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By Invitation Only
A hard-working teen hoping to land a college scholarship and a nepo baby looking to prove herself collide at the world’s most high-profile debutante ball in Paris in this young adult romance perfect for fans of American Royals and Better Than the Movies.
Every year, a hand-selected group of young women travel to Paris to make their debuts into high society at La Danse des Débutantes, the most exclusive debutante ball in the world. Being wealthy, royal, or famous gets you into the pool of potential debutantes, but only La Danse decides who is truly worthy of attending.
Chapin Buckingham, the daughter two Hollywood legends, is one of the lucky few chosen to attend. Chapin’s not usually a society girl, but she has her reasons for wanting to be crowned Debutante of the Year. Her chances seem good…until a fellow debutante creates a PR nightmare that has the eat-the-rich cohort calling for La Danse’s cancellation.
Enter Piper Woo Collins. As the daughter of an EMT and winner of the International Science Fair Prize with a profile in Teen Vogue, Piper is the perfect, down-to-earth person who could restore La Danse’s reputation. But Piper isn’t interested in becoming a debutante—until they offer her a college scholarship…if she wins Debutante of the Year.
In competition for the crown, Piper and Chapin have every reason to clash. But at La Danse, everyone wants something. Piper and Chapin might just need each other to go from pawns in a game to ruling the board…
Every year, a hand-selected group of young women travel to Paris to make their debuts into high society at La Danse des Débutantes, the most exclusive debutante ball in the world. Being wealthy, royal, or famous gets you into the pool of potential debutantes, but only La Danse decides who is truly worthy of attending.
Chapin Buckingham, the daughter two Hollywood legends, is one of the lucky few chosen to attend. Chapin’s not usually a society girl, but she has her reasons for wanting to be crowned Debutante of the Year. Her chances seem good…until a fellow debutante creates a PR nightmare that has the eat-the-rich cohort calling for La Danse’s cancellation.
Enter Piper Woo Collins. As the daughter of an EMT and winner of the International Science Fair Prize with a profile in Teen Vogue, Piper is the perfect, down-to-earth person who could restore La Danse’s reputation. But Piper isn’t interested in becoming a debutante—until they offer her a college scholarship…if she wins Debutante of the Year.
In competition for the crown, Piper and Chapin have every reason to clash. But at La Danse, everyone wants something. Piper and Chapin might just need each other to go from pawns in a game to ruling the board…
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Published September 2, 2025
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August 22, 2025
“Don’t ask yourself what the world needs. Ask yourself what makes you come alive, and then go do that, because what the world needs is people who have come alive.” – Howard Thurman
Piper Woo Collins lives an ordinary life with her EMT father in the beautiful state of Pennsylvania. She has recently won the International Science Fair, which has led to her being featured in Teen Vogue. But all she is worried about is the fact that she can’t afford to get into the college she desperately wants to attend after her scholarship is taken away. So when she receives an invitation to be a part of the La Danse des Débutantes in Paris, she is ready to refuse until they make her an offer she can’t refuse–they will pay for college if she wins Debutante of the Year. Little does she know that another girl is ready to do whatever it takes to win that title…
The daughter of two very famous individuals, Chapin Buckingham is chosen to attend La Danse with several other well-known and rich young women. Even though she isn’t on board with the event, she has her reasons for wanting to win the title of Debutante of the Year. It shouldn’t be too hard, right? She was practically born for this role. But when Piper shows up to salvage the event’s reputation after a fellow debutante creates bad publicity for La Danse, Chapin doesn’t see a new friend; she sees competition. No matter how much the world loves her, Chapin will not befriend the out-of-place yet down-to-earth new girl who can ruin her chances of winning.
But everyone wants to win. So can Piper and Chapin set aside their differences and help each other get what they want?
I am not going to lie, I was skeptical to read this at first. The cover drew me to read the blurb, and the blurb pushed me to request the arc. But as I stared at the cover and thought about what I was about to read, my eyes glazed over. Me and fashion don’t mix, like, at all. Granted, our relationship is getting better, but shopping is still my Kryptonite. 😏
However…this book was better than I thought it would be. There was pettiness, drama, and a little bit of romance to make the plot intriguing and even exciting. 💅🏻 The girls' jealousy of Piper was laughable, along with Chapin’s attempts to sabotage her. It reminds me of all the beauty pageants and dance competitions I watched on TLC all those years ago. 👑
But not only was there drama, there was a splash of mystery in the second half of the book that really kept the ball rolling. The ending was great and fit the story perfectly. Even though I’m not a fan of fashion (as I stated before), it was really interesting to learn about the fashion world and the cool gowns, jewelry, and accessories put into making celebrities look like gods and goddesses.
All in all, it was a very good book! The writing was very YA, easy to read, and simple. I am definitely going to be reading more of Alexandra Brown Chang’s books. I recommend this book if you like teen drama, descriptions of high society, friendship, and second chances. 💜
Thank you to Simon and Schuster Children’s Publishing for the arc via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review! All opinions and statements are my own.
❗Content Warnings❗
Mentions loss of a parent & classism
Swearing: Yes
Spice: No (passionate kissing and body touching)
#ByInvitationOnly #NetGalley
Piper Woo Collins lives an ordinary life with her EMT father in the beautiful state of Pennsylvania. She has recently won the International Science Fair, which has led to her being featured in Teen Vogue. But all she is worried about is the fact that she can’t afford to get into the college she desperately wants to attend after her scholarship is taken away. So when she receives an invitation to be a part of the La Danse des Débutantes in Paris, she is ready to refuse until they make her an offer she can’t refuse–they will pay for college if she wins Debutante of the Year. Little does she know that another girl is ready to do whatever it takes to win that title…
The daughter of two very famous individuals, Chapin Buckingham is chosen to attend La Danse with several other well-known and rich young women. Even though she isn’t on board with the event, she has her reasons for wanting to win the title of Debutante of the Year. It shouldn’t be too hard, right? She was practically born for this role. But when Piper shows up to salvage the event’s reputation after a fellow debutante creates bad publicity for La Danse, Chapin doesn’t see a new friend; she sees competition. No matter how much the world loves her, Chapin will not befriend the out-of-place yet down-to-earth new girl who can ruin her chances of winning.
