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Blueberry Hill: a Sister's Story
CAN LOVE SAVE A SISTER FROM SELF-DESTRUCTION?
From the USA Today Bestselling Author of Spare Change comes the heartwarming story Blueberry Hill: a Sister’s Story.
Based on the realities of her own family, Crosby calls this a memoir of sorts. Traveling back to a time when the sisters were young enough to feel invincible and foolish enough to believe it would last forever, Crosby has bared her soul in a story of regrettable decisions and inevitable outcomes.
Blueberry Hill is a tale of family relationships, love and tragedy. It is a story that will touch your heart and stay with you long after you have closed the book.
From the USA Today Bestselling Author of Spare Change comes the heartwarming story Blueberry Hill: a Sister’s Story.
Based on the realities of her own family, Crosby calls this a memoir of sorts. Traveling back to a time when the sisters were young enough to feel invincible and foolish enough to believe it would last forever, Crosby has bared her soul in a story of regrettable decisions and inevitable outcomes.
Blueberry Hill is a tale of family relationships, love and tragedy. It is a story that will touch your heart and stay with you long after you have closed the book.
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103 pages, Kindle Edition
First published June 27, 2014
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About the author
Bette Lee Crosby
42 books2,186 followersUSA Today Bestselling and Award-winning novelist Bette Lee Crosby's books are "Well-crafted storytelling populated by memorable characters caught up in equally memorable circumstances." - Midwest Book Review
The Seattle Post Intelligencer says Crosby's writing is, "A quirky mix of Southern flair, serious thoughts about important things in life and madcap adventures."
Samantha from Reader's Favorite raves, "Crosby writes the type of book you can’t stop thinking about long after you put it down."
"Storytelling is in my blood," Crosby laughingly admits, "My mom was not a writer, but she was a captivating storyteller, so I find myself using bits and pieces of her voice in most everything I write."
It is the wit and wisdom of that Southern Mama Crosby brings to her works of fiction; the result is a delightful blend of humor, mystery and romance along with a cast of quirky charters who will steal your heart away. Her work was first recognized in 2006 when she received The National League of American Pen Women Award for a then unpublished manuscript. She has since gone on to win twenty awards for her work; these include: The Royal Palm Literary Award, the FPA President's Book Award Gold Medal, Reader's Favorite Award Gold Medal, and the Reviewer's Choice Award.
Crosby's published works to date are: Blueberry Hill (2014), Previously Loved Treasures (2014), Jubilee's Journey (2013), What Matters Most (2013), The Twelfth Child (2012), Life in the Land of IS (2012), Cracks in the Sidewalk (2011), Spare Change (2011). A Cupid inspired romance, Wishing for Wonderful, is scheduled for release in November 2014 and Book Three of The Wyattsville Series, Passing through Perfect, will be be available in January 2015.
The Seattle Post Intelligencer says Crosby's writing is, "A quirky mix of Southern flair, serious thoughts about important things in life and madcap adventures."
Samantha from Reader's Favorite raves, "Crosby writes the type of book you can’t stop thinking about long after you put it down."
"Storytelling is in my blood," Crosby laughingly admits, "My mom was not a writer, but she was a captivating storyteller, so I find myself using bits and pieces of her voice in most everything I write."
It is the wit and wisdom of that Southern Mama Crosby brings to her works of fiction; the result is a delightful blend of humor, mystery and romance along with a cast of quirky charters who will steal your heart away. Her work was first recognized in 2006 when she received The National League of American Pen Women Award for a then unpublished manuscript. She has since gone on to win twenty awards for her work; these include: The Royal Palm Literary Award, the FPA President's Book Award Gold Medal, Reader's Favorite Award Gold Medal, and the Reviewer's Choice Award.
Crosby's published works to date are: Blueberry Hill (2014), Previously Loved Treasures (2014), Jubilee's Journey (2013), What Matters Most (2013), The Twelfth Child (2012), Life in the Land of IS (2012), Cracks in the Sidewalk (2011), Spare Change (2011). A Cupid inspired romance, Wishing for Wonderful, is scheduled for release in November 2014 and Book Three of The Wyattsville Series, Passing through Perfect, will be be available in January 2015.
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February 19, 2021
Three and a half stars.
This is a memoir of sorts from Bette about actual events with her family, and particularly focusing on her sister Donna. Unlike Bette, Donna was the one who went her ow. Way regardless of what others said or thought. It is a story of wilful, wrong choices and the consequences of this actions not just for Donna but for her mother and sister and those close to her.
