So, To Honor Him

The Carols of Christmas #6

by Alice Monday

Set during the American Civil War, Elizabeth Parks renounces her faith in God in the wake of her husband's sudden death by yellow fever. Feeling lonely and trapped, she throws herself into the nursing of wounded soldiers following the First Battle of Bull Run on July 21, 1861, and hopes she will find some comfort in helping others. When a gravely injured, drummer boy soldier named Samuel Gordon arrives at Charlottesville General Hospital, Elizabeth finds purpose in nursing the child back to health so that he can make it home for Christmas.

With Samuel’s Christmas wish driving her forward, Elizabeth leaves her home in Virginia to accompany Samuel back to his father’s home in Maryland where he hopes to play his drum for his father, Thomas. Along the way, war and loss continues to threaten them at every turn, but Elizabeth also catches a glimmer of hope against such suffering as Samuel relays Bible stories, including the story of Jesus’s birth, to Elizabeth. When they finally reach Samuel’s father Thomas, Elizabeth’s heart begins to heal. As she helps care for Samuel and spends time with Thomas, Elizabeth questions whether she should remain in mourning or open her heart to new love and embrace the peace that only comes through trusting in His plan.

Inspired by the song, “The Little Drummer Boy,” So, To Honor Him releases on October 27, 2025. It is part of The Carols of Christmas, a multi-author series, though it can be read as a standalone novella.

Genres: Christmas, Historical Fiction

230 pages, Kindle Edition

Published October 27, 2025

About the author

Jewel Parker is a history instructor who chose Alice Monday as a pen name to honor her great-grandmother and to separate her fiction from her academic publications. Overtime, Jewel realized that her pen name was important for another reason--the glory of writing and publishing was not for herself, but for God.

Jewel holds a PhD in History from the University of North Carolina at Greensboro and a GO Certificate in Biblical Studies and Theology from Southeastern Baptist Theological Seminary. She incorporates both history and theology in her fictional works.

Reviews

[Mikayla Robbins · Rating 5 out of 5]

So, To Honor Him is a tale of one woman’s bravery in the midst of war and how one little boy changed her life for good. It’s a beautiful redemption story that not only centers around romance and history, but God’s unfailing love and devotion. I highly recommend this life-changing tale crafted by Alice Monday.

[Courtney Ranger · Rating 5 out of 5]

Such a beautiful story of faith and courage! I loved how Alice wove elements from The Little Drummer Boy into this story! This book was also so well-researched!

If you are looking for a sweet, inspiring Christmas read, you should ABSOLUTELY read this book!!!

[Sara · Rating 3 out of 5]

Well-researched, and with the cutest romance! 🥰 I also loved how the title tied in with the story in more ways than one. Would definitely read more from this author! 💕💕💕

(Thank you so much to the author for the arc! 🤗 I was not required to leave a positive review. 🫶🏼)

[Natalie · Rating 4 out of 5]

This was a really nice Christian historical novella. It didn’t really become Christmassy until the last couple of chapters (the bulk of the book is actually set during the summer) but I did like all the nods to the Little Drummer Boy Christmas carol. This novella did the best job of the series with integrating the song into the story, and how the author did it was very clever.

There were some grammatical and word choice errors (the worst one I saw was the word “pension” was used but I think the author meant “penchant”) but I tried not to let that affect me as this is a series of indies.

The weakest part of this story for me was the romance. First off, he’s not even introduced as a character (though he is talked about) until somewhere around the 70 percent mark. Therefore, cue the instalove. I feel like she barely knew him and they were making declarations of love. Even worse, she gave up her chance to go to medical school to say with him, even though she barely knew him!

While I did really enjoy this one, I definitely cared more about the female friendships of the story.

[Ellie Hollows · Rating 4 out of 5]

Alice Monday is an incredible writer.

So, to tell you the truth, it did take me a little while to get invested, but when Keziah and Christo eloped from then on, I was hooked. And poor Christo 💔😭.

I love the strong salvation message that was presented. It was just perfect, never at all preachy. The author certainly has a gift. It is so true that often a little child shall lead them ❤️, but it also inspires me to be bolder in my faith like Thomas as well.

Also, the incredible research that must have gone into this book is another thing to applaud. I really appreciated that she went into detail in the notes, too, so we know what is completely accurate and what is fictitious. Really, I really appreciate that.

My favorite scene is Samuel with his drum at the Christmas play. Tears were welling up in my eyes, it was so beautiful 🥹❤️.

CW: Attempted assault (They were prevented before anything happened), stabbing, shooting, death, racism (always portrayed in a negative light), noses nuzzling

My Rating/ Age Recommendation:
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (4 out of 5 Stars)/
So the only reason I am not recommending this book personally is because I shy away from s-assaults (especially when it's more like you definitely know what's happening instead of just knowing someone has just ill-intentions). Yes, nothing happened, and I appreciate very much the content warnings from the author (even if it didn't mention an assault,), but it's something I'm uncomfortable with, and therefore why I can't fully recommend it.

