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Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family: Avoiding the 6 Dysfunctional Parenting Styles
Feeling stuck as a Christian parent? Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family helps you get out of the common pitfalls of Christian parenting and gives you practical ideas for creating spiritual health in your home while allowing your children to live the abundant life that Jesus promises.
We all want to guide our children into the abundant life that Jesus offers. But when we pursue the more and better that the world offers above our pursuit of Jesus, we fall into dangerous parenting habits. In Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family , Michelle Anthony unpacks six common dysfunctional parenting styles that we fall into out of habit, lack of attention, or just oversight due to busyness. If you long to show your children Jesus but don't know how to do it, you'll find hope in this practical guide to creating a relentlessly grace-filled home that is focused on God as first in charge.
**Includes Scripture guides, reflection questions, ideas for family rites of passage, and other real-life family examples.
We all want to guide our children into the abundant life that Jesus offers. But when we pursue the more and better that the world offers above our pursuit of Jesus, we fall into dangerous parenting habits. In Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family , Michelle Anthony unpacks six common dysfunctional parenting styles that we fall into out of habit, lack of attention, or just oversight due to busyness. If you long to show your children Jesus but don't know how to do it, you'll find hope in this practical guide to creating a relentlessly grace-filled home that is focused on God as first in charge.
**Includes Scripture guides, reflection questions, ideas for family rites of passage, and other real-life family examples.
208 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2015
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Michelle Anthony
34 books25 followersMichelle Anthony, M.A., Ph.D. is a child development researcher and educator. She is a co-founder of Wide-Eyed Learning, LLC, which teaches parents and educators the Signing Smart approach to using ASL signs with hearing babies and toddlers. She lives with her husband and signing children in Centennial, Colorado.
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February 20, 2015
I found this book less of a how-to and more of an examination of the brokenness that lies at the root of several types of family dysfunctions–which is important, as identifying this is the first step toward change and healing.
The author devotes an entire chapter to each of the six dysfunctions. Did I recognize myself in any of the dysfunctions described? Yes, and not always in the ways I first expected. Given this, I’d therefore say there’s something for every reader in every chapter.
Nuggets like the one quoted above resonated with my own parenting experiences. Then there was this one, which provided an especially appreciated aha moment : “When we pursue Jesus, we get the abundant life. When we pursue the abundant life, we get dysfunction.” (page 14) Yes.
With some books you get the sense that the author is coming alongside you; others feel more like they are teaching, or counseling. I felt more of the latter with this one. Nothing wrong with that of course–sometimes that’s exactly what’s needed. But my own soul didn’t sing with the truths being taught in quite the same way.
The author devotes an entire chapter to each of the six dysfunctions. Did I recognize myself in any of the dysfunctions described? Yes, and not always in the ways I first expected. Given this, I’d therefore say there’s something for every reader in every chapter.
Nuggets like the one quoted above resonated with my own parenting experiences. Then there was this one, which provided an especially appreciated aha moment : “When we pursue Jesus, we get the abundant life. When we pursue the abundant life, we get dysfunction.” (page 14) Yes.
With some books you get the sense that the author is coming alongside you; others feel more like they are teaching, or counseling. I felt more of the latter with this one. Nothing wrong with that of course–sometimes that’s exactly what’s needed. But my own soul didn’t sing with the truths being taught in quite the same way.
February 24, 2015
FTC disclaimer: I received a copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review. All opinions are my own.
Have you ever read a book that parts just don't seem to apply to you? Have you ever read a book that you feel like the author is speaking right to you? This is one of those books. In a very creative style of addressing parenting style, Michelle Anthony speaks to nearly every type of parent. This book has a twist, though. Instead of telling you to change, she gives suggestions on how to give yourself and your fears to the Lord so that you will eventually change as your trust in Him grows.
As a single (but soon to be married) person, this book interested me because if I can start working on my imperfections now, I won't be Super Mom someday, but I will hopefully have worked on some issues that will allow my children to be raised in a healthier spiritual environment. (I say healthier because I'll never be perfect.)
Oh, but perfection is something that I always have strived for. I remember when I was in high school I had a chart that I could check off and see how good of a Christian I was that week. I thought of that as I was reading the chapter "Beyond Good Behavior and chore Charts". I had the good behavior, but unfortunately those around me hadn't encouraged me in faith formation, but left me drowning in moral education. There's a difference, and the approach could mean your child staying with your faith or abandoning it once they are on their own.
