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A Beautiful Family
When Johannesburg socialite Brenda Silverman dies in mysterious circumstance in her palatial, well secured home, questions are inevitable.
Did she commit suicide? Was it an accidental drug overdose? Or did her death have something to do with her husband, Alan?
Alan Silverman is a handsome, charming businessman with impeccable credentials: a former political activist who fled South Africa in the 1980s and returned to help build the new democracy; a loving husband and devoted father; a pillar of Johannesburg’s Jewish community; and an intimate of South Africa’s ruling African National Congress elite. He is also a man hiding a terrible secret.
Tracy Jacobs, a young journalist, is assigned to cover the story but as her investigations start to uncover cracks in the beautiful Silverman family facade, she finds herself in conflict with her own community.
Will Brenda’s inquest finally reveal the truth?
Spanning nearly forty years and three countries (South Africa, England and Israel), A Beautiful Family confirms a horrible reality: that “things like that” can and do happen to people just like us.
Did she commit suicide? Was it an accidental drug overdose? Or did her death have something to do with her husband, Alan?
Alan Silverman is a handsome, charming businessman with impeccable credentials: a former political activist who fled South Africa in the 1980s and returned to help build the new democracy; a loving husband and devoted father; a pillar of Johannesburg’s Jewish community; and an intimate of South Africa’s ruling African National Congress elite. He is also a man hiding a terrible secret.
Tracy Jacobs, a young journalist, is assigned to cover the story but as her investigations start to uncover cracks in the beautiful Silverman family facade, she finds herself in conflict with her own community.
Will Brenda’s inquest finally reveal the truth?
Spanning nearly forty years and three countries (South Africa, England and Israel), A Beautiful Family confirms a horrible reality: that “things like that” can and do happen to people just like us.
- GenresContemporary
506 pages, ebook
First published May 1, 2014
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About the author
Marilyn Cohen de Villiers
5 books13 followersI was born and raised in Johannesburg’s northern suburbs, the youngest daughter of an extraordinarily ordinary, happy, stable, traditional (rather than observant) Jewish family. After matriculating at Northview High School, I went to Rhodes University in Grahamstown where I served on the SRC, competed (badly) in synchronised swimming and completed a B. Journalism degree. This was followed by a “totally useless” - according to my parents - English Honours (first class), also at Rhodes.
With the dawning of the turbulent 1980s, I started my career as a reporter on a daily newspaper, working first in the news and later, the finance departments. During this period, I interviewed, among others, Frank Sinatra, Jeffrey Archer, Eugene Terre’blanche and Desmond Tutu. I caught crocodiles; avoided rocks and tear smoke canisters in various South African townships; stayed awake through interminable city council meetings and criminal and civil court cases - and learned to interpret balance sheets. I also married my then news editor, Poen de Villiers, who passed away on 15 March 2015.
After the birth of our two daughters, I ‘crossed over’ into Public Relations with its regular hours and predictability. My writing - articles, media releases, opinion and thought leadership pieces and so on – continues to be published regularly in newspapers and other media, usually under someone else’s by-line.
The unexpected death of a childhood friend and colleague in 2012 spurred me to take stock of my life. A few months later, I started writing A Beautiful Family. This was followed by
When Times Fails - and part three of the Alan Silverman saga will hopefully be released in 2016 or 2017.
With the dawning of the turbulent 1980s, I started my career as a reporter on a daily newspaper, working first in the news and later, the finance departments. During this period, I interviewed, among others, Frank Sinatra, Jeffrey Archer, Eugene Terre’blanche and Desmond Tutu. I caught crocodiles; avoided rocks and tear smoke canisters in various South African townships; stayed awake through interminable city council meetings and criminal and civil court cases - and learned to interpret balance sheets. I also married my then news editor, Poen de Villiers, who passed away on 15 March 2015.
After the birth of our two daughters, I ‘crossed over’ into Public Relations with its regular hours and predictability. My writing - articles, media releases, opinion and thought leadership pieces and so on – continues to be published regularly in newspapers and other media, usually under someone else’s by-line.
The unexpected death of a childhood friend and colleague in 2012 spurred me to take stock of my life. A few months later, I started writing A Beautiful Family. This was followed by
When Times Fails - and part three of the Alan Silverman saga will hopefully be released in 2016 or 2017.
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November 4, 2015
This book has been sitting neglected on my kindle for over a year and now I have finally read it I can't believe I waited so long. A wonderfully epic book about a Jewish family and what goes on behind closed doors. Covering some extremely unsavoury topics including domestic abuse this book follows the lives of The Silverman family via South Africa, London and Israel. Told from various view points I thoroughly enjoyed this book and look forward to reading more from this author.
March 2, 2015
After a shaky start where I was put off by the 80's homophobic language and attitudes towards gay men and I couldn't empathise with the characters, it gripped me to the point that couldn't put my kindle down.
This story brims over with flawed characters, (some downright loathsome) who are woven into a story spanning 30+ years. Deceit; infidelity, abuse, control, delusion and denial in the Jewish community set in South Africa, Israel and London against a back ground of apartheid and the political changes from the 80's to the present day. Recommended 4 stars.
This story brims over with flawed characters, (some downright loathsome) who are woven into a story spanning 30+ years. Deceit; infidelity, abuse, control, delusion and denial in the Jewish community set in South Africa, Israel and London against a back ground of apartheid and the political changes from the 80's to the present day. Recommended 4 stars.
August 3, 2018
A beautiful family by Marilyn Cohen De Villar.
Brenda Silverman dies in mysterious circumstances. Was it suicide. Accident or drug overdose? Or did her husband Alan have something to do with it.
Tracy Jacobs is a young journalist. She is assigned to cover the story.
Will Brendas inquest finally reveal the truth?