But everyone wants to win. So can Piper and Chapin set aside their differences and help each other get what they want?
I am not going to lie, I was skeptical to read this at first. The cover drew me to read the blurb, and the blurb pushed me to request the arc. But as I stared at the cover and thought about what I was about to read, my eyes glazed over. Me and fashion don’t mix, like, at all. Granted, our relationship is getting better, but shopping is still my Kryptonite. 😏
However…this book was better than I thought it would be. There was pettiness, drama, and a little bit of romance to make the plot intriguing and even exciting. 💅🏻 The girls' jealousy of Piper was laughable, along with Chapin’s attempts to sabotage her. It reminds me of all the beauty pageants and dance competitions I watched on TLC all those years ago. 👑
But not only was there drama, there was a splash of mystery in the second half of the book that really kept the ball rolling. The ending was great and fit the story perfectly. Even though I’m not a fan of fashion (as I stated before), it was really interesting to learn about the fashion world and the cool gowns, jewelry, and accessories put into making celebrities look like gods and goddesses.
All in all, it was a very good book! The writing was very YA, easy to read, and simple. I am definitely going to be reading more of Alexandra Brown Chang’s books. I recommend this book if you like teen drama, descriptions of high society, friendship, and second chances. 💜
Thank you to Simon and Schuster Children’s Publishing for the arc via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review! All opinions and statements are my own.
❗Content Warnings❗
Mentions loss of a parent & classism
Swearing: Yes
Spice: No (passionate kissing and body touching)
#ByInvitationOnly #NetGalley
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June 16, 2025⋆˙⟡ 𝒫𝓇𝑒-𝓇𝑒𝒶𝒹 (6/16/2025): I got approved for the eARC! Super excited to be reading this closer to the publishing date; it sounds so messy in the best way possible. I love a good book about high society and the secrets and drama that go on!💜✨🥂👗
Thank you to NetGalley, Alexandra Brown Chang, and Simon and Schuster Children's Publishing/Margaret McElderry Books for providing this eARC in exchange for an honest review. By Invitation Only will be officially published on September 2nd, 2025!
Thank you to NetGalley, Alexandra Brown Chang, and Simon and Schuster Children's Publishing/Margaret McElderry Books for providing this eARC in exchange for an honest review. By Invitation Only will be officially published on September 2nd, 2025!
July 5, 2025
I enjoyed this one.
It is a watered down inheritance games, I think that's the best way to describe it. It is satisfying in the way reality tv is mind numbing but also really good for when you just want a distraction.
There's nothing mind-blowing about it, but it was a fun time. I recommend it if you want a book that will keep you entertained and requires little energy.
Thank you Netgalley and Simon & Schuster Children's Publishing for the ARC.
It is a watered down inheritance games, I think that's the best way to describe it. It is satisfying in the way reality tv is mind numbing but also really good for when you just want a distraction.
There's nothing mind-blowing about it, but it was a fun time. I recommend it if you want a book that will keep you entertained and requires little energy.
Thank you Netgalley and Simon & Schuster Children's Publishing for the ARC.
August 16, 2025
3 stars
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 Sometimes you think you are going to love a book and it lets you down immensely. Which, given the fact I'm writing that on this book review means that this book let me down. I had high hopes for the plot, the characters, the drama, the fashion but it felt a little lackluster in the way that a boring movie does. Another goodreads review put it as "watered down inheritance games" and you know what, lets make it, watered down inheritance games but with fashion and debutantes". Now we have the book that is By Invitation Only.
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚I wasn't the biggest fan of our fmc who in a way gave off "not like other girls" but she was also just so very bland. And so was our love interest. In fact he was so bland that I almost thought he wasn't the love interest. I think it could have been so much more but it was just lacking in so many ways. And don't even get me started on that ugly cover. The purple is abdominal. And I like purple. So pick up if you don't want to use your brain to read I guess.
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 full review to come! a solid three stars though
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 𝐩𝐫𝐞-𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝/𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐰: oh my gosh i got approved for this !! it sounds so freaking good! the cover is lowk sketch tho ?? curious of who the cover designer is haha. but the plot is giving TIG but like debutante 𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚
thank you netgalley and the publishder for a copy in exchange for an honest review! by inviation only will officially be published september 2nd 2025
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 Sometimes you think you are going to love a book and it lets you down immensely. Which, given the fact I'm writing that on this book review means that this book let me down. I had high hopes for the plot, the characters, the drama, the fashion but it felt a little lackluster in the way that a boring movie does. Another goodreads review put it as "watered down inheritance games" and you know what, lets make it, watered down inheritance games but with fashion and debutantes". Now we have the book that is By Invitation Only.
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚I wasn't the biggest fan of our fmc who in a way gave off "not like other girls" but she was also just so very bland. And so was our love interest. In fact he was so bland that I almost thought he wasn't the love interest. I think it could have been so much more but it was just lacking in so many ways. And don't even get me started on that ugly cover. The purple is abdominal. And I like purple. So pick up if you don't want to use your brain to read I guess.
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 full review to come! a solid three stars though
𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚 𝐩𝐫𝐞-𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝/𝐫𝐞𝐯𝐢𝐞𝐰: oh my gosh i got approved for this !! it sounds so freaking good! the cover is lowk sketch tho ?? curious of who the cover designer is haha. but the plot is giving TIG but like debutante 𝜗𝜚 ࣪˖ ִ𐙚
thank you netgalley and the publishder for a copy in exchange for an honest review! by inviation only will officially be published september 2nd 2025
August 16, 2025
Thank you Simon Teen for this eARC in exchange for my honest review!
• My Reading Experience: Meh…
• Book Spice: Level 0.25
• Adjusted Rating: 2.75 stars
• Content Thoughts:
This book was… bland. There wasn’t much depth anywhere—characters, story, setting, even the attempt at romance or the slow build of one. Everything stayed very surface-level.