I recommend this book to anyone who is a Christian and is a parent of children living at home -- or anyone thinking of having children. She even gives great help in developing a family mission statement. Who couldn't use that? It's an idealistic goal to have a family mission statement, but let's face it, they feel impossible to write and they just get pushed aside for another day, which never seems to come.
This book is chock full of encouragement, great ideas, and gentle reminders that you guide your children and that guiding them doesn't mean micro-managing, being absent or even driving them towards perfection.
Even though you might be the criticizing parent and feel the I-cant-say-no parenting style has nothing to do with you, I still encourage you to read the section about it -- you might surprise yourself what characteristics you do have. Also, there are great little nuggets of wisdom throughout the book and you don't want to miss out on any of them!
Have you ever read a book that parts just don't seem to apply to you? Have you ever read a book that you feel like the author is speaking right to you? This is one of those books. In a very creative style of addressing parenting style, Michelle Anthony speaks to nearly every type of parent. This book has a twist, though. Instead of telling you to change, she gives suggestions on how to give yourself and your fears to the Lord so that you will eventually change as your trust in Him grows.
As a single (but soon to be married) person, this book interested me because if I can start working on my imperfections now, I won't be Super Mom someday, but I will hopefully have worked on some issues that will allow my children to be raised in a healthier spiritual environment. (I say healthier because I'll never be perfect.)
Oh, but perfection is something that I always have strived for. I remember when I was in high school I had a chart that I could check off and see how good of a Christian I was that week. I thought of that as I was reading the chapter "Beyond Good Behavior and chore Charts". I had the good behavior, but unfortunately those around me hadn't encouraged me in faith formation, but left me drowning in moral education. There's a difference, and the approach could mean your child staying with your faith or abandoning it once they are on their own.
I recommend this book to anyone who is a Christian and is a parent of children living at home -- or anyone thinking of having children. She even gives great help in developing a family mission statement. Who couldn't use that? It's an idealistic goal to have a family mission statement, but let's face it, they feel impossible to write and they just get pushed aside for another day, which never seems to come.
This book is chock full of encouragement, great ideas, and gentle reminders that you guide your children and that guiding them doesn't mean micro-managing, being absent or even driving them towards perfection.
Even though you might be the criticizing parent and feel the I-cant-say-no parenting style has nothing to do with you, I still encourage you to read the section about it -- you might surprise yourself what characteristics you do have. Also, there are great little nuggets of wisdom throughout the book and you don't want to miss out on any of them!
February 22, 2015
I would recommend this life changing book to every single parent who are seeking information about how to be the best parent they can be. Even though I'm single and I don't have kids yet this book taught me a lot about parenting, leading our children in the right direction, and instilling Christian principles in their lives. I also plan to reread this book whenever that time does come. Michelle Anthony writes in a practical way where parents can connect with. I really like how she walked readers through the six different dysfunctional parenting styles. She also helps readers to improve in their Christian parenting. My favorite chapter was entitled, "A Time to Bless" because she included powerful blessings from scripture that we can declare over our children's life. This is something I strongly believe will tremendous benefit children and it could literally change their entire lives. I really loved the blessing of being an overcomer based off of 1 John 4:4 and 5:4. This one reminds our kids that through Christ they have the victory and they are more than a conqueror. I also enjoyed that she recommended parents to read Numbers 6:22-26 aloud over their children. Numbers 6:22-26 is a passage about God blessing them, protecting them, God being gracious to them, and giving them peace. Speaking out loud blessings over my children is something that I want to do for my future children. I also liked the father's nod and this is something every man is longing for from his father. This is something I will strive to do for my kids. I want to make sure they know I'm proud of them. If you’re looking for an excellent book about parenting, check out this book!
“I received a review copy of Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family from Litfuse for this review.”
“I received a review copy of Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family from Litfuse for this review.”
February 9, 2015
When I was offered a chance to review Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family (for free) I opted in. I thought it might be good, but I had no idea what powerful ammunition it would become against many of the not-so-healthy family practices I have already put in place. It’s not a cure, but it is certainly a gentle glow in dark areas and a guide for making changes that will impact my family for generations to come.
