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Lies and Weddings: A Novel
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Nominee for Readers' Favorite Romance (2024)From the iconic internationally bestselling author of the Crazy Rich Asians trilogy: A forbidden affair erupts volcanically amid a decadent tropical wedding in this outrageous comedy of manners from the iconic author of Crazy Rich Asians.
Rufus Leung Gresham, future Earl of Greshambury and son of a former Hong Kong supermodel has a problem: the legendary Gresham Trust has been depleted by decades of profligate spending, and behind all the magazine covers and Instagram stories manors and yachts lies nothing more than a gargantuan mountain of debt. The only solution, put forth by Rufus’s scheming mother, is for Rufus to attend his sister’s wedding at a luxury eco-resort, a veritable who’s-who of sultans, barons, and oligarchs, and seduce a woman with money.
Should he marry Solène de Courcy, a French hotel heiress with honey blond tresses and a royal bloodline? Should he pursue Martha Dung, the tattooed venture capital genius who passes out billions like lollipops? Or should he follow his heart, betray his family, squander his legacy, and finally confess his love to the literal girl next door, the humble daughter of a doctor, Eden Tong? When a volcanic eruption burns through the nuptials and a hot mic exposes a secret tryst, the Gresham family plans—and their reputation—go up in flames.
Can the once-great dukedom rise from the ashes? Or will a secret tragedy, hidden for two decades, reveal a shocking twist?
In a globetrotting tale that takes us from the black sand beaches of Hawaii to the skies of Marrakech, from the glitzy bachelor pads of Los Angeles to the inner sanctums of England’s oldest family estates, Kevin Kwan unfurls a juicy, hilarious, sophisticated and thrillingly plotted story of love, money, murder, sex, and the lies we tell about them all.
Rufus Leung Gresham, future Earl of Greshambury and son of a former Hong Kong supermodel has a problem: the legendary Gresham Trust has been depleted by decades of profligate spending, and behind all the magazine covers and Instagram stories manors and yachts lies nothing more than a gargantuan mountain of debt. The only solution, put forth by Rufus’s scheming mother, is for Rufus to attend his sister’s wedding at a luxury eco-resort, a veritable who’s-who of sultans, barons, and oligarchs, and seduce a woman with money.
Should he marry Solène de Courcy, a French hotel heiress with honey blond tresses and a royal bloodline? Should he pursue Martha Dung, the tattooed venture capital genius who passes out billions like lollipops? Or should he follow his heart, betray his family, squander his legacy, and finally confess his love to the literal girl next door, the humble daughter of a doctor, Eden Tong? When a volcanic eruption burns through the nuptials and a hot mic exposes a secret tryst, the Gresham family plans—and their reputation—go up in flames.
Can the once-great dukedom rise from the ashes? Or will a secret tragedy, hidden for two decades, reveal a shocking twist?
In a globetrotting tale that takes us from the black sand beaches of Hawaii to the skies of Marrakech, from the glitzy bachelor pads of Los Angeles to the inner sanctums of England’s oldest family estates, Kevin Kwan unfurls a juicy, hilarious, sophisticated and thrillingly plotted story of love, money, murder, sex, and the lies we tell about them all.
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First published May 21, 2024
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12 books22k followersKEVIN KWAN is the author of New York Times bestsellers Crazy Rich Asians, China Rich Girlfriend, Rich People Problems, and Sex & Vanity. His books have been translated into 40 languages and the film adaptation of Crazy Rich Asians became Hollywood's highest grossing romantic comedy in over a decade. In 2018, Kevin was named by Time Magazine as one of the 100 Most Influential People in the World.
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December 17, 2024
"Are you that cruel of a son, to stand there and watch your helpless parents wither away when all you have to do is marry a billionaire?"
Ahh. While The Notorious B.I.G. may have popularized the phrase "Mo Money Mo Problems," Kevin Kwan has turned it into the anthem of his stories.
I do have to say, there's no feeling quite like cracking open one of Kwan's book. You know you're in for a scathing good time, one that will transport you to wealthy and dazzling locales full of rich people and their rich people problems (wink wink). In fact, I try to save his books for when I'm jet-setting around the world (yeah right), spending the benjis like nobody's business (only in my dreams).
Okay, in all seriousness, while this may seem like a superficial romp at first glance, it's actually so much more. It's a social satire that strikes at the heart of our materialistic society and also Asian cultures and families. At times, it's so spot-on with its searing critiques, I marvel at their execution all wrapped up in this riveting tale.
In order for a satire to succeed, it must never lose sight of the characters' humanity. Otherwise, all we have is a bunch of caricatures without any soul. And this book gets it right. Even though the Countess of Greshamsbury, our "villain" of the story, perfectly embodies the worst of a social-climbing, guilt-tripping, shrilly opportunistic mother, she is also strangely sympathetic. I understood her need to secure a good future for her children, however misguided her actions may be.
But it isn't just one or two characters that stands out; it's all of them. Every main and supporting character in here is interesting and likable, and together, they imbue the scenes with their allure and charm. It adds an undeniable sparkle to the story, making each and every page a joy to read.
As I was going through this book, I kept being impressed by all the details in here. I imagine Kevin Kwan must have done extensive research into art, fashion, and architecture in order to infuse the story with so much authenticity. It adds yet another layer of fun to the reading experience to be able to look up many of the people and things referenced in here.
Recently I've been shying away from light and fun reads. It's not that I don't love them. In fact, escapist reads are my raison d'être for reading in the first place. But it feels like so many of the books I've picked up lately confuse light with boring, as if low stakes is somehow the same as no stakes. So it's refreshing to find a book that gets the balance right.
Kevin Kwan truly has an inimitable style. His stories are fun and frothy, but never frivolous. His characters are memorable. And his portrayals are so sharp and astute, they often leave me laughing and wincing in equal measure.