That said, it was a very quick read. I got through it in about 5.5 hours total, and I did find myself intrigued enough to keep going and see how things played out. I also appreciated that the focus leaned more on friendship than on the main character falling for a guy—though I do wish the romance had offered at least something more substantial.
Funny enough, while reading, I kept having random flashes to scenes in Modelland by Tyra Banks (a book I haven’t touched in around 14 years 🤣). Both share that same kind of “meh” energy—where you’re entertained in the moment but not left with much afterwards.
Overall, this felt like the book version of a perfectly average TV show or movie you might throw on in the background while folding laundry—easy to breeze through, a little intriguing, but not something that sticks.
• My Reading Experience: Meh…
• Book Spice: Level 0.25
• Adjusted Rating: 2.75 stars
• Content Thoughts:
This book was… bland. There wasn’t much depth anywhere—characters, story, setting, even the attempt at romance or the slow build of one. Everything stayed very surface-level.
That said, it was a very quick read. I got through it in about 5.5 hours total, and I did find myself intrigued enough to keep going and see how things played out. I also appreciated that the focus leaned more on friendship than on the main character falling for a guy—though I do wish the romance had offered at least something more substantial.
Funny enough, while reading, I kept having random flashes to scenes in Modelland by Tyra Banks (a book I haven’t touched in around 14 years 🤣). Both share that same kind of “meh” energy—where you’re entertained in the moment but not left with much afterwards.
Overall, this felt like the book version of a perfectly average TV show or movie you might throw on in the background while folding laundry—easy to breeze through, a little intriguing, but not something that sticks.
December 13, 2025
One of the first YA books where i genuinely thought “I’m too old to be reading this”
I guess I’ve turned a new leaf at 27
I guess I’ve turned a new leaf at 27
August 10, 2025
Now playing "Paris" by Taylor Swift
^^No, literally, I'm actually listening to it rn lol.
Alright, full disclosure, this is the sort of book that, for me personally, is a fun read when I'm in the right mood, but not really my fav, and sometimes annoying. Then again, as a mood reader, that's true to a certain extent for pretty much anything. No, but this was one of those YA books that really feels YA if you know what I mean. Well, except for the bit of spice towards the end there. It's got that sort of reality tv, vibe.
So, basically, there's this big debutante ball, La Danse des Débutantes, and it's basically a bunch of nepo babies that get to go. But one of them got disqualified for shoplifting from Sephora (no, fr, that's what actually happens), so they need a replacement. And they choose Piper Woo Collins, who won the International Science Fair. She goes because they offer to pay for her scholarship to Columbia. We follow Piper, as well as Chapin Buckingham, who is the daughter of a movie star and a rock star. And somehow both of them to some extent fall into the not like other girls stereotype? Idk, but they def did both give me that vibe at times, Piper going on about it all being stupid in her head, Chapin wanting to wear sneakers instead of heels. Like, there's nothing wrong with those things, it just... It gives me the vibes, yk? But they did end up addressing the issue of assuming girls who are into fashion are dumb or jerks or whatever, so yay?
I also did love how the emphasis was more on female friendship, and less so the romance. Like, yes, both girls end the story with a love interest, but that wasn't the focus of the book, and I honestly really appreciated that. Sure, the two don't get along at first, but their relationship is the center of the story. I guess it's enemies-to-friends. :)
There being a character named Face did keep throwing me off. Like, no it's not his actually given name, but it's what everyone calls him, and like what. I think I might know why the author chose to have him called thator maybe I'm just reaching, but still, there was no like explanation for how he got that nickname in universe. And I have a hard time imagining anyone who would actually like that. But yeah, every time he was on page, I had to get used to it all over again lmao.
The ending was giving 2010s Barbie movie, or 2000s/2010s Disney Channel movieyk, like High School Musical or Descendants or smth. Other than the spice and what happened because of that, in a kids movie obvs that plot point would have been very different, but, like, that aside, it was was really giving that. A bit cheesy, a bit easily wrapped up, big party, everyone's friends, everyone's paired up. You know what I'm talking about. Not that that's necessarily a bad thing, it's certainly not a favorite for me, or the type of book that I'm likely to reread, but it was still fun, in a similar way to those sorts of movies.
I received a copy of this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
^^No, literally, I'm actually listening to it rn lol.
Alright, full disclosure, this is the sort of book that, for me personally, is a fun read when I'm in the right mood, but not really my fav, and sometimes annoying. Then again, as a mood reader, that's true to a certain extent for pretty much anything. No, but this was one of those YA books that really feels YA if you know what I mean. Well, except for the bit of spice towards the end there. It's got that sort of reality tv, vibe.
So, basically, there's this big debutante ball, La Danse des Débutantes, and it's basically a bunch of nepo babies that get to go. But one of them got disqualified for shoplifting from Sephora (no, fr, that's what actually happens), so they need a replacement. And they choose Piper Woo Collins, who won the International Science Fair. She goes because they offer to pay for her scholarship to Columbia. We follow Piper, as well as Chapin Buckingham, who is the daughter of a movie star and a rock star. And somehow both of them to some extent fall into the not like other girls stereotype? Idk, but they def did both give me that vibe at times, Piper going on about it all being stupid in her head, Chapin wanting to wear sneakers instead of heels. Like, there's nothing wrong with those things, it just... It gives me the vibes, yk? But they did end up addressing the issue of assuming girls who are into fashion are dumb or jerks or whatever, so yay?
I also did love how the emphasis was more on female friendship, and less so the romance. Like, yes, both girls end the story with a love interest, but that wasn't the focus of the book, and I honestly really appreciated that. Sure, the two don't get along at first, but their relationship is the center of the story. I guess it's enemies-to-friends. :)
There being a character named Face did keep throwing me off. Like, no it's not his actually given name, but it's what everyone calls him, and like what. I think I might know why the author chose to have him called that
The ending was giving 2010s Barbie movie, or 2000s/2010s Disney Channel movie
I received a copy of this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
May 31, 2025
A fun and touching YA read that takes in the glittering world of high-class fashion, By Invitation Only follows Piper and Chapin as they participate in a high-profile debutante ball in Paris. However, the once-in-a-lifetime experience takes unexpected turns as Piper faces new situations and falls for someone who is off limits, Chastin struggles with familial expectations, and both become mixed up in an attempt at sabotage.
