This volume, full of wisdom, was published in 1915.
From the Preface:
There was published some years ago an English book by a ''Graduate of the University of Matrimony", bearing the alarmingly suggestive title ''How to be Happy Though Married", a headliner not original with the author. An old English preacher named Skelton, first used it as a title for a sermon. The startling theme inculcates the important and frequently forgotten truth that domestic happiness does not come as a matter of course, but like everything else worth having, has to be worked for.
The passages published in this booklet are picked at random from the author's lecture on the subject and are intended to advertise that lecture, which in its entirety would make quite a book.
Lecture committees will find this sub- ject one which will attract attention, and the complete lecture as given before pop- ular audiences furnishes refined entertain- ment, while doing a vast amount of good. .........................................................................................
Book Excerpts:
There are three times as many divorces in the United States, with one hundred millions of people, as there are in all Eu- rope with more than four hundred mil- lions. Does this mean that there is less matrimonial felicity among us than in Europe ?
The average European woman thinks that man may impose upon her by divine right. In many parts of Europe women are nothing more than beasts of burden, and are ruled in the spirit of the dark ages. Denied education, and completely subordinated to her husband, woman lives in fear of and in subjection to her lord and master.
Our advancing civilization has en- larged woman's ideas, and with a better comprehension of her nature and rights, the average American woman would rather make her own way in the world than live a lie with a man for support. .........................................................................................
Some Book Quotes:
" If you take a husband just for the sake of having one, you may find him a morti- fying trophy and an inconvenient piece of property."
" The Bible never said that it was not good for woman to be alone, because Grod knew many women would be better off alone."
" He who marries for beauty alone is as silly as the man who bought a house be- cause he liked the flowers in the front yard."
" A beautiful woman pleases the eye, a good woman wins the heart; the one is a jewel, the other a treasure."
" Many a failure would have been avoid- ed if men had consulted with their wives."
" The word wife means weaver and wives either weave men's fortunes, or, like moths, simply feed upon them. "