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Julia Song Is Undateable
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“Spectacular! Full of Susan Lee’s trademark humor and vulnerability, but with swoonworthy spice!"
—Ali Hazelwood, New York Times bestselling author of Problematic Summer Romance
“Introspective, funny, relatable, sexy—it’s an absolutely perfect romance.”
—Christina Lauren, New York Times bestselling author of The Unhoneymooners
CEO seeks dating coach
Julia Song, CEO of Starlight Cosmetics, is at the height of her career. Then why does she feel like such a failure? Maybe because she’s thirty and single, with a terrible track record at dating. And in the eyes of her Korean family, that is just unacceptable. It never really bothered her—that is until her beloved grandmother drops the bomb that she is sick and her dying wish is for Julia to get married. Impossible. So in a moment of weakness, Julia asks her family for help. Set her up on three dates to help her find The One. But it will never work—Julia is undateable. If only there was a coach for that…
Tae Kim knows about the weight of familial expectation. He’s currently unemployed, living in his parents’ basement to care for his ill father. Sure, he’s become somewhat of a fix-it man for the Korean community around town, but that’s not a real job. And the pressure to get his life together is getting to be too much. So when the Julia Song—his childhood crush—asks for his help, it may be just the distraction he needs. He’ll do whatever it takes, even coach her for these three dates. Problem is, the more time they spend together and the closer they get, the more Tae wonders if anyone is good enough for Julia…including him.
“Spectacular! Full of Susan Lee’s trademark humor and vulnerability, but with swoonworthy spice!"
—Ali Hazelwood, New York Times bestselling author of Problematic Summer Romance
“Introspective, funny, relatable, sexy—it’s an absolutely perfect romance.”
—Christina Lauren, New York Times bestselling author of The Unhoneymooners
CEO seeks dating coach
Julia Song, CEO of Starlight Cosmetics, is at the height of her career. Then why does she feel like such a failure? Maybe because she’s thirty and single, with a terrible track record at dating. And in the eyes of her Korean family, that is just unacceptable. It never really bothered her—that is until her beloved grandmother drops the bomb that she is sick and her dying wish is for Julia to get married. Impossible. So in a moment of weakness, Julia asks her family for help. Set her up on three dates to help her find The One. But it will never work—Julia is undateable. If only there was a coach for that…
Tae Kim knows about the weight of familial expectation. He’s currently unemployed, living in his parents’ basement to care for his ill father. Sure, he’s become somewhat of a fix-it man for the Korean community around town, but that’s not a real job. And the pressure to get his life together is getting to be too much. So when the Julia Song—his childhood crush—asks for his help, it may be just the distraction he needs. He’ll do whatever it takes, even coach her for these three dates. Problem is, the more time they spend together and the closer they get, the more Tae wonders if anyone is good enough for Julia…including him.
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First published October 28, 2025
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Susan Lee
5 books1,317 followersSusan Lee is the author of the critically acclaimed and reader favorite young adult romantic comedies SEOULMATES and THE NAME DROP. Her work has been featured in national outlets such as Buzzfeed, NPR, and Pop Sugar. Kirkus Reviews calls Susan’s voice “honest, fresh and thoughtful”. A graduate of UC San Diego, Susan built a career as an HR executive at some of today’s hottest companies, until she realized that writing stories was a more impactful and powerful form of change. Now she channels her energy into writing Happily Ever Afters for those historically underrepresented in Romance. When she is not writing (or painfully procrastinating from writing), Susan can be found down the rabbit holes of her many obsessions including listening to Kpop, binge watching K-dramas, collecting sneakers, building mechanical keyboards, and obsessing over her two adorable, but ill-behaved chihuahuas.
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November 3, 2025
Tae Kim, the man you are 😭😭😭
October 25, 2025
✨🩷“Instead of worrying if I'm too much for someone, I make sure of it that I am. Before I see it in his eyes that he is intimidated by my success, I bury him with it instead.”🩷✨
⤿💌 27/10/25
➸ 3.75 stars |~spoiler-free review💫~| pub date: 28/10/25
OKAY WOW, THAT WAS MY SECOND MS.LEE BOOK IN A YEAR?! And that too this is her first adult debut, which was not bad? Susan Lee is on a roll this year, hehe 🤭🫶🏻 I honestly had a good time reading this one, after months of not going near the romance genre 🙂↕️ While this book is categorised as romcom, it did came with a baggage of troubles & traumas (asian fam). It was still pretty enjoyable, not as quite as the other book I read this year though 🙌🏻 I can't wait to read her other works and the upcoming ones Susan Lee has in store, because she has made the kdrama fangirl in me fall in love with her writing!!😍
read this if you like 💌:
💘 childhood friends-to-lovers
💘 k-beauty ceo x dating coach
💘 reverse age gap romance (5 yrs)
💘 slow-burn
💘 cinnamon roll mmc
💘 meddling families
💘 trio besties group
💘 he falls first
💘 kdrama vibes
💘 depression rep.
Now coming back to the book itself, the FMC, Julia Song is actually quite a badass boss girl frr 💅🏻 The only problem is she doesn't have a love life being at 30, and she thinks she's the problem. And that's where our MMC, Tae Kim enters. When I first read about the him—he actually reminded me of the MMC from Hometown Cha-Cha-Cha (only my kdrama girlies will know), as he was going around the neighbourhood, helping everyone who needs help and being labelled as "the guy who is good at anything". So when Julia has finds herself in a tough spot because of her family, Tae comes in like a superhero and suggests her that he will be her dating coach for the three dates her family will set her up on. The other only problem is, Tae has this huge crush on her since childhood even if she treats him like a little brother. I actually like how both of them came to a realisation at a point that they can be undateables to others, but not to eachother.