The story is told from both Piper and Chapin’s perspectives, which gives you an in-depth look at both characters. Piper is an underdog and a total fish out of water, whereas Chapin is comfortable in the setting but not happy to be there. Each has a compelling personal journey, and it was easy to become invested in and root for both of them. Piper and Chapin’s relationship starts off super rocky. Strangers and competitors, they are often forced together, much to Chapin’s displeasure. But their relationship changes as they get to know each other. I loved this. There are definitely some great messages about friendship, trust, and loyalty.
Though there are a couple of romances in the story, I was really interested in the friendships and the family relationships, all of which are complicated and messy and ever-evolving. It was interesting to see how Chapin and Piper dealt with toxic behavior, family pressures, precarious relationships, and other situations all while trying to impress and win an exclusive, high-pressure contest and appease the woman who runs it.
The story also has a bit of intrigue as Piper and Chapin are victims of sabotage. It’s clear someone is targeting them, but they don’t know who. This, as well as Piper’s journey to honor her late mother, a forbidden romance (love it!), and other wonderful friendships, add so much depth to the story. The Parisian setting is great too, and it was fun to experience it from a first-time tourist’s (Piper) and a frequenter’s (Chapin and Dalton) perspective. Definitely an interesting contrast.
I thought this was a great read. It was fun and layered with strong messages, some wonderfully poignant moments, and great characters. Special thanks to Simon & Schuster and NetGalley for providing me with a copy of the book. All thoughts are my own.
The story is told from both Piper and Chapin’s perspectives, which gives you an in-depth look at both characters. Piper is an underdog and a total fish out of water, whereas Chapin is comfortable in the setting but not happy to be there. Each has a compelling personal journey, and it was easy to become invested in and root for both of them. Piper and Chapin’s relationship starts off super rocky. Strangers and competitors, they are often forced together, much to Chapin’s displeasure. But their relationship changes as they get to know each other. I loved this. There are definitely some great messages about friendship, trust, and loyalty.
Though there are a couple of romances in the story, I was really interested in the friendships and the family relationships, all of which are complicated and messy and ever-evolving. It was interesting to see how Chapin and Piper dealt with toxic behavior, family pressures, precarious relationships, and other situations all while trying to impress and win an exclusive, high-pressure contest and appease the woman who runs it.
The story also has a bit of intrigue as Piper and Chapin are victims of sabotage. It’s clear someone is targeting them, but they don’t know who. This, as well as Piper’s journey to honor her late mother, a forbidden romance (love it!), and other wonderful friendships, add so much depth to the story. The Parisian setting is great too, and it was fun to experience it from a first-time tourist’s (Piper) and a frequenter’s (Chapin and Dalton) perspective. Definitely an interesting contrast.
I thought this was a great read. It was fun and layered with strong messages, some wonderfully poignant moments, and great characters. Special thanks to Simon & Schuster and NetGalley for providing me with a copy of the book. All thoughts are my own.
July 24, 2025
Gossip Girl meets The Inheritance Games with this new book. Alexandra Brown Chang shares a story about what it’s like being the outsider on the inside. This story follows Piper Woo Chang, a girl who find herself at a debutant, for only one reason but winds up getting so much more. This book is an easy read and perfect for older YA readers. It may feel a little predictable at times but then throws you in for a twist.
Thank you so much NetGalley and Simon for letting me read this ARC.
Thank you so much NetGalley and Simon for letting me read this ARC.
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October 8, 2025Shoutout to Mia for the free hardcover copy; this novel has a gorgeous cover and a very intriguing synopsis, I'm so excited for this! As a megafan of American Royals and someone who enjoyed Better Than The Movies, I can't wait to dive in!
July 14, 2025
Thanks, SimonTeen, for the arc!
I read BY INVITATION ONLY over a month ago and have not stopped thinking about it since. If you grew up in the era of Gossip Girl, The OC, Pretty Little Liars, and similar shows like I did, while you flipped through magazines wishing you could afford what the teen stars were wearing, but did your best with thrifted dupes. This is the book you want to read! And I won't lie, I'll probably reread it just for nostalgia's sake.
I became quickly obsessed with every character in the novel, especially Piper and Chapin - total Blair and Serena vibes! Piper and Chapin definitely stand out, but the side characters are amazing as well. It feels like Alexandra Brown Chung took all the expected wealthy people nuances, gave them to teenagers, and then upped the game by having them attend an elite debutante ball in Paris. And if you're thinking about the real-life Le Bal de Débutantes that has been happening in Paris since 1958, you are imagining correctly! The author does an amazing job bringing the ball to life, and if you are a fan of gorgeous descriptions of clothing and architecture - okay, and people, too - you will adore this!
One significant aspect I loved about the book refers back to my love of Gossip Girl. Friends can fight and be petty because they have a history and know things will work out. But it doesn't matter how mad you are at your friend; when someone starts talking about your friend, the gloves come off because only you can do that. Even with all the flashing lights and glamour, this book had a fantastic message about friendship!
I read BY INVITATION ONLY over a month ago and have not stopped thinking about it since. If you grew up in the era of Gossip Girl, The OC, Pretty Little Liars, and similar shows like I did, while you flipped through magazines wishing you could afford what the teen stars were wearing, but did your best with thrifted dupes. This is the book you want to read! And I won't lie, I'll probably reread it just for nostalgia's sake.
I became quickly obsessed with every character in the novel, especially Piper and Chapin - total Blair and Serena vibes! Piper and Chapin definitely stand out, but the side characters are amazing as well. It feels like Alexandra Brown Chung took all the expected wealthy people nuances, gave them to teenagers, and then upped the game by having them attend an elite debutante ball in Paris. And if you're thinking about the real-life Le Bal de Débutantes that has been happening in Paris since 1958, you are imagining correctly! The author does an amazing job bringing the ball to life, and if you are a fan of gorgeous descriptions of clothing and architecture - okay, and people, too - you will adore this!