I turned to this book when the other one by another author I was reading was not holding my interest. I know I can always depend on a great story from Bette Lee Crosby. And it did not take me long to read this one. It is told very simply and matter of factly. While the story held my interest for some reason I found it lacking the charm and emotional impact of Bette’s other stories. Though different as night and day, Bette had a deep love for her errant sister. And it could be this is what constrained the telling of this story, as it just felt to me as though it was sliding across the top of the truth and that the reality of the family experience. Maybe it’s me and my frame of mind at the moment but I was a little disappointed I bought this one.
A couple of lines really struck me but the emotional connection I expected just never happened. It certainly didn’t have the emotional involvement of her novels.
One person's choices can affect so many other lives. This was apparent throughout. In her note at the end of the book, the author makes mention of it being more like a collection of stories and memories and that she chose to leave out many graphic details. It seemed the author didn't want to mar the image of her sister by giving too many details. Maybe that’s why it didn’t have that emotional impact. It felt like it was only telling half the story. Bette is a favourite author and I will still read anything else she writes.
This is a memoir of sorts from Bette about actual events with her family, and particularly focusing on her sister Donna. Unlike Bette, Donna was the one who went her ow. Way regardless of what others said or thought. It is a story of wilful, wrong choices and the consequences of this actions not just for Donna but for her mother and sister and those close to her.
I turned to this book when the other one by another author I was reading was not holding my interest. I know I can always depend on a great story from Bette Lee Crosby. And it did not take me long to read this one. It is told very simply and matter of factly. While the story held my interest for some reason I found it lacking the charm and emotional impact of Bette’s other stories. Though different as night and day, Bette had a deep love for her errant sister. And it could be this is what constrained the telling of this story, as it just felt to me as though it was sliding across the top of the truth and that the reality of the family experience. Maybe it’s me and my frame of mind at the moment but I was a little disappointed I bought this one.
A couple of lines really struck me but the emotional connection I expected just never happened. It certainly didn’t have the emotional involvement of her novels.
One person's choices can affect so many other lives. This was apparent throughout. In her note at the end of the book, the author makes mention of it being more like a collection of stories and memories and that she chose to leave out many graphic details. It seemed the author didn't want to mar the image of her sister by giving too many details. Maybe that’s why it didn’t have that emotional impact. It felt like it was only telling half the story. Bette is a favourite author and I will still read anything else she writes.
October 28, 2014
Sisters Donna and Bette were like chalk and cheese – Donna was the wild one, the one who lived her life to the fullest, experiencing everything, scared of nothing. Bette was the cautious, practical one, the sister who thought of the consequences before the actions happened. But they were incredibly close; they loved each other deeply and whatever happened, that would never go away.
This story started when the girls were children – Donna was in school, rebellious, wanting to wear inappropriate clothing and fighting with her mother about it. Bette tried to be the peace-maker, as did their dad. And as they grew, smoking and drinking became the norm for Donna; entering adulthood, there were decisions made which would have long reaching and dire results...
This is a beautifully written novella with a heart wrenching story; a story of a deep love between sisters, and the heartbreak of tragedy. It is the story of decisions made and the regrets that follow; of family and the support base that exists between the extended members of that family.
The author says “This story is a work of fiction, and it’s not. It is a memoir of sorts.”
I really enjoyed Blueberry Hill: A Sister's Story – I have read Spare Change and Cupid's Christmas by Bette Lee Crosby (and have others waiting to be read!) and love her writing. I have no hesitation in recommending this title highly.
This story started when the girls were children – Donna was in school, rebellious, wanting to wear inappropriate clothing and fighting with her mother about it. Bette tried to be the peace-maker, as did their dad. And as they grew, smoking and drinking became the norm for Donna; entering adulthood, there were decisions made which would have long reaching and dire results...
This is a beautifully written novella with a heart wrenching story; a story of a deep love between sisters, and the heartbreak of tragedy. It is the story of decisions made and the regrets that follow; of family and the support base that exists between the extended members of that family.
The author says “This story is a work of fiction, and it’s not. It is a memoir of sorts.”
I really enjoyed Blueberry Hill: A Sister's Story – I have read Spare Change and Cupid's Christmas by Bette Lee Crosby (and have others waiting to be read!) and love her writing. I have no hesitation in recommending this title highly.
February 10, 2023
Don't smoke
This is a story that could happen anywhere. One sister did whatever she wanted to, no matter who it affected. The other sister tried to be good.
This is a story that could happen anywhere. One sister did whatever she wanted to, no matter who it affected. The other sister tried to be good.
August 10, 2014
The covers Bette Lee Crosby chooses for her novels always make me wonder what will be between the pages. I feel there will be some laughs and some tears as we travel down the road of life with her realistic characters.
I never even looked at the synopsis, just picked up Blueberry Hill and started reading. After all, it’s Bette Lee, so I know it will be good. Oh man……this hits very close to home.
Donna killed herself. She didn’t do it by popping pills or slitting her wrists, but by her lifestyle choices.
