3.5 "Everyone rebels against their upbringing, either honestly, right out in the open, or deep in their hearts while they pay lip service to their splendid childhoods".
Dee's choice of husband, Patrick, was her ultimate defiance.
Dee's brother, (and Dee's best friend, and confidant), said that Patrick was a boring dork who would build a picket fence, knock her up with 2.3 children, then buy a golden retriever. That all sounded perfect to Dee. She was seeking a very normal (boring sounded refreshing) life.
Her childhood was everything 'but' boring with a mother who worked for the government. Annette Vess blended 'training' her children to be very observant in life (by playing games), and being a normal mother. She was was a strong-interesting-asskicker-bright-don't-mess-with-me-woman! She also had a mysterious aura ---which made it a little challenging for Dee to understand.
Dee, loved her mother --listened carefully to things she learned from her -- but wanted as far away from her mother's lifestyle as possible for herself.
However, Dee, begins to reaching for her mother's words -her wisdom - as her 'normal' marriage begins to show red-flag problems.
As secrets and lies begin between Dee and Patrick ... Dee's desire to dig up more history from her mother's past becomes important to her. Her misses her mother more than ever --(She died of Cancer) --and her marriage is suffering.
The secrets, lies, betrayal, grow bigger and more dangerous between Dee and Patrick.
The voice of Annette in Dee's mind grows bigger at the same time... (a place for Dee to draw her strength)
..... "There is nothing supernatural, Annette would say. There are only the things in this world that we understand, the things that we don't understand, and made-up crap."
So, What is made up between Patrick and Dee? Who is having an affair -and lying about it?
Who is secretly planning a divorce? Who is hiding money? Or...who is trying to kill the other?
To find know the answer to these questions --you'll have to read this book yourself.
I liked this story --(but without giving anything away) -- I didn't think the ending came together all that smooth --or all that surprising. However, there were some creative ideas the author presented.
'The games' taught to the children could actually be useful lifetime skills!