It wasn't a 4 star read like I was hoping it to be, unfortunately 😔 Everything was going well till 70% or so, but after that there was that drama towards the end😬 I was honestly not expecting for the plot to take that drastic turn. But overall, this book was decently good for a debut imo!!
Thank you to the Author, Harlequin Trade Publishing, HarperCollins, and Netgalley for providing this gorgeous arc in exchange for an honest review!!🫶🏻
ˏˋ°•*⁀➷・❥・𝓹𝓻𝓮𝓿𝓲𝓮𝔀・❥・ˏˋ°•*⁀➷
⤿💌 25/10/25
Ahhh the classic dying wish of an asian grandma to see her granddaughter, who has no love-life at all, to get married before she dies???😬 As a fellow asian, I feel like I signed up for a trauma-induced trip, let's gooo 🙂↔️
p.s. it's officially moving week, so I will be on a mini-break atm. miss you besties, I hope you all enjoy whatever book you are reading! will be back soon after settling in, xx 🤗🩷
⤿💌 27/10/25
➸ 3.75 stars |~spoiler-free review💫~| pub date: 28/10/25
OKAY WOW, THAT WAS MY SECOND MS.LEE BOOK IN A YEAR?! And that too this is her first adult debut, which was not bad? Susan Lee is on a roll this year, hehe 🤭🫶🏻 I honestly had a good time reading this one, after months of not going near the romance genre 🙂↕️ While this book is categorised as romcom, it did came with a baggage of troubles & traumas (asian fam). It was still pretty enjoyable, not as quite as the other book I read this year though 🙌🏻 I can't wait to read her other works and the upcoming ones Susan Lee has in store, because she has made the kdrama fangirl in me fall in love with her writing!!😍
read this if you like 💌:
💘 childhood friends-to-lovers
💘 k-beauty ceo x dating coach
💘 reverse age gap romance (5 yrs)
💘 slow-burn
💘 cinnamon roll mmc
💘 meddling families
💘 trio besties group
💘 he falls first
💘 kdrama vibes
💘 depression rep.
Now coming back to the book itself, the FMC, Julia Song is actually quite a badass boss girl frr 💅🏻 The only problem is she doesn't have a love life being at 30, and she thinks she's the problem. And that's where our MMC, Tae Kim enters. When I first read about the him—he actually reminded me of the MMC from Hometown Cha-Cha-Cha (only my kdrama girlies will know), as he was going around the neighbourhood, helping everyone who needs help and being labelled as "the guy who is good at anything". So when Julia has finds herself in a tough spot because of her family, Tae comes in like a superhero and suggests her that he will be her dating coach for the three dates her family will set her up on. The other only problem is, Tae has this huge crush on her since childhood even if she treats him like a little brother. I actually like how both of them came to a realisation at a point that they can be undateables to others, but not to eachother.
It wasn't a 4 star read like I was hoping it to be, unfortunately 😔 Everything was going well till 70% or so, but after that there was that drama towards the end😬 I was honestly not expecting for the plot to take that drastic turn. But overall, this book was decently good for a debut imo!!
Thank you to the Author, Harlequin Trade Publishing, HarperCollins, and Netgalley for providing this gorgeous arc in exchange for an honest review!!🫶🏻
ˏˋ°•*⁀➷・❥・𝓹𝓻𝓮𝓿𝓲𝓮𝔀・❥・ˏˋ°•*⁀➷
⤿💌 25/10/25
Ahhh the classic dying wish of an asian grandma to see her granddaughter, who has no love-life at all, to get married before she dies???😬 As a fellow asian, I feel like I signed up for a trauma-induced trip, let's gooo 🙂↔️
p.s. it's officially moving week, so I will be on a mini-break atm. miss you besties, I hope you all enjoy whatever book you are reading! will be back soon after settling in, xx 🤗🩷
January 16, 2026
3.5 stars
Julia Song is a successful young woman who has everything in her life except a husband, much to her families concern. Julia decides to let her family set her up with potential matches, but she needs some help along the way with the actual dates themselves. In comes her neighbor Tae, an unemployed fix-it man with a heart of gold.
Susan Lee is a good writer, and from a writing standpoints she hits all the correct storytelling beats with this book. But as a reader and a non-writer, they shouldn't stand out so obviously as they do in this book. It needed some smoothing along more than a plug in info here feeling. I thought the characters were great and there were some really important points that the author hit in the book. I just wish we had more showing instead of telling, and a bit more of a compelling story.
Julia Song is a successful young woman who has everything in her life except a husband, much to her families concern. Julia decides to let her family set her up with potential matches, but she needs some help along the way with the actual dates themselves. In comes her neighbor Tae, an unemployed fix-it man with a heart of gold.
Susan Lee is a good writer, and from a writing standpoints she hits all the correct storytelling beats with this book. But as a reader and a non-writer, they shouldn't stand out so obviously as they do in this book. It needed some smoothing along more than a plug in info here feeling. I thought the characters were great and there were some really important points that the author hit in the book. I just wish we had more showing instead of telling, and a bit more of a compelling story.