It was a very lovely book, though, and if the other doesn't bother you, then definitely go ahead and read because it's an amazing story you won't want to miss. I am very interested in what this author writes next.

I received a complimentary ARC, but all opinions expressed are my own.

[Rhonda Cooper · Rating 5 out of 5]

I fell in love with the writing of a new author. To read this story was a showcase of gifted writing. She covered hard topics associated with the Civil War with truth and gentleness. One of so many favorites: in reference to the death of her physician husband, “..she was a specter still clinging to a life that was lost overnight.” Her character development and her phrases created beautiful and gut wrenching moments. More please.

[Madisyn Carlin]

There was so much history packed into this book. Thoroughly enjoyed learning about some of the historical characters and what inspired So, To Honor Him.

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[DevotedToHope · Rating 5 out of 5]

This is a story of loss and grief set against the backdrop of the Civil War, where faith must be rediscovered and hope must be carried through the darkest seasons. That struggle takes shape most clearly through Elizabeth Parks, whose pain is real and raw.

In the wake of her husband’s death, she feels lost and angry with the God who once anchored her heart. Her loneliness, her questions, and her struggle to make sense of her suffering are all so honestly portrayed. I was deeply moved by her desire to honor her husband, even as she wrestles with a faith that feels more distant than ever: “She was here now, not because she believed the same way that Nathaniel did, but because she needed to do something. Anything to honor him, to understand him, and to feel closer to the man she loved even if sometimes, she had felt left behind by the God who claimed his heart.”

The real turning point in this story comes through young Samuel, the drummer boy. The author weaves Samuel’s hope and childlike faith into the heart of the narrative. His Christmas wish: to make it home, to play his drum for his father sets Elizabeth on a journey far beyond the battlefield.

Alongside Samuel, Elizabeth encounters Oriana, whose words are full of wisdom and quiet strength: “… but history comes to life, just like the Bible is the living Word … Whenever you read the Bible, no matter where you are or what you are doing in life, there’s a message in there for you. It doesn’t matter that it was written long ago in a place a world away … God’s word last forever. Even if an evil soul burned all the Bibles on this earth, God’s Word would live because people have kept it in their hearts. Now, I cannot stop reading it.”

Oriana also inspired Elizabeth when she shared more of her heart with her: “I try to be more like Jesus every day.”

This story doesn’t tie up suffering with a neat bow or offer shallow answers. Instead, it shows how grief and doubt can open a door to deeper trust: “I do not have all the answers. We do not receive warnings from God about the issues we will face, particularly diagnoses and illnesses. We do not understand the reasons why they happen, but we also are not meant to know everything. The Bible says that we should not lean on our own understanding. We are human and fallible, but I also know that we do not have to go through life’s trials without Jesus. We must trust that we can lean on Jesus through the hard times. The roughness of life teaches us to trust in Him.”

By the end, as Elizabeth brings Samuel to his father and finds her own heart beginning to heal, there is genuine comfort and a sense of Christmas hope that only Jesus Christ can bring. The faith content in this story is bold, beautiful, and cherished!

I loved the characters, the historical depth, and the way every thread pointed to the love of God … strong enough for every season of loss and longing. Highly recommended for anyone who longs for stories that wrestle honestly with pain and end with hope, all while speaking the truth about our Creator and Sovereign King, and our walk with Him.

I received a digital ARC of this book from the author via BookSirens. I am not required to write a positive review in any way or for any reason. My honest and unbiased opinions expressed in this book review are my own. My review focuses on the writing style, the pacing, and the story’s content, ensuring transparency and reliability.

[Natasha · Rating 5 out of 5]

Not easy but very deep and fulfilling, Gospel-centered and beautiful .

From the first pages you know it’s gonna grip you and as you continue to read you feel deeply invested in the story of Elizabeth and her journey of faith in the midst of hardships and sufferings. There are truly difficult realities of 1860s America portrayed effecting Elizabeth and her decisions but it is also an incredible story of turning from anger to love, from despair to comfort, and from worries to peace.

Another amazing, quite a fun “Easter egg,” was a reference to Lottie Moon, one of the most amazing women-missionaries out there and personal favorite. So it was definitely sweet to read about bravery Elizabeth showed with glimpse of true-life courage.

This is my first foray into the author’s work but I found it interesting, inspirational, and deep.

Possible triggers from the author herself: “The story that follows is one of second-chance romance and Christmas tidings of great joy. There will be a happy ending! However, it is also set during the American Civil War, a violent time in the history of the United States. Thus, this warning serves to protect readers who may be negatively affected by the following plot points and themes: death, violence, and racism. Reader discretion is advised.”