Donna was carefree. She lived for the moment. She was popular, cool, and believed anything is possible. She would then proceed to make it happen. She was very generous; spent the money she earned, while Bette would save. Donna has attitude with a capital A. I am loving her.
The female version of Fonzi from Happy Days.
Mama said Bette was the oldest, so it was her responsibility to keep her two sisters out of trouble. I can see where that could lead to guilt for not doing more to save Donna from herself. I, too, have dealt with the issue of enabling. When is the time to step in? Do we have the right to tell someone how to live, even if they have chosen a destructive lifestyle?
Bette felt they were a normal family, until Donna ran away. Even after she came back, they were never the same. Donna fell in love with a loser, who divorced her and left her after she had a baby. She married him again and had another child, but the marriage didn’t stick. We don’t choose who we fall in love with. She never quit loving him, even until her death. She was a great mother, full of love. The real loss was when the nest was EMPTY.
“Having a sister is like having a thumb, you simply believe it will always be there, because how could you possible get along without it.”
I have tears in my eyes as I read this. I recently lost one of my sisters and this almost sounds like her biography. She used to call me tag-a-long when we were kids, because I followed her everywhere. It is still hard to believe she is really gone. We do become involved in our daily lives and think tomorrow I’ll….call her…get with her….take the time to stop in…...At least I can take consolation in the fact that she lived her life the way she wanted ( like Donna).
Bette Lee Crosby left out the horrid details that would rip our hearts out, but I felt the pain, as she relived the memories. With the loss of my sister, I can relate to the story on a very personal level. When do you step in, especially when you know it will do no good? We must remember, it is their life. They are a grown up. We can lie to ourselves and live in denial, but what will be, will be. My sister and Donna chose their exit from this world. Won’t we do the same?
Bette’s books can be thought provoking, heart wrenching and uplifting all at the same time. She can make me sob like a baby, when my heart is broken and laugh like a happy child, when a delightful surprise comes my way. Bette Lee’s books don’t always end with a happy ever after, but they do cover a lot of life’s trials and tribulations that we are familiar with.
I received Blueberry Hill from Bette Lee in return for an honest, unbiased review.
“Wouldn’t you love to go there?”
“Go where?”
“Blueberry Hill.”
“Blueberry Hill isn’t a real place. It’s just a title somebody made up for the song.”
“Believe what you want, but I know it’s real.”
To give a lot when you have a lot is easy, but to give a lot when you have so little is indeed a gift of love.
“You can love her or hate her, but you will never control her.” My sister to a T.
I received Blueberry Hil; in return for an honest, unbiased review.
I never even looked at the synopsis, just picked up Blueberry Hill and started reading. After all, it’s Bette Lee, so I know it will be good. Oh man……this hits very close to home.
Donna killed herself. She didn’t do it by popping pills or slitting her wrists, but by her lifestyle choices.
Donna was carefree. She lived for the moment. She was popular, cool, and believed anything is possible. She would then proceed to make it happen. She was very generous; spent the money she earned, while Bette would save. Donna has attitude with a capital A. I am loving her.
The female version of Fonzi from Happy Days.
Mama said Bette was the oldest, so it was her responsibility to keep her two sisters out of trouble. I can see where that could lead to guilt for not doing more to save Donna from herself. I, too, have dealt with the issue of enabling. When is the time to step in? Do we have the right to tell someone how to live, even if they have chosen a destructive lifestyle?
Bette felt they were a normal family, until Donna ran away. Even after she came back, they were never the same. Donna fell in love with a loser, who divorced her and left her after she had a baby. She married him again and had another child, but the marriage didn’t stick. We don’t choose who we fall in love with. She never quit loving him, even until her death. She was a great mother, full of love. The real loss was when the nest was EMPTY.
“Having a sister is like having a thumb, you simply believe it will always be there, because how could you possible get along without it.”
I have tears in my eyes as I read this. I recently lost one of my sisters and this almost sounds like her biography. She used to call me tag-a-long when we were kids, because I followed her everywhere. It is still hard to believe she is really gone. We do become involved in our daily lives and think tomorrow I’ll….call her…get with her….take the time to stop in…...At least I can take consolation in the fact that she lived her life the way she wanted ( like Donna).
Bette Lee Crosby left out the horrid details that would rip our hearts out, but I felt the pain, as she relived the memories. With the loss of my sister, I can relate to the story on a very personal level. When do you step in, especially when you know it will do no good? We must remember, it is their life. They are a grown up. We can lie to ourselves and live in denial, but what will be, will be. My sister and Donna chose their exit from this world. Won’t we do the same?
Bette’s books can be thought provoking, heart wrenching and uplifting all at the same time. She can make me sob like a baby, when my heart is broken and laugh like a happy child, when a delightful surprise comes my way. Bette Lee’s books don’t always end with a happy ever after, but they do cover a lot of life’s trials and tribulations that we are familiar with.
