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That's Not How It Happened
From the Emmy-nominated co-creator and Executive Producer of How I Met Your Mother, this smart, funny, bighearted novel for fans of Kevin Wilson and Monica Heisey, follows a family turned upside down after a major actress-turned-producer decides to make a movie version of their lives.
Paige didn’t set out to be a stay-at-home mom, but when her husband’s screenwriting career took off right before they had a son with Down syndrome, the decision was made for her. Now, with the children she's devoted her adult life to nearly grown and unsure what's next, she writes a memoir about the challenges of raising a child with a disability. When Hollywood shows up at her door eager to make her “inspiring” story into a movie, she’s shocked, excited, and only a little terrified.
This movie just might be the comeback opportunity her husband, Rob, desperately needs. His screenwriting career has fizzled in recent years. But the movie is going to need a screenwriter, and who better to adapt his wife's memoir than him?... Meanwhile, their son, Emmett, doesn’t understand why people think his Down syndrome is the most important thing in his life—but he hopes his newfound fame might somehow get him closer to meeting his idol, Eddie Vedder. Their daughter, Darcy, couldn't care less about the whole thing because she’s hardly even in their mom's book. The “normal” child who nobody ever worries about is feeling more forgotten than ever as her love life implodes and college decisions loom.
As their lives are chewed up and spit out by the Hollywood machine, triggering old resentments and launching new betrayals, will any of them even recognize the "inspiring" family in this film? Or will this "feel-good" movie be the end of them?
Paige didn’t set out to be a stay-at-home mom, but when her husband’s screenwriting career took off right before they had a son with Down syndrome, the decision was made for her. Now, with the children she's devoted her adult life to nearly grown and unsure what's next, she writes a memoir about the challenges of raising a child with a disability. When Hollywood shows up at her door eager to make her “inspiring” story into a movie, she’s shocked, excited, and only a little terrified.
This movie just might be the comeback opportunity her husband, Rob, desperately needs. His screenwriting career has fizzled in recent years. But the movie is going to need a screenwriter, and who better to adapt his wife's memoir than him?... Meanwhile, their son, Emmett, doesn’t understand why people think his Down syndrome is the most important thing in his life—but he hopes his newfound fame might somehow get him closer to meeting his idol, Eddie Vedder. Their daughter, Darcy, couldn't care less about the whole thing because she’s hardly even in their mom's book. The “normal” child who nobody ever worries about is feeling more forgotten than ever as her love life implodes and college decisions loom.
As their lives are chewed up and spit out by the Hollywood machine, triggering old resentments and launching new betrayals, will any of them even recognize the "inspiring" family in this film? Or will this "feel-good" movie be the end of them?
320 pages, Hardcover
Published November 4, 2025
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November 19, 2025
As a huge How I Met Your Mother fan, I was so excited to dive into this audiobook featuring Cobie Smulders and Josh Radnor—and it was such a delight to listen to!
The story is full of heart and humor, and it thoughtfully illustrates the challenges families face when a loved one has disabilities, all while capturing the chaos and charm of getting your feet wet in Hollywood. I felt genuinely entertained and connected to the characters from start to finish.
Cobie, Josh, and the entire narrator cast did a phenomenal job bringing this story to life. Their performances added so much depth and emotion that I couldn’t stop listening.
Overall, it was fun, heartfelt, and wonderfully engaging—an audiobook experience I’m really glad I picked up!
The story is full of heart and humor, and it thoughtfully illustrates the challenges families face when a loved one has disabilities, all while capturing the chaos and charm of getting your feet wet in Hollywood. I felt genuinely entertained and connected to the characters from start to finish.
Cobie, Josh, and the entire narrator cast did a phenomenal job bringing this story to life. Their performances added so much depth and emotion that I couldn’t stop listening.
Overall, it was fun, heartfelt, and wonderfully engaging—an audiobook experience I’m really glad I picked up!
November 11, 2025
My vote for best audiobook of the year~ this has 4 narrators to complete POV of a family of four.
Paige- the mother who put her journalism degree aside to care for her Down Syndrome child and writes a memoir as he has entered into early adulthood.
Rob- her husband, rom com screenwriter, who has several classics in the genre. He knows his best work is probably behind him.
Emmett- their son, who works at Cafe Everyone, a small restaurant run by all special needs adults. He wants nothing more than to marry Amy, the love of his life.
Darcy- their daughter, who is neurotypical and often forgotten, getting ready to commit to a college.
What an absolutely delightful surprise this book was. I had some extra credits so I added this from Book Of The Month, who rarely have an audiobook that doesn't have accompanying physical copy. I did buy a trophy copy after listening to only 20%. Because the characters are fantastic, the story is extremely heartwarming and hopeful. After reading the blurb, I was afraid this book would get tragic, and although I definitely shed some tears, it does not take a dark turn. This book is the perfect blend of conflict and resolution. An inside look at the tap dance between publishing and movie production industries. Even the minor characters stand out- this book is incredibly funny, while also being smart and engaging. I loved it!
Outstanding audio, outstanding debut. This is just so heartfelt.
Paige- the mother who put her journalism degree aside to care for her Down Syndrome child and writes a memoir as he has entered into early adulthood.
Rob- her husband, rom com screenwriter, who has several classics in the genre. He knows his best work is probably behind him.
Emmett- their son, who works at Cafe Everyone, a small restaurant run by all special needs adults. He wants nothing more than to marry Amy, the love of his life.