October 21, 2025
AHHH i adored this book SO much. i started it earlier today and just could not put it down to save my life!! i absolutely adore k dramas and i am a sucker for the “my nosy family wont leave me alone about dating so theyre setting me up!” trope lol so i already knew going into this one i was going to be obsessed but somehow i had way more fun than i already thought i would!!
watching julia and tae bumble around each other was peak entertainment truly. they have the type of chemistry and sweetness that from the first interaction we get of them youre rolling your eyes and thinking how and the hell are they not already together, they are clearly made for each other?!?! even before they started dating they just made the most beautiful couple with the way they were so adamant about making one another comfortable enough to be themselves and express interest in their “silly” hobbies, GAH the cuteness of it all.
all in all this book is very swoony, has the most LOVABLE side characters, beautiful writing, etc.
also special shout out to THE diva of the book/star of the show — Halmoni 🤩 she really was playing the long game and i just could not get over her speech to tae at the end 😂 an absolute icon!!!
watching julia and tae bumble around each other was peak entertainment truly. they have the type of chemistry and sweetness that from the first interaction we get of them youre rolling your eyes and thinking how and the hell are they not already together, they are clearly made for each other?!?! even before they started dating they just made the most beautiful couple with the way they were so adamant about making one another comfortable enough to be themselves and express interest in their “silly” hobbies, GAH the cuteness of it all.
all in all this book is very swoony, has the most LOVABLE side characters, beautiful writing, etc.
also special shout out to THE diva of the book/star of the show — Halmoni 🤩 she really was playing the long game and i just could not get over her speech to tae at the end 😂 an absolute icon!!!
Want to Read
January 16, 2026Even tho I hated The Romance Rivalry by Susan Lee, this book is rated higher. Also I read a few reviews and they made me curious. So I'll give her another chance.
June 17, 2025
This is Susan Lee’s first adult novel, so this seemed the right time to try out her books since I’m not gravitating to ya romance much nowadays. I know people love her books so I went in with high expectations and I wasn’t disappointed.
Julia Song is undateable a very successful business woman that is approaching the age of 30. She is also first gen Korean American so her family is freaking out about it and trying to hope her into dates to find suitable men she could marry. Problem is, Julia is not good at dating, she would say the complete opposite actually. Enter Tae, her slightly younger neighbor who she’s known for ages, and is famously not socially awkward, he’s actually really good at dating. You can see where this is going… he offers to coach her in dating.
This book is funny and lighthearted while also dealing with heavy topics. The characters are flawed and the problems are real life issues. It deals with healthcare, anxiety, success, expectations and pressure. I admit I’m not overly familiar with the way elderly Korean people treat their kids, but from what I’ve heard this is a very good depiction of it.
I just take issue with one overused plot point, but that’s a personal preference. I also really like the ending, it was really sweet.
Thank you Netgalley and Harlequin for the ARC!
Julia Song is undateable a very successful business woman that is approaching the age of 30. She is also first gen Korean American so her family is freaking out about it and trying to hope her into dates to find suitable men she could marry. Problem is, Julia is not good at dating, she would say the complete opposite actually. Enter Tae, her slightly younger neighbor who she’s known for ages, and is famously not socially awkward, he’s actually really good at dating. You can see where this is going… he offers to coach her in dating.
This book is funny and lighthearted while also dealing with heavy topics. The characters are flawed and the problems are real life issues. It deals with healthcare, anxiety, success, expectations and pressure. I admit I’m not overly familiar with the way elderly Korean people treat their kids, but from what I’ve heard this is a very good depiction of it.
I just take issue with one overused plot point, but that’s a personal preference. I also really like the ending, it was really sweet.
Thank you Netgalley and Harlequin for the ARC!
November 27, 2025
𐙚⋆°｡⋆♡ ── 3.85 stars
this was a highly anticiapted read of mine as i'd been following susan for a while and then finally listening to the audiobook after it was released was so amazing!!!
the korean culture was written so beautifully here and it makes me want to learn so much more! i'm such a big advocate for reading diverse books by diverse authors. uplifting all authors of colour as someone in a minority community myself!
the narrator did such an amazing job bringing this story to life!!!
the way tae pined for her for ages 🥹 obsessed!!!
𐙚⋆°｡⋆♡ ── pre-read
ive been dying to read this one since susan first annouced it on her insta!!! grabbed the audio + around halfway through and loving the k-drama vibes!!! this is so fun and enjoyable <3
↪ started nov 27
↪ finished nov 29
this was a highly anticiapted read of mine as i'd been following susan for a while and then finally listening to the audiobook after it was released was so amazing!!!
the korean culture was written so beautifully here and it makes me want to learn so much more! i'm such a big advocate for reading diverse books by diverse authors. uplifting all authors of colour as someone in a minority community myself!
the narrator did such an amazing job bringing this story to life!!!
the way tae pined for her for ages 🥹 obsessed!!!
𐙚⋆°｡⋆♡ ── pre-read
ive been dying to read this one since susan first annouced it on her insta!!! grabbed the audio + around halfway through and loving the k-drama vibes!!! this is so fun and enjoyable <3
↪ started nov 27
↪ finished nov 29
December 22, 2025
100% predictable. 100% adorable. 100% enjoyable.
November 18, 2025
── .✦ 3.25
this was hella cute!! 😫 (sleeping on the highway tonight).
this was hella cute!! 😫 (sleeping on the highway tonight).
January 21, 2026
Julia Song is making a name for herself in the beauty industry – especially after just being named one of Oprah’s favorite things. But none of that matters to her family who only see a thirty-something single as problem that needs to be solved ASAP. In order to get the family off her back (and mainly to appease her maybe not-so-healthy beloved grandma), Julia agrees to be set up on three dates chosen by her mother. She also decides to do what she does with all things in her life she is not so confident about and “hire” a dating coach in the form of family neighbor Tae who will take her on practice dates to hopefully file the rough edges of her well known “prickly” personality. I’m sure you all know where this one ends up going . . . .