Author and speaker, Dr. Michelle Anthony is down to earth and relatable. Reading this book was like hanging out at the kitchen table with someone who is an expert, but who is not judging me for my shortcomings. Rather, she is sharing what she has learned through her own imperfect journey.
In her book she has mapped out an easy to understand blueprint for recognizing one of six possible styles you could have came from. One example is the “driver”, who drives kids very hard and the ultimate dysfunction that accompanies such parenting style. There is the absentee parent, double-minded and a few other truly relevant styles. I have yet to meet anyone who comes from a fully functional family.
She then lovingly provides powerful material to use, as you trust God to make the necessary adjustments in your current family, so that you don’t repeat patterns you grew up with.
An easy but life changing read. I recommend Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family.
Author and speaker, Dr. Michelle Anthony is down to earth and relatable. Reading this book was like hanging out at the kitchen table with someone who is an expert, but who is not judging me for my shortcomings. Rather, she is sharing what she has learned through her own imperfect journey.
In her book she has mapped out an easy to understand blueprint for recognizing one of six possible styles you could have came from. One example is the “driver”, who drives kids very hard and the ultimate dysfunction that accompanies such parenting style. There is the absentee parent, double-minded and a few other truly relevant styles. I have yet to meet anyone who comes from a fully functional family.
She then lovingly provides powerful material to use, as you trust God to make the necessary adjustments in your current family, so that you don’t repeat patterns you grew up with.
An easy but life changing read. I recommend Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family.
September 22, 2020
My favorite part of this book was the direction on how to make a family mission statement with the two appendices in the back. We will be doing this!
March 3, 2024
That was a lot more religion and a lot less parenting than I expected. The chapter about writing a family mission statement was cool. I want to try that.
Fast read.
Fast read.
March 9, 2017
This book seemed like a first draft. I felt like she was trying to cash in on the success of her book Spiritual Parenting. This book needed a lot of editing.
March 19, 2015
We've all had this moment, whether we recognize it or not. This attempt to take over the Director's chair. We grab a pen, write a script, and try to steer the story in the direction we think it should go. BUT...He's the only one who knows the characters, understands the plot line, and is weaving them all together toward the ending He intends. He hasn't hired us to write our on stories; He has cast us in HIS story.
-from the first chapter of Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family
This is a new book published by David C. Cook, January 2015.
I am always drawn to such practical books as this! For one thing, I am a part of a large family and for another thing, I hope to someday have a family of my own! As I read this extremely practical book, I was able to relate to many of the instances included.
Although I am not a parent yet, I was able to see myself in a few of the dysfunctional parenting styles! That said, I do recommend this book for those who have younger siblings, as well as those who wish to have a family in the future. The sooner you start learning how to parent well, the better. Such Biblical truths can never be out of our realm.
The author of this new paperback book is Michelle Anthony. Michelle is the vice president of Learning Resourches and Family Ministry Architect at David C Cook. The author of several books on similar topics as the one I am reviewing, Mrs. Anthony has over 25 years of experience in church ministry. She is a children's and family pastor at her church in Colorado. Personally, I don't condone the latter for women, but I spent some time researching Michelle's beliefs and stances on current issues and was relatively pleased with the articles she endorses.
Her new book, Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family is an excellent read, for both women and men. Men will not feel uncomfortable reading it since Mrs. Anthony doesn't take a leadership position in the book; rather she is humble and open with her writing. This is not a theology book; it is a useful book on parenting.
I think most parents will greatly benefit from this book. The author not only addresses the many methods of dysfunctional parenting, she goes to the root and heart of the matter, explaining reasons why you as the parent may be parenting a certain way. She also mentions common and proven results of children who grew up with dysfunctional parenting. From the ''Can't say no'' parent to the ''Micro-managing parent'', Michelle Anthony covers 6 different dysfunctional parenting methods. Although I would hope this is not the case for every parent, you are sure to discover one of these methods which you have been practicing. With ''Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family'' you can not only identify the problems in your parenting, but by the grace of God, cure them!
Practical ''Reflect and Respond” questions and exercises follow up every chapter in order to help you, the reader completely understand and put into practice what you just learned.
A complimentary copy of this book was provided for review purposes. The opinions expressed are my own.