A very enjoyable read with likeable characters. I loved the whole book.
I loved Tracy. 5*.
Brenda Silverman dies in mysterious circumstances. Was it suicide. Accident or drug overdose? Or did her husband Alan have something to do with it.
Tracy Jacobs is a young journalist. She is assigned to cover the story.
Will Brendas inquest finally reveal the truth?
A very enjoyable read with likeable characters. I loved the whole book.
I loved Tracy. 5*.
December 9, 2014
I found “A Beautiful Family” to be a great read for me. It was not only entertaining, it was also educational. The story takes place over decades, going back and forth through different time periods, with each main character having a few chapters where the story is told from their point of view, before moving on to the next character, and a few chapters with their point of view. This actually lent to the flow of the story, and did not confuse it or make it difficult to read, as you may think from reading my descriptions of how the story was composed.
This story takes you through the life of a young Jewish couple, Alan and Brenda Silverman; the husband being over-achieving in his business dealings, and far from adequate as a father and husband. Brenda and their three children are also part of the story, as well as friends who were very dear to Brenda. This story takes place in a couple different locations, the main one being South Africa. The Jewish beliefs, religion, and lifestyle is very much a part of this story, and I definitely learned some things about the Jewish religion that I was previously not familiar with.
The focus of this story is how this family evolves as they go from young lovers, to young married parents, to spouses who no longer get along. Although the fact that they are Jewish is a major part of the story, it is nothing that overwhelms the story or takes control of the plot of the book. If you are not familiar with a Jewish lifestyle, you can, and will, still very much enjoy this story.
This is a good sized read, but definitely worth it. As I try to not give away spoilers, I will just say that Alan Silverman has made quite a name for himself within the Jewish community; a community who believes that no one who is Jewish would commit crimes and sins against their fellow man. The façade of a life he had created slowly begins to crumble around him, and he keeps trying and trying to make it go away. A lengthy court hearing brings everything to light, and puts an end to one man’s control and abuse.
I apologize to anyone who is Jewish if I misspoke, misquote, or misused any Jewish terms in this review. Although I did learn a lot from this story, I am certainly no expert. I am of the Lutheran religion, that is what I know very thoroughly.
This story takes you through the life of a young Jewish couple, Alan and Brenda Silverman; the husband being over-achieving in his business dealings, and far from adequate as a father and husband. Brenda and their three children are also part of the story, as well as friends who were very dear to Brenda. This story takes place in a couple different locations, the main one being South Africa. The Jewish beliefs, religion, and lifestyle is very much a part of this story, and I definitely learned some things about the Jewish religion that I was previously not familiar with.
The focus of this story is how this family evolves as they go from young lovers, to young married parents, to spouses who no longer get along. Although the fact that they are Jewish is a major part of the story, it is nothing that overwhelms the story or takes control of the plot of the book. If you are not familiar with a Jewish lifestyle, you can, and will, still very much enjoy this story.
This is a good sized read, but definitely worth it. As I try to not give away spoilers, I will just say that Alan Silverman has made quite a name for himself within the Jewish community; a community who believes that no one who is Jewish would commit crimes and sins against their fellow man. The façade of a life he had created slowly begins to crumble around him, and he keeps trying and trying to make it go away. A lengthy court hearing brings everything to light, and puts an end to one man’s control and abuse.
I apologize to anyone who is Jewish if I misspoke, misquote, or misused any Jewish terms in this review. Although I did learn a lot from this story, I am certainly no expert. I am of the Lutheran religion, that is what I know very thoroughly.
March 29, 2015
What an amazing story - I finished it with tears in my eyes.
Set in South Africa, Israel and England, this family saga begins with the mysterious death of Brenda Silverman, a Johannesburg socialite. As the Jewish community struggles to cope with the tragedy Brenda's inquest sets out to discover the truth. Was it suicide or was her husband, Alan Silverman, involved in her death?
The story is told from the perspective of different characters, cleverly weaved together over three decades. I enjoyed the references to Judaism and locations around London, as well as an insight into South African politics around this time period. The characters were believable and well developed, and the writing was easy to read and moved at a fast pace.
The inquest culminated in surprising and shocking revelations, as family secrets (past and present) came to light. I was enthralled until the last page.
A Beautiful Family is an excellent book and I will be recommending it to friends and family.
I received a copy of this book from THE Book Club on Facebook in exchange for an honest review.
Set in South Africa, Israel and England, this family saga begins with the mysterious death of Brenda Silverman, a Johannesburg socialite. As the Jewish community struggles to cope with the tragedy Brenda's inquest sets out to discover the truth. Was it suicide or was her husband, Alan Silverman, involved in her death?
The story is told from the perspective of different characters, cleverly weaved together over three decades. I enjoyed the references to Judaism and locations around London, as well as an insight into South African politics around this time period. The characters were believable and well developed, and the writing was easy to read and moved at a fast pace.
The inquest culminated in surprising and shocking revelations, as family secrets (past and present) came to light. I was enthralled until the last page.
A Beautiful Family is an excellent book and I will be recommending it to friends and family.
I received a copy of this book from THE Book Club on Facebook in exchange for an honest review.
March 31, 2016
I read this book early last year & have just finished the second book in the series, When Time Fails.
As such, I decided to give a clearer view on my rating. I vastly enjoyed all the references to South Africa and the local lingo. I thought the plot was well-thought out and well-paced, and gave great insight into the Jewish community.
As such, I decided to give a clearer view on my rating. I vastly enjoyed all the references to South Africa and the local lingo. I thought the plot was well-thought out and well-paced, and gave great insight into the Jewish community.
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March 20, 2017Well written and the author gets under the skin of the family and its secrets. An excellent example of domestic abuse and the fear of exposing it particularly within the well heeled set.