Generally I tend to be seasonal with my genre selections. Romcoms in February, somehow cozy mysteries have become a September sort of read, horror obvi in October. For whatever reason I have been putting a multitude of romances on my library waiting list recently and I have to say (when done well) they are kind of just the thing when work is stressy.
As stated in the opening gif, this was adorable. To the drunken love confession . . .
“You’re the one I want to be with, Tae. I hope they set me up with you next . . . “
To some actual out loud giggles . . .
“Has Julia seen your . . . arm veins?”
“Tae, you’ll have to excuse my wife and her complete objectification of you. She has a thing for veins.”
“All women. All women have a thing for veins.”
“Life vampires?”
Adorable. Recommended. (Even though we of course still get a stupid third act break-up that could have been avoided if adult humans just EFFING TALKED TO ONE ANOTHER!)
October 14, 2025
This was my first Susan Lee book and what a fun read it was. Our CEO fmc is ultra successful but her Korean family can’t look past the fact that at 30 she’s STILL single. With the help of the boy she used to babysit (who is now a super hunky family man), she agrees to give her family 3 chances to find her love.
This story had k-drama energy and super cute moments that had me kicking my feet and squealing. HIGHLY recommend!
This story had k-drama energy and super cute moments that had me kicking my feet and squealing. HIGHLY recommend!
September 4, 2025
OH MY GODDDDD THIS WAS SO FUN AND HOT AND SWEET I HAD THE BEST TIME READING!!!!! this boy has it BADDDDD AND I LOVE HIM SM. A CONTENDER FOR TOP YEARNER OF THE YEAR FOR SURE. this book was the definition of giggling, swooning, kicking my feet. TAE KIM CALL ME !!!! I’m absolutely HERE for Susan Lee’s adult romance era (and begging for more)
September 30, 2025
Julia Song is Undateable
⤷ ⭑⭑⭑.𝟳𝟱
꒰ Julia Song seems to have it all — she is the CEO of Starlight Cosmetics, the hottest new cosmetics brand in America, and has been featured in Forbes’s ‘30 Under 30’. She excels in the business world. However, her achievements haven’t satisfied her traditional Korean family, especially since she is thirty and still single. Julia loves her family dearly, particularly her Grandma Song, whose dying wish was for her to find a match in this lifetime. However, Julia has a track record of failed relationships and bad dates.
So when her childhood neighbor, Taehyung ‘Tae’ Kim, known as an urban legend in Orange County for his exes marrying their next boyfriends, offered to be her dating coach, Julia just couldn't refuse. ꒱
⌞ Release Date : October 28, 2025 ⌝
ꕤ This is my first Susan Lee book and definitely not my last! I used to watch a lot of K-dramas and didn't expect those vibes to come from this book. Mentions of IU and BTS, trot singers in sequined jackets, and, of course, Korean BBQ.
I’ve heard that this is Susan's first adult novel. I haven’t read her other books, so I can't comment much on her writing style. However, I believe that her previous works focused on light young adult romance. I found Susan's writing to be very engaging and easy to get into, which kept me engrossed. Additionally, the story incorporates elements of K-drama, making it a lot more fun to read!
I was fortunate to get a copy of the audiobook and was delighted to discover that it was narrated by the talented Michelle H. Lee, who also lent her voice to ‘Give Me A Reason.’ Her voice instantly enveloped me in a wave of nostalgia, transporting me back to the feelings I had from previous works.
𓏲⋆💄.* Julia Song is thriving at 30. She is a successful businesswoman, yet still holds her family and community in high regard. I find that a lot of people forget these important ties when they become successful. I relate to Julia in several ways, as we are often compared to others regarding our appearance, social and marital status, and professions. Additionally, while she is very confident in her work, Julia often feels awkward in social situations, which makes her character enjoyable to read about.
: ⊹ 🔨₊ ⋆ Taehyung Kim , this man is basically Hong Du-sik from Hometown Cha-Cha-Cha. At 25 years old, he is talented in many areas, and people appreciate him because he gets things done. While he may not earn a million dollars, he shows great resourcefulness in his work. However, he is currently experiencing an identity crisis regarding his life goals. He dislikes discussing permanent jobs or commitments, which is why he prefers to take on temporary gigs.
˖᯽ ݁˖ I appreciated how this book addressed various issues that people, particularly women, face in their 30s. It highlights the societal expectations that arise when one reaches this age, especially when others feel you haven’t met their boxes for what constitutes success in life. It’s also refreshing to see the female main character take the lead, while the male is portrayed as someone who doesn't fit the traditional mold of success.
The romance was sweet, but I felt it lacked chemistry. I believe this might be due to Susan’s writing as she transitions from young adult to adult fiction. Interestingly, I found more chemistry between the characters when they were friends than after they became lovers. There is a 5-year age gap, but it was mentioned a couple of times in a way that seemed unnecessary since it wasn't used much to give more plot to the story. Also, there were many references to 'Tae’s hands', which made me wonder if there was a hand fetish going on.
⟢ The friend group is absolutely amazing. I love how blunt and straightforward they are whenever she is being naive. Like, yes, tell her off if they are both acting stupid. The family dynamics were great too, oftentimes funny. Despite their disagreements about Julia’s love life, Julia and Tae’s family is very entertaining to read and sometimes emotional. I’ve got a couple of highlights made from some of the wise advice they gave along the way.
