The people in my life who know me (and my best friend) tend to have a laugh at how winter-oriented we are. In August, we plan our visits to Christmas shows at various garden centers. We begin sipping hot chocolate in September. We visit said garden centers in October, and come home with tons of stuff for the season. In November, we watch holiday movies, visit Christmas markets in Germany and put Christmas music on blast in (usually) her car. December is it: our favorite holiday arrives. It's over in 2 days. And then... the inevitable crash of January and February. Gray. Dreary. Cold. That's why I picked up this book: The Little Book of Winter by Brittany Viklund. Because Christmas is just one part of winter, and it's at the very beginning of the season. How do we get through the rest?
Reading this book is a perfect first step: Viklund immediately challenges the mindset that winter is "Gray. Dreary. Cold." It starts with the book's beautiful design: it's full of warm wintery illustrations in pretty subdued hues (teals, grays and golden ochres). The fonts used are gorgeous, and there are a few (not too many) apt inspirational quotes sprinkled in between. The book itself looks like it belongs in the winter season, and it's anything but gray, dreary or cold. Point made...
Me having that somewhat judgy mindset when it comes to winter initially matters though, because I feel the author really manages to reach me and convince me that I've got it all wrong. We are human beings, and as such we can control so much about how we experience life. We just need to be set in our intentions. This is the central theme of The Little Book of Winter: setting intentions for making this season actually work for you.
I find a gleeful bit of irony in the title: for a book that's called "little", it somehow feels big. Viklund's opus (that's what it feels like!) on winter is packed full of ideas and thoughts, an amount I really didn't expect. She has recipes, she has ideas for gatherings with loved ones, a few reading lists (I've actually gone ahead and put a few of her recs on my TBR pile), exercise ideas, indoor activities and more. And none of it feels like filler, either, because she keeps that mindset challenge ongoing throughout the read by inviting you to look at these activities through a lens of restfulness, restoration, and mindfulness. (At times this feels repetitive, but I think the reminder is partially necessary to keep that mind open.)
Does the book have a bit of an idyllic, dreamy vibe? Yes. But Viklund doesn't insist you do it all to obtain a higher plane of winter wellbeing. Because she covers many themes, there's something in here for everyone. All it takes is one suggestion, one hook the reader can incorporate into an existing passion or a desire to find a new hobby, and Viklund will have accomplished her goal to make winter a more wholesome period for an audience member. The book inspires readers to take something that speaks to them, and utilize that in various ways throughout the season. I think Viklund's love for winter shines bright, and she manages to get readers on board in a way that works for them.
Yes... A lot of her suggestions and ideas would seem obvious. Of course taking a brisk walk in winter and feeling the cold air on one's face can be restorative. Yes, lighting candles is an easy thing to do in winter. Obviously, the house is immediately more cozy once everything smells like cinnamon and apple pie. But the knowing of those things is not the point, I don't think. It's that we - in our busy lives full of expectations - overlook these simple things. We're sleeping on this. Under a rock. By listing things that are simple, yet placing them in the overarching context of the value of slow living, we get a sort of refresher course. One that is powerful, because it is obtainable by taking small steps, rather than managed by expectations that are often outside of our control. With that in mind, I've already decided that this book (which invites annual reflection) is worth a revisit next winter. I'd use it to refresh my mindset and prepare for winter in a positive way again. As I continue to grow as a person, an idea that didn't speak to me this year may be something to try next winter. Or the one after that.
Another welcome effect of her focus on many simpler matters, is that I recognize many things I'm already doing, and there's a comfort and validation in that. Little things that bring joy, seeing them mentioned in a book like this, makes me feel like I'm already on the right track and appreciating the good stuff. The more I read, the more aware I become of my own set-up here at home. The blanket covering me, the faux candles lit on the coffee table next to the sofa.
Just as I'm burrowed into my pillows, I'm burrowed into this cozy read, catching myself beginning to feel a warm anticipation for snowy days, wearing mittens, dark evenings at home with the fairy lights still strung everywhere. Suddenly, January and February don't seem so bad anymore.
**Thank you NetGalley and Adams Media for generously providing me with a copy of this book; all opinions expressed are honest, voluntary and 100% my own.**