One significant aspect I loved about the book refers back to my love of Gossip Girl. Friends can fight and be petty because they have a history and know things will work out. But it doesn't matter how mad you are at your friend; when someone starts talking about your friend, the gloves come off because only you can do that. Even with all the flashing lights and glamour, this book had a fantastic message about friendship!
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September 20, 2025
2.5 stars
at first i really liked the characters but it just fell flat from there
my issues-
piper and chapins friendship felt very rushed and forced
i feel like the whole deb scene got lost and was more dance real quick get in trouble and wow it’s done
i wish they did more w paris
dalton annoyed me
i wished face didnt turn out to be bad
it felt super underdeveloped and the characters needed more book yime personally
i also wish we got more of the other debs and what it was like to really be in it
i also feel like things would pop up and then get pushed to the side
the ending felt rushed too and i just don’t know how to explain it but it felt so ? bland
i did like the writing style tho and chapin (piper was okay overall but i liked her a lot sometimes)
i wish this book had lived up to my expectations
at first i really liked the characters but it just fell flat from there
my issues-
piper and chapins friendship felt very rushed and forced
i feel like the whole deb scene got lost and was more dance real quick get in trouble and wow it’s done
i wish they did more w paris
dalton annoyed me
i wished face didnt turn out to be bad
it felt super underdeveloped and the characters needed more book yime personally
i also wish we got more of the other debs and what it was like to really be in it
i also feel like things would pop up and then get pushed to the side
the ending felt rushed too and i just don’t know how to explain it but it felt so ? bland
i did like the writing style tho and chapin (piper was okay overall but i liked her a lot sometimes)
i wish this book had lived up to my expectations
December 6, 2025
This was a strange book, mostly because it kept fighting with itself. On one hand, La Danse is framed as a prestigious, once-in-a-lifetime debutante ball. On the other hand, every character in the story thinks it is pointless. From page one, both main characters openly say La Danse is stupid, and they spend the entire book exchanging eye rolls with everyone involved. If even the protagonists don’t care about the event, I have no reason to care whether they win or not.
The real heart of the story ends up being two different threads. One girl is trying to earn money for Columbia University, stumbles into a “forbidden” romance , and maybe discovers a genuine love of fashion. The other girl is trying to repair her relationship with her celebrity mother while simultaneously trying to get closer to her crush before she realizes that he is actually an enormous jerk. The problem is that the “jerk reveal” comes out of nowhere around the eighty percent mark, with almost no buildup that might have hinted something was off.
Most of the book reads like a slice-of-life about a rich girl and a poor girl wandering around Paris, talking about how great the city and the fashion scene are. We barely spend any time with the other debutantes. We don’t interact with anyone who actually cares about this ball or takes it seriously. And when the ball finally arrives, it is wrapped up in a couple chapters. The two leads are crowned debutantes of the year on a whim, and the event itself just turns into an all-night Taylor-Swift-remix party.
It makes the entire La Danse angle, which is plastered across the cover, the summary, and even the prologue, feel pointless. The book would have been much stronger if the author had picked a clear direction. Do you want a slice-of-life in Paris with a fashion angle, or a dramatic story centered on a meaningful debutante competition?
The time frame also works against the story. Everything, including major relationship developments, emotional arcs, personal growth, and an entire debutante season, supposedly happens in a single week. We never see the girls train, prepare, compete, or do anything that shows why any of them deserve to be ranked among the most impressive young women of the year. There are no politics, no challenges, no eliminations, no stakes. Just a bunch of wealthy girls hanging around for publicity.
If I’m reading a debutante-ball book, I want to live it. I want rivalries, events, ranking changes, real pressure, and people who genuinely care about winning. Think Hunger Games meets Princess Maker.
Or, if the author wanted a Paris slice-of-life story, that could have worked too. Piper and Chapin already feel like they are on a school trip, so why not make it an actual fashion exchange program? Let them spend the whole summer exploring Paris, getting to know each other, building their skills, and working toward the ball at the end of the season. Maybe Chapin becomes a model while Piper designs the dress, and they team up to win. With a whole summer to work with then even the insta-love subplot would feel more believable. Cramming all of this into one week just makes everything feel rushed and unearned.
I didn’t hate the book, there were some genuinely cute moments, but the entire time it felt like it kept insisting it was about one thing while wandering off to do something else. And the ending is so sweet and so perfect that I couldn’t help rolling my eyes a little.
This is a three-star read for me, meaning it is okay, but it is a very weak three stars that borders on a 2.5.
The real heart of the story ends up being two different threads. One girl is trying to earn money for Columbia University, stumbles into a “forbidden” romance , and maybe discovers a genuine love of fashion. The other girl is trying to repair her relationship with her celebrity mother while simultaneously trying to get closer to her crush before she realizes that he is actually an enormous jerk. The problem is that the “jerk reveal” comes out of nowhere around the eighty percent mark, with almost no buildup that might have hinted something was off.
Most of the book reads like a slice-of-life about a rich girl and a poor girl wandering around Paris, talking about how great the city and the fashion scene are. We barely spend any time with the other debutantes. We don’t interact with anyone who actually cares about this ball or takes it seriously. And when the ball finally arrives, it is wrapped up in a couple chapters. The two leads are crowned debutantes of the year on a whim, and the event itself just turns into an all-night Taylor-Swift-remix party.
It makes the entire La Danse angle, which is plastered across the cover, the summary, and even the prologue, feel pointless. The book would have been much stronger if the author had picked a clear direction. Do you want a slice-of-life in Paris with a fashion angle, or a dramatic story centered on a meaningful debutante competition?
The time frame also works against the story. Everything, including major relationship developments, emotional arcs, personal growth, and an entire debutante season, supposedly happens in a single week. We never see the girls train, prepare, compete, or do anything that shows why any of them deserve to be ranked among the most impressive young women of the year. There are no politics, no challenges, no eliminations, no stakes. Just a bunch of wealthy girls hanging around for publicity.
If I’m reading a debutante-ball book, I want to live it. I want rivalries, events, ranking changes, real pressure, and people who genuinely care about winning. Think Hunger Games meets Princess Maker.