June 8, 2018
Dark Secrets, Deception and Abuse
Part modern family saga, part crime novel, this book grips from the start. The 'beautiful family' of the title is a Jewish South African family, wealthy, influential and headed by the charismatic Alan Silverman. Alan's wife, Brenda is found dead in bed at their home. Is her death suspicious? Tracy Jacobs, junior reporter for the Daily Express, investigates. Is Alan the model husband, father and businessman he seems? As the family's story unfolds, we discover their innermost secrets.
Although this is a dark story of the consequences of abuse on members of the Silverman family and its effect on the tight-knit Jewish community, it is so beautifully written that you have to read on. Set in Johannesburg, Israel and London, the story flicks between the 1980s, 1990s and 2012 and is seen from viewpoint of family members, friends and lovers.
There is a helpful glossary of Jewish and Afrikaans words at the end, invaluable for people like me who know little of Jewish language and customs.
A compelling read.
Part modern family saga, part crime novel, this book grips from the start. The 'beautiful family' of the title is a Jewish South African family, wealthy, influential and headed by the charismatic Alan Silverman. Alan's wife, Brenda is found dead in bed at their home. Is her death suspicious? Tracy Jacobs, junior reporter for the Daily Express, investigates. Is Alan the model husband, father and businessman he seems? As the family's story unfolds, we discover their innermost secrets.
Although this is a dark story of the consequences of abuse on members of the Silverman family and its effect on the tight-knit Jewish community, it is so beautifully written that you have to read on. Set in Johannesburg, Israel and London, the story flicks between the 1980s, 1990s and 2012 and is seen from viewpoint of family members, friends and lovers.
There is a helpful glossary of Jewish and Afrikaans words at the end, invaluable for people like me who know little of Jewish language and customs.
A compelling read.
August 8, 2018
I haven't read too many books with the same setting as this one.
This story spans three decades and moves from London to Israel to South Africa and follows the fortunes of the rich Jewish Silverman family who are suddenly mired in tragedy by the shocking death of Brenda Silverman, wife to Alan Silverman and mother of his three children.
Alan and his family are the very picture of a beautiful family, observing all rituals and being available example people want to emulate.
But the inquest into Brenda's death blows the lid off a lot of unsavoury behind the doors happenings that prove that 'those things can and do happen to people like them'!
Though the topics are uncomfortable to read about, the writing is gripping.
This story spans three decades and moves from London to Israel to South Africa and follows the fortunes of the rich Jewish Silverman family who are suddenly mired in tragedy by the shocking death of Brenda Silverman, wife to Alan Silverman and mother of his three children.
Alan and his family are the very picture of a beautiful family, observing all rituals and being available example people want to emulate.
But the inquest into Brenda's death blows the lid off a lot of unsavoury behind the doors happenings that prove that 'those things can and do happen to people like them'!
Though the topics are uncomfortable to read about, the writing is gripping.
November 25, 2024
I'm extremely relieved to discover that this book is non-fiction. Although, perhaps it wouldn't have been such an affective read if I had researched the book before picking it up. The author really betrayed herself with the first chapter - I almost gave up. The first 50 pages or so read like amateur reporting, soulless and two-dimensional. However, the book later delves into complex themes and the characters develop well.
March 13, 2019
I couldn’t put this book down. It’s well written, fast paced and would be most interesting to Jewish people and especially South African Jews. However, there is a very comprehensive Glossary at the end of the book, explaining all the Yiddish and Hebrew words as well as the South Africanisms. A most enjoyable read.
April 20, 2020
An unbelievable story! It is part of a trilogy.
October 3, 2020
Found the unknown Jewish words made it challenging (who knew there was a glossary!) & a bit too much sex. I did ultimately get into it and really liked, particularly towards the end.
February 5, 2015
Brenda Silverman, renowned socialite, respected member of the Johannesburg Jewish community, and wife to esteemed, philanthropic businessman, Alan Silverman, is found dead in her bed in her luxurious Northern Suburbs home. The close-knit community is shattered by this tragedy; even more so when it emerges that foul play is suspected.
Fledgling journalist Tracy Jacobs, who is awkwardly trying to find her place amongst her more confident colleagues is sent to see if she can discover the story behind the story. After all, she’s one of ‘them’ (Jewish), and even went to school with one of the deceased’s children. Her mother is horrified that she would even begin to try and hint at something being amiss in the perfect Silverman home. It’s just so embarrassing when the book club ladies are whispering about you behind your back!
And so begins a journey to discover what exactly contributed to creating the façade of a ‘Beautiful Family’.
We learn about Alan’s extremely humble beginnings during South Africa’s notorious Apartheid era: as a member of the only Jewish family in an Afrikaans farming community he’s subjected to bullying of the worst kind, and not only outside of the home. His childhood is challenging but he soon learns the skills he needs to survive. His brother is killed in action while carrying out his compulsory army service, and Alan decides he’s not following the same path leaving the country, to become a ‘conscientious objector’, much to the disgust of his patriotic family.
He moves to a kibbutz in Israel where he meets the impressionable Brenda and decides that this is the girl he’s going to marry. She’s young, shy, impressionable and will be his perfect partner. She is the ideal companion to accompany him on his many unexpected, sometimes exciting, and often downright alarming exploits. She doesn’t challenge him, and seems happy to be the unquestioning wife that the up and coming Silverman requires.
They journey to London, where they stay with Annette Davies – anti-Apartheid activist, and ‘Alan Silverman fan club chairman’, and Alan becomes the golden boy of the anti-Apartheid movement. He forms an association with kindly Ben Shapiro, who launches him into the fast-paced business of property, which he uses as a springboard to launch him to professional heights he always wanted to achieve. For Alan Silverman has spent his life trying to prove himself a success, and creating a persona that others will both respect and fear. For all he has every wanted was to be accepted.