Darcy- their daughter, who is neurotypical and often forgotten, getting ready to commit to a college.
What an absolutely delightful surprise this book was. I had some extra credits so I added this from Book Of The Month, who rarely have an audiobook that doesn't have accompanying physical copy. I did buy a trophy copy after listening to only 20%. Because the characters are fantastic, the story is extremely heartwarming and hopeful. After reading the blurb, I was afraid this book would get tragic, and although I definitely shed some tears, it does not take a dark turn. This book is the perfect blend of conflict and resolution. An inside look at the tap dance between publishing and movie production industries. Even the minor characters stand out- this book is incredibly funny, while also being smart and engaging. I loved it!
Outstanding audio, outstanding debut. This is just so heartfelt.
November 7, 2025
This is a wonderful family novel, told from the alternating perspectives of each of the members of the family - mom Paige, dad Rob, young adult son Emmett who has Down’s Syndrome, and teenage daughter Darcy. Paige gave up her career decades early to care for her family, but recently wrote a memoir about being a special needs mom and how to grapple with the future for her son - a book she thinks not many people will read. Then a famous Hollywood actress (shades of Reese Witherspoon though not the same) champions it and wants to make it into a movie. And who gets tapped to write the script but Paige’s screenwriter husband Rob whose once successful rom com writing career has become a bit of a shambles. Meanwhile Emmett is grappling with wanting his parents to see him as an adult, and Darcy is facing her own struggles while feeling ignored by her family as the neurotypical child.
This book was just fabulous - funny but emotional, a big-hearted portrait of marriage and parenthood and siblinghood, and about living with Down’s syndrome - plus some fun Hollywood satire. I really loved how this book brought the family to life by giving us each of the family members’ perspectives, as they all love each other and mean well yet sometimes mess things up. And I thought the book was also really thought-provoking and educational about what it’s like to have a developmental disability and/or be in a family with someone who does, but without being preachy in any way. This would also make a terrific book club book as there is just so much to discuss - I had a great buddy read discussion with my friend.
And for audiobook fans, this book is a MUST on audio! I’m going to go ahead and say this is the best audio production of the year, even better than The Correspondent. Debut novelist Craig Thomas was one of the creators of the tv show How I Met Your Mother, and stars of that show Josh Radnor and Cobie Smulders voice Rob and Paige. I was a little worried that I wouldn’t be able to separate them from their HIMYM characters Ted and Robin, but in fact they completely disappeared into their characters here. Marli Watson is also wonderful as Darcy. And last but not least, Kevin Iannucci, who himself has Down’s Syndrome, is just wonderful as Emmett! Not just for the representation and authenticity but also he really is the beating heart of this book with his humor and emotions.
4.5 stars
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for both my e-ARC and ALC (out now); all opinions are my own.
This book was just fabulous - funny but emotional, a big-hearted portrait of marriage and parenthood and siblinghood, and about living with Down’s syndrome - plus some fun Hollywood satire. I really loved how this book brought the family to life by giving us each of the family members’ perspectives, as they all love each other and mean well yet sometimes mess things up. And I thought the book was also really thought-provoking and educational about what it’s like to have a developmental disability and/or be in a family with someone who does, but without being preachy in any way. This would also make a terrific book club book as there is just so much to discuss - I had a great buddy read discussion with my friend.
And for audiobook fans, this book is a MUST on audio! I’m going to go ahead and say this is the best audio production of the year, even better than The Correspondent. Debut novelist Craig Thomas was one of the creators of the tv show How I Met Your Mother, and stars of that show Josh Radnor and Cobie Smulders voice Rob and Paige. I was a little worried that I wouldn’t be able to separate them from their HIMYM characters Ted and Robin, but in fact they completely disappeared into their characters here. Marli Watson is also wonderful as Darcy. And last but not least, Kevin Iannucci, who himself has Down’s Syndrome, is just wonderful as Emmett! Not just for the representation and authenticity but also he really is the beating heart of this book with his humor and emotions.
4.5 stars
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for both my e-ARC and ALC (out now); all opinions are my own.
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June 22, 2025Written by the co-creator of How I Met Your Mother. Hmmm, interesting
November 9, 2025
𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗛𝗔𝗣𝗦
Rob and Paige McConnell love each other and their two children, Emmett and Darcy. But, like all families, they’ve had their share of highs and lows.
Among the most notable: Rob selling a romcom script for nearly a million dollars early in his career as a Hollywood writer and the birth of a son with Down’s syndrome.
Both fall into high and low.
When Paige’s memoir about being the mom to a son with a disability is targeted to be a vanity project for a book loving superstar, the experience throws the family into turmoil: Rob feels the spotlight shift away from him, Paige feels, firsthand, the experiences of Hollywood, Darcy searches for a space for herself, and Emmett demands to be allowed to grow up.
Will they come out whole on the other side, or will Tinseltown chew them up and spit them out?
𝗙𝗘𝗘𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗦
Absolute delight!
What a hilarious and poignant and very real exploration of love and marriage and family dynamics - no punches pulled!
Each character tells their own share of the story, a fantastic decision that exposes vulnerabilities, secrets, and lies, along with sweetness and joys.
While Emmett - voiced by an actor with Down’s - is the heart of the story, Darcy, who has always felt marginalized, delivers some of the best moments.
But, for me, the tiny unravelings in the marriage of two people who think they are doing what’s best for the other provided both the biggest laughs and the most significant bits.
