First, a few of my favorite precepts from the book:
"And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don't believe in magic will never find it."
—Roald Dahl, January 2
"You can complain because roses have thorns, or you can be grateful because thorn bushes have roses."
—Ziggy (Tom Wilson), April 16
"You're never a loser until you quit trying."
—Mike Ditka, July 27
"If your ship doesn't come in, swim out to it."
—Jonathan Winters, May 17
"Be yourself, you will not get a second chance to."
—Daniel, Age 12, Munich, Germany, October 14
"Do your little bit of good where you are; it's those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world."
—Desmond Tutu, December 22
"Kind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much."
—Blaise Pascal, March 1
"Turn your wounds into wisdom."
—Oprah Winfrey, November 4
"When we know how to read our own hearts, we acquire wisdom of the hearts of others."
—Denis Diderot, June 18
"How many things are looked upon as quite impossible until they have actually been effected?"
—Pliny the Elder, June 28
"You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore."
—André Gide, August 8
"If you can't change your fate, change your attitude."
—Amy Tan, October 10
"All our dreams can come true—if we have the courage to pursue them."
—Walt Disney, December 11
"You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream."
—C.S. Lewis, December 13
"The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it."
—Michelangelo Buonarroti, June 21
"I've always thought that good teaching is about illumination. Sure, we teach things kids might not know, but a lot of the time, we're just shedding light on the stuff they already know."
—Mr. Browne
For all who loved Wonder, 365 Days of Wonder is an indispensable companion volume, and not just for its hundreds of wise proverbs casting light on every nuance of the human condition. It's a blessing to have access to Mr. Browne's ponderous collection of precepts, precepts that directly impacted the Wonder narrative by causing characters to be more thoughtful of their everyday actions and how they affect others. Auggie and his classmates demonstrated their emotional growth by the end of Wonder in large part through the precepts they sent Mr. Browne as expressions of who they were becoming, and several of those precepts pop up in 365 Days of Wonder amidst other sage advice imparted throughout human history. But the significance of this book extends further to fans of Wonder, filling in minor gaps in the story and providing a second chance at redemptive conclusion for those who declined their happy ending in Wonder. If you felt only burning anger toward Julian until reading his chapter in Auggie & Me: Three Wonder Stories, here's your opportunity to view him in a softer light, as he contacts Mr. Browne by email to earnestly explain his troubling initial reaction to Auggie and try setting things right as best he can. 365 Days of Wonder chronicles email conversations between Mr. Browne and several of his students, and their unique life experiences influence each other to enhance their positive presence in the world. And that's what this book emphasizes most.
"I personally don't buy this notion that all kids go through a 'mean phase.' In fact, I think it's a lot of malarkey! Not to mention a little insulting to kids. When I talk to parents who tell me, as a way of justifying something unkind their child has done, 'What can I do? Kids will be kids,' It's all I can do not to bop them on their heads with a friendship bracelet."
—Mr. Browne
A few more favorite 365 Days of Wonder precepts:
"We carry within us the wonders we seek around us."
—Sir Thomas Browne, January 1
"When it's dark, be the one who turns on the light."
—Joseph, Age 9, Brooklyn, New York, November 29
"I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning how to sail my ship."
—Louisa May Alcott, December 4
"There is no shame in not knowing. The shame lies in not finding out."
—Assyrian Proverb, January 23
"The secret of getting things done is to act!"
—Dante Alighieri, September 6
"Wherever there is a human being there is an opportunity for a kindness."
—Seneca, January 27
"What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness?"
—Jean-Jacques Rousseau, March 23
"You were born an original. don't become a copy."
—Dustin, May 14
"How wonderful is it that nobody need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world."
—Anne Frank, January 12
"Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it's the only thing that ever has."
—Margaret Mead, March 2
"The man who moves a mountain must start by moving small stones."
—Chinese Proverb, March 24
"Very little is needed to make a happy life."
—Marcus Aurelius, August 30
"Even the darkest hour has only sixty minutes."
—Morris Mandel, October 27
"Everything you can imagine is real."
—Pablo Picasso, February 8
"The chief happiness for a man is to be what he is."