-from the first chapter of Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family
This is a new book published by David C. Cook, January 2015.
I am always drawn to such practical books as this! For one thing, I am a part of a large family and for another thing, I hope to someday have a family of my own! As I read this extremely practical book, I was able to relate to many of the instances included.
Although I am not a parent yet, I was able to see myself in a few of the dysfunctional parenting styles! That said, I do recommend this book for those who have younger siblings, as well as those who wish to have a family in the future. The sooner you start learning how to parent well, the better. Such Biblical truths can never be out of our realm.
The author of this new paperback book is Michelle Anthony. Michelle is the vice president of Learning Resourches and Family Ministry Architect at David C Cook. The author of several books on similar topics as the one I am reviewing, Mrs. Anthony has over 25 years of experience in church ministry. She is a children's and family pastor at her church in Colorado. Personally, I don't condone the latter for women, but I spent some time researching Michelle's beliefs and stances on current issues and was relatively pleased with the articles she endorses.
Her new book, Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family is an excellent read, for both women and men. Men will not feel uncomfortable reading it since Mrs. Anthony doesn't take a leadership position in the book; rather she is humble and open with her writing. This is not a theology book; it is a useful book on parenting.
I think most parents will greatly benefit from this book. The author not only addresses the many methods of dysfunctional parenting, she goes to the root and heart of the matter, explaining reasons why you as the parent may be parenting a certain way. She also mentions common and proven results of children who grew up with dysfunctional parenting. From the ''Can't say no'' parent to the ''Micro-managing parent'', Michelle Anthony covers 6 different dysfunctional parenting methods. Although I would hope this is not the case for every parent, you are sure to discover one of these methods which you have been practicing. With ''Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family'' you can not only identify the problems in your parenting, but by the grace of God, cure them!
Practical ''Reflect and Respond” questions and exercises follow up every chapter in order to help you, the reader completely understand and put into practice what you just learned.
A complimentary copy of this book was provided for review purposes. The opinions expressed are my own.
January 22, 2015
About the Book:
We all want to guide our children into the abundant life that Jesus offers. But when we pursue the more and better that the world offers above our pursuit of Jesus, we fall into dangerous parenting habits. In Becoming a Spiritually Formed Family, Michelle Anthony unpacks six common dysfunctional parenting styles that we fall into out of habit, lack of attention, or just oversight due to busyness. If you long to show your children Jesus but don't know how to do it, you'll find hope in this practical guide to creating a relentlessly grace-filled home that is focused on God as first in charge.
Includes Scripture guides, reflection questions, ideas for family rites of passage, and other real life family examples.
About the Author:
Michelle Anthony is the vice president of Learning Resources and Family Ministry Architect at David C Cook and the author of Spiritual Parenting, Dreaming of More for the Next Generation, A Theology of Family Ministry, and The Big God Story. Michelle has graduate degrees in Christian education, theology, and leadership and over twenty-five years of church ministry experience as a children’s and family pastor. She lives in Colorado Springs and loves a good book and a cup of coffee.
My Review:
In Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family, the author has addressed 6 dysfunctional parenting styles. The Double-Minded Parent, the I-Can't-Say-No Parent, the Driver Parent, the Micro-Managing Parent, the Criticizing Parent, and the Absentee Parent. The author offers hope in the way of God to help us guide our children to Him and as a blessing received by Him we need His help to raise them. After reading through the parenting styles, I quickly could see my husband and I and the way we parent. I as the Micro-Managing parent do have a tendency to control situations and others by my presence, the main reason is if I can control it, it will turn out right. I have worked on this part of me for years, so I can attest to what the author says to do, to work on this part of myself.
Michelle Anthony has written an eye opening book on parenting that should NOT be ignored!
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from Litfuse Publicity.
We all want to guide our children into the abundant life that Jesus offers. But when we pursue the more and better that the world offers above our pursuit of Jesus, we fall into dangerous parenting habits. In Becoming a Spiritually Formed Family, Michelle Anthony unpacks six common dysfunctional parenting styles that we fall into out of habit, lack of attention, or just oversight due to busyness. If you long to show your children Jesus but don't know how to do it, you'll find hope in this practical guide to creating a relentlessly grace-filled home that is focused on God as first in charge.