While there were some things I liked, there were also some things I disliked. I felt like I wanted more from this story, particularly in the second half, which felt a bit flat after following Julia through her dates. I also felt off during the Trot Singer arc. Like, we already have a character with the same name as a member, and then there was this painfully long conversation about BTS and their music (no hate here).
The drama at the end seemed unnecessary and came out of nowhere; it felt like it was added just to give Tae’s character more depth. His dilemmas gave me "manchild" vibes—his refusal to discuss anything about his future, literally ghosting his job and relationship in Chicago, and let’s not even get started on his act of being the better son by taking care of his family and bills without committing to anything permanent.
⟢ Overall, though, this was a fun palate cleanser in between larger books and an excellent introduction for me to check out Susan Lee's other books. This is my first Susan Lee book and definitely not my last!
Thank you to Edelweiss, HarperCollins, and of course, Susan Lee for providing an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. Please remember that this opinion is my own. ⭑
.☘︎ ݁˖
pre-read : HarperCollins is insanely gracious for accepting my arc request and provided me with both the ebook and audiobook version 🥹🫶🏼
⤷ ⭑⭑⭑.𝟳𝟱
❝ It really isn’t gonna be hard finding someone who wants to date you. The hard part is finding someone worthy of you. ❞
꒰ Julia Song seems to have it all — she is the CEO of Starlight Cosmetics, the hottest new cosmetics brand in America, and has been featured in Forbes’s ‘30 Under 30’. She excels in the business world. However, her achievements haven’t satisfied her traditional Korean family, especially since she is thirty and still single. Julia loves her family dearly, particularly her Grandma Song, whose dying wish was for her to find a match in this lifetime. However, Julia has a track record of failed relationships and bad dates.
So when her childhood neighbor, Taehyung ‘Tae’ Kim, known as an urban legend in Orange County for his exes marrying their next boyfriends, offered to be her dating coach, Julia just couldn't refuse. ꒱
⌞ Release Date : October 28, 2025 ⌝
ꕤ This is my first Susan Lee book and definitely not my last! I used to watch a lot of K-dramas and didn't expect those vibes to come from this book. Mentions of IU and BTS, trot singers in sequined jackets, and, of course, Korean BBQ.
I’ve heard that this is Susan's first adult novel. I haven’t read her other books, so I can't comment much on her writing style. However, I believe that her previous works focused on light young adult romance. I found Susan's writing to be very engaging and easy to get into, which kept me engrossed. Additionally, the story incorporates elements of K-drama, making it a lot more fun to read!
I was fortunate to get a copy of the audiobook and was delighted to discover that it was narrated by the talented Michelle H. Lee, who also lent her voice to ‘Give Me A Reason.’ Her voice instantly enveloped me in a wave of nostalgia, transporting me back to the feelings I had from previous works.
𓏲⋆💄.* Julia Song is thriving at 30. She is a successful businesswoman, yet still holds her family and community in high regard. I find that a lot of people forget these important ties when they become successful. I relate to Julia in several ways, as we are often compared to others regarding our appearance, social and marital status, and professions. Additionally, while she is very confident in her work, Julia often feels awkward in social situations, which makes her character enjoyable to read about.
₊˚ʚ ❝ I know what to do in matters of business. I just don’t know what to do with matters of the heart. ❞
: ⊹ 🔨₊ ⋆ Taehyung Kim , this man is basically Hong Du-sik from Hometown Cha-Cha-Cha. At 25 years old, he is talented in many areas, and people appreciate him because he gets things done. While he may not earn a million dollars, he shows great resourcefulness in his work. However, he is currently experiencing an identity crisis regarding his life goals. He dislikes discussing permanent jobs or commitments, which is why he prefers to take on temporary gigs.
ꕤ : ❝ I’m no saint, Julia. In fact, I’m pretty selfish, if I’m being honest. Helping them helped me too. I don’t know that I’d do it if I wasn’t getting satisfaction out of it or if it didn’t take my mind off other stuff. ❞
˖᯽ ݁˖ I appreciated how this book addressed various issues that people, particularly women, face in their 30s. It highlights the societal expectations that arise when one reaches this age, especially when others feel you haven’t met their boxes for what constitutes success in life. It’s also refreshing to see the female main character take the lead, while the male is portrayed as someone who doesn't fit the traditional mold of success.
❝ What I’m asking is—well, maybe you don’t really want to be in a relationship right now. What with everything going on with your career and success. And so maybe you don’t let your true self show when meeting new people. ❞ .𖥔 ܁ ˖
The romance was sweet, but I felt it lacked chemistry. I believe this might be due to Susan’s writing as she transitions from young adult to adult fiction. Interestingly, I found more chemistry between the characters when they were friends than after they became lovers. There is a 5-year age gap, but it was mentioned a couple of times in a way that seemed unnecessary since it wasn't used much to give more plot to the story. Also, there were many references to 'Tae’s hands', which made me wonder if there was a hand fetish going on.
⌗ ❝ Look, we may be agreeing to these setups, but when it comes down to it, it’s still our choice to make, right? You think he’s a loser, don’t go out with him again. Simple as that. ❞
⟢ The friend group is absolutely amazing. I love how blunt and straightforward they are whenever she is being naive. Like, yes, tell her off if they are both acting stupid. The family dynamics were great too, oftentimes funny. Despite their disagreements about Julia’s love life, Julia and Tae’s family is very entertaining to read and sometimes emotional. I’ve got a couple of highlights made from some of the wise advice they gave along the way.