Back in South Africa after the abolishment of Apartheid, the Silvermans settle into a picture-perfect niche. Philanthropic, wealthy, successful, and now religiously observant and respected in the Johannesburg Jewish community, until tragedy strikes!
This is a deep, dark look at the underbelly of what goes on behind the closed doors of a ‘beautiful family’. It’s not based on a particular incident (although the speculation on this is rife!), but on very thorough research into the ugliness of domestic abuse that, despite people believing ‘it doesn’t happen to people like us’, is very much a sick, daily reality for many more than we realise.
It is also an analytical commentary of the workings of a close community – in this case – the ultra-Orthodox Jewish community in Johannesburg. How far will a group of people go to protect one of their own? How long does it take for people to realise that the hideous truth is right in front of them but that they simply refuse to see it?
Marilyn Cohen De Villiers has masterfully woven an intricate story, incorporating history, dangerous reality and horrifying truth which leaves us asking: How well do we really know those close to us? How far will one person go to protect what he has created – something that might not even exist?
Fledgling journalist Tracy Jacobs, who is awkwardly trying to find her place amongst her more confident colleagues is sent to see if she can discover the story behind the story. After all, she’s one of ‘them’ (Jewish), and even went to school with one of the deceased’s children. Her mother is horrified that she would even begin to try and hint at something being amiss in the perfect Silverman home. It’s just so embarrassing when the book club ladies are whispering about you behind your back!
And so begins a journey to discover what exactly contributed to creating the façade of a ‘Beautiful Family’.
We learn about Alan’s extremely humble beginnings during South Africa’s notorious Apartheid era: as a member of the only Jewish family in an Afrikaans farming community he’s subjected to bullying of the worst kind, and not only outside of the home. His childhood is challenging but he soon learns the skills he needs to survive. His brother is killed in action while carrying out his compulsory army service, and Alan decides he’s not following the same path leaving the country, to become a ‘conscientious objector’, much to the disgust of his patriotic family.
He moves to a kibbutz in Israel where he meets the impressionable Brenda and decides that this is the girl he’s going to marry. She’s young, shy, impressionable and will be his perfect partner. She is the ideal companion to accompany him on his many unexpected, sometimes exciting, and often downright alarming exploits. She doesn’t challenge him, and seems happy to be the unquestioning wife that the up and coming Silverman requires.
They journey to London, where they stay with Annette Davies – anti-Apartheid activist, and ‘Alan Silverman fan club chairman’, and Alan becomes the golden boy of the anti-Apartheid movement. He forms an association with kindly Ben Shapiro, who launches him into the fast-paced business of property, which he uses as a springboard to launch him to professional heights he always wanted to achieve. For Alan Silverman has spent his life trying to prove himself a success, and creating a persona that others will both respect and fear. For all he has every wanted was to be accepted.
Back in South Africa after the abolishment of Apartheid, the Silvermans settle into a picture-perfect niche. Philanthropic, wealthy, successful, and now religiously observant and respected in the Johannesburg Jewish community, until tragedy strikes!
This is a deep, dark look at the underbelly of what goes on behind the closed doors of a ‘beautiful family’. It’s not based on a particular incident (although the speculation on this is rife!), but on very thorough research into the ugliness of domestic abuse that, despite people believing ‘it doesn’t happen to people like us’, is very much a sick, daily reality for many more than we realise.
It is also an analytical commentary of the workings of a close community – in this case – the ultra-Orthodox Jewish community in Johannesburg. How far will a group of people go to protect one of their own? How long does it take for people to realise that the hideous truth is right in front of them but that they simply refuse to see it?
Marilyn Cohen De Villiers has masterfully woven an intricate story, incorporating history, dangerous reality and horrifying truth which leaves us asking: How well do we really know those close to us? How far will one person go to protect what he has created – something that might not even exist?
July 26, 2014
A Beautiful Family by Marilyn Cohen de Villiers tells the story of the Silverman family and spans over forty years. The story begins with the death of Brenda Silverman and the speculation from journalist Tracy Jacobs that it wasn't a suicide. Told from multiple points of view, the story tells the romance of Alan and Brenda and how sometimes love takes a dark turn. FYI: This story is not for the faint of heart as it deals with domestic violence and sexual abuse.
The characters in this book are so well written that they come to life on the pages. Alan Silverman is the patriarch of the Silverman family, has an impeccable reputation as a Jewish businessman in Johannesburg, and is a former exile for his refusal to fight for his country during the anti-Apartheid movement, but that is his public persona. Brenda Silverman is the perfect example of an orthodox Jewish wife, a former dancer she meets Alan while he is in exile in Israel and it is love at first sight. Annette Davies is a former college friend of Alan's and she helps the couple get refugee status in London, however for her it is because she loves Alan. I kind of feel sorry for Annette but at the same time I don't. She's a hateful character, wanting a man she cannot have and feigning love for a man she can have. No sympathy for her from me! Ben Shapiro is a business owner in London who meets Alan and Brenda and basically adopts them as his children. I love this character! He's like a grandpa, loving and protective of his family. Other POVs that you get in the book come from Tracy Jacobs, the journalist covering the death of Brenda Silverman and the inquest that follows, Yair and Aviva Silverman, the twins and firstborn of the Silverman family.