And as an insider - Thomas was a writer on HIMYM - the commentary on the perils and pitfalls of show business were pitch perfect. Plus, as a father of a child with a disability, his understanding of and care for the character of Emmett was lovely.
𝗩𝗜𝗕𝗘 𝗖𝗛𝗘𝗖𝗞
The messy multi-POV of Hazel Says So with the humor of, well, a comedy show writer.
𝗥𝗘𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗗
Absolutely. How in the world is this debut not getting more traction? Do not miss out.
𝗪𝗛𝗬 𝗔𝗨𝗗𝗜𝗢
Enlisting Cobie Smulders, Josh Radnor, Kevin Iannucci, and Marli Watson ramps up the audio experience and is the best way to go!
Rob and Paige McConnell love each other and their two children, Emmett and Darcy. But, like all families, they’ve had their share of highs and lows.
Among the most notable: Rob selling a romcom script for nearly a million dollars early in his career as a Hollywood writer and the birth of a son with Down’s syndrome.
Both fall into high and low.
When Paige’s memoir about being the mom to a son with a disability is targeted to be a vanity project for a book loving superstar, the experience throws the family into turmoil: Rob feels the spotlight shift away from him, Paige feels, firsthand, the experiences of Hollywood, Darcy searches for a space for herself, and Emmett demands to be allowed to grow up.
Will they come out whole on the other side, or will Tinseltown chew them up and spit them out?
𝗙𝗘𝗘𝗟𝗜𝗡𝗚𝗦
Absolute delight!
What a hilarious and poignant and very real exploration of love and marriage and family dynamics - no punches pulled!
Each character tells their own share of the story, a fantastic decision that exposes vulnerabilities, secrets, and lies, along with sweetness and joys.
While Emmett - voiced by an actor with Down’s - is the heart of the story, Darcy, who has always felt marginalized, delivers some of the best moments.
But, for me, the tiny unravelings in the marriage of two people who think they are doing what’s best for the other provided both the biggest laughs and the most significant bits.
And as an insider - Thomas was a writer on HIMYM - the commentary on the perils and pitfalls of show business were pitch perfect. Plus, as a father of a child with a disability, his understanding of and care for the character of Emmett was lovely.
𝗩𝗜𝗕𝗘 𝗖𝗛𝗘𝗖𝗞
The messy multi-POV of Hazel Says So with the humor of, well, a comedy show writer.
𝗥𝗘𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗗
Absolutely. How in the world is this debut not getting more traction? Do not miss out.
𝗪𝗛𝗬 𝗔𝗨𝗗𝗜𝗢
Enlisting Cobie Smulders, Josh Radnor, Kevin Iannucci, and Marli Watson ramps up the audio experience and is the best way to go!
November 11, 2025
This was a FABULOUSLY funny and poignant debut about a family whose son Emmett has Down Syndrome and the way everyone's lives in the family revolve around Emmett in some way and how their world gets turned upside down when a movie version of their life gets the greenlight from Hollywood.
Told from multiple perspectives of each member of the family, this story is full of heart and humor but explores important topics like parenting a disabled child, the toll that takes on a marriage, the inequality of labor being the one to stay home vs the one who works outside the house and has to travel not to mention how the 'able bodied' sibling often gets overlooked and made to feel invisible.
I was extremely impressed with just how well the author nails each character's feelings and is able to tell the story with grace and respect while still making readers laugh. The audio narration is ESPECIALLY well done performed by Cobie Smulders and Josh Radnor (no doubt friends of the How I met your mother exec producer turned novelist author).
HIGHLY recommended for fans of authors like Kevin Wilson and Laurie Frankel! Craig Thomas is going to be an author to watch and I for one can't wait to see what he writes next! Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early audio copy in exchange for my honest review!
Told from multiple perspectives of each member of the family, this story is full of heart and humor but explores important topics like parenting a disabled child, the toll that takes on a marriage, the inequality of labor being the one to stay home vs the one who works outside the house and has to travel not to mention how the 'able bodied' sibling often gets overlooked and made to feel invisible.
I was extremely impressed with just how well the author nails each character's feelings and is able to tell the story with grace and respect while still making readers laugh. The audio narration is ESPECIALLY well done performed by Cobie Smulders and Josh Radnor (no doubt friends of the How I met your mother exec producer turned novelist author).
HIGHLY recommended for fans of authors like Kevin Wilson and Laurie Frankel! Craig Thomas is going to be an author to watch and I for one can't wait to see what he writes next! Many thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for an early audio copy in exchange for my honest review!
November 14, 2025
GUYS! This was a delight. While I’m not an audiobook person normally, I’m honestly tempted to also listen to the audiobook version of this even after finishing the physical copy. I think it’d be even MORE of a delight on audio if the reviews below are any indication and also based on the fact that 1) it’s full cast 2) the voice of Emmet is narrated by someone with down syndrome 3) Paige and the dad whose name I’m blanking on are voiced by Robin and Ted from How I Met your Mother. Speaking of HIMYM, this book was written by one of the show’s creators/writers and that tracks because you can tell that a funny person wrote it. You can also tell that he is the father of someone with a disability because the book treats the topic with the utmost respect and care and realness.
The story is a poignant, raw, and hilarious depiction of one family navigating down syndrome and how it impacts each of their lives. Each member of the family has a perspective in the book and you’re able to get a peak into all of their heads. I have to admit that reading Emmet’s perspective was my favorite, but all the narrations were heartfelt and real. The family is impossible not to love and though I was rapidly flipping through the pages of this one because I was enjoying it so much, I knew I’d be sad to finish and say goodbye to the McConnels. When it came to an end, I was indeed sad and am drowning my woes by making it my mission to get this on more people’s radars!
