom to move out because she’s ready to try life on her own. But then her mother-in-law moves in and upends life in many ways.
This is Sara Goodman Confino’s 5th book, and it’s another winner, a different kind of historical novel that’s more a slice of life - and with some fun little Easter eggs to others of her books as well. It tackles a lot - grief, learning to move on, family, friendship, romance, sexism and more - and does it all with both humor and heart. A charming and quick read.
Not to mention - although every time a book thanks all the bookstagrammers I pretend it’s about me - this book is the very first time I am thanked by name in a book’s acknowledgements, which was such a delightful surprise!
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for my e-ARC (out 8/26/25); all opinions are my own. And clearly I’m going to need a physical copy of this one!
This is Sara Goodman Confino’s 5th book, and it’s another winner, a different kind of historical novel that’s more a slice of life - and with some fun little Easter eggs to others of her books as well. It tackles a lot - grief, learning to move on, family, friendship, romance, sexism and more - and does it all with both humor and heart. A charming and quick read.
Not to mention - although every time a book thanks all the bookstagrammers I pretend it’s about me - this book is the very first time I am thanked by name in a book’s acknowledgements, which was such a delightful surprise!
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for my e-ARC (out 8/26/25); all opinions are my own. And clearly I’m going to need a physical copy of this one!
December 31, 2025
Story 4.25 stars Narration 4.5 stars
This was another good listen from this author. And while this isn’t a series and you can read them in any order, we do get to see other characters from previous books. That’s always fun for me. This is also historical fiction and takes place in 1963. There’s mention of President Kennedy’s death and things like Ed Sullivan, but it’s strictly fiction. Since I was alive during this time period it was just that much more interesting to me.
Barbara has been a grieving widow for two years. Her mother stayed with her for those years. Barbara finally gets her to go home as she’s ready to be on her own. The next day her widowed mother in law comes with all her baggage to live there. No invitation to do so. Barbara has to try and figure out how she can get her to leave. Pretty hard to do when she’s lost her house to pay taxes. Definitely not how Barbara wanted to live, but as she has two children, she can use the help-temporary of course. The two have to learn how to live together and how to get the other one to move on with their lives. Of course there are some men involved. Plus a new job.
As always with this author’s books, I really enjoyed the listen. She really knows how to write good female characters in particular. Both women have fears and especially in Barbara’s case dreams of a new life. I really liked Barbara’s love interest. The ultimate nice guy and I was there for it. Recommended to anybody that likes a good well told story. No spice. Narration was good.
This was another good listen from this author. And while this isn’t a series and you can read them in any order, we do get to see other characters from previous books. That’s always fun for me. This is also historical fiction and takes place in 1963. There’s mention of President Kennedy’s death and things like Ed Sullivan, but it’s strictly fiction. Since I was alive during this time period it was just that much more interesting to me.
Barbara has been a grieving widow for two years. Her mother stayed with her for those years. Barbara finally gets her to go home as she’s ready to be on her own. The next day her widowed mother in law comes with all her baggage to live there. No invitation to do so. Barbara has to try and figure out how she can get her to leave. Pretty hard to do when she’s lost her house to pay taxes. Definitely not how Barbara wanted to live, but as she has two children, she can use the help-temporary of course. The two have to learn how to live together and how to get the other one to move on with their lives. Of course there are some men involved. Plus a new job.
As always with this author’s books, I really enjoyed the listen. She really knows how to write good female characters in particular. Both women have fears and especially in Barbara’s case dreams of a new life. I really liked Barbara’s love interest. The ultimate nice guy and I was there for it. Recommended to anybody that likes a good well told story. No spice. Narration was good.
July 17, 2025
Good Grief by Sara Goodman Confino. Thanks to the author and @getredprbooks for the gifted copy ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Raising two children as a widow in 1963 is not easy, but Barbara Feldman is doing it. After two years of mourning, she’s decided to start emerging from her grief. When her mother in law shows up to stay at her house unannounced, it puts a damper on her independence.
Ms. Confino has proven book after book that she can write. Her imagination literally has no limits, as she keeps delivering amazing characters, humorous and witty quips, and emotion filled plots. This one focused on a mother/daughter in law relationship, which any married woman can appreciate has many nuances. I loved the development over time of not just the characters, but all of the relationships in the story. This is one not to miss for all readers, and definitely not one to miss if you’ve read her books in the past, as you’ll recognize a few cameos.
“More mothers were just too many cooks in the kitchen, quite literally sometimes.”
Good Grief comes out 8/26.
Raising two children as a widow in 1963 is not easy, but Barbara Feldman is doing it. After two years of mourning, she’s decided to start emerging from her grief. When her mother in law shows up to stay at her house unannounced, it puts a damper on her independence.
Ms. Confino has proven book after book that she can write. Her imagination literally has no limits, as she keeps delivering amazing characters, humorous and witty quips, and emotion filled plots. This one focused on a mother/daughter in law relationship, which any married woman can appreciate has many nuances. I loved the development over time of not just the characters, but all of the relationships in the story. This is one not to miss for all readers, and definitely not one to miss if you’ve read her books in the past, as you’ll recognize a few cameos.
“More mothers were just too many cooks in the kitchen, quite literally sometimes.”
Good Grief comes out 8/26.
September 8, 2025
Having heard so many good things about this novel, I was very excited to read it. The verdict: it was great!
Set in the 1960s, this is a story of two grieving widows: Barbara, a young mother of two small children, and Ruth, her mother-in-law, who moves in after the death of Barbara’s husband (Ruth’s son). It is about learning to live after loss, friendship, and mother-daughter relationships. The story also touches on antisemitism, workplace harassment, and the circumscribed role of women in the 1960s.
Although the plot centers around loss, it is not a sad story - it is one of hope, resilience, supporting one other, and finding commonalities among differences. The story is also humorous as Barbara and Ruth trade barbs as these two very different women learn to accept and rely on each other. I loved both of these wonderful women!
Highly recommend this well-written, heartwarming, captivating gem of a novel.
Set in the 1960s, this is a story of two grieving widows: Barbara, a young mother of two small children, and Ruth, her mother-in-law, who moves in after the death of Barbara’s husband (Ruth’s son). It is about learning to live after loss, friendship, and mother-daughter relationships. The story also touches on antisemitism, workplace harassment, and the circumscribed role of women in the 1960s.
Although the plot centers around loss, it is not a sad story - it is one of hope, resilience, supporting one other, and finding commonalities among differences. The story is also humorous as Barbara and Ruth trade barbs as these two very different women learn to accept and rely on each other. I loved both of these wonderful women!
Highly recommend this well-written, heartwarming, captivating gem of a novel.
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