Or, if the author wanted a Paris slice-of-life story, that could have worked too. Piper and Chapin already feel like they are on a school trip, so why not make it an actual fashion exchange program? Let them spend the whole summer exploring Paris, getting to know each other, building their skills, and working toward the ball at the end of the season. Maybe Chapin becomes a model while Piper designs the dress, and they team up to win. With a whole summer to work with then even the insta-love subplot would feel more believable. Cramming all of this into one week just makes everything feel rushed and unearned.
I didn’t hate the book, there were some genuinely cute moments, but the entire time it felt like it kept insisting it was about one thing while wandering off to do something else. And the ending is so sweet and so perfect that I couldn’t help rolling my eyes a little.
This is a three-star read for me, meaning it is okay, but it is a very weak three stars that borders on a 2.5.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
October 18, 2025
So basically I picked this book up cuz I’m a huge fashion nerd and Cristian Siriano was in the front cover. I was majorly disappointed.
First of all I was expecting some talk of high fashion or really interesting dress descriptions but I think the phrase “cookie cutter dress” was used like 12 times to describe 12 different dresses. The dresses in the front cover weren’t even that interesting.
Next, the characters were SO BLAND! Chaplin was completely inconsistent, in her first scene I was like okay she seems like a black swan (like intelligent, compassionate, and grounded), but then she went to the ball and threw that all out the window! She was immediately a shallow, bratty, rich kid but somehow she was “not like other girls”. Then she kind of switched off between the two for like the entire book. Also why did they make it seem like a big deal that she needed to win. She just wanted to suck up to her mom to prove that she wasn’t like her…? And Piper was pretty annoying. For someone supposedly so smart she is pretty stupid. She like didn’t even leave w any of her goals accomplished!
Don’t even get me started on the love interests! He was as side character as it gets! I don’t even remember his name! There was no tension, they were just like immediately in love with each other, but for some random reason they couldn’t be together. And then Chapin’s guy was in like 3 scenes total.
Overall just very bland and surface level, would only recommend for easy reading.
First of all I was expecting some talk of high fashion or really interesting dress descriptions but I think the phrase “cookie cutter dress” was used like 12 times to describe 12 different dresses. The dresses in the front cover weren’t even that interesting.
Next, the characters were SO BLAND! Chaplin was completely inconsistent, in her first scene I was like okay she seems like a black swan (like intelligent, compassionate, and grounded), but then she went to the ball and threw that all out the window! She was immediately a shallow, bratty, rich kid but somehow she was “not like other girls”. Then she kind of switched off between the two for like the entire book. Also why did they make it seem like a big deal that she needed to win. She just wanted to suck up to her mom to prove that she wasn’t like her…? And Piper was pretty annoying. For someone supposedly so smart she is pretty stupid. She like didn’t even leave w any of her goals accomplished!
Don’t even get me started on the love interests! He was as side character as it gets! I don’t even remember his name! There was no tension, they were just like immediately in love with each other, but for some random reason they couldn’t be together. And then Chapin’s guy was in like 3 scenes total.
Overall just very bland and surface level, would only recommend for easy reading.
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September 3, 2025DNF @35% not in the mood for annoying, spoiled children
September 5, 2025
Only decided to read this book bc it was a new release and took place in KOP and Paris. Decent read but it was predictable and i’m not into fashion so all the fashion talk was boring at times
August 10, 2025
Thanks to the Simon Teen for this early copy
La Danse des Débutantes is a fancy ball that invites only 18 girls from all around the world. Usually, participants come from privileged backgrounds who can offer something in return. Winning this ball at Fashion Center Paris is a really big deal. These girls have been working toward this crown since their childhood.
Chapin Buckingham, daughter of Hollywood celebrities, is basically royalty. From the outside, she has everything that anyone dreams of, but in reality, her life is all about pleasing her mother, and for that, she is willing to do anything, including participating in La Danse des Débutantes.
Wildcard entry, Piper Woo Collins is a science student from a working-class family. She invented a sustainable polymer, which made her feature in Vogue and put her on the radar to get an invitation to La Danse des Débutantes. She couldn’t care less about this world, but her participation can secure a scholarship. For the sake of her future, she has to compete in a world where she is unfit. Everyone is her rival.
It was such an interesting and fun read. Chang developed a really interesting world with all of the detail, couture fittings, ballrooms, spoiled kids, genuine relationships, and a lot of drama. I was expecting the story to be more focused on Ball, but it leaned more on character development and other aspects. I am also glad it wasn't heavily focused on catfights or petty revenge. Although the conversation among characters felt lacking and superficial at times. It is targeted toward a relatively young audience. I really liked the way characters were introduced slowly and gradually, instead of throwing everyone at once. Although I wish some characters had been treated less like fillers. This book was not perfect, but if you are looking for an easy read with drama, then it is the one.
La Danse des Débutantes is a fancy ball that invites only 18 girls from all around the world. Usually, participants come from privileged backgrounds who can offer something in return. Winning this ball at Fashion Center Paris is a really big deal. These girls have been working toward this crown since their childhood.
Chapin Buckingham, daughter of Hollywood celebrities, is basically royalty. From the outside, she has everything that anyone dreams of, but in reality, her life is all about pleasing her mother, and for that, she is willing to do anything, including participating in La Danse des Débutantes.
Wildcard entry, Piper Woo Collins is a science student from a working-class family. She invented a sustainable polymer, which made her feature in Vogue and put her on the radar to get an invitation to La Danse des Débutantes. She couldn’t care less about this world, but her participation can secure a scholarship. For the sake of her future, she has to compete in a world where she is unfit. Everyone is her rival.
It was such an interesting and fun read. Chang developed a really interesting world with all of the detail, couture fittings, ballrooms, spoiled kids, genuine relationships, and a lot of drama. I was expecting the story to be more focused on Ball, but it leaned more on character development and other aspects. I am also glad it wasn't heavily focused on catfights or petty revenge. Although the conversation among characters felt lacking and superficial at times. It is targeted toward a relatively young audience. I really liked the way characters were introduced slowly and gradually, instead of throwing everyone at once. Although I wish some characters had been treated less like fillers. This book was not perfect, but if you are looking for an easy read with drama, then it is the one.
