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Light Her Fire: How to Ignite Passion, Joy, and Excitement in the Woman You Love
Whether your marriage is in the doldrums, your relationship is on the skids, or you're single and looking for love, Ellen Kreidman shows you how to become a world-class lover, the kind that plays for keeps. Here is a seven-step guide to real and lasting happiness that truly works! Discover: What turns her on -- and turns her off.
What a woman "really" wants -- no matter what she says!
How to celebrate your differences.
Fifty -one ways to keep her fire on high.
How to express your love -- and have a sexy, marvelous time doing it.
True intimacy in a relationship where the needs of both partners are met.
How to become the only man she'll over want -- or need.
Complete with Action Assignments and Confidential Advice on creating exotic adventures and an evening you'll never forget!
" "Light His Fire" and "Light Her Fire" [are] guides to keeping your love life fresh, challenging and hot, hot, hot!" -- "San Diego Union".
What a woman "really" wants -- no matter what she says!
How to celebrate your differences.
Fifty -one ways to keep her fire on high.
How to express your love -- and have a sexy, marvelous time doing it.
True intimacy in a relationship where the needs of both partners are met.
How to become the only man she'll over want -- or need.
Complete with Action Assignments and Confidential Advice on creating exotic adventures and an evening you'll never forget!
" "Light His Fire" and "Light Her Fire" [are] guides to keeping your love life fresh, challenging and hot, hot, hot!" -- "San Diego Union".
272 pages, Mass Market Paperback
First published January 1, 1991
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July 24, 2017
Great book!
Lots of helpful advice for men on how to have a more loving relationship.
To remember all the advice I summarized the book here:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1k...
Lots of helpful advice for men on how to have a more loving relationship.
To remember all the advice I summarized the book here:
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1k...
November 5, 2007
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May 29, 2019
I don't think men will go too far wrong if they follow the advice in this book. Take time to talk, don't stop courting once you're in a committed relationship, allow time for women to unwind from their other responsibilities before you expect passion, the usual family counselling tips.
I've read better, more complete books about communication. This is a first book for husbands who aren't ready to think about communication skills for promotions, entrepreneurial success, teaching, etc., but just to realize that communication will also help them get laid. My question would be whether people on that level of communication skills read books.
Kreidman suggests that all women normally experience premenstrual/menstrual symptoms that feel as nasty as a bad case of flu, every single month. I'm glad to remember that that wasn't true! Should men take the approach Kreidman describes? Yes, because reality is usually so much less unpleasant than Kreidman recommends being braced for it to be.
I've read better, more complete books about communication. This is a first book for husbands who aren't ready to think about communication skills for promotions, entrepreneurial success, teaching, etc., but just to realize that communication will also help them get laid. My question would be whether people on that level of communication skills read books.
Kreidman suggests that all women normally experience premenstrual/menstrual symptoms that feel as nasty as a bad case of flu, every single month. I'm glad to remember that that wasn't true! Should men take the approach Kreidman describes? Yes, because reality is usually so much less unpleasant than Kreidman recommends being braced for it to be.
January 29, 2024
Here are a few notes from the first time that I read it.
She highly recommends the video Don Juan De Marco, even though it was not a success in the marketplace. My wife didn’t like the movie at all and I wasn’t impressed with it either.
95% of the time your mate is looking for a shoulder to lean on; not answers.
If you don't take time for conversation with your mate, you will have an angry fault finding mate.
Go for a walk with your mate. There was a couple that were becoming estranged. They began walking together, and became really thrilled with the spouse that they had.
Spend 30 minutes a day talking with her - devoted exclusively to her.
A man is productive when he is happy. A woman is happy when she is productive.
There is nothing a woman won’t do for a man who makes her feel good about herself.
One of the Homework assignments: Concentrate on her good attributes only. For one week if there is anything you want to be critical about, write it down instead.
2: Notice some of the little things that she does and tell her that you appreciate them.
3: Let her know what you like about her personality.
Another assignment (near the end of the book): Write a 10 statement biography. If a person was to really understand you, what 10 things would they need to know?
One more thing which was from the beginning of the book: Manipulation does not work. Actions must be from sincere love.
She highly recommends the video Don Juan De Marco, even though it was not a success in the marketplace. My wife didn’t like the movie at all and I wasn’t impressed with it either.
95% of the time your mate is looking for a shoulder to lean on; not answers.
If you don't take time for conversation with your mate, you will have an angry fault finding mate.
Go for a walk with your mate. There was a couple that were becoming estranged. They began walking together, and became really thrilled with the spouse that they had.
Spend 30 minutes a day talking with her - devoted exclusively to her.
A man is productive when he is happy. A woman is happy when she is productive.
There is nothing a woman won’t do for a man who makes her feel good about herself.
One of the Homework assignments: Concentrate on her good attributes only. For one week if there is anything you want to be critical about, write it down instead.
2: Notice some of the little things that she does and tell her that you appreciate them.
3: Let her know what you like about her personality.
Another assignment (near the end of the book): Write a 10 statement biography. If a person was to really understand you, what 10 things would they need to know?
One more thing which was from the beginning of the book: Manipulation does not work. Actions must be from sincere love.
January 2, 2022
Another wonderful book for men to learn from. Ellen is fun!!
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October 26, 2008
Interesting analysis however the woman is just talking too darned fast! I kind of want to get a handout to keep track of her ideas.
July 29, 2016
What did I think? I think every man should read this. They'll be happier with themselves. Why? Because they will make their woman happier and they will get what they want effortlessly!!
August 3, 2011
Thoughtful, provoking, convicting.
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