I do also appreciate that despite the fact that this story is full of humor, it doesn’t mask the harder aspects of navigating life with a disability, especially in regards to what that looks like after graduating out of the school system. Some really good food for thought in here about the treatment of differently abled people and how limited their opportunities become the older they get. The story comes with sucker punches, contemplation, emotions, and humor. Have I mentioned it’s funny? Because it’s really fucking funny.
Based on the fact that its author created and wrote such a cult classic TV show, I’m honestly shocked this hasn’t gotten more momentum. Not that who wrote it matters because big name or not, this book was just plain GOOD. I’m always searching for feel good books that AREN’T romances and this is exactly that. I recommend a lot of different books to a lot of different people and generally tailor my recommendations person to person because of taste, but this is a story I think everyone would enjoy and everyone should read. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll have fun and you’ll learn! I honestly can’t think of a person who WOULDN’T enjoy this. Even if you’re not normally into fiction or family stories or joy or happiness or whatever, I really think you’d have to have a very very very cold and dark heart to not smile at the end of this story.
If you get to the end of the book and haven’t cracked one single smile, come back and comment just how cold and dead your heart is because at that point I have no other choice but to impressed.
The story is a poignant, raw, and hilarious depiction of one family navigating down syndrome and how it impacts each of their lives. Each member of the family has a perspective in the book and you’re able to get a peak into all of their heads. I have to admit that reading Emmet’s perspective was my favorite, but all the narrations were heartfelt and real. The family is impossible not to love and though I was rapidly flipping through the pages of this one because I was enjoying it so much, I knew I’d be sad to finish and say goodbye to the McConnels. When it came to an end, I was indeed sad and am drowning my woes by making it my mission to get this on more people’s radars!
I do also appreciate that despite the fact that this story is full of humor, it doesn’t mask the harder aspects of navigating life with a disability, especially in regards to what that looks like after graduating out of the school system. Some really good food for thought in here about the treatment of differently abled people and how limited their opportunities become the older they get. The story comes with sucker punches, contemplation, emotions, and humor. Have I mentioned it’s funny? Because it’s really fucking funny.
Based on the fact that its author created and wrote such a cult classic TV show, I’m honestly shocked this hasn’t gotten more momentum. Not that who wrote it matters because big name or not, this book was just plain GOOD. I’m always searching for feel good books that AREN’T romances and this is exactly that. I recommend a lot of different books to a lot of different people and generally tailor my recommendations person to person because of taste, but this is a story I think everyone would enjoy and everyone should read. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll have fun and you’ll learn! I honestly can’t think of a person who WOULDN’T enjoy this. Even if you’re not normally into fiction or family stories or joy or happiness or whatever, I really think you’d have to have a very very very cold and dark heart to not smile at the end of this story.
If you get to the end of the book and haven’t cracked one single smile, come back and comment just how cold and dead your heart is because at that point I have no other choice but to impressed.
November 8, 2025
There are books you read, and then there are books you feel—and this was definitely the latter. As a mom of children with special needs and a special educator, this one resonated with me right away.
It’s about a mom who writes a memoir about raising her son with Down syndrome, and when it gets turned into a movie, the story is changed. The family has to deal with the shifted narrative and the question of who gets to tell the truth about their lives.
I really appreciated the premise, the themes, and the overall tone of this story. It’s a heartfelt, thoughtful family narrative that raises meaningful questions about truth, identity, and who gets to tell our stories, all while blending humor with real emotion. The characters felt warm and genuine, and the family dynamic was especially well done. I’ll admit I might be a little biased as a mom of children with special needs and as a special educator, but I absolutely loved the nuanced portrayal of raising a child with special needs. It avoids the clichés and instead shows the messy, beautiful, everyday reality with honesty and heart.
While I understood how Rob’s work tied into Emmett’s story, I found myself more drawn to Emmett’s perspective and emotional journey. Some of the sections focused on Rob’s job felt a bit mundane, and I noticed my mind wandering during those parts, wishing I could get back to the other character storylines.
I listened to the audiobook of this story and I’m so glad I did! The narrators were excellent. Their delivery felt natural and heartfelt, and they really brought the family dynamics to life. The emotions came through without ever feeling overdone, which made it such an easy and engaging listen.
All in all, I was impressed by Craig Thomas’s debut and eager to read more by him. It goes without saying, I recommend That’s Not How It Happened to anyone who appreciates honest portrayals of parenting, family dynamics, and the complexities of raising a child with special needs.
It’s about a mom who writes a memoir about raising her son with Down syndrome, and when it gets turned into a movie, the story is changed. The family has to deal with the shifted narrative and the question of who gets to tell the truth about their lives.
I really appreciated the premise, the themes, and the overall tone of this story. It’s a heartfelt, thoughtful family narrative that raises meaningful questions about truth, identity, and who gets to tell our stories, all while blending humor with real emotion. The characters felt warm and genuine, and the family dynamic was especially well done. I’ll admit I might be a little biased as a mom of children with special needs and as a special educator, but I absolutely loved the nuanced portrayal of raising a child with special needs. It avoids the clichés and instead shows the messy, beautiful, everyday reality with honesty and heart.