I had a privilege to read an advanced copy and absolutely loved it! All opinions expressed are my own.

[Loretta F. Miller · Rating 4 out of 5]

An absolutely wonderful story of redemption, trust, faith and perseverance! Set in a time of great controversy, Alice Monday weaves a tale that is properly steeped in facts and realistic in the fictitious parts. The message of salvation is clear, but not preachy. The title has multiple meanings or applications throughout and the story ends with an unexpected high note. Very well done!

[Patti Whitaker · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wow! This is an amazing story of loss, faith, and love. This book is set during the Civil War and allows the reader to experience the war as well as gain knowledge of the often overlooked early medical practices. Elizabeth loses her husband, a doctor, who put his patients before his own health and she blames God. She can't understand how God could allow her husband to die, the practice of slavery, and the atrocities of War to exist. Her mother in law comes to stay with her and before they can leave the Civil War breaks out and they are stuck helping at a Confederate Hospital. Elizabeth agrees to help a 12 year old boy, who is injured during one of the battles, back to his father in Maryland. Samuel should be turned over as a prisoner of war but Elizabeth is afraid he will die in prison. Elizabeth delivers Samuel to his father Thomas but is delayed in leaving . During their journey to his home Samuel has shared his faith with Elizabeth and they have read the Bible together each day. Thomas also helps Elizabeth see that while God is a loving God he does not promise that there will be no problems or heartaches. This story of Elizabeth's physical and spiritual journeys is not to be missed.

I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.

[Ifeanyi Omoike · Rating 3 out of 5]

This was a deeply touching read. It carried the weight of death and pain, yet it also glowed with hope and the promise of new beginnings. The opening especially moved me—Elizabeth’s loss of her husband, Nathaniel, was written with such vivid emotion that I could almost feel her grief. It was tender, heartfelt, and beautifully conveyed.

Overall, To Honor Him is a quiet, emotional story about love, loss, and healing that reminds you how fragile—and how precious—life can be.

I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.

[Renée Knight · Rating 4 out of 5]

Great historical take on a beloved carol

I'm glad I read this book. Set in the Civil War era, a dark time in American history, the main character, Elizabeth, struggles to have faith in a God who would allow the injustices and heartbreak she's lived through. While doing her best to honor her deceased husband's memory, Elizabeth's life is touched gently by hope through her dear mother-in-law, her friends, and a young drummer boy she wants to get to safety.

Full of faith, Scripture, and a happy ending!

[Ellen · Rating 5 out of 5]

So, To Honor Him by Alice Monday is a well-written clean historical Civil War romance based on Christian principles. A very moving story about surviving, adapting, love, freedom, and hope. The book has wonderful characters that you get to know well. A heartwarming faith-building story that I read in one breath. I had never read anything by Alice before and am pleasantly surprised.

[Kara · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is the first book from this author that I have read. The storyline was well written out. There were some sad times but the joy comes in the morning, or so when the spiritual healing comes. Good characters, inspirational moments throughout and HEA. This is during the American Civil War, which is part of history, even if the story is fiction. It did pull you in and kept you guessing to what may come next. I was given an ARC copy and this is my honest review.

[Lilian · Rating 3 out of 5]

It’s my first time reading this author and overall it was a good read. I expected the romance to feature more strongly in this book but it only comes into play in the third and final act. For most of the novella, we see Elizabeth surviving her husband’s death and embarking on a meaningful journey to help people impacted by the war.

[Kat Crowder]

I’m impressed with this book. The emotions you can feel from the FMC, Elizabeth, are strong. Her struggles with God and all that happens is heart wrenching! The author takes you on a journey of discovery with Elizabeth that helps her heal.

This book is told from the POV from the FMC. It has some difficult themes from a difficult time in history. The author does a very good job portraying how difficult life was then but she also shows how resilient and amazing people were in the 1850’s. I definitely recommend this book!

[Louise Jane · Rating 5 out of 5]

Alice Monday's "So, To Honor Him" left me utterly astounded by her remarkable talent as a storyteller. I found myself completely immersed in the narrative, unable to put the book down until I had turned the final page. The emotional journey was a rollercoaster of highs and lows, accompanied by many tears, but also rich with lovely heartwarming instances too, making it a reading experience that felt deeply personal. The prose is so beautifully crafted that it allows readers to truly live the story alongside the characters, making it one of the most compelling historical fictions I have ever encountered.

Set against the backdrop of the American Civil War, the novel masterfully transports readers to a time fraught with turmoil and hardship. Monday does an exceptional job of highlighting the stark realities of that era, intricately crafting a detailed historical backdrop that serves as the perfect setting for a faith-filled romance. The intricate plot is a testament to her skill, with numerous intertwining storylines that are thoughtfully constructed, ensuring a captivating read that keeps you engaged from start to finish. Each twist and turn adds depth to the narrative, making it a truly unforgettable experience.