This story revolves around the lives of Alan and Brenda and what leads to her death in the story. The plot jumps from present to past and back as the story unfolds during the inquest of Brenda's death. Just when you think you have the story figured out, the author throws a surprise twist in that changes your thoughts and proves them wrong! Though parts were predictable, many aspects were not. Alan's treatment of his family and the man that he transforms into as you read the story is shocking and heart-breaking. I wept for Brenda as she realizes that the man she loves is not who she thinks he is, especially as the author reveals his past. I can't say more without spoiling the story for you, so just go read it for yourself ;)
Overall, the story is suspenseful, fast-paced, and truly will tear at your emotions. As already mentioned, it is not for anyone that is sensitive to domestic violence or sexual abuse and I highly recommend that it be read by mature audiences only due to its sexual content and strong language. If you enjoy realistics stories that deal with social issues, than I highly recommend this debut novel. The author has woven together a truly rich story full of characters that could be real and experiences that people can relate to.
I received a copy of this ebook from the author in exchange for an honest review.
This book was reviewed for the blog www.momwithareadingproblem.com and includes an interview with the author.
The characters in this book are so well written that they come to life on the pages. Alan Silverman is the patriarch of the Silverman family, has an impeccable reputation as a Jewish businessman in Johannesburg, and is a former exile for his refusal to fight for his country during the anti-Apartheid movement, but that is his public persona. Brenda Silverman is the perfect example of an orthodox Jewish wife, a former dancer she meets Alan while he is in exile in Israel and it is love at first sight. Annette Davies is a former college friend of Alan's and she helps the couple get refugee status in London, however for her it is because she loves Alan. I kind of feel sorry for Annette but at the same time I don't. She's a hateful character, wanting a man she cannot have and feigning love for a man she can have. No sympathy for her from me! Ben Shapiro is a business owner in London who meets Alan and Brenda and basically adopts them as his children. I love this character! He's like a grandpa, loving and protective of his family. Other POVs that you get in the book come from Tracy Jacobs, the journalist covering the death of Brenda Silverman and the inquest that follows, Yair and Aviva Silverman, the twins and firstborn of the Silverman family.
This story revolves around the lives of Alan and Brenda and what leads to her death in the story. The plot jumps from present to past and back as the story unfolds during the inquest of Brenda's death. Just when you think you have the story figured out, the author throws a surprise twist in that changes your thoughts and proves them wrong! Though parts were predictable, many aspects were not. Alan's treatment of his family and the man that he transforms into as you read the story is shocking and heart-breaking. I wept for Brenda as she realizes that the man she loves is not who she thinks he is, especially as the author reveals his past. I can't say more without spoiling the story for you, so just go read it for yourself ;)
Overall, the story is suspenseful, fast-paced, and truly will tear at your emotions. As already mentioned, it is not for anyone that is sensitive to domestic violence or sexual abuse and I highly recommend that it be read by mature audiences only due to its sexual content and strong language. If you enjoy realistics stories that deal with social issues, than I highly recommend this debut novel. The author has woven together a truly rich story full of characters that could be real and experiences that people can relate to.
I received a copy of this ebook from the author in exchange for an honest review.
This book was reviewed for the blog www.momwithareadingproblem.com and includes an interview with the author.
April 13, 2016
I received a copy of this book in exchange for an unbiased an honest review. When I was asked to read and review this book, I wasn't sure I was going to like it. But it really drew me into the story.
When the story starts out, socialite Brenda Silverman dies suddenly in her home. There was no signs of break-in, no struggle, so of course there will be questions. Many questions. Her husband, Alan Silverman, is a pillar in Johannesburg's Jewish community. He is handsome and charming, a former political activist who after fleeing South Africa in the 80's returned to his homeland to help build the nations new democracy.
Tracy Jacobs is the young reporter who has been assigned to cover the case. She knows the family, she herself is Jewish, and she went to school with Alan and Brenda's children. Covering this case puts her in the center of conflict. She must do her job and cover the story, but she is receiving backlash from those in the Jewish community, from her mother telling her every day she must stop this, stop saying such things. Jewish don't do this to their own. Things like that just don't happen to people like us.
The story is told in many points of view, from each of the main players in the story. Their story actually begins more than 30 years ago and brings you into the present day. It allows you peek into their world, what they were doing, feeling, what was happening to each of them. I thought it may get confusing, but as the story was unfolding, it just flowed beautifully. You could see how each character actually interpreted different things in their own way, how 2 people could see the same situation on totally different sides of the spectrum. You could see each character growing and evolving, what made them into the people they had become.
The story has some dark moments, and touches on some difficult and uncomfortable topics. Reading those, yes it was uncomfortable, I am not going to lie. But it's important that things like this are talked about, and not hidden and shoved under the rug. Abuse happens in our society, in all society, whether it's talked about or not. It makes you think, how many are putting on the 'beautiful family' facade and are living with these horrors?
I really enjoyed this story and how it was written. I couldn't figure out all of the slang, but it really adds to the characters and story for me. (note there is a glossary, at least in the ebook that does explain a lot! I found that after I'd finished the book) It brought out a multitude of feelings from me... joy, anger, disgust, sadness, satisfaction.. my emotions were on a roller coaster, and I enjoy book that can do this, that can make me feel for the characters. It's a book that makes you think, and reflect on our world and what happens in it. I would definitely recommend this book, but not to anyone that is younger (language and subject matter is most assuredly an adult topic) or someone who has a lot of difficulty reading about abuse. It's truly a memorable story, and I am looking forward to reading the next book by this author!
When the story starts out, socialite Brenda Silverman dies suddenly in her home. There was no signs of break-in, no struggle, so of course there will be questions. Many questions. Her husband, Alan Silverman, is a pillar in Johannesburg's Jewish community. He is handsome and charming, a former political activist who after fleeing South Africa in the 80's returned to his homeland to help build the nations new democracy.