Includes Scripture guides, reflection questions, ideas for family rites of passage, and other real life family examples.
About the Author:
Michelle Anthony is the vice president of Learning Resources and Family Ministry Architect at David C Cook and the author of Spiritual Parenting, Dreaming of More for the Next Generation, A Theology of Family Ministry, and The Big God Story. Michelle has graduate degrees in Christian education, theology, and leadership and over twenty-five years of church ministry experience as a children’s and family pastor. She lives in Colorado Springs and loves a good book and a cup of coffee.
My Review:
In Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family, the author has addressed 6 dysfunctional parenting styles. The Double-Minded Parent, the I-Can't-Say-No Parent, the Driver Parent, the Micro-Managing Parent, the Criticizing Parent, and the Absentee Parent. The author offers hope in the way of God to help us guide our children to Him and as a blessing received by Him we need His help to raise them. After reading through the parenting styles, I quickly could see my husband and I and the way we parent. I as the Micro-Managing parent do have a tendency to control situations and others by my presence, the main reason is if I can control it, it will turn out right. I have worked on this part of me for years, so I can attest to what the author says to do, to work on this part of myself.
Michelle Anthony has written an eye opening book on parenting that should NOT be ignored!
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from Litfuse Publicity.
February 25, 2015
The main reason why I chose to review this book is because of the cover, yes, I’ll admit it – the woman in the upper right corner with her two children drew me in. Why? I got this book after my husband passed away and now that I’m a single mom to three children the image of the mom with two children pulled me in, then I read the description and knew I needed to read this book. Most families will not come out and admit they are dysfunctional, because our dysfunction is our normal and so it doesn’t seem strange or weird or not normal, but dysfunction is dysfunction no matter how ‘normal’ it is to us. The book covers six types of dysfunctional parenting: the double-minded parent, the I-can’t-say-no parent, driver parents, micro-managing parent, the criticizing parent and the absentee parent. I haven’t quite figured out which one I am yet, even as I think of life before death hit our home I can’t really nail down which one I am, I see myself as a mixture of several.
Each chapter gives examples of the type of dysfunctional parent, hopefully making it easy to figure out which one you are, then goes into how this affects not only our children but our relationships with them and ultimately, Christ. Filled with Scripture and Biblical thoughts and worldview this book will guide you in how to deal with the dysfunction and deal with it in a Biblical and Christian way. Each chapter ends with a “reflect and respond” section which has a few questions that help you to reflect on what you just read in light of your family and God’s Word to help you evaluate and maybe even change the way you respond to your family’s situation. There are extra resources in the back such as how to write a mission statement for your family and why each family should have one – I have done this one yet. This book doesn’t hold all the answers, none done, but it can help you get started in making your home a more spiritually healthy one and as the author states God has to be in control 100%.
**I was given a copy of this book from Litfuse Publicity in exchange for my honest opinion, no other compensation was given.
Each chapter gives examples of the type of dysfunctional parent, hopefully making it easy to figure out which one you are, then goes into how this affects not only our children but our relationships with them and ultimately, Christ. Filled with Scripture and Biblical thoughts and worldview this book will guide you in how to deal with the dysfunction and deal with it in a Biblical and Christian way. Each chapter ends with a “reflect and respond” section which has a few questions that help you to reflect on what you just read in light of your family and God’s Word to help you evaluate and maybe even change the way you respond to your family’s situation. There are extra resources in the back such as how to write a mission statement for your family and why each family should have one – I have done this one yet. This book doesn’t hold all the answers, none done, but it can help you get started in making your home a more spiritually healthy one and as the author states God has to be in control 100%.
**I was given a copy of this book from Litfuse Publicity in exchange for my honest opinion, no other compensation was given.
February 24, 2015
Michelle Anthony in her new book “Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family” published by David C. Cook gives us Avoiding the 6 Dysfunctional Parenting Styles.
From the back cover: Who’s in charge of your family: You or Jesus?
We all want to guide our children into the abundant life that Jesus offers. But when we pursue the more and better that the world offers above our pursuit of Jesus, we fall into dangerous parenting habits.