While I understood how Rob’s work tied into Emmett’s story, I found myself more drawn to Emmett’s perspective and emotional journey. Some of the sections focused on Rob’s job felt a bit mundane, and I noticed my mind wandering during those parts, wishing I could get back to the other character storylines.
I listened to the audiobook of this story and I’m so glad I did! The narrators were excellent. Their delivery felt natural and heartfelt, and they really brought the family dynamics to life. The emotions came through without ever feeling overdone, which made it such an easy and engaging listen.
All in all, I was impressed by Craig Thomas’s debut and eager to read more by him. It goes without saying, I recommend That’s Not How It Happened to anyone who appreciates honest portrayals of parenting, family dynamics, and the complexities of raising a child with special needs.
November 8, 2025
If anyone needs convincing that 2025 is THE year for spectacular debut novels, look no further than Craig Thomas’s sparkling entry THAT’S NOT HOW IT HAPPENED. The co-creator and writer of the TV series How I Met Your Mother brings his trademark wit, snappy dialogue, and sharp insight to bear with his story of the McConnell family.
Rob and Paige McConnell are doing their best to raise their two children; Emmett and Darcy. Their carefully laid plans took an unexpected detour when Emmett was born with Down Syndrome. Paige put her career as s journalist on hold while Rob supported the family as a screenwriter. Now with Emmett a young adult and Darcy in her senior year of high school, Paige writes a book about her family’s experience. Soon the McConnells’ ordinary life is being turned into a Hollywood movie.
What follows is a poignant, heartfelt, honest, and intimate perspective on marriage and family. The four McConnells each have a voice in the family narrative. Thomas allows us to share their innermost thoughts, dreams, frustrations, and motivations. This book shines in its relatability. Each point of view is unique and adds a layer to the beautiful complicated chaos that is life. Each is perfectly imperfect with flaws, insecurities, and the best of intentions. They are completely human and impossible not to love.
Despite the humor with which the story is told, the author does not shy away from surfacing important issues like representation and the treatment of people who are differently abled. To that point, Emmett’s voice is especially important.
The absolute best way to experience this book (and it is an experience) is via audio. The production is among the best I’ve heard with narration from Cobie Smulders, Josh Radnor, Marli Watson, and Kevin Iannucci (an actor with Down Syndrome). Their performances are nothing short of brilliant and enhance an already spectacular book.
The buzz on this book hasn’t reached fever pitch yet, but it will and it deserves every accolade it will receive.
Thank you to Harlequin Trade Publishing and Harlequin Audio for the advance copies. All opinions are my own.
Rob and Paige McConnell are doing their best to raise their two children; Emmett and Darcy. Their carefully laid plans took an unexpected detour when Emmett was born with Down Syndrome. Paige put her career as s journalist on hold while Rob supported the family as a screenwriter. Now with Emmett a young adult and Darcy in her senior year of high school, Paige writes a book about her family’s experience. Soon the McConnells’ ordinary life is being turned into a Hollywood movie.
What follows is a poignant, heartfelt, honest, and intimate perspective on marriage and family. The four McConnells each have a voice in the family narrative. Thomas allows us to share their innermost thoughts, dreams, frustrations, and motivations. This book shines in its relatability. Each point of view is unique and adds a layer to the beautiful complicated chaos that is life. Each is perfectly imperfect with flaws, insecurities, and the best of intentions. They are completely human and impossible not to love.
Despite the humor with which the story is told, the author does not shy away from surfacing important issues like representation and the treatment of people who are differently abled. To that point, Emmett’s voice is especially important.
The absolute best way to experience this book (and it is an experience) is via audio. The production is among the best I’ve heard with narration from Cobie Smulders, Josh Radnor, Marli Watson, and Kevin Iannucci (an actor with Down Syndrome). Their performances are nothing short of brilliant and enhance an already spectacular book.
The buzz on this book hasn’t reached fever pitch yet, but it will and it deserves every accolade it will receive.
Thank you to Harlequin Trade Publishing and Harlequin Audio for the advance copies. All opinions are my own.
November 11, 2025
4.5 ⭐️
November 9, 2025
I LOVED this story! The audiobook is the way to go. It's FANTASTIC!
November 10, 2025
That’s Not How It Happened by Craig Thomas
Published by Harlequin Trade Publishing | Hanover Square Press
Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for the gifted book and ALC (audiobook listening copy).
Let me just say: if you’re looking for a quiet, reflective book about the warm fuzzies of parenting—move along. This one comes with claws, crackling dialogue, and more than a few sucker punches to the gut (the emotional kind, not the Jerry Springer kind… mostly). That’s Not How It Happened is the kind of book that sneaks up on you—masquerading as a Hollywood satire-slash-family drama—but then starts peeling back the layers of marriage, parenting, and the weaponized nostalgia we all rewrite in our heads.
Paige didn’t ask to be a martyr mom. She just blinked one day and found herself drowning in IEP meetings and adult diaper coupons while her once-hotshot screenwriter husband Rob jetted back and forth to LA like he was still in the ‘90s. Their son, Emmett, who has Down syndrome, is now a young adult with a girlfriend, opinions, and zero patience for being turned into Hollywood’s next Inspiration Porn poster child. Meanwhile, their daughter Darcy is busy not-being-included in the story at all—because apparently being “the normal one” means you’re just furniture in your own family.
Cue Paige’s midlife memoir. Cue a Very Famous Actress knocking on their door. Cue the movie deal. And cue the total implosion of a family who suddenly realizes they’ve all been living in entirely different versions of the same story.