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June 19, 2025
What a FUN read!!!!! Full of drama that is definitely reminiscent of Crazy Rich Asians but updated for today’s social climate.
I enjoyed the storyline, following a man who wants what the heart wants and a mother who wants status instead. The heart opens with a doozy of a predicament and shocking start. As we move though the story, the characters come to life and I found myself engrossed in the choices they were making and where this story was headed.
This was an EXCELLENT book to get lost in, I ate chunks of the day and didn’t realize how much time had past! I deducted one star because I felt the plot could have had a few kind worked out-which I don’t want to divulge in fear of ruining the read for the rest of you, but it may not even bother some readers.
Overall, if you like a little romance with a a LOT of money, societal discord and familial drama, this right here just might be your jam!!
I enjoyed the storyline, following a man who wants what the heart wants and a mother who wants status instead. The heart opens with a doozy of a predicament and shocking start. As we move though the story, the characters come to life and I found myself engrossed in the choices they were making and where this story was headed.
This was an EXCELLENT book to get lost in, I ate chunks of the day and didn’t realize how much time had past! I deducted one star because I felt the plot could have had a few kind worked out-which I don’t want to divulge in fear of ruining the read for the rest of you, but it may not even bother some readers.
Overall, if you like a little romance with a a LOT of money, societal discord and familial drama, this right here just might be your jam!!
May 24, 2024
Reading this was one of the most excruciating experiences I’ve had in a long time. Every character is either Mother Teresa or Hitler, and there’s pretty much zero character development across the chart of 500 pages — the way they enter the novel is also the way they leave, despite a topsy turvy plot that goes all over the place.
The book’s main antagonist, mother-from-hell Arabella, is so deeply hateable that she puts Cersei Lannister to shame, and unlike Martin, Kwan half-heartedly attempts, but fails to really justify her moods. Although Cersei is a hateable villain, she’s also relatable in that you can understand why she does the things she does. Arabella is really just a demon to everyone for no real reason and any scene with her (there are many) made me want to bang my head against a brick wall in frustration. Kwan attempts to garner some sympathy for her by cooking up some vague and generic scenes where she experiences racism, but many of the characters experience racism, and very few of them act in a way that makes me want to send them to Guantanamo bay for high grade torture.
Unfortunately, the plot is just as lacking. Kwan constantly writes himself into corners to manufacture conflict, and then back out again with improbable coincidences, all with no real sense of direction. The ending is deeply frustrating, insulting to the rest of the novel, and can only come about due to a whole series of conveniently timed deus ex machina plot twists.
With Lies and Weddings, Kwan attempts to recreate the success of Crazy Rich Asians by writing Crazy Rich Wasians but has actually just produced a deeply frustrating and relatively uncompelling story. At this point, you’d be better off just joining me in a re-read of Crazy Rich Asians.
The book’s main antagonist, mother-from-hell Arabella, is so deeply hateable that she puts Cersei Lannister to shame, and unlike Martin, Kwan half-heartedly attempts, but fails to really justify her moods. Although Cersei is a hateable villain, she’s also relatable in that you can understand why she does the things she does. Arabella is really just a demon to everyone for no real reason and any scene with her (there are many) made me want to bang my head against a brick wall in frustration. Kwan attempts to garner some sympathy for her by cooking up some vague and generic scenes where she experiences racism, but many of the characters experience racism, and very few of them act in a way that makes me want to send them to Guantanamo bay for high grade torture.
Unfortunately, the plot is just as lacking. Kwan constantly writes himself into corners to manufacture conflict, and then back out again with improbable coincidences, all with no real sense of direction. The ending is deeply frustrating, insulting to the rest of the novel, and can only come about due to a whole series of conveniently timed deus ex machina plot twists.
With Lies and Weddings, Kwan attempts to recreate the success of Crazy Rich Asians by writing Crazy Rich Wasians but has actually just produced a deeply frustrating and relatively uncompelling story. At this point, you’d be better off just joining me in a re-read of Crazy Rich Asians.
July 12, 2024
To think I have requested anywhere I could for an early copy of this only to be denied them all. Somebody was actually looking out for me and I just failed to listen. I looooooved Crazy Rich Asians as well as Sex and Vanity, but unfortunately this time around . . .
The leading female is a doormat, the leading male a cuck, the mother is 50 shades of total b*&^% with a heaping helping of internalized racism boiling over at every opportunity. The plot could have been fun (rich people who are actually broke), but the story development was pretty much nonexistent and consisted of over explaining whatever opulence was taking place in the current setting (whether it were designer clothing or five star food or over the top wedding venues or blah blah blah), followed with just a teensie little bit of plot progression, rinse, repeat until you finally get the ending that could have easily been predicted from nearly page one.
(And once again - Dear Authors: Literally 350 pages is generally all you need. Stories like these aren't a real magnum opus.)
Next.
The leading female is a doormat, the leading male a cuck, the mother is 50 shades of total b*&^% with a heaping helping of internalized racism boiling over at every opportunity. The plot could have been fun (rich people who are actually broke), but the story development was pretty much nonexistent and consisted of over explaining whatever opulence was taking place in the current setting (whether it were designer clothing or five star food or over the top wedding venues or blah blah blah), followed with just a teensie little bit of plot progression, rinse, repeat until you finally get the ending that could have easily been predicted from nearly page one.
(And once again - Dear Authors: Literally 350 pages is generally all you need. Stories like these aren't a real magnum opus.)
Next.
May 22, 2024
Kevin Kwan can be hit or miss for me and so far nothing of his has ever lived up to how much I loved Crazy rich Asians. This destination wedding story had a LOT of characters to keep track of and also alternated timelines making it confusing and difficult to follow at times. That said it did have great exotic settings and LOTS of family drama. Long time fans are sure to enjoy this latest but for me it was just an okay read (and a little long for my tastes). Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early digital copy in exchange for my honest review!