In Becoming a Spiritually Formed Family, Michelle Anthony unpacks six common dysfunctional parenting styles that we fall into out of habit, lack of attention, or just oversight due to busyness. If you long to show your children Jesus but don’t know how to do it, you’ll find hope in this practical guide to creating a relentlessly grace-filled home that is focused on God as first in charge.Includes Scripture guides, reflection questions, ideas for family rites of passage, and other real life family examples.
A habit is something that we fall into simply by doing the same action over and over. When it is a bad habit it can help make our family dysfunctional. The good news is that all it takes to break a bad habit is to replace it with new actions that make a good habit that will help make our family functional. Easy? No. Doable? Yes! Ms. Anthony identifies six dysfunctional habits: 1) The Double-Minded Parent, 2) The I-Can’t-Say-No Parent, 3) The Driver Parent, 4) The Micro-Managing Parent, 5) The Criticizing Parent, 6) The Absentee Parent. Each chapter ends with a “Reflect And Respond” where there are reflection questions to help clarify the thoughts of the chapter. As I said bad habits can be changed. Dysfunctional families can be turned around to become highly functional. “Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family” can help immensely. I recommend this book highly.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Litfuse Publicity Group. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
From the back cover: Who’s in charge of your family: You or Jesus?
We all want to guide our children into the abundant life that Jesus offers. But when we pursue the more and better that the world offers above our pursuit of Jesus, we fall into dangerous parenting habits.
In Becoming a Spiritually Formed Family, Michelle Anthony unpacks six common dysfunctional parenting styles that we fall into out of habit, lack of attention, or just oversight due to busyness. If you long to show your children Jesus but don’t know how to do it, you’ll find hope in this practical guide to creating a relentlessly grace-filled home that is focused on God as first in charge.Includes Scripture guides, reflection questions, ideas for family rites of passage, and other real life family examples.
A habit is something that we fall into simply by doing the same action over and over. When it is a bad habit it can help make our family dysfunctional. The good news is that all it takes to break a bad habit is to replace it with new actions that make a good habit that will help make our family functional. Easy? No. Doable? Yes! Ms. Anthony identifies six dysfunctional habits: 1) The Double-Minded Parent, 2) The I-Can’t-Say-No Parent, 3) The Driver Parent, 4) The Micro-Managing Parent, 5) The Criticizing Parent, 6) The Absentee Parent. Each chapter ends with a “Reflect And Respond” where there are reflection questions to help clarify the thoughts of the chapter. As I said bad habits can be changed. Dysfunctional families can be turned around to become highly functional. “Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family” can help immensely. I recommend this book highly.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from Litfuse Publicity Group. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”
February 21, 2015
“Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family” was very eye-opening in many ways as well as very informative. I appreciated Michelle breaking down the 6 parenting styles, but also how she gives hope to parents who might fall in that category. I know there were some places that really convicted me!
One thing that helped me stay in engaged was Michelle’s writing style. I felt like she was having more of a one-on-one conversation with me rather than just presenting information I might not fully comprehend. I also liked how she didn’t present herself as better than anyone, but shared some stories of her own struggles making her easily relatable too.
There were a few places that I did feel she was a little long-winded. It was in these few places that I had to flip back to see what we were talking about again.
However, even with that said this is a great read. I love the encouragement she brings as well as awesome examples to inspire and help be a healthy spiritual family (my favorites were writing a family mission statement and spiritual scrapbooks).
I recommend this novel to parents who desire to have their family as a whole draw closer to God and need encouragement from others' stories, sound advice, and through the Word of God itself.
*(I received this book from the publisher and Litfuse Publicity in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts expressed are my own and I was not required to write a positive review.)*
One thing that helped me stay in engaged was Michelle’s writing style. I felt like she was having more of a one-on-one conversation with me rather than just presenting information I might not fully comprehend. I also liked how she didn’t present herself as better than anyone, but shared some stories of her own struggles making her easily relatable too.
There were a few places that I did feel she was a little long-winded. It was in these few places that I had to flip back to see what we were talking about again.
However, even with that said this is a great read. I love the encouragement she brings as well as awesome examples to inspire and help be a healthy spiritual family (my favorites were writing a family mission statement and spiritual scrapbooks).
I recommend this novel to parents who desire to have their family as a whole draw closer to God and need encouragement from others' stories, sound advice, and through the Word of God itself.