𓂃 ࣪˖ ִֶָ𐀔 ❝ No acknowledgment of what she’d been able to build by this age. Just that one box she hadn’t been able to tick that seemed to outvalue everything else. ❞
While there were some things I liked, there were also some things I disliked. I felt like I wanted more from this story, particularly in the second half, which felt a bit flat after following Julia through her dates. I also felt off during the Trot Singer arc. Like, we already have a character with the same name as a member, and then there was this painfully long conversation about BTS and their music (no hate here).
The drama at the end seemed unnecessary and came out of nowhere; it felt like it was added just to give Tae’s character more depth. His dilemmas gave me "manchild" vibes—his refusal to discuss anything about his future, literally ghosting his job and relationship in Chicago, and let’s not even get started on his act of being the better son by taking care of his family and bills without committing to anything permanent.
⟢ Overall, though, this was a fun palate cleanser in between larger books and an excellent introduction for me to check out Susan Lee's other books. This is my first Susan Lee book and definitely not my last!
Thank you to Edelweiss, HarperCollins, and of course, Susan Lee for providing an advance copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. Please remember that this opinion is my own. ⭑
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pre-read : HarperCollins is insanely gracious for accepting my arc request and provided me with both the ebook and audiobook version 🥹🫶🏼
December 9, 2025
i’m irritated. so Tae basically used all of Julia’s insecurities against her after she FINALLY felt vulnerable enough to let him in, accused her of something she DIDNT do, and didn’t even give a true heartfelt apology. Julia gave him so much grace and he gave her NONE. i’m sorry no. then he needed 50 million people to help him do a romantic gesture? i mean i guess. this sucks cause i liked Tae at first but that third act break up RUINED it.
July 2, 2025
Susan Lee’s adult debut did not disappoint! this was a kdrama in book form and i mean that as the highest compliment. the MC reminded me sooo much of Kim Seon-ho’s character from Hometown Cha Cha Cha and this was your classic CEO x fake dating x friends to lovers story that goes over so well in the dramas. this was a quick and easy read and im so excited for more of Susan’s adult romances!
December 25, 2025
Julia Songs is Undateable by Susan Lee
★★★★★
Julia Songs is CEO of a cosmetics company and at the height of her career. She is thirty, thirsty and single and in the eyes of her Korean family she probably should be married by now. Tae comes to Julia’s aid, assisting his childhood crush learn the rules of dating.
When I grow up I want to be Julia Songs. Boss lady! I love it. She was powerful, funny and smart. All the things to make a relatable FMC.
Well I think we all know what Susan was doing putting in a character like Tae as the MMC. Of course we love him! What a gentleman. I love how to comes with his wounds but is willing to step up to the plate despite his issues.
Two great characters well definitely create a wonderful plot that was so much fun to read. I really enjoyed reading this in the Christmas silly season because it allowed me to enter a fun world with endearing characters. I enjoyed the pacing with this book too and felt like all the events in the book made sense and were relevent to the plot.
◦: key tropes :◦
✧ Slow Burn
✧ Friends to Lovers
✧ He Falls First
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★★★★★
Julia Songs is CEO of a cosmetics company and at the height of her career. She is thirty, thirsty and single and in the eyes of her Korean family she probably should be married by now. Tae comes to Julia’s aid, assisting his childhood crush learn the rules of dating.
When I grow up I want to be Julia Songs. Boss lady! I love it. She was powerful, funny and smart. All the things to make a relatable FMC.
Well I think we all know what Susan was doing putting in a character like Tae as the MMC. Of course we love him! What a gentleman. I love how to comes with his wounds but is willing to step up to the plate despite his issues.
Two great characters well definitely create a wonderful plot that was so much fun to read. I really enjoyed reading this in the Christmas silly season because it allowed me to enter a fun world with endearing characters. I enjoyed the pacing with this book too and felt like all the events in the book made sense and were relevent to the plot.
◦: key tropes :◦
✧ Slow Burn
✧ Friends to Lovers
✧ He Falls First
💭 What was the last romance book you read?
Thank you @romanceanz for the opportunity to review this book.
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April 8, 2026
Julia Song is Undateable is sweet story. I like it very much. I enjoyed reading it during a humid weather. The characters are lovely. Likeable and relatable.
Miss Lee is putting the story in a modern Korea culture.
Very entertaining.
4 stars
Miss Lee is putting the story in a modern Korea culture.
Very entertaining.
4 stars
November 3, 2025
3.5 ⭐️
October 26, 2025
This was a lot of fun.
Julia Song is a fierce woman and a badass bosslady.
She also happens to have a very pushy family who is upset she isn't married yet and manipulate her into going on 3 dates of their choosing in order to find a partner.
She enlists a childhood friend to help her become more "pleasing" to her dates.
Shenanigans ensue.
This was cute and funny and totally relatable.
Much love to NetGalley & Harlequin Audio for my ARC.
Julia Song is a fierce woman and a badass bosslady.
She also happens to have a very pushy family who is upset she isn't married yet and manipulate her into going on 3 dates of their choosing in order to find a partner.
She enlists a childhood friend to help her become more "pleasing" to her dates.
Shenanigans ensue.
This was cute and funny and totally relatable.
Much love to NetGalley & Harlequin Audio for my ARC.
September 28, 2025
Julia is such a beautiful soul. I found myself relating so much to her and her life. Her family and friends are quite hilarious, just like she is. I loved that this book gave me some giggles. Tae was so amazing, and I was rooting for him and Julia from the jump! This had a twist i didn't expect. It had some deep moments and some swooning moments as well! Overall, this was a cute read! The narrator did a beautiful job portraying the characters and their emotions.
I received this ARC audiobook NetGalley and Harlequin Audio to listen/review. All of the statements above are my true opinions after fully listening to this audiobook.