Powerful themes of faith and resilience permeate the book, conveying a central message that, despite our struggles with belief during tough times (much like the protagonist Elizabeth) we must learn to have faith in God's plan. It reminds us that even when we face hardships and suffering that we cannot comprehend, He orchestrates everything for our ultimate good. This poignant message struck a chord with me, especially as I reflected on my own journey of rediscovering faith after losing my way during my teenage years.

Altogether, I cannot recommend this book highly enough; it has left a lasting impact on my heart. "So, To Honor Him" is not only a perfect cozy Christmas read, but it also beautifully encapsulates the true meaning of the season, celebrating Jesus as our Savior.

[Meagan Myhren-Bennett · Rating 4 out of 5]

So, To Honor Him
The Carols of Christmas
By Alice Monday

Elizabeth Parks finds her shaky faith tested when her husband dies from yellow fever. Before he is even buried Elizabeth finds that she must determine where her future lies. Does she stay in the South with its ties to slavery or does she move North where slavery is not allowed. But when war divides the nation, she finds herself on the wrong of the conflict.

But she is where God needs her to be when a young drummer boy is injured during the fighting. Samuel needs nursing and Elizabeth is willing to provide it and help him return to his home in the North. Helping Samuel is the first step in the healing she needs, but it also allows her to reconnect with the God she blames for her loss. Could God have an even better future for her than she expected? Elizabeth is about to discover the future she never expected and with it a second chance at love.

Discover the abiding love of God in this Historical Christmas Romance that will take you from sorrow to joy in this moving story.

I was provided a complimentary copy of this book with no expectations. All thoughts expressed are my own.

[Lia Lorimer · Rating 4 out of 5]

Faith found through a brave young drummer
Set during the American Civil War, this book describes the courageous women who served in medical areas amid the challenges of exploitation, slavery and the disparagement from men who belittled their skills and intelligence. Although the author has fictionalised her story, the Charlottesville aspect is based on real people and recorded events.
Elizabeth, Luella, Keziah, and Oriana are portrayed as realistic individuals whose interactions draw them into strong, meaningful friendships, while Elizabeth’s journey to authentic Christianity, led by the simple faith demonstrated by Samuel and his father, is a testament to Ms Monday’s own spirituality.
I received a review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.

[Steph · Rating 5 out of 5]

I enjoyed reading this book by Alice Monday as it's a really captivating book about redemption, faith, and about a widow's love that she struggles with trusting God's plan for her own healing and finding peace during the 1800s. Although, this book does have some hardships that deal with the time era of the Civil War time, it's still worth the read. It's hard to find fascinating books that are well written and this one just so happens to be one of those stories that you don't want to end as you keep wanting more.

*Thanks to this author for allowing me to read her book in exchange for my honest opinion/review. All thoughts expressed here are my own.

[Maria Baker · Rating 5 out of 5]

So, To Honor Him is a heartfelt and faith-filled Civil War novella that captures both the heartbreak and hope of a world torn by loss. Alice Monday blends historical realism with tender spiritual reflection, crafting a story that moves gently from grief to grace. Elizabeth’s journey from despair to renewed faith feels deeply human, and young Samuel’s unwavering belief brings both light and purpose to the narrative. The writing flows beautifully, evoking the era with care and emotion, and the inspiration from The Little Drummer Boy adds a touching seasonal resonance. A moving, redemptive read for fans of Christian historical fiction.

[Ami Jacobs · Rating 4 out of 5]

I received an ARC copy and this is my review. This was a clean Christian historical romance that was placed during part of the American civil war. The storyline was simplistic, but it still gave a good idea of how women and people of color were treated (especially in the south) during that time, and even though there could have been a bit more introspection and less preaching in the book, I did enjoy the romance, the way the women stood up for themselves, and the character growth for the main character!

[Lj · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a story of resiliance in hard times and a woman's journey through grief and war to find redemtion and eventually a new love. There is lots of bitterness and sadness but shows that even difficult paths can lead to wonderful places if you persevere.

I received an ARC and leave and voluntarily leave an honest review.

[Katja Labonté · Rating 3 out of 5]

3.5 stars (3/10 hearts). This was my first read by Alice Monday/Jewel Parker, and it was really not what I expected! My favourite part was discovering how many historical figures were woven into the book, which the author's note explained well. Elizabeth's letter is such a small part of the story, but now I have to see if I can find a picture of the real Elizabeth's letter. And Dr. Oriana was someone I'd never heard of before, so I appreciated learning about her. I struggled with the writing style and editing fairly frequently, but I liked the characters and the theme is both good and timely.

Content: mention of r*pe; attempted as*ault (very brief; nothing happens); mild violence; heavy focus on racism & misogyny.

*I received a complimentary copy of this book for promotional purposes. I was not required to write a positive review. These are my honest thoughts and opinions.*