September 21, 2025
this was a great concept and parts of it were so well done, it just lacked a little bit of fluidity and the “oomph” factor.
i love stories about fictional high society so i was immediately captivated by the idea behind by invitation only. an exclusive dance held in paris for 16 debutantes from the most elite families in the world? i’m sold! and furthermore, the classic cinderella trope where we take a normal girl (although maybe normal isn’t right for piper given she is simply brilliant!) and turn her into a princess locked me in.
objectively, i enjoyed the plot. it was fun at large and i thought the publicity and wealth and otherworldly opulence was creative and the fact that it all shines on the streets of paris is pretty epic.
however, i have a couple of gripes with this book. for one, the relationships were incredibly chaotic in terms of timing. i got a lot of whiplash from piper and chapin’s interactions because they so quickly went from hatred to close friendship to hatred to close friendship. there were also a lot of times where i felt we were jumping around rapidly so scenes didn’t feel super fleshed out and we went from one moment to another with zero transition. both of these elements made the book a little bit hard to follow and decreased my engagement.
overall, this is a cute, fun, quick YA read. alexandra brown-chang has a lot of potential so i look forward to seeing what she writes next.
i love stories about fictional high society so i was immediately captivated by the idea behind by invitation only. an exclusive dance held in paris for 16 debutantes from the most elite families in the world? i’m sold! and furthermore, the classic cinderella trope where we take a normal girl (although maybe normal isn’t right for piper given she is simply brilliant!) and turn her into a princess locked me in.
objectively, i enjoyed the plot. it was fun at large and i thought the publicity and wealth and otherworldly opulence was creative and the fact that it all shines on the streets of paris is pretty epic.
however, i have a couple of gripes with this book. for one, the relationships were incredibly chaotic in terms of timing. i got a lot of whiplash from piper and chapin’s interactions because they so quickly went from hatred to close friendship to hatred to close friendship. there were also a lot of times where i felt we were jumping around rapidly so scenes didn’t feel super fleshed out and we went from one moment to another with zero transition. both of these elements made the book a little bit hard to follow and decreased my engagement.
overall, this is a cute, fun, quick YA read. alexandra brown-chang has a lot of potential so i look forward to seeing what she writes next.
August 22, 2025
Thank you @simonteen @simon.audio @librofm #partner for the gifted copies of this book!
💎✨ By Invitation Only by Alexandra Brown Chang was such a fun, glam, glittery escape into a world of high fashion, debutante balls, and Parisian elegance. This YA delight whisks you straight into the exclusive world where you can only attend if you’re invited...and two very different girls are determined to shine once they get there.
Piper is the surprise invitee. She is down-to-earth, a little unsure of herself, close with her dad, and definitely not raised in the ritzy high-society bubble that everyone else was. Chastin, on the other hand, grew up surrounded by couture, glitz and glam, and the poshest circles because of her family however that family comes with a lot of strings. Very complicated family dynamics if I do say so myself. HAHA. I loved that instead of tearing each other down, these two ended up joining forces. Chastin stepped up to show Piper the ropes, giving the story a genuine heart and depth I wasn’t expecting.
Yes, there are Louboutins, sparkling gowns, and champagne moments galore but there’s also friendship, personal growth, and some seriously sweet family moments (Piper and her dad melted my heart 🥹).
And the audio? Perfection. There are French accents, Parisian landmarks, French words and that unmistakable atmosphere made me feel like I was back in Paris myself. The romance is perfectly layered in in a light, sweet, and never overpowering way leaving plenty of room for all the fashion-forward fun.
If you’re in the mood for a friendship that blooms across the social divide, a sprinkle of romance, and a whole lot of style, By Invitation Only is your ticket to the ball. 🥂👠
💎✨ By Invitation Only by Alexandra Brown Chang was such a fun, glam, glittery escape into a world of high fashion, debutante balls, and Parisian elegance. This YA delight whisks you straight into the exclusive world where you can only attend if you’re invited...and two very different girls are determined to shine once they get there.
Piper is the surprise invitee. She is down-to-earth, a little unsure of herself, close with her dad, and definitely not raised in the ritzy high-society bubble that everyone else was. Chastin, on the other hand, grew up surrounded by couture, glitz and glam, and the poshest circles because of her family however that family comes with a lot of strings. Very complicated family dynamics if I do say so myself. HAHA. I loved that instead of tearing each other down, these two ended up joining forces. Chastin stepped up to show Piper the ropes, giving the story a genuine heart and depth I wasn’t expecting.
Yes, there are Louboutins, sparkling gowns, and champagne moments galore but there’s also friendship, personal growth, and some seriously sweet family moments (Piper and her dad melted my heart 🥹).
And the audio? Perfection. There are French accents, Parisian landmarks, French words and that unmistakable atmosphere made me feel like I was back in Paris myself. The romance is perfectly layered in in a light, sweet, and never overpowering way leaving plenty of room for all the fashion-forward fun.
If you’re in the mood for a friendship that blooms across the social divide, a sprinkle of romance, and a whole lot of style, By Invitation Only is your ticket to the ball. 🥂👠
September 7, 2025
This book is Gossip Girl meets Paris Fashion Week, and I loved every over-the-top, drama-filled page. The tone of the story is pure entertainment—fun, glamorous, and indulgent in all the best ways. If you grew up binging teen dramas, you’ll feel right at home with Piper and Chapin.
The characters are a standout here. Both Piper, the scholarship-hopeful outsider, and Chapin, the nepo baby with something to prove, are layered and surprisingly relatable. Their family dynamics add an extra depth that kept me invested beyond the gowns and glitter. And while the premise is all about La Danse des Débutantes, the story doesn’t shy away from bigger themes. I really appreciated how it wove in the environmental costs of fast fashion, showing how couture can sometimes lean toward sustainability and artistry.