I received this ARC audiobook NetGalley and Harlequin Audio to listen/review. All of the statements above are my true opinions after fully listening to this audiobook.
October 22, 2025
2.5⭐
I didn't like this one as much as I'd hoped I would honestly. This is the 3rd book I've read by Susan Lee and all three have been 3⭐ and under so it might just be a me problem. Her writing style is nice, though definitely not my favorite.
As for this book, I'm incredibly grateful to have gotten the arc, so thank you to Netgalley & the publishers for allowing me to have it.
I do really wish that the audiobook had dual narration and not just Michelle H. Lee, it would've made it a 𝘣𝘪𝘵 easier to follow.
The characters of this book weren't my favorite.
Julia, the fmc was...eh to me. I don't know, I found her to be a bit annoying at times. Her best friends were about the same.
Tae was my favorite character but even then I didn't care for him a whole ton.
Julie and Tae felt a bit childish?? Like at times they didn't seem like they're 25 & 30 years old
Also I'm not sure if anyone else who's read this had thought this but I kind of felt like Julia and Tae were lacking chemistry?? Although I 𝘥𝘪𝘥 enjoy their little hangouts while preparing Julia for the dates.
My favorite part was definitely the epilogue, sad that that's the end and not an actual chapter and everything. :/
I didn't like this one as much as I'd hoped I would honestly. This is the 3rd book I've read by Susan Lee and all three have been 3⭐ and under so it might just be a me problem. Her writing style is nice, though definitely not my favorite.
As for this book, I'm incredibly grateful to have gotten the arc, so thank you to Netgalley & the publishers for allowing me to have it.
I do really wish that the audiobook had dual narration and not just Michelle H. Lee, it would've made it a 𝘣𝘪𝘵 easier to follow.
The characters of this book weren't my favorite.
Julia, the fmc was...eh to me. I don't know, I found her to be a bit annoying at times. Her best friends were about the same.
Tae was my favorite character but even then I didn't care for him a whole ton.
Julie and Tae felt a bit childish?? Like at times they didn't seem like they're 25 & 30 years old
Also I'm not sure if anyone else who's read this had thought this but I kind of felt like Julia and Tae were lacking chemistry?? Although I 𝘥𝘪𝘥 enjoy their little hangouts while preparing Julia for the dates.
My favorite part was definitely the epilogue, sad that that's the end and not an actual chapter and everything. :/
September 16, 2025
Overall, I'd give this book 4 stars, it was super cute. I loved the topics that were covered in this book, from parental expectations, to how Julia thinks she should act, to Tae's identity crisis, and many others. I could relate to Julia so much, especially since no topic is off limits when you are around family. Asian elders really know how to throw all your insecurities back in your face. I really liked Tae as the MMC and could relate to his issues. The ending reminded me of Just for the Summer by Abby Jimenez, it was really sweet.
The only thing I didn't care for, and this is totally a personal preference, I don't like books in 3rd POV.
*Friends to lovers
*Slight age gap - Julia - 30, Tae - 25
*Income gap
*Mental health rep
Thank you to NetGalley, Susan Lee, Harlequin Trade Publishing, and Harlequin Audio for the ARC and ALC!
The only thing I didn't care for, and this is totally a personal preference, I don't like books in 3rd POV.
*Friends to lovers
*Slight age gap - Julia - 30, Tae - 25
*Income gap
*Mental health rep
Thank you to NetGalley, Susan Lee, Harlequin Trade Publishing, and Harlequin Audio for the ARC and ALC!
October 4, 2025
So very thankful to receive this ARC - releasing this month - Oct 2025 - from NetGalley.
I could not put it down. This was such a great read. All the feels, all the realness, just so good. Slow burn, chemistry, tension, it’s all there. Plus all the Korean inspiration and characters - added so much colour to the story.
Julia has been on a lot of bad dates. Having been called undateable, she’s pretty much given up on finding someone. Instead she focuses on running and expanding her company. But even as her professional life is thriving, her Korean family still puts on the pressure for her to settle down and find a husband. Her grandmother lays on the greatest guilt trip ever and convinces her to let the family set her up on 3 dates. If she doesn’t find her soul mate, then they back off. Julia reluctantly agrees, but immediately starts to panic - her solution? Find a dating coach. Who better than the attractive boy next door who is now all grown up. Tae may be a bit younger than her, but he’s always had a crush on Julia. Figuring out his life after recently moving home to care for his father (and being jobless and living with his parents) - he figures she’s way out of his league. But agrees to help her see herself how he sees her. Thus begins an adventure of bad dates and unexpected chemistry.
I could not put it down. This was such a great read. All the feels, all the realness, just so good. Slow burn, chemistry, tension, it’s all there. Plus all the Korean inspiration and characters - added so much colour to the story.
Julia has been on a lot of bad dates. Having been called undateable, she’s pretty much given up on finding someone. Instead she focuses on running and expanding her company. But even as her professional life is thriving, her Korean family still puts on the pressure for her to settle down and find a husband. Her grandmother lays on the greatest guilt trip ever and convinces her to let the family set her up on 3 dates. If she doesn’t find her soul mate, then they back off. Julia reluctantly agrees, but immediately starts to panic - her solution? Find a dating coach. Who better than the attractive boy next door who is now all grown up. Tae may be a bit younger than her, but he’s always had a crush on Julia. Figuring out his life after recently moving home to care for his father (and being jobless and living with his parents) - he figures she’s way out of his league. But agrees to help her see herself how he sees her. Thus begins an adventure of bad dates and unexpected chemistry.