I received Blueberry Hill from Bette Lee in return for an honest, unbiased review.
“Wouldn’t you love to go there?”
“Go where?”
“Blueberry Hill.”
“Blueberry Hill isn’t a real place. It’s just a title somebody made up for the song.”
“Believe what you want, but I know it’s real.”
To give a lot when you have a lot is easy, but to give a lot when you have so little is indeed a gift of love.
“You can love her or hate her, but you will never control her.” My sister to a T.
I received Blueberry Hil; in return for an honest, unbiased review.
August 12, 2014
BLUEBERRY HILL is a memoir of sorts . It loosely tells of the relationship between the author and one of her sisters, a sister who chose a different path in life And died at an early age because of it. I was somewhat disappointed in this book after reading most of Crosby's other novel's for two reasons. One was that it was such a short read. Most of her books are much longer ... Secondly, this book was strictly a narrative , not a true novel, in my opinion . I had expected more of a STORY LINE to follow rather than just Donna's life. I often wondered what what going on with Bette during all of this? Where were her kids? Etc. I am glad that I satisfied my curiosity by reading this book, but also happy that I bought it at a bat gain price.
June 14, 2019
This story written by Bette Lee Crosby is about her and her sister Donna. This book really tugs at your heartstrings. One sister a dare devil always taking chances while the other is the good sister.
Tears and laughter as you read about the love of these two sisters.
Tears and laughter as you read about the love of these two sisters.
December 26, 2020
Touching
Memories of the good times, the not so good times, the ordinary days... times of Hope, times of despair. Life, the good, the bad, the times that touch our hearts....
Memories of the good times, the not so good times, the ordinary days... times of Hope, times of despair. Life, the good, the bad, the times that touch our hearts....
August 13, 2016
This book was written by Bette Lee Crosby and is about her and her sister, Donna's life growing up. A true story that will leave you breathless and in tears.
Donna is the youngest child when the story first starts out. Bette is the oldest and for some reason her mother thinks she is responsible for the things her younger sisters do. When Donna finds out that their mother is going to have another baby she does not like it and wants her to not have one or at least make it a boy. Like she could do that one. lol
Donna is a teenager she gets mad at her mother and runs away. She is gone for six months and her mother is so worried and fears the worst. Of course Donna ends up coming back home and gets a job and eventually her own place. She learned fairly early how to get things that she really wanted.
She is a strong person and is always there for Bette as Bette is for her.
She was a wonderful mother and loved her children more than anything.
When she got sick it was hard for Bette to really come to terms with. She kept thinking she would be okay and get better.
I tried to read this book and not get emotional but that is impossible. I cried so hard near the end that I couldn't read until I calmed myself down. It was truly a good story and if anyone can read this without crying then all I can say is they are way to hardhearted.
It is a big 5 star book that everyone I know will love. Thank you Bette Lee Crosby for sharing this wonderful story with us. It is truly a gift of a part of your life.
Donna is the youngest child when the story first starts out. Bette is the oldest and for some reason her mother thinks she is responsible for the things her younger sisters do. When Donna finds out that their mother is going to have another baby she does not like it and wants her to not have one or at least make it a boy. Like she could do that one. lol
Donna is a teenager she gets mad at her mother and runs away. She is gone for six months and her mother is so worried and fears the worst. Of course Donna ends up coming back home and gets a job and eventually her own place. She learned fairly early how to get things that she really wanted.
She is a strong person and is always there for Bette as Bette is for her.
She was a wonderful mother and loved her children more than anything.
When she got sick it was hard for Bette to really come to terms with. She kept thinking she would be okay and get better.
I tried to read this book and not get emotional but that is impossible. I cried so hard near the end that I couldn't read until I calmed myself down. It was truly a good story and if anyone can read this without crying then all I can say is they are way to hardhearted.
It is a big 5 star book that everyone I know will love. Thank you Bette Lee Crosby for sharing this wonderful story with us. It is truly a gift of a part of your life.
August 11, 2014
Blueberry Hill is a memorial to a gone sister. Bette and Donna, though sisters, were about as opposite as they could be. Bette was the strong, good, steady sister. Donna was the devil may care sister, always taking chances, never caring, living for the moment. Donna made some choices that were difficult for Bette and the rest of the family to understand and/or accept, but they were true to Donna. The book portrays Donna as a selfish, self-centered child and adult, who listens to no one and puts her whole family through some agonizing times. This is a well written book, but not one of the author’s best works. Perhaps I just found it too difficult to relate to Donna and her antics and the way the rest responded. The author definitely shows us Donna in all her “glory”, as well as how others accept, relate to and even suffer because of her and her decisions. In the end, it our decisions that define us, whether. Like Donna, we choose to accept them or not. One thing I did wonder about is why no one ever thought of trying tough love. If they had, the end might have been different. I enjoyed this book, but not nearly as much as the others by this author that I have read. Sometimes I almost felt like I was eavesdropping into areas where I had no business, as the moments, though described well, were almost too personal for an outsider. I am not sure about the demographic for this book. If you enjoy reading the author’s works, you might or might not enjoy this one. It is definitely different from the others. I received this from Library Thing to read and review.