May 26, 2024
Light and frothy but with enough substance to keep you reading. This is pure escapist reading and oh so delightful. Perfect for the start of summer reading.
July 3, 2024
Audiobook was SO GOOD!!!
Story was probably a 3.5, but I’m giving it 4 due to the outstanding audio narration. I wish Kwan kept it to 300 pages, the story dragged a bit, but overall chaotic, fun, and positively indulgent!
Story was probably a 3.5, but I’m giving it 4 due to the outstanding audio narration. I wish Kwan kept it to 300 pages, the story dragged a bit, but overall chaotic, fun, and positively indulgent!
March 16, 2024
Unofficial Synopsis:
Rufus, the future Earl of Greshambury has a small problem. His family’s trust has been depleted. So now he’s faced with a tough decision, marry for money and help the family, or, forget about money and confess his love for the girl next door?
Will things work out as planned? Or will a secret, thought hidden for two decades, reveal a shocking twist?
Review:
This book was like a soap opera. While there was a lot I liked about this book, there were a few things that were tough for me as well. I found the chapters a little too short for my liking as it seemed just as soon as I got into the character, the chapter would change. That was my biggest drawback though and there was plenty to like! There were plenty of laugh out loud moments, I found the footnotes to be particularly hilarious. The drama in this book was superb and just so entertaining. There’s not necessarily a lot that happens in this book, but it is fun! There is some serious name dropping that happens throughout the book, but it wasn’t in an obnoxious way, it worked out and made perfect sense for the story.
I adore the cover of this book as well! It is just stunning, and I can’t wait for it to be made into a fancy special edition with some gold foiling. I can already picture it in my head, and I’ve spent the money lol.
Thank you to the publisher for my review copy.
Rufus, the future Earl of Greshambury has a small problem. His family’s trust has been depleted. So now he’s faced with a tough decision, marry for money and help the family, or, forget about money and confess his love for the girl next door?
Will things work out as planned? Or will a secret, thought hidden for two decades, reveal a shocking twist?
Review:
This book was like a soap opera. While there was a lot I liked about this book, there were a few things that were tough for me as well. I found the chapters a little too short for my liking as it seemed just as soon as I got into the character, the chapter would change. That was my biggest drawback though and there was plenty to like! There were plenty of laugh out loud moments, I found the footnotes to be particularly hilarious. The drama in this book was superb and just so entertaining. There’s not necessarily a lot that happens in this book, but it is fun! There is some serious name dropping that happens throughout the book, but it wasn’t in an obnoxious way, it worked out and made perfect sense for the story.
I adore the cover of this book as well! It is just stunning, and I can’t wait for it to be made into a fancy special edition with some gold foiling. I can already picture it in my head, and I’ve spent the money lol.
Thank you to the publisher for my review copy.
May 30, 2024
A one-hit wonder author, in my opinion and that hit was the Crazy Rich Asian series.
I was also listening to the audiobook while reading along and they really need to find a better narrator. The annoying voices she puts on for most of the Gresham family (excluding Rufus) made me despise the family members even more, especially the posh, pretentious, nasal-y "british" accents for all the females in the family.
I also hated how the narrator voiced Freddy. She made him sound like some frat boy surfer boy named Chad or Brad and it irks me every time he spoke. I bet he was actually a cool but, the narrator ruined him. Same with Gopal Das. He sounded like he was high with a breathing problem 99% of the time.
Kwan loves his footnotes and you can clearly see that with his CRA series, but at least with that series, it is a bit more welcomed and helpful. I thought most of the footnotes in this book were unnecessary with facts I didn't need to know. It made the actual story drag on more than it has to.
"TWIN FLAMES", Gopal Das describes Beatrice... wtf. Like the twin flames cult????? Kevin... no.... why...
The only saving grace in all of this is probably Thomas Tong. A down-to-earth guy who had to experience his brother's death but still sees the light in people and truly wants to help people. Eden is too much of a pushover. Rufus has his questioning moments, but at least they weren't annoying to listen to with the audiobook.
From top to bottom of most hated characters to tolerable.
1. Lady Arabella
2. Luis Felipe (douche bag x10000)
3. Augie & Beatrice (same annoying voice as Arabella, but they were crying and so annoying 100% of the time)
4. Freddy & Francis (narrator ruined them)
5. Eden
6. Rufus
7. Thomas & Martha Dung
After this and also attempting/DNF-ing Sex & Vanity, I'm not sure if I ever want to pick up another Kevin Kwan novel. I'm scared to re-read the CRA series as well.
I was also listening to the audiobook while reading along and they really need to find a better narrator. The annoying voices she puts on for most of the Gresham family (excluding Rufus) made me despise the family members even more, especially the posh, pretentious, nasal-y "british" accents for all the females in the family.
I also hated how the narrator voiced Freddy. She made him sound like some frat boy surfer boy named Chad or Brad and it irks me every time he spoke. I bet he was actually a cool but, the narrator ruined him. Same with Gopal Das. He sounded like he was high with a breathing problem 99% of the time.
Kwan loves his footnotes and you can clearly see that with his CRA series, but at least with that series, it is a bit more welcomed and helpful. I thought most of the footnotes in this book were unnecessary with facts I didn't need to know. It made the actual story drag on more than it has to.
"TWIN FLAMES", Gopal Das describes Beatrice... wtf. Like the twin flames cult????? Kevin... no.... why...
The only saving grace in all of this is probably Thomas Tong. A down-to-earth guy who had to experience his brother's death but still sees the light in people and truly wants to help people. Eden is too much of a pushover. Rufus has his questioning moments, but at least they weren't annoying to listen to with the audiobook.