—Desiderius Erasmus, May 25
R.J. Palacio doesn't rely solely on the sagacity of adulthood for this book's wisdom; some of the most thoughtful sayings were donated to her by kids as young as nine, all of whom are specifically credited in the Contributors section at the back. After reading to the end of 365 Days of Wonder on December 31, I flipped for a long while between the Contributors section and the precepts sent in by kids, amazed at their insight. Kids across the United States and around the world did their part to create 365 Days of Wonder, and this, perhaps, is the true beauty of the book: that a beloved children's author could collaborate with her young readers in piecing together a work of literary art neither could have made on their own. That inspiration stretches on immeasurably through the dozens of hopeful kids who have now caused their own ripple in the pond of juvenile literature, a ripple expanding outward with no limit to how far it can reach.
"This is why I love using precepts in my classroom. You throw them out there, and you never know what you're getting back, what's going to strike a chord with a kid, or what's going to make them think a little deeper, a little bigger, than if they were just trying to answer a question from a book. It's one of the things I love most about precepts: the sentiments they voice are usually about things that human beings have been grappling with since the dawn of time."
—Mr. Browne
Let's see another fifteen of the book's most meaningful proverbs:
"Always be on the lookout for the presence of wonder."
—E.B. White, August 11
"It's not what happens to you, but how you react that matters."
—Epictetus, February 27
"Start by doing the necessary, then the possible, and suddenly you are doing the impossible."
—St. Francis of Assisi, June 3
"I cannot do all the good that the world needs, but the world needs all the good that I can do."
—Jana Stanfield, August 13
"The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be."
—Ralph Waldo Emerson, June 8
"To succeed in life, you need three things: a wishbone, a backbone and a funny bone."
—Reba McEntire, November 16
"Life is not meant to be easy, my child; but take courage: it can be delightful."
—George Bernard Shaw, August 12
"It's not the load that breaks you down. It's the way you carry it."
—C.S. Lewis, May 8
"Accept what you have and treat it well."
—Brody, Age 10, Forked River, New Jersey, December 15
"Do not go where the path may lead, go instead where there is no path and leave a trail."
—Ralph Waldo Emerson, March 7
"Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle."
—Ian Maclaren, October 23
"Ideals are like stars; you will not succeed in touching them with your hands. But like the seafaring man on the desert of waters, you choose them as your guides, and following them you will reach your destiny."
—Carl Schurz, April 22
"A tree is known by its fruit; a man by his deeds. A good deed is never lost; he who sows courtesy reaps friendship, and he who plants kindness gathers love."
—St. Basil, March 6
"To love another person is to see the face of God."
—Les Misérables, The Musical (Alain Boublil), November 21
"Whether you believe you can or believe you can't, you're absolutely right."
—Henry Ford, June 10
In addition to one precept per day covering an entire year, essays composed by Mr. Browne are inserted at the beginning of each month, drawing on his teaching experience to guide us in learning about ourselves, our friends, and even our enemies. Some of the book's most indispensable concepts come from Mr. Browne's essays, such as his April installment, where he tells of taking his three-year-old son to the pediatrician for a routine checkup. After Mr. Browne confesses that his son is going through a stage of refusing to eat healthy foods in favor of sweets and carbs, the doctor has an illuminating response: "Well, you can't really force him to eat the veggies...but your job is to make sure they're on his plate. He can't eat them if they're not even on his plate." That hit home with Mr. Browne, who compares the daily mandate of presenting his son with nutritious meal options to the responsibility he bears as a fifth-grade teacher. "My students can't learn what I don't teach them. Kindness. Empathy. Compassion. It's not part of the curriculum, I know, but I still have to keep dishing it onto their plates every day. Maybe they'll eat it; maybe they won't. Either way, my job is to keep on serving it to them. Hopefully, a little mouthful of kindness today may make them hungry for a bigger taste of it tomorrow." The effectiveness of any lesson is contingent upon the listener's willingness to receive it; as much as we might wish wisdom could be transferred without a receptive attitude, it takes a ready heart to accept the good our words and deeds can do for our students in any arena of life. But as long as we keep offering those lessons even when it appears they fall on deaf ears, it isn't so important that they be assimilated today. Someday they may be, when the student is ready.