July 2, 2014
Blueberry Hill. If you've ever loved and lost a person, read this book. If you've ever loved someone who struggles with addiction, read this book. If you've ever wrestled with accepting a loved one's path, read this book.
Once again write-from-the heart author, Bette Lee Crosby has delivered a story that tugs at your heart strings and nudges you to consider the choices and people in your own life. This fictionalized memoir entertains, challenges and soothes. Bette Lee shines the lens on her family and relationships and allows readers to share a private and painful part of her own life. Poignant and engaging,raw and honest, there is real truth revealed. It is simultaneously, both her story and a universal story with which readers can identify. Like all books of quality, the story stays with you, inviting you to explore its full power over time.
Loyal followers of Bette Lee Crosby will not be surprised by the emotional richness of the book. New readers will quickly become members of the Bette Lee Fan Club. I rate Blueberry Hill 5***** I started it last night and couldn't put it down!
Once again write-from-the heart author, Bette Lee Crosby has delivered a story that tugs at your heart strings and nudges you to consider the choices and people in your own life. This fictionalized memoir entertains, challenges and soothes. Bette Lee shines the lens on her family and relationships and allows readers to share a private and painful part of her own life. Poignant and engaging,raw and honest, there is real truth revealed. It is simultaneously, both her story and a universal story with which readers can identify. Like all books of quality, the story stays with you, inviting you to explore its full power over time.
Loyal followers of Bette Lee Crosby will not be surprised by the emotional richness of the book. New readers will quickly become members of the Bette Lee Fan Club. I rate Blueberry Hill 5***** I started it last night and couldn't put it down!
July 10, 2014
I have never read a book by Bette Lee Crosby that I didn't love. And as usual, this one did not disappoint. In fact, with this being the story of her life and relationship with her sister made it touch me even more. I'm sure it was hard to write at times. But she tells it so well.
There are heart breaking as well as heart warming moments in this book. All are told in the down to earth way that the author writes. You will come to feel as if you are her best friend or part of the family. You'll be happy with her and you'll cry with her. If you have a sister, this story will tug at your heart strings.
Bette, as the eldest sister, grew up feeling responsible for the care of her younger sisters, especially her middle one. This is difficult even as a parent if a child is strong willed as her sister was. You will get so caught up in this story that you won't want to put it down.
I highly recommend this book as well as any books by Bette Lee Crosby! She writes books that touch your heart.
There are heart breaking as well as heart warming moments in this book. All are told in the down to earth way that the author writes. You will come to feel as if you are her best friend or part of the family. You'll be happy with her and you'll cry with her. If you have a sister, this story will tug at your heart strings.
Bette, as the eldest sister, grew up feeling responsible for the care of her younger sisters, especially her middle one. This is difficult even as a parent if a child is strong willed as her sister was. You will get so caught up in this story that you won't want to put it down.
I highly recommend this book as well as any books by Bette Lee Crosby! She writes books that touch your heart.
November 1, 2019
I read Blueberry Hill a few years ago and loved it. But a few weeks ago I discovered it's the authors story about her sister so I reread it. I'm one of 5 girls in my family
So I understand the relationship of sisters. We are all so completely different. I have titles for 4 of us poor pitiful me, the mean one, the youngest of 7 kids is the only child and the good one that would be me. The mean one really was tuff but very protective of others, the poor pitiful one well that kinda explains itself. The only child of 7 kids was so much younger that when we were all out of the house she was on her own. Me, the good one was in my opinion the hardest because from ,a young child I had to take of everyone else, keep the lease. We were all so different but with incredible love like Bette and her sister. The bond between sisters is an incredible thing so cherish it because you never know when 1 will be gone.
So I understand the relationship of sisters. We are all so completely different. I have titles for 4 of us poor pitiful me, the mean one, the youngest of 7 kids is the only child and the good one that would be me. The mean one really was tuff but very protective of others, the poor pitiful one well that kinda explains itself. The only child of 7 kids was so much younger that when we were all out of the house she was on her own. Me, the good one was in my opinion the hardest because from ,a young child I had to take of everyone else, keep the lease. We were all so different but with incredible love like Bette and her sister. The bond between sisters is an incredible thing so cherish it because you never know when 1 will be gone.