Craig Thomas absolutely nails the voice of each character—Emmett’s POV is the standout, heartfelt without veering into Hallmark territory. Paige is sharp and resentful in a way that will make every exhausted mom feel seen. Rob is a hot mess with great hair and a fading IMDB profile. Darcy? She’s the rage-fueled Gen Z baby of my dreams.
The dialogue snaps. The structure sings. The satire hits its target without ever losing heart. Honestly, this is what you get when you let a seasoned TV writer (Thomas co-created How I Met Your Mother) loose on literary fiction: it’s fast, it’s funny, it’s emotionally devastating in all the right ways, and somehow still manages to deliver a wholesome punch when it counts.
And the audiobook? Flawless execution. Full cast. Josh Radnor and Cobie Smulders narrating Paige and Rob (a literal HIMYM reunion), plus Kevin Iannucci—an actor with Down syndrome—as Emmett. It’s not just a clever casting choice; it’s what gives the whole thing its soul.
“He should be inspired instead of having to be inspiring. Accepted instead of having to accept less.”
★★★★★ 5 stars. Emotional damage and warm fuzzies served simultaneously. Craig Thomas, you may not be my real dad, but you are the literary papa I didn’t know I needed.
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Let me just say: if you’re looking for a quiet, reflective book about the warm fuzzies of parenting—move along. This one comes with claws, crackling dialogue, and more than a few sucker punches to the gut (the emotional kind, not the Jerry Springer kind… mostly). That’s Not How It Happened is the kind of book that sneaks up on you—masquerading as a Hollywood satire-slash-family drama—but then starts peeling back the layers of marriage, parenting, and the weaponized nostalgia we all rewrite in our heads.
Paige didn’t ask to be a martyr mom. She just blinked one day and found herself drowning in IEP meetings and adult diaper coupons while her once-hotshot screenwriter husband Rob jetted back and forth to LA like he was still in the ‘90s. Their son, Emmett, who has Down syndrome, is now a young adult with a girlfriend, opinions, and zero patience for being turned into Hollywood’s next Inspiration Porn poster child. Meanwhile, their daughter Darcy is busy not-being-included in the story at all—because apparently being “the normal one” means you’re just furniture in your own family.
Cue Paige’s midlife memoir. Cue a Very Famous Actress knocking on their door. Cue the movie deal. And cue the total implosion of a family who suddenly realizes they’ve all been living in entirely different versions of the same story.
Craig Thomas absolutely nails the voice of each character—Emmett’s POV is the standout, heartfelt without veering into Hallmark territory. Paige is sharp and resentful in a way that will make every exhausted mom feel seen. Rob is a hot mess with great hair and a fading IMDB profile. Darcy? She’s the rage-fueled Gen Z baby of my dreams.
The dialogue snaps. The structure sings. The satire hits its target without ever losing heart. Honestly, this is what you get when you let a seasoned TV writer (Thomas co-created How I Met Your Mother) loose on literary fiction: it’s fast, it’s funny, it’s emotionally devastating in all the right ways, and somehow still manages to deliver a wholesome punch when it counts.
And the audiobook? Flawless execution. Full cast. Josh Radnor and Cobie Smulders narrating Paige and Rob (a literal HIMYM reunion), plus Kevin Iannucci—an actor with Down syndrome—as Emmett. It’s not just a clever casting choice; it’s what gives the whole thing its soul.
“He should be inspired instead of having to be inspiring. Accepted instead of having to accept less.”
★★★★★ 5 stars. Emotional damage and warm fuzzies served simultaneously. Craig Thomas, you may not be my real dad, but you are the literary papa I didn’t know I needed.
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November 14, 2025
I listened to the audiobook—so glad I did! I loved hearing the voice actors perform. The different perspectives and personalities of each character were fascinating and kept my attention throughout the story. It was reminiscent of Wonder with each family member telling their side of the story and unfolding events. It truly showed the way that each person can internalize and misconstrue what another person is thinking. The emotions were raw, funny, hurtful, beautiful and everything in between. It captured real life communication problems and struggles among family, friends and career. I thought every actor did an amazing job with their reading and acting skills-Rob, Paige, Darcy and especially Emmett. I especially enjoyed when they imitated other characters like Nigel and Merritt. Emmitt always made me smile and laugh and also made me cry. What a truly touching story about life, family and learning to truly see each other. Well done Craig Thomas!
November 19, 2025
I’m honestly kind of speechless. The amount of care baked into this book is at a level that I feel is unmatched — at least in what I’ve read in my lifetime. I’ve now typed and retyped a sentence at least three times about how much I feel I learned from this book. But the truth is I don’t even know how to distill that into something as concise as a Goodreads review. I think the best way I can say it is that in the three days it took me to read this book (yes — only three days, I couldn’t put it down) I think I grew — as a writer, as a storyteller, as a human. It made me feel every emotion from anger, to sadness, to surprise, to delight. I know this book just entered the world a few weeks ago, so I hope this means it is just starting its journey of bringing light and healing to so many people. Thank you, Craig, for this book. Truly anything you write, I’m here and ready to read (or watch!)
October 28, 2025
Paige's life took an unexpected turn when she gave birth to her son, Emmett, who has down syndrome. So, she quits her job and becomes a stay at home mom while her husband, Rob, flies across the county for his flourishing screenwriting career. Years later, after both of her kids are grown, Paige writes a memoir about raising a child who is disabled. When her memoir is picked up to become a movie, Paige's family learns that there is a side to every story.