Tracy Jacobs is the young reporter who has been assigned to cover the case. She knows the family, she herself is Jewish, and she went to school with Alan and Brenda's children. Covering this case puts her in the center of conflict. She must do her job and cover the story, but she is receiving backlash from those in the Jewish community, from her mother telling her every day she must stop this, stop saying such things. Jewish don't do this to their own. Things like that just don't happen to people like us.
The story is told in many points of view, from each of the main players in the story. Their story actually begins more than 30 years ago and brings you into the present day. It allows you peek into their world, what they were doing, feeling, what was happening to each of them. I thought it may get confusing, but as the story was unfolding, it just flowed beautifully. You could see how each character actually interpreted different things in their own way, how 2 people could see the same situation on totally different sides of the spectrum. You could see each character growing and evolving, what made them into the people they had become.
The story has some dark moments, and touches on some difficult and uncomfortable topics. Reading those, yes it was uncomfortable, I am not going to lie. But it's important that things like this are talked about, and not hidden and shoved under the rug. Abuse happens in our society, in all society, whether it's talked about or not. It makes you think, how many are putting on the 'beautiful family' facade and are living with these horrors?
I really enjoyed this story and how it was written. I couldn't figure out all of the slang, but it really adds to the characters and story for me. (note there is a glossary, at least in the ebook that does explain a lot! I found that after I'd finished the book) It brought out a multitude of feelings from me... joy, anger, disgust, sadness, satisfaction.. my emotions were on a roller coaster, and I enjoy book that can do this, that can make me feel for the characters. It's a book that makes you think, and reflect on our world and what happens in it. I would definitely recommend this book, but not to anyone that is younger (language and subject matter is most assuredly an adult topic) or someone who has a lot of difficulty reading about abuse. It's truly a memorable story, and I am looking forward to reading the next book by this author!
August 29, 2022
Awesome Indies Book Awards is pleased to include A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY by MARILYN COHEN DE VILLIERS in the library of Awesome Indies'
Badge of Approval
recipients.
AIBA Book of the Week: 29 August, 2022: 210/42215
AIBA Book of the Day: 16 July, 2021: 210/42215
Original Awesome Indies' Assessment 4( stars):
The Silvermans represent the cream of the South African Jewish crop. Most importantly, they are rich and attractive. The family is frum, which means practicing, devout, orthodox. Alan Silverman is not only a successful businessman, but he also helped further the Anti-Apartheid movement. He is a pillar of the community. So why did his wife, Brenda, die suddenly? Most would call it an accident, or suicide, but the formal inquest into her death reveals so much more. Reporter Tracy Jacobs will discover the truth behind the Silvermans’ shiny façade.
In a fascinating series of first-person accounts, the Silvermans and the people in their lives reveal the sordid tale of abuse and betrayal that preceded Brenda’s death. In a culture where “it could never happen” and “we don’t do that sort of thing”, the insidious evil thrives in secret.
This book highlights in chilling detail a “culture of silence”. Because of the rules of the close culture and limited community, abusers justify their abuse, victims keep silent for fear of their abuser and shame in their community, and onlookers argue away the signals of trouble.
Also, the story brings to life a time of racism, revolution, and the point of view of a group within that society that both accepts and reviles them. Racism, anti-Semitism, and abuse of power helps and harms the Jewish community in South Africa from the small towns to the big city.
The book is by no means a dark tale, though. Dreams and ideals drive the characters, unaware of the secrets that lie behind the players. I enjoyed the peek into local culture, complete with Yiddish and South African slang. Although I never quite figured out some of it.
Marilyn DeVillers has revealed a tantalizing and disturbing narrative on the insidious and subtle nature of abuse. The reader feels Alan Silverman’s point of view, only to discover the jaded nature of his actions and the lies he tells himself and others. Brenda’s reactions to the events that lead to her death reveal the self-blame and shame that guide her action and inaction. Tracy’s point of view sheds light on the outsider’s perspective on appearances that give way to shocking truth. All these and more weave through the book to surprise, engross, and emphasize the deep and spreading sickness that eats away at a culture, even during a time of liberation and equality.
Four stars because of some editing errors and homophone confusion. Also the writing was a little passive in some areas.
AIBA Book of the Week: 29 August, 2022: 210/42215
AIBA Book of the Day: 16 July, 2021: 210/42215
Original Awesome Indies' Assessment 4( stars):
The Silvermans represent the cream of the South African Jewish crop. Most importantly, they are rich and attractive. The family is frum, which means practicing, devout, orthodox. Alan Silverman is not only a successful businessman, but he also helped further the Anti-Apartheid movement. He is a pillar of the community. So why did his wife, Brenda, die suddenly? Most would call it an accident, or suicide, but the formal inquest into her death reveals so much more. Reporter Tracy Jacobs will discover the truth behind the Silvermans’ shiny façade.
In a fascinating series of first-person accounts, the Silvermans and the people in their lives reveal the sordid tale of abuse and betrayal that preceded Brenda’s death. In a culture where “it could never happen” and “we don’t do that sort of thing”, the insidious evil thrives in secret.
This book highlights in chilling detail a “culture of silence”. Because of the rules of the close culture and limited community, abusers justify their abuse, victims keep silent for fear of their abuser and shame in their community, and onlookers argue away the signals of trouble.
Also, the story brings to life a time of racism, revolution, and the point of view of a group within that society that both accepts and reviles them. Racism, anti-Semitism, and abuse of power helps and harms the Jewish community in South Africa from the small towns to the big city.
The book is by no means a dark tale, though. Dreams and ideals drive the characters, unaware of the secrets that lie behind the players. I enjoyed the peek into local culture, complete with Yiddish and South African slang. Although I never quite figured out some of it.