From top to bottom of most hated characters to tolerable.
1. Lady Arabella
2. Luis Felipe (douche bag x10000)
3. Augie & Beatrice (same annoying voice as Arabella, but they were crying and so annoying 100% of the time)
4. Freddy & Francis (narrator ruined them)
5. Eden
6. Rufus
7. Thomas & Martha Dung
After this and also attempting/DNF-ing Sex & Vanity, I'm not sure if I ever want to pick up another Kevin Kwan novel. I'm scared to re-read the CRA series as well.
July 8, 2025
The Gresham family is the envy of British society. Aristocratic Francis and stunning Hong Kong-born Arabella are the heads of a buzzy hotel chain and the parents of three perfect young adults. But Francis has been hiding a secret…they’re flat broke and their properties are all mortgaged to a hilt. Arabella starts scheming to restore the family’s net worth before their whole lives go up in smoke.
This book is written in classic Kevin Kwan style, with plenty of footnotes, mouthwatering descriptions of food, a rich guy/middle class girl romance, and an omniscient POV that gives a glimpse inside just about every character’s head. I liked it a lot, and if you’re a fan of his other books, you will too. My one gripe was that the big twist is easily predictable and a bit too similar to something we’ve seen from him before…but I go to Kwan’s books for the vibes, not the plot.
This book is written in classic Kevin Kwan style, with plenty of footnotes, mouthwatering descriptions of food, a rich guy/middle class girl romance, and an omniscient POV that gives a glimpse inside just about every character’s head. I liked it a lot, and if you’re a fan of his other books, you will too. My one gripe was that the big twist is easily predictable and a bit too similar to something we’ve seen from him before…but I go to Kwan’s books for the vibes, not the plot.
June 3, 2024
437 pages felt like 600+. I figured out the plot line/twist within 50 pages and waited the whole damn time for it to come to fruition at page 380. It wasn't clever; it was overwrought. It does not abide by the typical literary genre definition of romance and chick lit. Brava to the marketing team for writing a book synopsis that sounds enticing, fun, sexy, and romantic yet what is on the pages is anything but. You spend more time reading the intricacies of food dishes and fashion and home decor than spend time with Rufus, who we are told is the central character and plot by said book description.
June 5, 2024
4 ☆
In Lies and Weddings, author Kevin Kwan delves into his favorite milieu - the world of the privileged and uber wealthy. And his characters have plenty of imagination.
The jet set readily hopscotch from continent to continent, as the whim for a certain cuisine or the need for a particular fashion house hits them.
Millions are won and lost on the tables of Macau's casinos.
The wife of titled British nobility has developed a lifestyle brand of ultra luxurious resorts.
But where's the fun in that if all is truly as it appears?
The jet belongs to a brother who possesses an actual fortune. The gambler who won big at the tables lost spectacularly in a different respect. And those ultra luxurious resorts are creating more debts than revenues.
So what happens when the next generation doesn't want to play by their parent's rulebook?
Rufus Leung Gresham, the sole heir to his family's long and respected lineage, isn't casually falling in line with his mother's social machinations. Formerly a super star model from Hong Kong, Lady Arabella wants to cement her son's position and legacy so that means a future daughter-in-law with an impeccable family reputation matched by a commensurate level of wealth. But neither the Thai princess nor the hotel heiress can hold a candle to Rufus' longtime affections for the girl next door. Trouble is brewing just as surely as volcanic lava is bubbling too close to one of those upscale eco-resorts.
I haven't read anything by Kevin Kwan since the end of his Crazy Rich Asians trilogy. But my Netgalley request for an ARC was approved, and I was happy enough to save this as a vacation read. It was a perfect pairing. Lies and Weddings was fun with a sympathetic hero and heroine, a dastardly "villain," and a bit of intrigue from a spectacularly gruesome event that jump started the novel. Do the events feel realistic? Not quite, this is pure escapist fiction.
Thank you to Doubleday and Netgalley for this advance reader copy. The publication date was May 21, 2024.
Anyone who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination.
In Lies and Weddings, author Kevin Kwan delves into his favorite milieu - the world of the privileged and uber wealthy. And his characters have plenty of imagination.
The jet set readily hopscotch from continent to continent, as the whim for a certain cuisine or the need for a particular fashion house hits them.
Millions are won and lost on the tables of Macau's casinos.
The wife of titled British nobility has developed a lifestyle brand of ultra luxurious resorts.
But where's the fun in that if all is truly as it appears?
The jet belongs to a brother who possesses an actual fortune. The gambler who won big at the tables lost spectacularly in a different respect. And those ultra luxurious resorts are creating more debts than revenues.
So what happens when the next generation doesn't want to play by their parent's rulebook?
Rufus Leung Gresham, the sole heir to his family's long and respected lineage, isn't casually falling in line with his mother's social machinations. Formerly a super star model from Hong Kong, Lady Arabella wants to cement her son's position and legacy so that means a future daughter-in-law with an impeccable family reputation matched by a commensurate level of wealth. But neither the Thai princess nor the hotel heiress can hold a candle to Rufus' longtime affections for the girl next door. Trouble is brewing just as surely as volcanic lava is bubbling too close to one of those upscale eco-resorts.
I haven't read anything by Kevin Kwan since the end of his Crazy Rich Asians trilogy. But my Netgalley request for an ARC was approved, and I was happy enough to save this as a vacation read. It was a perfect pairing. Lies and Weddings was fun with a sympathetic hero and heroine, a dastardly "villain," and a bit of intrigue from a spectacularly gruesome event that jump started the novel. Do the events feel realistic? Not quite, this is pure escapist fiction.
Thank you to Doubleday and Netgalley for this advance reader copy. The publication date was May 21, 2024.