"(P)laying nice is something that doesn't end when you start middle school. It's something you need to remember every day as you walk through the school hallways on your way to becoming adults."
—Mr. Browne
Here's another set of the most substantive maxims in 365 Days of Wonder:
"Be the person who can smile on the worst day."
—Cate, Age 10, Nashville, Tennessee, March 18
"We make our world significant by the courage of our questions and the depth of our answers."
—Carl Sagan, October 21
"You miss 100 percent of the shots you don't take."
—Wayne Gretzky, July 21
"Ignorance is not saying, I don't know. Ignorance is saying, I don't want to know."
—Unknown, June 2
"If you want to go quickly, go alone. If you want to go far, go together."
—African proverb, August 21
"Great works are performed not by strength but by perseverance."
—Samuel Johnson, July 4
"The sage has one advantage: He is immortal. If this is not his century, many others will be."
—Baltasar Gracián, August 16
"We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us."
—E.M. Forster, July 31
"Your actions are all you can own."
—Flynn, Age 10, Bowdoinham, Maine, May 27
"Let us be grateful to people who make us happy. They are the charming gardeners who make our souls blossom."
—Marcel Proust, November 24
"Find things that shine and move toward them."
—Mia Farrow, May 15
"To the world, you are one person. But to one person, you may be the WORLD!"
—Unknown, July 12
"A bit of fragrance clings to the hand that gives flowers."
—Chinese Proverb, June 5
"The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams."
—Eleanor Roosevelt, January 30
"I agree, sometimes it's good to start over. A fresh start gives us the chance to reflect on the past, weigh the things we've done, and apply what we've learned from those things to the way we move forward. If we don't examine the past, we don't learn from it."
—Mr. Browne
I've read other quote-a-day books, but 365 Days of Wonder is easily the best, a textbook example of how to write something that's going to take readers a year to finish. The daily interaction has to be pithy, or we'll bore of it. The precepts must be philosophically sound, or the book won't do any good. The everyday pattern has to be deviated from now and then, or the read becomes tedious. R.J. Palacio succeeds in all of that while infusing the story with the same affectionate warmth as Wonder, the unmistakable awareness that she loves and wishes the best for each of us as we venture into the world and begin seeing what it's all about for ourselves. R.J. Palacio can't transplant her wisdom into our brains, but through her writing she can give us all we need to flourish in life. Thank you for the privilege of knowing Auggie, Jack Will, and all the other kids at their school, Ms. Palacio. You've bettered us in ways we can't yet express. We're ready to become the wonders we seek around us.
"Just goes to show, everyone really does have a story to tell. And most people, at least in my experience, are a little more noble than they think they are."
—Mr. Browne
"The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why."
—Mark Twain, January 7
"What makes night within us may leave stars."
—Victor Hugo, October 16
"However long the night...the dawn will break."
—African proverb, January 13
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, 'I will try again tomorrow.'"
—Mary Anne Radmacher, August 6
"Keep a green tree in your heart and a singing bird may come."
—Chinese Proverb, February 24
"If you ever feel lost, let your heart be your compass."
—Emily, Age 11, Port Jefferson Station, New York, February 7
"Hope is like the Sun. When it's behind the clouds, it's not gone. You just have to find it!"
—Matthew, Age 11, Lanoka Harbor, New Jersey, March 21
"The supreme happiness of life is the conviction that we are loved."
—Victor Hugo, February 3
"Is it so small a thing
To have enjoyed the sun,
To have lived light in the spring,
To have loved, to have thought, to have done;
To have advanced true friends, and beat down baffling foes?"
—Matthew Arnold, May 30
"Good friends are like stars. You don't always see them, but you always know they're there."
—Unknown, November 7
"What is a friend? A single soul dwelling in two bodies."
—Aristotle, September 17
"Don't choose the one who is beautiful to the world. But rather, choose the one who makes your world beautiful."
—Harry Styles, October 19
"You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think."
—Christopher Robin (A.A. Milne), January 19
"Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened."
—Dr. Seuss, October 5
"I've learned that life is like a book. Sometimes we must close a chapter and begin the next one."
—Hanz, Age 13, Regina, Saskatchewan, Canada, December 8