Winging It : A Memoir of My Journey to Asia, Book One

by Lia Russ

The story of a young dyslexic Cinderella's journey through Asia searching for the meaning of life, her prince, and the elusive glass slipper of self acceptance. Lia's experiences in Asia altered her view of what she could accomplish in life and, ultimately, who she was. Many of Lia's own photos illustrate the text, capturing in some cases places that have changed greatly since her visit.

260 pages, Kindle Edition

Published January 29, 2025

About the author

Lia Russ was born high in the Rocky Mountains of Colorado in a town so small that only three other children were born that year. Perhaps because of the sparseness of human population and the vastness of the natural world, Lia learned to open her senses to connect with the energies of everything around her.

It wasn't until she moved to Westchester County, New York, (at age nine) that she began to realize she was different from other children. Between her sensitivities to energy and a discovery that she was dyslexic, Lia feared that she would never fit in. She grew to dislike her differences, and because there was no support, she began to feel like she was irrevocably stupid and despaired about what life would be like for her as an adult.

This sense of despair followed her and overshadowed her life until that very discomfort caused her to leave the USA for the Far East at nineteen, in search of answers. She has devoted her life to understanding the things that she saw and felt around her that no one else seemed aware of and to finding information that would save others from having to experience the pain of isolation and self-doubt that she went through.

Lia loves nature, animals, solving mysteries, writing, creating art and dancing. She has traveled extensively in the United States, and Asia and currently lives in upstate New York with her boyfriend, two dogs, two cats, two parrots and many plants. Lia collects strays, crystals, and dots.


Lia's work can also be found at : https://www.bookbub.com/authors/lia-russ

Reviews

[Book · Rating 5 out of 5]

Winging It: A Memoir of My Journey to Asia is more than a travel memoir it’s a story about transformation, vulnerability, and the quiet strength it takes to rebuild your identity in unfamiliar places. Lia Russ invites readers into her world with raw honesty and warmth, sharing how one journey across Asia helped her find not only adventure but also herself.

As a young dyslexic woman searching for meaning and belonging, Lia’s voice is both vulnerable and empowering. Her reflections feel deeply personal yet universally relatable whether she’s facing challenges on the road, confronting self doubt, or discovering beauty in unexpected places. The writing is vivid and full of heart, and her own photographs add authenticity and intimacy, capturing the spirit of moments that words alone could never hold.

What stands out most is Lia’s bravery not just in traveling across Asia, but in exposing the emotional layers of that experience. It’s a memoir that reminds us that “winging it” isn’t about being unprepared it’s about trusting life enough to keep going when the path isn’t clear.

This book is:
A beautifully written travel memoir filled with heart and humor
A story of resilience and self-acceptance
Enhanced by real photos that capture the essence of each moment
Perfect for readers who loved Eat, Pray, Love or Wild

[Daniel · Rating 5 out of 5]

A captivating and deeply personal narrative that traces one woman’s transformative passage through the landscapes and cultures of Asia. What begins as a search for meaning and belonging gradually evolves into a profound exploration of identity, confidence, and the quiet power of self-acceptance. Through evocative descriptions and heartfelt introspection, the story captures both the beauty and chaos of travel the unpredictable moments that test, teach, and ultimately liberate. The author’s openness about her struggles and triumphs makes the journey feel remarkably relatable, reminding readers that true growth often comes not from perfect plans, but from embracing uncertainty with courage and grace. Enriched by striking photographs that mirror the emotional tone of each experience, this memoir offers a vivid, sensory connection to places and moments that linger long after the last page.

[Manuel Racheal · Rating 5 out of 5]

Winging It is more than a travel memoir, it’s a journey of courage, self-discovery, and transformation. Lia Russ invites readers into her world with honesty and heart, capturing not only the beauty of Asia but also the challenges of living with dyslexia and the triumph of embracing one’s true self. Her vivid storytelling, paired with personal photos, makes this an inspiring and unforgettable read that reminds us the greatest journey is learning to accept who we are

[Mary Dill · Rating 5 out of 5]

A heartfelt journey of courage and self-discovery, Winging It sweeps readers across Asia with honesty, warmth, and resilience. Lia Russ transforms personal challenges into moments of triumph, blending vivid storytelling with intimate photographs. Inspiring, empowering, and unforgettable, this memoir is a true gem.

[Anthony · Rating 5 out of 5]

Our organizer, Skye Bennett, selected Winging It for our book club, and it was a beautiful choice. Lia Russ’s journey through Asia is heartfelt, inspiring, and honest. Her struggles, growth, and stunning personal photos made the memoir feel intimate and authentic. Our whole club connected with her story of self-acceptance and courage. A truly uplifting read.

[Nettie Harris]

Lia’s story pulled me in from the very first page. Her honesty, humor, and vulnerability make this memoir unforgettable. I loved following her through Asia as she pushed past her fears and learned to see herself in a new light. Her reflections felt real and relatable, and the photos added such a personal touch. An inspiring read for anyone who’s ever wondered who they are or where they’re going.