So I immediately wanted to read this because the writer is the co-creator of How I Met Your Moth (my favorite show, thank you) AND two of the narrators are from the show (Robin and Ted, IYKYK) AND the narrator of Emmett is actually someone with down syndrome. So needless to say, the narration was awesome. I don't normally read contemporary fiction, but this was the exception. This was witty, emotional, and heartfelt. I loved every minute of it and think everyone should read this!
Thank you so much to Harlequin Audio and Harlequin Trade Publishing for the copy!
So I immediately wanted to read this because the writer is the co-creator of How I Met Your Moth (my favorite show, thank you) AND two of the narrators are from the show (Robin and Ted, IYKYK) AND the narrator of Emmett is actually someone with down syndrome. So needless to say, the narration was awesome. I don't normally read contemporary fiction, but this was the exception. This was witty, emotional, and heartfelt. I loved every minute of it and think everyone should read this!
Thank you so much to Harlequin Audio and Harlequin Trade Publishing for the copy!
November 6, 2025
This was a beautiful, raw, honest depiction of what many families endure. It felt real. The characters and their individual experiences woven together into one storyline was wonderful and didn’t feel rushed or forced. The pace was also great.
The audiobook with the 4 different voices may have added to my experience but I enjoyed it.
The audiobook with the 4 different voices may have added to my experience but I enjoyed it.
November 8, 2025
4.5 stars but I’ll round up. This might be one of the best audiobooks I’ve ever listened to. While I did enjoy the book, I don’t think it would have near the impact had I read instead. There were plenty of laugh out loud moments along with the more raw elements. Did it get a little schmaltzy at the end? Yes, but it’s not going to stop it going on my list of top books of the year.
November 13, 2025
I don't usually read feel good stories, but this one caught my eye. I loved the audio book version - definitely worth the read.
September 13, 2025
I had such a good time reading this Debut novel by Craig Thomas, none other than the co-creator of How I Met Your Mother!
This is a truly unique story that really doesn’t fit into any single category but explores elements of humor, family drama, and the effects of Hollywood.
One of the main characters of this book, Emmett, has Down syndrome and one theme of the story is how his parents are coping with him becoming an adult and desperately wanting the independence that they are hesitant to give. We get a lot of of Emmett’s perspective here about how he feels about everyone running his life but him.
When Emmett’s mom writes a successful memoir about her story and Hollywood turns their life into a movie, everything starts to unravel into a massive shit show. This book played out in my head like a tv show — I don’t know if this was the author’s intention but I loved it.
This book also sheds light on the very real issues disabled people in America still face to this day, like marriage equality to give an example.
Highly recommend everyone checks this book out. It was funny, heartwarming, intense, frustrating, and entertaining all at once.
This is a truly unique story that really doesn’t fit into any single category but explores elements of humor, family drama, and the effects of Hollywood.
One of the main characters of this book, Emmett, has Down syndrome and one theme of the story is how his parents are coping with him becoming an adult and desperately wanting the independence that they are hesitant to give. We get a lot of of Emmett’s perspective here about how he feels about everyone running his life but him.
When Emmett’s mom writes a successful memoir about her story and Hollywood turns their life into a movie, everything starts to unravel into a massive shit show. This book played out in my head like a tv show — I don’t know if this was the author’s intention but I loved it.
This book also sheds light on the very real issues disabled people in America still face to this day, like marriage equality to give an example.
Highly recommend everyone checks this book out. It was funny, heartwarming, intense, frustrating, and entertaining all at once.
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July 24, 2025That's Not How It Happened reels you in fast and doesn’t let go.
The book was gripping from the start and had smart, layered storytelling.
If you love character-driven narratives with a twist, this one’s a solid pick.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for providing me with this arc!
The book was gripping from the start and had smart, layered storytelling.
If you love character-driven narratives with a twist, this one’s a solid pick.
Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for providing me with this arc!
June 18, 2025
Once I started reading this book I could not stop and finished in one evening. As a HIMYM fan, I was interested in this book for the connections (Josh Radnor and Cobie Smulders apparently narrate the audio book as well) but stayed for the plot and characters. I really enjoyed this!
November 14, 2025
When Paige publishes a heartfelt memoir about raising her son Emmett, who has Down Syndrome, she never expects Hollywood to come knocking. But when a glamorous actress turned producer decides Paige's story is her next project, Paige's quiet family life is thrust into the harsh glow of the spotlight. Suddenly everyone from studio executives to online fans have opinions about who they are, what their story means, and how it should be told. Paige is flattered but wary, her husband, once a screenwriter himself sees opportunity, their daughter Darcy is tired of being the invisible sibling, and Emmett, now old enough to want agency over his own life, doesn't understand why strangers get to decide who he is. As Hollywood rewrites their past into something shinier, simpler, and not entirely true, the family must confront old wounds, shifting loyalties, and the uncomfortable question at the heart of it all. Who gets to tell your story, and what happens when the world believes the wrong version?
Smart, heartfelt, and wickedly funny this debut novel from the co-creator of How I Met Your Mother had me laughing out loud one chapter and getting choked up the next. Craig Thomas takes a family on the brink of Hollywood chaos and turns their story into a sharp and insightful look at what really happens when "true stories" stop belonging to the people who lived them. Paige is relatable in all her messy honesty. Darcy is the overlooked sibling you want to hug. Emmett absolutely shines, not as an inspiration, but as a fully realized character with humor, depth, and agency. The Hollywood satire is spot on, but beneath the glitz is a tender family drama about identity, truth, and loving people exactly as they are.