*(I received this book from the publisher and Litfuse Publicity in exchange for an honest review. All thoughts expressed are my own and I was not required to write a positive review.)*
February 23, 2015
Most Christian families want to call themselves “spiritually healthy.”
The only problem is that many of us don’t know what that really looks like in real life.
Michelle Anthony's new book called Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family: Avoiding the 6 Dysfunctional Parenting Styles helped me understand what this really means.
The primary thing I loved about this book was the reminder that there’s a huge difference between a child having good behavior and a child having a relationship with Jesus.
I don’t just want good behavior. I want a heart that loves Jesus.
Some of my favorite quotes from the book were…
“It’s not very easy to live for a kingdom without knowing the king.” (39)
“One of the best ways to be a good parent to our children is to be a faithful son or daughter to our heavenly father (because we can’t give away something we don’t have).” (97)
There were portions of the book that I didn’t think applied to me, but there were also chapters that spoke to me a lot. The quotes above were especially meaningful!
*I received this book for free for review, but all opinions are my own.
The only problem is that many of us don’t know what that really looks like in real life.
Michelle Anthony's new book called Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family: Avoiding the 6 Dysfunctional Parenting Styles helped me understand what this really means.
The primary thing I loved about this book was the reminder that there’s a huge difference between a child having good behavior and a child having a relationship with Jesus.
I don’t just want good behavior. I want a heart that loves Jesus.
Some of my favorite quotes from the book were…
“It’s not very easy to live for a kingdom without knowing the king.” (39)
“One of the best ways to be a good parent to our children is to be a faithful son or daughter to our heavenly father (because we can’t give away something we don’t have).” (97)
There were portions of the book that I didn’t think applied to me, but there were also chapters that spoke to me a lot. The quotes above were especially meaningful!
*I received this book for free for review, but all opinions are my own.
February 15, 2015
This review is for the book "Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family" by Michelle Anthony. In this book, Anthony discusses six dysfunctional parenting styles, which include: being double-minded, not able to say no, the "driver", the micro-manager, the criticizing parent, and the absentee parent. For each of these dysfunctions, Anthony describes scenarios that describe the type of parenting, and then she points the reader toward scripture that balances out the dysfunction. For example, the "I-Can't-Say-No" parent wants to make life easier for their child, and their child will likely get stuck in destructive behaviors. Anthony relates this to God, who certainly will say no to us, not out of anger, but out of love.
Each chapter has discussion questions that go along with the topic, and the end of the book has suggestions on how to write a family mission statement, which is another thing the author talks about in depth.
I enjoyed this book and I highly recommend it.
Thank you to Litfuse Publicity for a copy of the book in exchange for my honest review.
Each chapter has discussion questions that go along with the topic, and the end of the book has suggestions on how to write a family mission statement, which is another thing the author talks about in depth.
I enjoyed this book and I highly recommend it.
Thank you to Litfuse Publicity for a copy of the book in exchange for my honest review.
March 27, 2015
My thoughts on Becoming a Spiritually Healthy Family:
Can I just say this is a convicting book? I mean we all think we’re failing at parenting at times and doing well at others right? Or is that just me? Okay maybe I’m special. This books covers some of the ways that we at parents can become the parent we don’t want to be. And normally we don’t realize we are that parent until we’ve been them for a bit. And then we’re convicted. Using this book as a bit of a guide you can easily realize when you’re falling down the wrong path and rectify the situation to bring the focus back to where you want your family to be and modelling Jesus and his love to your family. Love the questions and Scripture guide.
Great book that will be one that you want to keep on your shelf for the duration of parenthood.
Can I just say this is a convicting book? I mean we all think we’re failing at parenting at times and doing well at others right? Or is that just me? Okay maybe I’m special. This books covers some of the ways that we at parents can become the parent we don’t want to be. And normally we don’t realize we are that parent until we’ve been them for a bit. And then we’re convicted. Using this book as a bit of a guide you can easily realize when you’re falling down the wrong path and rectify the situation to bring the focus back to where you want your family to be and modelling Jesus and his love to your family. Love the questions and Scripture guide.
Great book that will be one that you want to keep on your shelf for the duration of parenthood.
February 24, 2015
This book is packed full of encouragement, wonderful ideas, and gentle reminders that we guide our children and that guiding them doesn't mean that we have to micro-managing,or drive them towards perfection.