[Maria Steven · Rating 5 out of 5]

An inspiring and heartfelt memoir. Lia Russ takes readers on a vivid journey through Asia, blending adventure with self-discovery. Honest, relatable, and beautifully illustrated with her own photos a truly uplifting read.

[Daniel Parker · Rating 5 out of 5]

A captivating journey of courage and self-discovery, Lia Russ invites readers into a heartfelt adventure across Asia. With honesty, warmth, and vivid photos, she transforms struggle into strength and reminds us that the greatest destination is self-acceptance.

[Angela Sanson · Rating 5 out of 5]

As a reader, I felt inspired by Lia’s courage to face the world despite her challenges. Her journey across Asia was more than travel it was transformation. The love she had for her father and his guiding presence were deeply moving. This is a five-star read in every sense.

[Jose Steed · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book touched my heart. Lia’s story as a dyslexic young woman finding her voice and strength while traveling through Asia is inspiring beyond words. Her photos made me feel like I was right there beside her. She writes with warmth and vulnerability and I can’t wait for Book Two.

[Tom Anderson · Rating 4 out of 5]

I absolutely loved this book! Big thanks to our organizer, Skye Bennett, for bringing Winging It to our Silent Book Club Melbourne reading list. Lia’s journey through Asia was inspiring, heartfelt, and impossible to put down. A beautiful memoir that stayed with me long after I finished it.

[Jaine · Rating 1 out of 5]

This book was a major letdown. The concept sounds unique, but the story never develops into anything meaningful. It’s disorganized, shallow, and reads more like someone’s scattered vacation notes than an inspiring journey. I kept waiting for it to improve, but it never did.

[Joel · Rating 1 out of 5]

If you’ve ever wondered what happens when you take Cinderella, sprinkle in dyslexia, toss her into Asia, and remove all sense of plot or emotional depth well, here’s your answer. The synopsis is far more exciting than anything that actually happens in the book. Even the photos feel like filler.

[James · Rating 1 out of 5]

This story is an unfocused mess. The themes of identity and acceptance are barely explored, and the narrative jumps around with no direction. The photos feel like a distraction rather than an enhancement. Nothing about this book held my interest.

[Anita F. · Rating 5 out of 5]

A beautifully inspiring journey, Lia Russ turns travel, struggle, and self-discovery into a heartfelt memoir that uplifts and lingers long after the last page.

[Terry Patton · Rating 5 out of 5]

I couldn’t put this book down. Lia’s bravery and resilience are so inspiring, especially given the challenges she faced.

[Robert Nelson · Rating 5 out of 5]

Already fell in love with this book when silent bookclub had it featured.
Definitely giving it a read😊

[Alexandra Benette · Rating 5 out of 5]

A beautifully written journey of courage and self-acceptance. Lia Russ invites you into her world with honesty and warmth a memoir that lingers long after the last page.

[James Cole · Rating 5 out of 5]

A heartfelt and introspective memoir that beautifully captures the spirit of adventure, self-discovery, and transformation. The author’s journey through Asia unfolds with warmth and honesty, blending vivid cultural snapshots with moments of vulnerability and growth. The inclusion of personal photos adds an intimate touch, making the narrative both authentic and visually engaging. It’s an inspiring read for anyone who’s ever sought meaning, confidence, or a deeper connection with themselves through travel.

[Thomas Brooke · Rating 5 out of 5]

An inspiring and deeply personal travel memoir that takes readers on an emotional and spiritual journey across Asia. Through rich storytelling and candid reflections, the author explores themes of identity, courage, and self-acceptance. The vivid imagery and real-life photos make the experience feel immersive and genuine, offering a touching reminder that sometimes, getting lost is the only way to truly find yourself.

[Jerry Wood · Rating 5 out of 5]

A moving account of personal growth and discovery set against the vibrant backdrop of Asia. The author shares her experiences with sincerity and warmth, revealing how travel reshaped her understanding of herself and the world. Honest, reflective, and beautifully detailed, it’s a story that reminds readers of the power of stepping beyond comfort zones to find clarity, confidence, and meaning.

[Daniel Peace · Rating 5 out of 5]

A beautifully told journey of transformation, filled with insight, emotion, and courage. The narrative draws readers into a world of new cultures and self-realization, where each experience becomes a lesson in resilience and self-worth. Poignant and uplifting, it captures the essence of what it means to rediscover oneself while exploring the world beyond familiar horizons.

[Barnes Joe · Rating 5 out of 5]

An evocative and honest reflection on finding oneself through travel and challenge. The author’s journey unfolds with a blend of humor, humility, and wonder, revealing how every encounter and setback shaped a stronger sense of purpose. It’s an inspiring reminder that growth often comes not from reaching a destination, but from the courage to keep moving forward.