July 3, 2014
Bette Lee Crosby is one of my very favorite authors. Why? Because she writes seemingly so effortlessly that I feel like she's there talking to me. I can settle in and just listen to her words (in my head, of course). Every one of her books are like that for me.
Blueberry Hill must have been difficult for her to write. As close as she was to her sister, the story had to be close to her heart. It is a wonderful story of family. We all have them, some good, some not so much. Bette's love for her family shines through in her words on the page. This book makes me want to hold my family closer and make sure they know how much I love them.
I highly recommend this book to everyone. If you have not read Bette's books before now, this book is a great opportunity to look inside what makes an author.
Blueberry Hill must have been difficult for her to write. As close as she was to her sister, the story had to be close to her heart. It is a wonderful story of family. We all have them, some good, some not so much. Bette's love for her family shines through in her words on the page. This book makes me want to hold my family closer and make sure they know how much I love them.
I highly recommend this book to everyone. If you have not read Bette's books before now, this book is a great opportunity to look inside what makes an author.
August 16, 2014
Blueberry Hill: A Sister's Story
This is the story of two sisters Donna & Bette. It tells of the special bond the two have from childhood up until adulthood. The sisters have very different personalities/ complete opposites, yet they are still very close even though they lead very different lives.
I really loved Blueberry Hill: a Sister's Story, I could really relate to Donna. I myself have a twin sister and we are complete opposites, yet have always remained very close. This is a story of sisters, family, love and heartache. A very heartfelt story that will remain in my heart for a long time. I highly recommend to all.
This is the story of two sisters Donna & Bette. It tells of the special bond the two have from childhood up until adulthood. The sisters have very different personalities/ complete opposites, yet they are still very close even though they lead very different lives.
I really loved Blueberry Hill: a Sister's Story, I could really relate to Donna. I myself have a twin sister and we are complete opposites, yet have always remained very close. This is a story of sisters, family, love and heartache. A very heartfelt story that will remain in my heart for a long time. I highly recommend to all.
February 23, 2016
Cant get enough of Bette Lee Crosby. She did it again with this heart warming story of two sisters (based partially on a memoir) and the bond they have. It is story of Bette and her sister Donna in their younger days - their differences - their love - and their understanding of a situation that can only lead to heartache. As they grew up, although different in so many ways, they found time to put each other first and have a relationship that, although one is gone, will never end. A quick but unforgettable read.
July 26, 2014
Bette is such an awesome story teller. While this story is partially true about her sister Donna, I think any reader could relate to the story in one way or another. I felt like Donna was my sister too and that what she, Bette, Geri and their mother experienced could have been something in my life.
Definitely have tissues ready for the end, while you know what is coming it will still have an affect on you, at least it did for me.
Definitely have tissues ready for the end, while you know what is coming it will still have an affect on you, at least it did for me.
October 29, 2015
A memoir of the author, Bette Lee Crosby, of her younger sister Donna and the heartbreaking circumstances of their relationship. I had a feeling of lacking depth into more of the characters who appear in the book, which later I found out that it was intentionally so, as explained in the Author's Note and the end of the book.
A quick read of Bette's story of her love to her sister.
A quick read of Bette's story of her love to her sister.
May 27, 2016
I'm the baby sister in my family of seven children. My sister Toni was the one always challenging Mother, and the only one who didn't "get" algebra. I was the serious one, the scaredy-cat.
Sisters can be that way, and like Donna's sister Bette, Toni always had my back. She died too young, too. Hers was from Parkinson's Disease.
Sisters can be that way, and like Donna's sister Bette, Toni always had my back. She died too young, too. Hers was from Parkinson's Disease.
April 8, 2015
This was a very personal story from this author - part novel, part memoir, but the narrative style and brevity left me feeling that something was missing.
June 29, 2018
The author had me at the first sentence. I spent the rest of the book trying to figure it out. Turns out I was wrong. This is a fiction book, based on the recounting of the author's memories of life with her younger sister. I did not realize it was the author until I saw Bette used as the name of the narrator. What a gripping, page turning book! Having a sister, I completely understood the emotions the author shared with the reader. Donna, the younger sister, was the carefree sister. Bette, the oldest sister, was the careful one. Geri, the youngest sister, moves in and out of this book. Their mother, Mama, is another person who is present throughout the entire book. I have a daughter and so can understand some of Mama's thoughts and actions.
We have all made decisions that were not in our best interest at one point or another in our lives. Donna, though, seems to have a knack for making those more often than not. She falls in love with Charlie, marries him, has a son, divorces Charlie. She remarries Charlie, has a daughter, divorces Charlie. However, some of her best decisions are showcased in her relationship with her daughter Debi. Debi is an incredible tribute to Donna.
Donna shows strength when the reader may not be expecting it. She makes a decision that seems to be counterproductive but turns out to be the best for her situation. Looking at things through another's eyes instead of always using our own eyes sometimes leads to miscommunication and misunderstanding. That was almost the case for the two older sisters.