March 13, 2024
Rufus Leung Gresham's journey from privileged dilettante to potential savior of his family's legacy had me on the edge of my seat, or rather, lounging on my beach towel, completely absorbed in the drama.
First off, can we talk about the setting? A luxury eco-resort filled with the crème de la crème of society, set against the backdrop of a volcanic eruption? It's like Kwan handpicked the most lavish, extravagant locations just to make us swoon with envy. And swoon I did!
The characters are like something out of a dream, or maybe a slightly surreal nightmare, depending on your perspective. Rufus, torn between duty and desire, had me rooting for him even when he was making all the wrong decisions. And the women vying for his attention? Solène with her royal bloodline, Martha with her billions, and sweet, unassuming Eden - each one brought their own brand of chaos to the mix.
But what really sets Lies and Weddings apart is Kwan's knack for weaving a tale that's as juicy as it is hilarious. The secrets, the scandals, the betrayals—each twist and turn had me gasping and giggling in equal measure. And let's not forget the steamy romance, because amidst all the chaos, there's still plenty of heat to keep you turning those pages.
For any reader in search of a delightful escape from reality, complete with a sprinkle of romance to sweeten the deal, I couldn't recommend this book more. It's the perfect pick-me-up for those days when you just want to lose yourself in a world of glamour, drama, and intrigue.
First off, can we talk about the setting? A luxury eco-resort filled with the crème de la crème of society, set against the backdrop of a volcanic eruption? It's like Kwan handpicked the most lavish, extravagant locations just to make us swoon with envy. And swoon I did!
The characters are like something out of a dream, or maybe a slightly surreal nightmare, depending on your perspective. Rufus, torn between duty and desire, had me rooting for him even when he was making all the wrong decisions. And the women vying for his attention? Solène with her royal bloodline, Martha with her billions, and sweet, unassuming Eden - each one brought their own brand of chaos to the mix.
But what really sets Lies and Weddings apart is Kwan's knack for weaving a tale that's as juicy as it is hilarious. The secrets, the scandals, the betrayals—each twist and turn had me gasping and giggling in equal measure. And let's not forget the steamy romance, because amidst all the chaos, there's still plenty of heat to keep you turning those pages.
For any reader in search of a delightful escape from reality, complete with a sprinkle of romance to sweeten the deal, I couldn't recommend this book more. It's the perfect pick-me-up for those days when you just want to lose yourself in a world of glamour, drama, and intrigue.
May 27, 2024
I know that this author writes over the top situations, but for some reason in this book they irritated me. The people seemed so self centered, I found it very hard to like them. About 20% in, I realized that I couldn't take it any more, this one just wasn't for me.
February 22, 2025
Got this at an event for the author at the Asia Society. It was a big deal, and everyone who attended got a signed copy of the book. I had enjoyed the Crazy Rich Asians series well enough, so I was happy to read this too. Now I kind of wish I hadn't. Felt obligated to read it, but really wish I hadn't.
Too many characters, and most of them ew. Finally started getting a little good about halfway.
Too many characters, and most of them ew. Finally started getting a little good about halfway.
June 8, 2024
2/5 - a shadow of crazy rich asians
This one tried to mimic the fun, glamorous vibes of CRA but failed. For one, too much virtue-signalling and rich-privilege bashing. CRA was able to strike the balance between having the protagonist show us how ridiculous rich people's lifestyles were but did not spend entire paragraphs lecturing the readers.
Something I found annoying was how each new character introduction would invariably be followed by all the schools they went to. I get that it's a commentary on how rich / pretentious people care about which schools you attended but I feel like it really adds nothing to the book. There are whole chapters that should have been axed and don't even get me started on the footnotes.
So basically, I think Kwan tried to pack too much stuff in without paying more attention to the plot. Sure, there were some juicy bits in there but it was a far cry from reading CRA. The story also ended a bit too neatly and perfectly for my liking.
This one tried to mimic the fun, glamorous vibes of CRA but failed. For one, too much virtue-signalling and rich-privilege bashing. CRA was able to strike the balance between having the protagonist show us how ridiculous rich people's lifestyles were but did not spend entire paragraphs lecturing the readers.
Something I found annoying was how each new character introduction would invariably be followed by all the schools they went to. I get that it's a commentary on how rich / pretentious people care about which schools you attended but I feel like it really adds nothing to the book. There are whole chapters that should have been axed and don't even get me started on the footnotes.
So basically, I think Kwan tried to pack too much stuff in without paying more attention to the plot. Sure, there were some juicy bits in there but it was a far cry from reading CRA. The story also ended a bit too neatly and perfectly for my liking.
May 22, 2024
4 Stars!
(ARC provided by Doubleday Books)
Rufus Gresham is the Viscount St. Ives, and an international playboy photographer living in Hawaii. He's a gorgeous bachelor that loves to surf and doesn't care about the lavish lifestyle he grew up with. Unfortunately he has a lot of pressure on him to deliver and live up to the family name. He comes from a noble family that embody modern day aristocrats. As the prodigal heir, his former supermodel mother has high expectations. Since one of his sister's is getting married soon to a prince, and made a magnificent match, he's next to step up and marry and have children. When he finds out his family isn't wealthy anymore, but actually drowning in debt, will he be the one to save them from ruin? In their world reputation is everything, and Rufus's scheming mother has big plans for him to meet and seduce a woman with money. Will he let others decide his future, or will he follow his heart that's always belonged to his childhood best friend, Eden Tong?
