It's strange to me how much the anime changed absolutely pivotal moments. Or, well, I say that, but it's confusing because I mean the opposite - the anime had huge, emotionally devastating scenes that were either different in the manga or simply didn't appear.
Again, I don't know if there will be some variation of them later on, but at this point, we're concluding the anime storyline, with the exchange of rings and the promise of a future together. In the anime, this came after some pretty big stuff, with both Setagawa and Kousuke going through big agony over their relationship and having serious talks with both friends and each other about what they wanted out of their future together.
Things that are missing:
- The subplot/miscommunication about Kousuke getting fired because their relationship had been discovered.
- Setagawa kissing Kousuke at school and his friends all finding out.
- Fighting with Shige, and the conversation about his discomfort with Setagawa's sexuality - and Ken sticking up for him.
- The date on the hill, with Setagawa panicking about people seeing them together in public, and Kousuke feeling awful about how much turmoil he's putting him through.
- Kousuke's conversation at the bar and fight with his friend over what his true feelings for Setagawa are.
- Setagawa winding up at that same bar, with Kousuke's friend advising Setagawa to initiate the breakup.
- The conversation over the phone, with Setagawa ending things and throwing his phone into the ocean.
- The conversation between Kousuke and Setagawa the next day, revisiting the pet store and Kousuke realizing Setagawa is really serious about his decision, and Kousuke expressing that he'd never intended to try to break up with him.
- Setagawa's fight with his mother.
- The letter.
- Reuniting on the hill and watching the meteor shower together.
These are some of my absolute favorite scenes from the anime, and they're all gone? (I didn't even list all the differences. I'm assuming the dog, for example, shows up later on, and there will most likely be more interactions with Setagawa and Kousuke's friends.) Instead, Kousuke's just sick at home with gastritis, and while his mom and Ken are at the store, he actively tries to break up with Setagawa first - for similar reasons, mostly because he's afraid he's destroying Setagawa's youth by tying him down and limiting his options.
The parts leading up to this scene were good and made a decent amount of this volume 4+ stars for me. It's kind of a similar theme to Hitorijime Boyfriend, except Kousuke is a lot more mature than Hasekura and understands that as much as he emotionally wants to be Setagawa's one and only, the fact that he loves him that much means he wants Setagawa to be as free as possible, with a big social network, tons of friends, and a wide array of life experiences. If you love someone, let them go, etc.
I'm torn on how I feel about how this went down in the manga. I do like that Setagawa was a lot more proactive. My biggest fear was that Kousuke's age, "top" status, and big personality would kind of batter Setagawa down to weepy clingy boyfriend levels - something I've definitely seen in lots of initially promising BLs. So Setagawa giving that "I'm so grateful for the time we had together" breakup-acceptance speech and then concluding with: "NOT!" and shoving Kousuke down on the couch to kiss him was A+++.
Didn't love the threats about telling everyone about their relationship and getting Kousuke fired, though. I mean, not that I think Setagawa would ever actually do that. But using threats as leverage to keep someone from breaking up with you is never okay, and it's also jarring to me when it's such a massive change from Setagawa's point of view in the manga, where he was so incredibly concerned about Kousuke possibly losing the job he loved if people found out about them.
So that was my biggest complaint with this volume, along with the scene of Kousuke letting a bunch of the students hug him at the end of the year. Not dealbreakers by any means, and I am still enjoying the manga version quite a bit, but it's hard to reconcile what seem like two kind of divergent versions of a story I've loved so much for years.
I did forget to mention that a thing I liked in volume 1 was the reveal that Kousuke was never actually going out trying to fight anyone; he was attempting to "speak to the delinquents on their level" by going to talk to them at night, and they kept attacking him instead, so he'd defend himself and then turn them over to the hospital/police. It's a funny little tidbit that I think is important in understanding his character.
I also liked, in this volume, the little bits of backstory we get about Kousuke's student days, and how he was kind of a delinquent in his own way back then, always getting in fights and such. There's a chapter opener illustration of Setagawa and Kousuke together at the same age, and it makes it hit home how important the age gap actually is for the two of them. I don't think they would've worked at all if they were both in school at the same time. Oddly, Kousuke wouldn't have been mature enough, and certainly not ready for a serious relationship.
Curious to find out more about the Ohshiba dad; their mom is funny and seems, in some ways, to be as absent as Setagawa's mother is, but mostly because she can rely on Kousuke to take care of things. I liked her appearances in this volume - she did get that little bit of bonding with Setagawa over the photo albums, although it was shorter - and her mothering Kousuke and taking away his cigarettes when he got sick. And then laughing herself into tears because he was being so grumpy about it. He's so "grown up" but he's still just as much her son as Ken is.
Setagawa's friendship with Hasekura also seems a lot more solid and genuine to me than it did in the anime, where Hasekura was just annoyed with him the entire time. I like the dynamic here, and how much it feels like a whole big family meshing together and forming a new community.