What wonderful memories the author must have and how fortunate I am that I read her book detailing many of them.
We have all made decisions that were not in our best interest at one point or another in our lives. Donna, though, seems to have a knack for making those more often than not. She falls in love with Charlie, marries him, has a son, divorces Charlie. She remarries Charlie, has a daughter, divorces Charlie. However, some of her best decisions are showcased in her relationship with her daughter Debi. Debi is an incredible tribute to Donna.
Donna shows strength when the reader may not be expecting it. She makes a decision that seems to be counterproductive but turns out to be the best for her situation. Looking at things through another's eyes instead of always using our own eyes sometimes leads to miscommunication and misunderstanding. That was almost the case for the two older sisters.
What wonderful memories the author must have and how fortunate I am that I read her book detailing many of them.
April 8, 2021
This is a Story about sisters.
Starting at a young age. Donna is definitely the wild one.. prefers Jean's to the skirts thats not Prim and proper in those days. Also momma didn't like the the jeans.
Not very lady like.
Donna soon Runs away from home. But after being gone . For 3 months. Once being back home. Things for her are just as she wants. Smoking drinking. Doing her own thing...
Though little sister Donna has always been there when others were picking on her sister..
As life goes on Donna's still living the fast life marries the the one. she believes is her love..
But things don't always work out .as you think they might.
Baby's come but still. Not quite what it should be..
Before you know it, the kids are grown, and everything you know in life has completely taken a different turn...
But no matter what. Sister till the End.
This is part memoir
As memory's fade Though the years. As the author said.
I Truly Enjoy this Book.
Thank You Bette Lee Crosby.
Starting at a young age. Donna is definitely the wild one.. prefers Jean's to the skirts thats not Prim and proper in those days. Also momma didn't like the the jeans.
Not very lady like.
Donna soon Runs away from home. But after being gone . For 3 months. Once being back home. Things for her are just as she wants. Smoking drinking. Doing her own thing...
Though little sister Donna has always been there when others were picking on her sister..
As life goes on Donna's still living the fast life marries the the one. she believes is her love..
But things don't always work out .as you think they might.
Baby's come but still. Not quite what it should be..
Before you know it, the kids are grown, and everything you know in life has completely taken a different turn...
But no matter what. Sister till the End.
This is part memoir
As memory's fade Though the years. As the author said.
I Truly Enjoy this Book.
Thank You Bette Lee Crosby.
July 30, 2019
A Poignant Memoir
Beautifully written Bette Lee Crosby shares with us one snapshot of her life: The death of her Sister, Donna and the life they shared. It's a raw and honest memoir about what a family is and isn't; filled with quips and sage observations, I found myself taking a few notes for future journal reflections. While Blueberry Hill is a heart-rending read it has just the right amount of humor and good memories shared to balance it into a valuable read. Bravery is as much putting your most personal feelings out in the open for the world to see as it is riding a red bicycle. Reading Blueberry Hill will explain that to you. Thank you to Bette Lee Crosby, Author, for sharing your Sister's story with us.
Beautifully written Bette Lee Crosby shares with us one snapshot of her life: The death of her Sister, Donna and the life they shared. It's a raw and honest memoir about what a family is and isn't; filled with quips and sage observations, I found myself taking a few notes for future journal reflections. While Blueberry Hill is a heart-rending read it has just the right amount of humor and good memories shared to balance it into a valuable read. Bravery is as much putting your most personal feelings out in the open for the world to see as it is riding a red bicycle. Reading Blueberry Hill will explain that to you. Thank you to Bette Lee Crosby, Author, for sharing your Sister's story with us.
November 17, 2019
Review of Blueberry Hill
Without question, this is one of the saddest, heart-breaking books I have come across in a very long time, particularly by Bette Lee Crosby! A story of the struggle created by real live health issues which have affected many of our lives! I am left with an emptiness in my own heart, and sadly, reminded of my own father's death. I am glad she left out the graphic details, since no one needs to read those that few will understand. Thanks, Bette Lee Crosby for this beautifully written, passionate story of your sister's life, and all who were deeply affected by it. You have reminded me, once again, of how important our moments here are, and to seek pleasure in each day, no matter what we face each and every day!
Without question, this is one of the saddest, heart-breaking books I have come across in a very long time, particularly by Bette Lee Crosby! A story of the struggle created by real live health issues which have affected many of our lives! I am left with an emptiness in my own heart, and sadly, reminded of my own father's death. I am glad she left out the graphic details, since no one needs to read those that few will understand. Thanks, Bette Lee Crosby for this beautifully written, passionate story of your sister's life, and all who were deeply affected by it. You have reminded me, once again, of how important our moments here are, and to seek pleasure in each day, no matter what we face each and every day!