Marilyn DeVillers has revealed a tantalizing and disturbing narrative on the insidious and subtle nature of abuse. The reader feels Alan Silverman’s point of view, only to discover the jaded nature of his actions and the lies he tells himself and others. Brenda’s reactions to the events that lead to her death reveal the self-blame and shame that guide her action and inaction. Tracy’s point of view sheds light on the outsider’s perspective on appearances that give way to shocking truth. All these and more weave through the book to surprise, engross, and emphasize the deep and spreading sickness that eats away at a culture, even during a time of liberation and equality.
Four stars because of some editing errors and homophone confusion. Also the writing was a little passive in some areas.
November 28, 2014
Brenda Silverman, socialite wife of a property mogul dies suddenly. This causes a chain of events that reveal the deep and very dark histories of the Silverman family, which is reported on by a young journalist who went to school with one of the Silverman children.
Alan Silverman was born in a tiny Free State town during apartheid and his was the only Jewish family in the area. He had a difficult childhood with abusive parents and his brother died while serving time in the army. Alan moved to Israel to avoid being imprisoned for avoiding conscription. It was here that he met his 'soul mate' Brenda, who had run away from her mother in South Africa. Alan took Brenda to London and it was here that he got his 'big break' in the property industry. The couple then got married and had twins and another child before moving back to South Africa when apartheid ended.
The outside image of the Silverman family is that of a 'Beautiful Family', especially in the Orthodox Jewish community as they had become more religious under Rabbi Rosenberg.
All of their secrets come spilling out as the media and courts try to discover the cause of Brenda's death.
A gripping read, more suspense than a crime novel or drama alone. The sexual abuse, incest, hebephilia, and emotional abuse can be shocking to read about, especially when it is taking place in the least likely culture and religion to be susceptible to this: the Jewish community of Johannesburg.
A real page turner, this debut novel from De Villiers manages to shake up the perceptions of the reader as she uncovers the dark elements within the Jewish 'mishpacha' (family) while maintaining respect for those who do live the correct values.
Amanda Blankfield-Koseff
Alan Silverman was born in a tiny Free State town during apartheid and his was the only Jewish family in the area. He had a difficult childhood with abusive parents and his brother died while serving time in the army. Alan moved to Israel to avoid being imprisoned for avoiding conscription. It was here that he met his 'soul mate' Brenda, who had run away from her mother in South Africa. Alan took Brenda to London and it was here that he got his 'big break' in the property industry. The couple then got married and had twins and another child before moving back to South Africa when apartheid ended.
The outside image of the Silverman family is that of a 'Beautiful Family', especially in the Orthodox Jewish community as they had become more religious under Rabbi Rosenberg.
All of their secrets come spilling out as the media and courts try to discover the cause of Brenda's death.
A gripping read, more suspense than a crime novel or drama alone. The sexual abuse, incest, hebephilia, and emotional abuse can be shocking to read about, especially when it is taking place in the least likely culture and religion to be susceptible to this: the Jewish community of Johannesburg.
A real page turner, this debut novel from De Villiers manages to shake up the perceptions of the reader as she uncovers the dark elements within the Jewish 'mishpacha' (family) while maintaining respect for those who do live the correct values.
Amanda Blankfield-Koseff
June 11, 2016
I was approached by the author to review this for the blog. I started out fairly apprehensive, not sure of the whole political, religious aspects and I found it fairly difficult to get into. There is a lot of vocabulary that I just didn’t understand. There is a glossary at the end of the book but it’s not convenient to flick back to or even know it’s there on a Kindle.
However I persevered and was slowly drawn into the story and began to care what happened to the family. A lot of what happens can be read in the blurb so I’m not going to delve too deeply into circumstances. It does show how deeply some families rely on appearances, happiness, success, status to the detriment of others.
Spanning across several countries and years this is a very in depth book, long and at times difficult to read. I did take a break a few times during it then came back to it with fresh eyes. Certainly not one to be read quickly. There has obviously been a lot of research poured into it and as a debut novel it reads smoothly.
I do feel I have to put a *trigger* warning up to say that it contains domestic and sexual abuse .. so if this is a delicate subject please be aware.
Overall I found it insightful and thought provoking, not necessarily one I would have chosen off a shelf because it was out of my comfort zone but with hindsight I’m glad I read it. I also have a copy of the next book by Marilyn ‘When Time Fails’ and will review that at a later date.
My thanks go to the author for the opportunity and this is my honest opinion.
However I persevered and was slowly drawn into the story and began to care what happened to the family. A lot of what happens can be read in the blurb so I’m not going to delve too deeply into circumstances. It does show how deeply some families rely on appearances, happiness, success, status to the detriment of others.
Spanning across several countries and years this is a very in depth book, long and at times difficult to read. I did take a break a few times during it then came back to it with fresh eyes. Certainly not one to be read quickly. There has obviously been a lot of research poured into it and as a debut novel it reads smoothly.
I do feel I have to put a *trigger* warning up to say that it contains domestic and sexual abuse .. so if this is a delicate subject please be aware.
Overall I found it insightful and thought provoking, not necessarily one I would have chosen off a shelf because it was out of my comfort zone but with hindsight I’m glad I read it. I also have a copy of the next book by Marilyn ‘When Time Fails’ and will review that at a later date.
My thanks go to the author for the opportunity and this is my honest opinion.
March 6, 2015
I received a copy of this book from TBC,a facebook book club, in exchange for an honest review.
Thought it might be a bit dry at first but after the first couple of chapters, it really picked up and held my interest.
It is sent against the background of Apartheid in South Africa from the 1980s to the present day and involves the prominent businessman Alan Silverman and the death of his wife Brenda. It switches between different years and the perspective of the different characters which isn't difficult at all to read, in fact it really adds to the understand of the motives and actions of the characters. It is set in South Africa, Israel and a large chunk of it in England.