November 6, 2025
4.5
I love love loved this one!!! The audio was absolutely fantastic and truly just the thing to get me out of my reading slump. I specifically loved Julia and her relationship with her best friends. I really liked how they moved the story along and pushed Julia past her blinders into loving Tae fully. They reminded me a lot of the female friendships in K Pop Demon Hunters and I was so obsessed!!
This book was the perfect blend of sexy, sweet, and love that I absolutely adored.
I love love loved this one!!! The audio was absolutely fantastic and truly just the thing to get me out of my reading slump. I specifically loved Julia and her relationship with her best friends. I really liked how they moved the story along and pushed Julia past her blinders into loving Tae fully. They reminded me a lot of the female friendships in K Pop Demon Hunters and I was so obsessed!!
This book was the perfect blend of sexy, sweet, and love that I absolutely adored.
November 3, 2025
4.75⭐️
What a romp! If you want a romcom flavored like a kdrama, this is the one for you! A well-balanced story of a relatively low stakes but heartfelt plot, with genuine emotional jabs entwined with hijinks and humor!
As a little background about myself - I’m 1/4 Japanese, and my husband is half Korean, so this story hit close to home. And though this story itself was relatively light hearted, at times it truly cut to the quick. But no gatekeeping here! There are absolutely universal qualities to familial pressures that anyone will recognize while reading - the weight of living up to your parents expectations and feelings of failure. But there’s also something so oddly familiar about the way Susan Lee wrote the intimidating presence of an Asian grandmother, and the immense weight of pressure she wields. It gave me equal emotions of stress and yearning, missing my own grandmother. I could hear her in my head while reading some of these conversations!
This book dealt with heavier topics, such as the difficulty of acknowledging aging parents, feelings of inadequacy and imposter syndrome even if you are successful by measurable standards, the weight of money as an indicator of success. And with a smidge of pro therapy, which is always appreciated! Even with the fake dating (kind of?) trope, the characters felt real and flawed and vulnerable. It served as a genuinely good reminder to give yourself and others grace, and at the same time know your own worth within family dynamics, as well as in budding romantic relationships! I just loved this one! Thank you to Susan Lee, Harlequin Trade Publishing and NetGalley for this eARC!
What a romp! If you want a romcom flavored like a kdrama, this is the one for you! A well-balanced story of a relatively low stakes but heartfelt plot, with genuine emotional jabs entwined with hijinks and humor!
As a little background about myself - I’m 1/4 Japanese, and my husband is half Korean, so this story hit close to home. And though this story itself was relatively light hearted, at times it truly cut to the quick. But no gatekeeping here! There are absolutely universal qualities to familial pressures that anyone will recognize while reading - the weight of living up to your parents expectations and feelings of failure. But there’s also something so oddly familiar about the way Susan Lee wrote the intimidating presence of an Asian grandmother, and the immense weight of pressure she wields. It gave me equal emotions of stress and yearning, missing my own grandmother. I could hear her in my head while reading some of these conversations!
This book dealt with heavier topics, such as the difficulty of acknowledging aging parents, feelings of inadequacy and imposter syndrome even if you are successful by measurable standards, the weight of money as an indicator of success. And with a smidge of pro therapy, which is always appreciated! Even with the fake dating (kind of?) trope, the characters felt real and flawed and vulnerable. It served as a genuinely good reminder to give yourself and others grace, and at the same time know your own worth within family dynamics, as well as in budding romantic relationships! I just loved this one! Thank you to Susan Lee, Harlequin Trade Publishing and NetGalley for this eARC!
September 17, 2025
The entire time I was reading this I was picturing it as a rom com and you KNOW my favorite character is Halmoni because hello, the pep talk starting with: “Tae you are not tall, smart or successful” lmao QUEEN
This book takes me back to falling in love with Talia Hibbert and Helen Hoang heroes. A man who’s kind and loves people? It’s so sexy???
I love them.
Thanks to Netgalley and HarperCollins for an early copy in exchange for an honest review.
This book takes me back to falling in love with Talia Hibbert and Helen Hoang heroes. A man who’s kind and loves people? It’s so sexy???
I love them.
Thanks to Netgalley and HarperCollins for an early copy in exchange for an honest review.
November 14, 2025
Tae Kim & Julia Song forever!! 😭 Julia Song is a lot & girl, me too. But Tae never asks for her to be any less, he actually wants more of her. This is a TRUE rom-com & add in kdrama (MESSY family) vibes & wow MUAH!! Perfection!
I realized I have a competency kink!
I realized I have a competency kink!
January 1, 2026
this was so cute, loved it!!
the perfect last read of the year 🥰
the perfect last read of the year 🥰
October 27, 2025
I became a fan of Susan Lee after reading The Romance Rivalry earlier this year, and her adult debut Julia Song is Undateable gives similar vibes! This was a super quick read that I do wish had been a bit longer , because I think it packed a lot of character development into a short period of time that I think could have been fleshed out really beautifully (it is done well, I just wanted more of it!). That being said, this is a sloooow burn and I did enjoy that it was not an instalove connection. Both main characters were interesting and endearing and I’d have loved more time with the side characters as well. I both read the eARC of this courtesy of Canary Street Press as well as listened to it from Harlequin Audio as part of the Hive, and I think either way would be a great way to consume this book. I hope to see more adult novels from Susan Lee, because I do think her spice was additive and just the right amount considering the length of the book. Definitely a read you should be picking up this Tuesday when it releases!
February 17, 2026
this is my third Susan Lee book and favorite to date. I love Tae so bad. That man really said “Let me show you how true love’s done”
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