I recommend this book to anyone who is a Christian and is a parent of a child(ren) living at home, even if you are thinking of having children. This book gives great advice for coming up your own family mission statement.
There are wonderful tidbits of wisdom throughout the book and I promise you don't want to miss out on them!
*Disclaimer*
I received this book free from the publisher in exchange for my honest review. I am not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are 100% my own.
I recommend this book to anyone who is a Christian and is a parent of a child(ren) living at home, even if you are thinking of having children. This book gives great advice for coming up your own family mission statement.
There are wonderful tidbits of wisdom throughout the book and I promise you don't want to miss out on them!
*Disclaimer*
I received this book free from the publisher in exchange for my honest review. I am not required to write a positive review. All opinions expressed are 100% my own.
February 25, 2015
I think the message of this book is so timely for parents. We want to do what's right and bring our kids to a knowledge of Jesus. But sometimes it gets bogged down with DO THIS, DON'T DO THAT and just MAKE A GOOD CHOICE ALREADY!
Michelle Anthony goes thru 6 dysfunctional types of parenting (which I could see myself in all of 'em) and some of the descriptions/thoughts did get a little long but still, it was so full of Scripture and practical ideas. The last 2 chapters is what really sold me on the book. It was mainly about spiritual formation and creative ways to honor and elevate spiritual milestones.
Definitely worth a read.
{I was given this book for a review. I chose to review it b/c I admire Michelle Anthony. Opinions and words my own.}
Michelle Anthony goes thru 6 dysfunctional types of parenting (which I could see myself in all of 'em) and some of the descriptions/thoughts did get a little long but still, it was so full of Scripture and practical ideas. The last 2 chapters is what really sold me on the book. It was mainly about spiritual formation and creative ways to honor and elevate spiritual milestones.
Definitely worth a read.
{I was given this book for a review. I chose to review it b/c I admire Michelle Anthony. Opinions and words my own.}
February 26, 2015
I read this in exchange for honest review. I wanted to review the book to see what I can learn to apply to my family.
The first part focused on how God is the director of our lives. Whether or not we follow his plan, he is still in control. Chapter two focuses on the six dysfunctional parenting styles.I can be the double minded and i cant say no parent. The book thwn moves into full length discussion on each of the parenting styles.
For example, the double minded parent wants to follow God but struggles with worldy desires. Their lives are filled with anxiety and guilt. Staying in the middle of the road is not completely trusting and following God.
The first part focused on how God is the director of our lives. Whether or not we follow his plan, he is still in control. Chapter two focuses on the six dysfunctional parenting styles.I can be the double minded and i cant say no parent. The book thwn moves into full length discussion on each of the parenting styles.
For example, the double minded parent wants to follow God but struggles with worldy desires. Their lives are filled with anxiety and guilt. Staying in the middle of the road is not completely trusting and following God.
February 1, 2016
Great ideas and questions in this book, just not what I expected. That COULD be a good thing. I was going for a book that I would struggle putting down, and hear lots of personal stories, and suggestions. I found that each chapter title was misleading. I hate being so harsh, but just honest. I love some of the suggestions in here, especially celebrating significant spiritual events, and the family mission statement.
February 16, 2015
Finding strength in the chaos of raising children is sometimes really hard. The book has individual chapters that some parents may relate to more then others, but as a whole this is a great read. The author really puts her spiritual side out and connects with the readers.
I received a complimentary copy of this book
I received a complimentary copy of this book
February 15, 2016
Lots of good thoughts to think about. It's not about being a morally correct family but about being a family that follows Jesus every step of the way. Stumbling at times but getting back up by the grace of God through Christ Jesus.
February 21, 2016
There is some great stuff in this book. I will be referencing it again and again through the years as I try to help our family become spiritually healthy.
December 29, 2014
See review on Youth Worker Journal in months to come.
June 20, 2016
Wish I had this book about 20 years ago......
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March 16, 2019Since I’m not a parent yet I don’t feel I have the right to rate this book, but I really enjoyed it!
It’s full of truth, advice, and ideas that I will definitely look back on when the time comes!
It’s full of truth, advice, and ideas that I will definitely look back on when the time comes!
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