It is quite a disturbing read with some of the subject matters covered, such as domestic abuse, sexual abuse and the wish to protect the family honour and reputation at all costs.
The only slight complaint I have about it is the way the story is almost spoonfed to the reader from beyond the grave at the inquest. The reader would already have been able to figure out the motives and felt this was a bit unnecessary. However, there is then an unexpected twist at the end which is quite a surprise.
Thoroughly enjoyed this book and would definitely recommend.
Thought it might be a bit dry at first but after the first couple of chapters, it really picked up and held my interest.
It is sent against the background of Apartheid in South Africa from the 1980s to the present day and involves the prominent businessman Alan Silverman and the death of his wife Brenda. It switches between different years and the perspective of the different characters which isn't difficult at all to read, in fact it really adds to the understand of the motives and actions of the characters. It is set in South Africa, Israel and a large chunk of it in England.
It is quite a disturbing read with some of the subject matters covered, such as domestic abuse, sexual abuse and the wish to protect the family honour and reputation at all costs.
The only slight complaint I have about it is the way the story is almost spoonfed to the reader from beyond the grave at the inquest. The reader would already have been able to figure out the motives and felt this was a bit unnecessary. However, there is then an unexpected twist at the end which is quite a surprise.
Thoroughly enjoyed this book and would definitely recommend.
November 28, 2020
Interesting
The beginning was a little slow but as the story developed it became extremely interesting and absorbing even though the stereotypes and misapprehensions between the races and religions were hard to read. The book was well researched and told from many points of view and perspective. It also had breadth moving between times, voice and place. Israel, South Africa and London. So an ambitious book that at times was harrowing. But to me it always felt like I was reading a good book but I wasn't totally lost into and living in the story, the way amazing books make you feel. Maybe because there were just too many voices telling the reader the same story although from different perspectives. I wonder if with maybe two or three at the most protagonists the story would have had more impact for me. So many of the characters were difficult to care about. But a good book and interesting on many levels and a fascinating concept.
The beginning was a little slow but as the story developed it became extremely interesting and absorbing even though the stereotypes and misapprehensions between the races and religions were hard to read. The book was well researched and told from many points of view and perspective. It also had breadth moving between times, voice and place. Israel, South Africa and London. So an ambitious book that at times was harrowing. But to me it always felt like I was reading a good book but I wasn't totally lost into and living in the story, the way amazing books make you feel. Maybe because there were just too many voices telling the reader the same story although from different perspectives. I wonder if with maybe two or three at the most protagonists the story would have had more impact for me. So many of the characters were difficult to care about. But a good book and interesting on many levels and a fascinating concept.
March 11, 2015
A family saga set in South Africa , and is mainly about a businessman Alan Silverman who came from quite humble beginnings, and is a member of the only jewish family in a farming community during SA apartheid, and faces bullying of the worst kind, and so decides to go to Israel where he meets naive Brenda who he knows he will marry, and she is the type of wife who never asks questions.
They move to London He then forms an attachment to Ben who introduces him to property. All Alan wants is to be accepted back in South Africa, and once apartheid is abolished he moves back.
Brenda who is a respected member of her community is then found dead , and foul play is suspected.
This is a very dark novel, and I found it easy to keep up with the storyline. I was left wondering at the end what eventually would happen to the people involved, and the knock on affect on their lives.
They move to London He then forms an attachment to Ben who introduces him to property. All Alan wants is to be accepted back in South Africa, and once apartheid is abolished he moves back.
Brenda who is a respected member of her community is then found dead , and foul play is suspected.
This is a very dark novel, and I found it easy to keep up with the storyline. I was left wondering at the end what eventually would happen to the people involved, and the knock on affect on their lives.
February 28, 2015
I doubt if I would have chosen to read this if I hadn't been part of a book club, however I'm glad I did. I know very little about South Africa apart from what I've seen on the news & over the years have read a fair number of books relating to Judaism. Combine these worlds with a story told through many years & from a number of perspectives and you have 'A Beautiful Family' I was left wondering how everyone went on with their lives after the revelations at the end.
March 30, 2015
I found the first half of this book very slow to get into and I was irritated by some of the loathsome characters. However, because it had come highly recommended by friends I trust, I persevered. The story weaves between past and present, different characters and 3 continents causing the story to be fairly disjointed to start with. The second half of the book is fast paced and all the threads pull together to reach a very unexpected ending. I am really pleased I stuck with this book.
March 8, 2015
I did find this quite a slow book to begin with. Perhaps it was the style of skipping backwards and forwards in time and reading the same part of the story from each characters perspective making it a little long winded. Once I had got to the second part of the book I found it gripping and then the earlier detail became invaluable to the story. A difficult subject matter to read about. 4 stars
May 31, 2015
This book had all the foundations to be a great book and it so was. As the story unfolded and was told from different angles I still didn't see what was going to happen. A well written book that blew my mind at the end. A fantastic write on a subject that is a taboo
March 21, 2016
3.5 stars. A good twist or two and an easy read. I found the writing a little too simple compared to other books I have read in this genre.
Worth a read if the blurb appeals to you with unexpected twists and storylines but sadly it didn't quite fulfil its promise for me.
Worth a read if the blurb appeals to you with unexpected twists and storylines but sadly it didn't quite fulfil its promise for me.
November 5, 2015
Excellent debut
It is hard to review this book without spoilers. At times I found the overlapping accounts to be slightly repetitive, but believe me, keep going. This is a well researched and written novel.
It is hard to review this book without spoilers. At times I found the overlapping accounts to be slightly repetitive, but believe me, keep going. This is a well researched and written novel.
August 11, 2014
I thought this was a fantastic book which dealt with so many issues including domestic violance and sexual abuse.
April 12, 2015
Great vacation read! Interesting as well. Looking forward to her next one.
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