BDSM: 60 Ideas for Domination in Long Distance and Online Relationships

by Jake Flanders

Maybe you're on Fetlife and found a new sub to play with, or maybe you're in a long distance relationship with a little bit of kink and you need some ideas to spice things up a bit? Maybe you are in a committed relationship and want to implement some rules... This BDSM book has 60 ways to implement Domination and Submission into your long distance relationship. It includes tasks, challenges, and a few punishments for when your sub fails to obey. Special bonus section of 30 ways to Dominate when you meet in the real world!

Genres: BDSM

27 pages, Kindle Edition

First published June 11, 2014

Reviews

[J S · Rating 3 out of 5]

The book is a good primer for LDR, D/s relationships. Almost everything in here I've incorporated into my own, as a Dom, and since I am a writer too, I also have a critical eye on what could have been included to make it a stronger book. My suggestion is that this book should have included not only the "how" and "what," but the "why."

"Why" does a submissive gain something from doing one of these tasks? Why does the Dom? What is the net benefit of it? There is a lot to be spoken about there and this book assumes the reader is aware of those drivers. It could have been a much more powerful book had the power exchange been explored more, and the needs and wants for the dynamic been covered.

Overall though, it sure as hell beats most D/s primer books, in that it was focused on a niche (LDR), and also that it provided specific examples of what to do, which is better than most I've read. It even gave me a dozen or so ideas, specifically in the "in-person" section.

[J Crossley · Rating 3 out of 5]

This book contains suggestions to use for long-distance D/s relationships.