To help you with the big topics of body development, Dannah Gresh, creator of the Secret Keeper Girl events, offers 8 Great Dates for Helping Your Daughter Know and Love Her Body. This easy-to-use resource for creative and focused activities with your 8- to 12-year-old girl promises to make the conversations easy and fun!
At the same time, these 8 Great Dates will infuse your daughter with God's truth about her body to counteract our culture's lies about beauty, gender, and value. You'll tackle the following key issues: hair and body care getting your period healthy eating exercise and yes, sex (but you decide what and how to share)
An easy-to-use mom's planning guide and online resources such as audio conversations with Dannah offer more ways to build your mom-daughter connection--and to love and protect your little girl as she grows into a woman. About this series: The 8 Great Dates books offer parents solid, godly advice on connecting with their tween girls. Each book provides everything you need to plan and carry out eight fun get-togethers with your girl--perfect one-on-one or for a small group of parents and their energetic 8- to 12-year-old daughters. Every date is full of fun--while at the same time focusing on one topic that's important to a tween girl's life and imparting a life- and faith-enhancing message.
Dannah Gresh, a mother/daughter communication coach, has sold well over three quarters of a million copies of her books—including And the Bride Wore White and 2008's best-selling CBA youth book, Lies Young Women Believe (coauthored with Nancy Leigh DeMoss)—making her one of the most successful Christian authors targeting teens and preteens. With the belief that today's culture has been seeking to rob little girls of their innocence, Dannah has been fighting on the front lines to protect them. Her fun line of Secret Keeper Girl mom/preteen daughter connecting resources and live events that tour the country provide moms with just the right tools to fight back. She has long been at the forefront of the movement to encourage both tweens and teens to pursue purity and is often called upon to defend the conservative position of abstinence in national news media like USA Today, Time, Chicago Tribune, and Women's Wear Daily. She is also a frequent contributor to FamilyLife Today, Midday Connection, and Focus on the Family. Dannah lives in State College, Pennsylvania, with her husband, Bob, and their children, Robby, Lexi, and Autumn, whom the family adopted from China in 2007. She and her husband founded Grace Prep, a new model in Christian high school education, which Bob administrates. She is shamelessly in love with her labradoodle, Stormie. (DannahGresh.com)
3.5 stars. I'm struggling with how to rate and review this one. I appreciate the author's heart and love that she calls out legalism in parenting. I think she raises some good talking and thinking points for parents of tween girls. However, if you have been parenting a girl for 9-12 years already, I hope that you have had a lot of these conversations (to a certain degree) before now! Some of these "conversations" are pretty foundational, and if you wait for *one* culminating conversation to address them, that isn't going to be enough. Some of the ideas seemed outdated or cheesy (the book is from 2015) and I was disappointed that a book dealing with health and wellness called for so many fake foods, but that is a personal pet peeve. Again, I do really appreciate the author's heart and will look at some of her other books, especially the one for tweens regarding personal hygiene as that is a tricky subject these days!
Excellent content, but it wasn't what I was looking for or expecting. This book is very similar to "It's Great to be a Girl" and even references it in many of the chapters. I was looking for a more in-depth book on addressing eating disorders, body dysmorphia, overeating, obsession with outward beauty, etc. White it has godly truths that need sharing, "Raising a Body-Confident Daughter" was more of an overview of the "how" and the "why" God made our bodies. Again, an excellent book that I recommend, just not what I was looking for.