October 17, 2019
The bond of sisters...
What an awesome story this was. When you have a sister and tragedy strikes it affects everyone. No one wants bad things to happen to a family member but sometimes it is just out of our hands. Learning about Donna and all she went through just breaks your heart. You want to take that pain away but you can’t so you be as supportive as you can. That person makes their own decision on how to handle their situation even when others might not agree. You hang on to those memories so you can move forward. The bond of sisters is a special thing and each day together is a gift. I highly recommend this book.
What an awesome story this was. When you have a sister and tragedy strikes it affects everyone. No one wants bad things to happen to a family member but sometimes it is just out of our hands. Learning about Donna and all she went through just breaks your heart. You want to take that pain away but you can’t so you be as supportive as you can. That person makes their own decision on how to handle their situation even when others might not agree. You hang on to those memories so you can move forward. The bond of sisters is a special thing and each day together is a gift. I highly recommend this book.
July 10, 2017
This is a tear jerker. Do not read without several boxes of tissues. As usual Bette Lee Crosby writes a book that is honest, heart-warming, happy, yet sad, and one I couldn't put down. I actually wished I had a sister, even if it was one like Donna, who wasn't a bad person; just one who was full of life. Donna had no fear, and I think, some of that lack of fear, in the end, rubbed off on her sister. One can definitely see the life lessons the author wishes to share with the reader. Thank you, Bette Lee Crosby for sharing with us this story.
July 9, 2023
A Real Tearjerker For Me
Donna & Bette were loving, very different sisters. Hardly agreeing throughout life esp growing into adults. What stood out to me personally was the Promise of caring for her kids when she was gone. I did that with my precious sister. No one could know that heartache without experiencing it. Gone but not forgotten is how I see my sister, at the least once a day.
An eye opener book into our love and lives of Sisterhood. I did cry, as I read it all, so very similar to our story with lung cancer.
Every sister should read this book.
Donna & Bette were loving, very different sisters. Hardly agreeing throughout life esp growing into adults. What stood out to me personally was the Promise of caring for her kids when she was gone. I did that with my precious sister. No one could know that heartache without experiencing it. Gone but not forgotten is how I see my sister, at the least once a day.
An eye opener book into our love and lives of Sisterhood. I did cry, as I read it all, so very similar to our story with lung cancer.
Every sister should read this book.
February 24, 2019
Memories
This story was bitter-sweet.It's heartbreaking but opens our eyes to so many things.In life we need to take chances & try new things & not be afraid.But it's not good to shut people out of our lives and pretend all is ok when it's not.We need to share the good and the bad.It's always good to think of the memories! We can only give our opinions and people will do what they want.
This story was bitter-sweet.It's heartbreaking but opens our eyes to so many things.In life we need to take chances & try new things & not be afraid.But it's not good to shut people out of our lives and pretend all is ok when it's not.We need to share the good and the bad.It's always good to think of the memories! We can only give our opinions and people will do what they want.
September 5, 2019
Intense story
I’m not sure how I feel about this book. The author says it is both a work of fiction and a true story from her own life. She told her side of losing a beloved sister to a terrible illness. That in itself is an act of courage. The one thing I love most about ms Crosby’s books is the reality she puts into her stories. Since this one is told from memories, it is a poignant, painful saga.
I’m not sure how I feel about this book. The author says it is both a work of fiction and a true story from her own life. She told her side of losing a beloved sister to a terrible illness. That in itself is an act of courage. The one thing I love most about ms Crosby’s books is the reality she puts into her stories. Since this one is told from memories, it is a poignant, painful saga.
October 14, 2019
Sisters
Like Bette, I have 2 sisters, although I'm the middle sister. I found this book very interesting in that oftentimes sisters can be very different, and sometimes the most conservative one is closest to the wildest one, although it would seem they'd be closer to the one with more in common.
Bette's story about her sister Donna tugs at heartstrings, it's hard to watch a family member be hurt and then hurt themselves.
Great story about families, especially sisters.
Like Bette, I have 2 sisters, although I'm the middle sister. I found this book very interesting in that oftentimes sisters can be very different, and sometimes the most conservative one is closest to the wildest one, although it would seem they'd be closer to the one with more in common.
Bette's story about her sister Donna tugs at heartstrings, it's hard to watch a family member be hurt and then hurt themselves.
Great story about families, especially sisters.
November 1, 2019
This book is just as thought-provoking and emotional as all the other books I’ve read by Bette Lee Crosby. Happy, as well as sad, memories connect the author to her sister, Donna. Although Donna makes decisions and lives life in ways that are not always in her best interests, Bette is a life-long supportive sister. She endures the pain of a progressive illness right along with her sister. I would recommend this book to anyone.
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