There is something really kind of terrifying about this book and its main motif as presented to the reader. In fact, the more I think about it, the more I get creeped out. Creeped out in a way that makes me nervous. Because the main theme of this book, without a doubt, is patriarchy. And NOT in the subversive way, and not in the demonstrative way which might even be slightly relevant to the plot. No, the theme is patriarchy in the form of being obedient, subservient, and dependent. Also, there��s this equally creepy emphasis on virginity and a woman’s worth relating to it, but I’ll get to that.
I first noticed this awkward theme of patriarchy around 30 pages in, when I realized that overall, Dana was a fairly weak character. She’s not … capable. She’s what we like to call weak sauce. She simply hangs around, whines about things, and generally gets nothing done. Throughout the entire first half of the book she seems to defer completely to her father, who clearly knows what’s best for her, and as the head of her family, has the right to control her.
She also defers to her “guard” Finn, and to some degree, his son, Keane. The overall dynamic between Dana and men is that she submits to their authority easily and without question because it’s implied that they’re far more capable than her, and far more strong. She accepts that she needs to be coddled and protected and stripped of her autonomy, and simply falls in line with each and every male she encounters.
Even her rebellion is somewhat force and halfhearted. And the moment she’s caught, she offers no resistance, seems to lose her backbone completely, and again, messages of male dominance are enforced to the reader. I think this is a problem large part because there are only a couple of female characters in the book, and none of them seem to be positive forces. The mother character is a drunkard who “needs to be taken care of” by her husband, because only he can keep her from drinking by controlling her actions. And the best friend is a completely flat character who barely had enough personality to fill half a page of writing. She enjoys shopping, and going to the spa, and doing feminine things that reinforce her gender , as it relates to society.
And on the subject of the matter, we need to talk about the UNACCEPTABLE AND REALLY FUCKING CREEPY moment where the mother blatantly tells Dana that she is being kept a prisoner with no empathy, sympathy, or appropriate reaction from her daughter.. She says she isn’t allowed to leave, and make her own choices, because of the father character’s decision that it’s his job to “take care of her”. She tells Dana this, and also tells her that Dana herself could likely help change his mind. But Dana flatly tells her that the father character knows best, and she should just settle in, because she can’t be trusted to make her own choices. She needs to be protected from herself.
Then we get to the worst part of the book, where the Erlking character enters, and things go from creepy to perverse in about three seconds. Because apparently he wants Dana’s virginity. He wants the most important thing she has. This is a PROBLEM. Because a woman is not defined by her virginity. She isn’t more or less moral because of it or the status of it. Virginity is a construct of society placed on a woman to keep her subjugated under a patriarchic society. I’m not trying to get fancy, but virginity is only important because men emphasize that it is. Your virginity is defined by a tiny flap of membrane that can easily be torn or broken in childhood, long before you’re sexually active, by doing sports, or exercising. The idea that it would define a woman’s worth is both laughable and really frightening.
Basically, Dana spends this whole book getting jerked around by men, told what to do by them, controlled by them, manipulated by them, and she lets it happen, because unfortunately, she’s an idiot. I was completely upset the whole book through, really disturbed, and I’m even more freaked out to realize that an educated woman wrote this book. This is a GIANT pass like very few books that have come before it, and seriously, creepy book is creepy.