Lies and Weddings by Kevin Kwan is a friends to lovers romance full of twists and turns, drama, humor, secrets and lies. It's about family, friendship and forbidden love. I really enjoyed this story and love this authors writing! <333
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(ARC provided by Doubleday Books)
Rufus Gresham is the Viscount St. Ives, and an international playboy photographer living in Hawaii. He's a gorgeous bachelor that loves to surf and doesn't care about the lavish lifestyle he grew up with. Unfortunately he has a lot of pressure on him to deliver and live up to the family name. He comes from a noble family that embody modern day aristocrats. As the prodigal heir, his former supermodel mother has high expectations. Since one of his sister's is getting married soon to a prince, and made a magnificent match, he's next to step up and marry and have children. When he finds out his family isn't wealthy anymore, but actually drowning in debt, will he be the one to save them from ruin? In their world reputation is everything, and Rufus's scheming mother has big plans for him to meet and seduce a woman with money. Will he let others decide his future, or will he follow his heart that's always belonged to his childhood best friend, Eden Tong?
Lies and Weddings by Kevin Kwan is a friends to lovers romance full of twists and turns, drama, humor, secrets and lies. It's about family, friendship and forbidden love. I really enjoyed this story and love this authors writing! <333
***NOW AVAILABLE***
https://www.amazon.com/Lies-Weddings-...
June 18, 2024
Book Rating: 5 ⭐️/5
Audiobook Rating: 1 ⭐️/5
I can FINALLY say I've read a book by Kevin Kwan and this dramatic, over-the-top read was a ton of fun. I have no idea if I was supposed to read Sex and Vanity first since apparently, they are both in the "Cities" series? world? but I didn't feel like I was missing anything. The book starts out in a very thrilling and shocking way, and I love how Kwan expertly ties it back into the ending/climax. I loved almost all of the characters (some more than others), but Eden was probably my favorite of them all. She has a good head on her shoulders and is the steady voice of reason throughout the storyline.
The only thing I found fault with was the audiobook and I honestly think it is the worst audiobook I have ever listened to. Jing Lusi's narration was erratic, inconsistent, and hard to understand at times making the audio a complete dud for me. I would definitely recommend reading over listening, but I will say I enjoyed the way she narrated Rufus's mother, so I guess that's something. Thankfully, I was able to not let this take away from my enjoyment of the book itself, and I will have to do a reread at some point with my eyes. After all the drama, Lies and Weddings had a pretty surprising revelation that I wasn't expecting, and I was very happy with how everything wrapped up. I would read this if you are looking for an escape from real life and love nonstop drama in your books!
Thank you to the publishers for my advanced listening and reader copies of this book. All opinions and thoughts are my own.
Audiobook Rating: 1 ⭐️/5
I can FINALLY say I've read a book by Kevin Kwan and this dramatic, over-the-top read was a ton of fun. I have no idea if I was supposed to read Sex and Vanity first since apparently, they are both in the "Cities" series? world? but I didn't feel like I was missing anything. The book starts out in a very thrilling and shocking way, and I love how Kwan expertly ties it back into the ending/climax. I loved almost all of the characters (some more than others), but Eden was probably my favorite of them all. She has a good head on her shoulders and is the steady voice of reason throughout the storyline.
The only thing I found fault with was the audiobook and I honestly think it is the worst audiobook I have ever listened to. Jing Lusi's narration was erratic, inconsistent, and hard to understand at times making the audio a complete dud for me. I would definitely recommend reading over listening, but I will say I enjoyed the way she narrated Rufus's mother, so I guess that's something. Thankfully, I was able to not let this take away from my enjoyment of the book itself, and I will have to do a reread at some point with my eyes. After all the drama, Lies and Weddings had a pretty surprising revelation that I wasn't expecting, and I was very happy with how everything wrapped up. I would read this if you are looking for an escape from real life and love nonstop drama in your books!
Thank you to the publishers for my advanced listening and reader copies of this book. All opinions and thoughts are my own.
June 8, 2024
This book had a lot of potential and overall I enjoyed it but a couple things bugged me. First, the major reveal (assuming it’s meant to be that) was so obvious from quite literally abut 5-10% of the way into the book. Even smaller pieces were easily figured out as well and that to me makes the story a bit of a let down. Secondly, there were just way too many POVs and way too much going on. It was somewhat manageable in the beginning but by around 60% of the way through it was just too much jumping around to different people and places and by about 80% through it just felt like it went off the rails. All of that said I did like it but I think some of the storylines should have been cut and overall it could have been shorter and used a bit of editing.
May 20, 2024
Kevin Kwan unfurls a juicy, hilarious, sophisticated and thrillingly plotted story of love, money, murder, sex, and the lies we tell about them all.
TITLE: LIES AND WEDDINGS
AUTHOR: Kevin Kwan
NARRATOR: Jing Lusi
PUB DATE: 05.21.2024
LENGTH: 15h 8m
Crazier
Richer
Twistier
Kevin Kwan is back and I could not be happier reading Lies and Weddings - it was everything I expected but more. The story is centered on Eden Tong, who has lived most of her life next door to the Gresham family children - Augie, Bea and Rufus (the future Earl of Greshambury) who are half Chinese from their mother Arabella, a former Hong Kong supermodel. Eden now a physician just like her father has always vied for Arabella’s favor - but was always treated nothing more than hired help around their family. Unbeknownst to Arabella and the rest of society, their family coffers have been long depleted and their estate mortgaged to the hilt. Rufus is at the crossroads of following his heart with Eden or saving his family legacy by marrying for money.
In typical Kevin Kwan, over the top characters are what shines - there are meddling Asian mothers, misbehaving children, gazillionaire bad boys, and twists you will never see coming. The story is so satisfying and I loved globetrotting from London to Los Angeles, and Marrakech to Venice in private jets and yachts. There is no shortage of drama and laughs, but it’s also a very poignant story about sacrifices for family and love.