The setting? Paris, of course—ooo la la! It was the perfect backdrop for both the glamour and the chaos. I adored the behind-the-scenes look at the fashion world, with its mix of sparkle and scandal. And just when I thought I had the story pegged, the second half dropped a touch of mystery that kept my eyes glued to the page (literally and figuratively). The ending tied everything together in a way that felt satisfying and true to the story.
Overall, By Invitation Only is a stylish, layered YA romance that balances fun escapism with meaningful themes. It’s not quite perfect, but it’s a total delight to read. If you love high society drama with a thoughtful twist, this one’s for you.
The characters are a standout here. Both Piper, the scholarship-hopeful outsider, and Chapin, the nepo baby with something to prove, are layered and surprisingly relatable. Their family dynamics add an extra depth that kept me invested beyond the gowns and glitter. And while the premise is all about La Danse des Débutantes, the story doesn’t shy away from bigger themes. I really appreciated how it wove in the environmental costs of fast fashion, showing how couture can sometimes lean toward sustainability and artistry.
The setting? Paris, of course—ooo la la! It was the perfect backdrop for both the glamour and the chaos. I adored the behind-the-scenes look at the fashion world, with its mix of sparkle and scandal. And just when I thought I had the story pegged, the second half dropped a touch of mystery that kept my eyes glued to the page (literally and figuratively). The ending tied everything together in a way that felt satisfying and true to the story.
Overall, By Invitation Only is a stylish, layered YA romance that balances fun escapism with meaningful themes. It’s not quite perfect, but it’s a total delight to read. If you love high society drama with a thoughtful twist, this one’s for you.
September 4, 2025
Thank you to the publisher of this book; all thoughts are my own!
📖 Book Review 📖 My calendar is pretty full chauffeuring my tweens/teens around so my own social agenda is pretty limited so this very well might have been the prettiest invitation I have received in a very long time (and could be read in my car in between all the extracurriculars) while dreaming of all things fancy.
It’s been decades since Lauren Conrad taught us one very important life lesson, never be "the girl who didn't go to Paris.” When the invitation for this year’s exclusive La Danse des Débutantes, the stakes are high for all of the young ladies. And while Chapin and Piper could not be from more different upbringings, they each have their reasons for their hungry desperation to be crowned Debutante of the Year. Alexandra Brown Chang delivers a fast-paced read that is full of fun and fashion in the City of Lights.
Listen, this group might give the Plastics a run for their money, but the reading community is a judgement-free zone and you are never too old to indulge in a scandalous tale like this one!
📖 Book Review 📖 My calendar is pretty full chauffeuring my tweens/teens around so my own social agenda is pretty limited so this very well might have been the prettiest invitation I have received in a very long time (and could be read in my car in between all the extracurriculars) while dreaming of all things fancy.
It’s been decades since Lauren Conrad taught us one very important life lesson, never be "the girl who didn't go to Paris.” When the invitation for this year’s exclusive La Danse des Débutantes, the stakes are high for all of the young ladies. And while Chapin and Piper could not be from more different upbringings, they each have their reasons for their hungry desperation to be crowned Debutante of the Year. Alexandra Brown Chang delivers a fast-paced read that is full of fun and fashion in the City of Lights.
Listen, this group might give the Plastics a run for their money, but the reading community is a judgement-free zone and you are never too old to indulge in a scandalous tale like this one!
June 17, 2025
Thank you Simon and Schuster Children's Publishing and NetGalley for this ARC!
EEEEE!! This was so fun and a mishmash of all my favorite things! To start I have to say that making this book not entirely about developing a romantic relationship but also about making a new friendship made it SO much better. It's been a long time since I've read a book that did this as well as Alexandra Brown Chang did!!
Just like all of the praise said this truly was a love letter to fashion. Everything about the ball and the dresses and Paris was to DIE FOR. And I can't express how much I loved both couples.
Chapin and Piper were both such great mcs and I loved their story SOOOOOO much!! I reccomend this book to anyone who loves fashion and a good romance!
EEEEE!! This was so fun and a mishmash of all my favorite things! To start I have to say that making this book not entirely about developing a romantic relationship but also about making a new friendship made it SO much better. It's been a long time since I've read a book that did this as well as Alexandra Brown Chang did!!
Just like all of the praise said this truly was a love letter to fashion. Everything about the ball and the dresses and Paris was to DIE FOR. And I can't express how much I loved both couples.
Chapin and Piper were both such great mcs and I loved their story SOOOOOO much!! I reccomend this book to anyone who loves fashion and a good romance!
August 13, 2025
FIVE FREAKING STARS!!!
If you're a sucker for drama, fashion, and general extravagance. If Gosip Girl Became your whole personality when you watched it. This book is MADE for you!
This book has high fashion, complex relationships, European vacation, and LOADS and LOADS of drama!
It's addictive and just amazing!!!
The writing is so descriptive I feel like I've experienced it!
I'm so glad Simon Teen sent me this book!!!
If you're a sucker for drama, fashion, and general extravagance. If Gosip Girl Became your whole personality when you watched it. This book is MADE for you!
This book has high fashion, complex relationships, European vacation, and LOADS and LOADS of drama!
It's addictive and just amazing!!!
The writing is so descriptive I feel like I've experienced it!
I'm so glad Simon Teen sent me this book!!!
dnf
January 10, 2026DNF at 17%
I wanted more stakes, more drama, more excitement. I’m just bored and already skimming. Looking at other reviews, it seems like this never really gets better so I’m calling it because I’m not enjoying myself.
I wanted more stakes, more drama, more excitement. I’m just bored and already skimming. Looking at other reviews, it seems like this never really gets better so I’m calling it because I’m not enjoying myself.
September 7, 2025
I devoured and adored this book! The pacing and character development and escapism was perfect and it made for such a fun end of summer read. Congratulations, Alexandra!!!
September 24, 2025
Fashion and Gossip Girl vibes- yes please!
November 11, 2025
If I squint hard enough this becomes Massie Block & Claire Humphreys from The Clique yuri fanfiction
January 13, 2026
The storyline was really good, but just kind of rushed. To me at least, it definitely felt like more of a book about friendships than a romance. I didn’t particularly love the writing style, but it was overall a pretty decent read.
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