🎧Audiobook Review: Jing Lusi narrated the multitude of characters in the book and I thought she did a fantastic job keeping the voices distinct and the accents on point. Her voice was lively and kept me engaged throughout. I highly recommend it
TITLE: LIES AND WEDDINGS
AUTHOR: Kevin Kwan
NARRATOR: Jing Lusi
PUB DATE: 05.21.2024
LENGTH: 15h 8m
Crazier
Richer
Twistier
Kevin Kwan is back and I could not be happier reading Lies and Weddings - it was everything I expected but more. The story is centered on Eden Tong, who has lived most of her life next door to the Gresham family children - Augie, Bea and Rufus (the future Earl of Greshambury) who are half Chinese from their mother Arabella, a former Hong Kong supermodel. Eden now a physician just like her father has always vied for Arabella’s favor - but was always treated nothing more than hired help around their family. Unbeknownst to Arabella and the rest of society, their family coffers have been long depleted and their estate mortgaged to the hilt. Rufus is at the crossroads of following his heart with Eden or saving his family legacy by marrying for money.
In typical Kevin Kwan, over the top characters are what shines - there are meddling Asian mothers, misbehaving children, gazillionaire bad boys, and twists you will never see coming. The story is so satisfying and I loved globetrotting from London to Los Angeles, and Marrakech to Venice in private jets and yachts. There is no shortage of drama and laughs, but it’s also a very poignant story about sacrifices for family and love.
🎧Audiobook Review: Jing Lusi narrated the multitude of characters in the book and I thought she did a fantastic job keeping the voices distinct and the accents on point. Her voice was lively and kept me engaged throughout. I highly recommend it
July 30, 2024
If you want a juicy dip into the world of high society, with a splash of scandal and romance, you definitely need to listen to "Lies and Weddings (Audiobook version)"
Kevin Kwan thrives on his cleverness and ability to tell a story about the 1%. "Lies and Weddings" is no exception to this roll, keeping you hooked from the very first page through to the end. Kwan opens the door into the realm of the extremely wealthy, specifically the extravagant world of ultra-lavish weddings and the lies they are built on.
At the heart of the story are several captivating figures, waging their personal battle to hide from, and dance around, their individual intentions, and the many concealed motivators they draw from. Kwan's wit and brilliant attention to detail create an aesthetically effective reading, perfect for getting away from the hustle and bustle in a realm of grandiose luxury and the backstage machinations of the members of society one level up.
The narrator's narration effectively breathed new life into the characters and their situations, really telling the story to the full. By doing a good job, the tale can become immersive, leaving you unable to put it down. If you want to get down to some good old-fashioned corporate intrigue and human dilemma, you'll definitely want to listen to "Lies and Weddings." Kevin Kwan has once again produced a novel that allows readers to peek in on the lives of the super-rich and the numerous coordinated performances they perform as part of their job.
All in all, this one will end up being a very engaging listen and should not be overlooked.
Kevin Kwan thrives on his cleverness and ability to tell a story about the 1%. "Lies and Weddings" is no exception to this roll, keeping you hooked from the very first page through to the end. Kwan opens the door into the realm of the extremely wealthy, specifically the extravagant world of ultra-lavish weddings and the lies they are built on.
At the heart of the story are several captivating figures, waging their personal battle to hide from, and dance around, their individual intentions, and the many concealed motivators they draw from. Kwan's wit and brilliant attention to detail create an aesthetically effective reading, perfect for getting away from the hustle and bustle in a realm of grandiose luxury and the backstage machinations of the members of society one level up.
The narrator's narration effectively breathed new life into the characters and their situations, really telling the story to the full. By doing a good job, the tale can become immersive, leaving you unable to put it down. If you want to get down to some good old-fashioned corporate intrigue and human dilemma, you'll definitely want to listen to "Lies and Weddings." Kevin Kwan has once again produced a novel that allows readers to peek in on the lives of the super-rich and the numerous coordinated performances they perform as part of their job.
All in all, this one will end up being a very engaging listen and should not be overlooked.
dnf
November 12, 2025DNF @20% - I am just struggling too hard to connect with this one both due to the larger character base and the back and forth timeline. It’s definitely a me thing I think. I may revisit it one day.
May 26, 2025
4.5 stars
"A forbidden affair erupts dramatically amid a decadent Hawaiian wedding in this hilarious, sophisticated, and thrillingly plotted story of love, money, murder, sex—and the lies we tell about them all."
I loved this brilliant book by Kevin Kwan. It is about two main families, the Greshams and the Tangs who live mainly in London. This is a satirical look that explores many hefty themes including wealth and social class, love and marriage, succession, family dynamics and secrets, and racism. I think it is safe to say that Kwan is a modern-day Jane Austen with his precision and sharp wit. If you are a fan of Crazy Rich Asians and Jane Austen, you will love this book, which is now available in paperback and perfect for summer. I found it especially delicious with a glass of iced tea, which is prolifically spilled in this novel! Enjoy!🏖🧋
"A forbidden affair erupts dramatically amid a decadent Hawaiian wedding in this hilarious, sophisticated, and thrillingly plotted story of love, money, murder, sex—and the lies we tell about them all."
I loved this brilliant book by Kevin Kwan. It is about two main families, the Greshams and the Tangs who live mainly in London. This is a satirical look that explores many hefty themes including wealth and social class, love and marriage, succession, family dynamics and secrets, and racism. I think it is safe to say that Kwan is a modern-day Jane Austen with his precision and sharp wit. If you are a fan of Crazy Rich Asians and Jane Austen, you will love this book, which is now available in paperback and perfect for summer. I found it especially delicious with a glass of iced tea, which is prolifically spilled in this novel! Enjoy!🏖🧋
February 2, 2025
I liked Rufus, but I don't know if I could have been as gracious as Eden with all the hate and rumors.
Eden and her father were my two favorite characters. Even Rufus seemed suspended from reality due to his upbringing.
It is crazy to see the differences between billionaires and millionaires as if the millionaires were the commoners.
So much waste and excess.
3.5 Stars, it was entertaining but not a lot of depth.
Eden and her father were my two favorite characters. Even Rufus seemed suspended from reality due to his upbringing.
It is crazy to see the differences between billionaires and millionaires as if the millionaires were the commoners.
So much waste and excess.
3.5 Stars, it was entertaining but not a lot of depth.
May 29, 2024
trash humans- complete caricatures 🙄🤮
If I hear one more word out of the mom’s mouth, I will light everything I own on fire. #eattherich
If I hear one more word out of the mom’s mouth, I will light everything I own on fire. #eattherich
May 25, 2024
Is this a new favorite? No, but I like a Kevin Kwan book.
If you've never picked up anything by Kwan you need to know a few things. 1) There will be footnotes and while you may think the footnotes are expendable if you are not reading them you are only getting half the story 2) if you cannot stomach the idea of hearing names of brands you have heard of and those you will never be able to afford let alone know exist you probably shouldn't pick it up 3) in addition to those brands you'll get various pop culture and historical references and 4) the school history of every named character is likely to be included and while you may not know these schools it's definitely an important facet of the character and how others in the narrative are going to view them. These books aren't so much about plot as they are about character. Though this might actually be Kwan's best attempt at writing a straightforward romance while also including all of the Kwan-isms.
I had an A+ time reading this book even though I definitely didn't care for the core romantic story being told.
Lies and Wedddings features plenty of lies and three destination weddings. The story is tied together by Rufus' extended family and the girl that has captured his heart, Eden. They aren't necessarily a match that Rufus' family would approve of and the book isn't so much them trying to prove that they can be together as it is them separated by various circumstances until they are able to finally be on the same page at the same time. I would expect nothing less than the twists and turns that Kwan takes the reader on, though I can say that some where objectively more foolish than other; particularly as the narrative starts to get close to the end and some of the things that were happening just felt almost eye roll worthy.
Lastly I'll just say that I was team Arabella the whole book. Yeah her children, and even her bestie, were right that she had some internalized anti Asian hate she had been harboring as being an Asian woman in the world of British aristocracy and wealth for as long as she had; but them kids were not cut out to be regular degular people. Let alone Rufus, so sure she was a meddler, but I was riding for her.
If you've never picked up anything by Kwan you need to know a few things. 1) There will be footnotes and while you may think the footnotes are expendable if you are not reading them you are only getting half the story 2) if you cannot stomach the idea of hearing names of brands you have heard of and those you will never be able to afford let alone know exist you probably shouldn't pick it up 3) in addition to those brands you'll get various pop culture and historical references and 4) the school history of every named character is likely to be included and while you may not know these schools it's definitely an important facet of the character and how others in the narrative are going to view them. These books aren't so much about plot as they are about character. Though this might actually be Kwan's best attempt at writing a straightforward romance while also including all of the Kwan-isms.
I had an A+ time reading this book even though I definitely didn't care for the core romantic story being told.
Lies and Wedddings features plenty of lies and three destination weddings. The story is tied together by Rufus' extended family and the girl that has captured his heart, Eden. They aren't necessarily a match that Rufus' family would approve of and the book isn't so much them trying to prove that they can be together as it is them separated by various circumstances until they are able to finally be on the same page at the same time. I would expect nothing less than the twists and turns that Kwan takes the reader on, though I can say that some where objectively more foolish than other; particularly as the narrative starts to get close to the end and some of the things that were happening just felt almost eye roll worthy.
Lastly I'll just say that I was team Arabella the whole book. Yeah her children, and even her bestie, were right that she had some internalized anti Asian hate she had been harboring as being an Asian woman in the world of British aristocracy and wealth for as long as she had; but them kids were not cut out to be regular degular people. Let alone Rufus, so sure she was a meddler, but I was riding for her.
June 16, 2024
I think Kevin kwan has officially run out of ideas. Girl meets boy. Girl is lowly peasant. Boys mother hates her. Girl turns out to be wealthy heiress. Boys mother loves her blah blah blah. It’s getting quite stale. I’ll admit several of the characters were funny. Freddy makes another appearance and he’s always fun. The yoga teacher was a fun twist. But the rest? Snoresville. And no one is as nice as Eden. Arabella is a complete and utter bitch. And Eden just lets her walk all over her. Have some backbone girl.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
July 26, 2024
A likeable enough read about rich people and Chinese mothers with sharp tongues. Now, rich people gossip I loved. Eden was my favourite character, the girl next door, living on the estate but growing up with the earls children a doctor but regarded as not worthy to marry the Earls son Rufus by his mother. She lives with her doctor father. In comparison to the spoilt behaviours of others, she seems unaffected, down to earth a balanced, just all-around nice person. It's a lovely gossipy read and the ending concluded nicely for me wrapped up in a wonderful bow.
June 6, 2024
DNF. I mean it’s Kevin Kwan, so it’s basically one long, rather exhausting shopping list of luxury designer brand names, *fabulous* people, world famous restaurants, exotic destinations, private jets and gigayacht holidays, elite private boarding schools, Ivy League universities, and naturally, only the very best rehabs. Jewellery so OTT you’d be forgiven for thinking it was costume jewellery. Just your …. oh so average …. boring, nouveau riche, gauche, ostentatious displays of wealth. I imagine it does well with people who consume RHOBH, Selling Sunset & Bling Empire. YAWN
EDT: Typo
EDT: Typo
October 25, 2024
I liked this a lot less than the Crazy Rich Asians series, and it was quite similar. Rich Asian and Eurasian socialites trying to marry their kids off to keep their estates and titles in proper order, and yet love is instead found in a different direction. I was pretty bored with it.
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