Thank you to NetGalley, Craig Thomas, and HTP/ Hanover Square Press for this eARC! Publication date was November 4th, 2025.
Smart, heartfelt, and wickedly funny this debut novel from the co-creator of How I Met Your Mother had me laughing out loud one chapter and getting choked up the next. Craig Thomas takes a family on the brink of Hollywood chaos and turns their story into a sharp and insightful look at what really happens when "true stories" stop belonging to the people who lived them. Paige is relatable in all her messy honesty. Darcy is the overlooked sibling you want to hug. Emmett absolutely shines, not as an inspiration, but as a fully realized character with humor, depth, and agency. The Hollywood satire is spot on, but beneath the glitz is a tender family drama about identity, truth, and loving people exactly as they are.
Thank you to NetGalley, Craig Thomas, and HTP/ Hanover Square Press for this eARC! Publication date was November 4th, 2025.
November 13, 2025
While this premise sounded good I fully admit what drew me to this was the ties it has to How I Met Your Mother. I’m a huge fan of that show and the fact that not only was it written by an executive producer but also narrated by two of the actors, it was an easy choice for my Book of the Month pick.
This book tackles so much and it does so quite beautifully. Paige and Rob faced several career switches after their first child was born with Down Syndrome 24 years ago but the biggest pivot comes after the book Paige wrote about raising a son with Down Syndrome is optioned for a movie.
One would think given the author was a producer of a sitcom this would be filled with a lot of humor, but actually this book is about a serious matter when it comes to Hollywood- representation and the need to stop hiring actors to play parts when there are actors who actually fit those parts naturally.
I love how this is told via the viewpoints of all 4 family members. In doing so we, the reader/listener, get to see the full dynamic of this family. All of the narrators were fantastic and while I know Paige and Rob are not Robin and Ted I did see a little bit of those beloved characteristics in them (though I can’t help but wonder had this been narrated by Alison Hannigan and Jason Segal, would I have seen bits of Lily and Marshall?)
Suffice to say this was a great behind the scenes look into the craziness that goes into a making a movie and wonderful look into the family of a child with Down Syndrome.
This book tackles so much and it does so quite beautifully. Paige and Rob faced several career switches after their first child was born with Down Syndrome 24 years ago but the biggest pivot comes after the book Paige wrote about raising a son with Down Syndrome is optioned for a movie.
One would think given the author was a producer of a sitcom this would be filled with a lot of humor, but actually this book is about a serious matter when it comes to Hollywood- representation and the need to stop hiring actors to play parts when there are actors who actually fit those parts naturally.
I love how this is told via the viewpoints of all 4 family members. In doing so we, the reader/listener, get to see the full dynamic of this family. All of the narrators were fantastic and while I know Paige and Rob are not Robin and Ted I did see a little bit of those beloved characteristics in them (though I can’t help but wonder had this been narrated by Alison Hannigan and Jason Segal, would I have seen bits of Lily and Marshall?)
Suffice to say this was a great behind the scenes look into the craziness that goes into a making a movie and wonderful look into the family of a child with Down Syndrome.
November 20, 2025
Author Craig Thomas is the co-creator of How I Met Your Mother, one of my all-time favorite comedies and a show my entire family quotes like it’s a second language. So yes, I had high expectations going in to THAT’S NOT HOW IT HAPPENED, and this book surpassed them all.
The story follows the McConnell family. Paige is a former journalist turned full-time parent after their son Emmett is born with Down syndrome. Her husband Rob is a screenwriter whose career has been floundering. Their daughter Darcy is the ignored younger sibling who has learned to make herself small. When Paige writes a memoir about raising Emmett that goes viral, Hollywood swoops in, and everything the family has been avoiding suddenly demands attention.
The book unfolds through all four perspectives, and that choice makes the whole thing feel extremely real. Paige is overwhelmed. Rob is conflicted. Darcy is tired of being sidelined. And Emmett gets to speak for himself with honesty and a clear sense of identity. Knowing Thomas has a son with a rare genetic disorder made the emotional accuracy hit even harder. He writes with understanding, not performance.
This is funny, touching, sharply observed, and never sentimental in the cheap way. Thomas handles disability, marriage, parenting, and Hollywood nonsense with a mix of humor and sharp insight.
People with great taste are already talking about this one, and for good reason. I want everyone to feel like they have a book friend steering them toward something they’ll love, and this is absolutely one of those books. It’s heartfelt, it’s smart, it’s entertaining, it’s laugh-out-loud funny, and it will stay with you.
Though I read it with my eyeballs, people in the know are recommending the audiobook, narrated in part by Ted Moseby and Robin (Sparkles) Scherbatsky. The part of Emmet is narrated by a Kevin Iannucchi, an actor with Down Syndrome.
Put it on your list. You’ll be glad you did.
Thank you to @netgalley and @hanoversquarepress for the advanced reader copy. All opinions are my own.
The story follows the McConnell family. Paige is a former journalist turned full-time parent after their son Emmett is born with Down syndrome. Her husband Rob is a screenwriter whose career has been floundering. Their daughter Darcy is the ignored younger sibling who has learned to make herself small. When Paige writes a memoir about raising Emmett that goes viral, Hollywood swoops in, and everything the family has been avoiding suddenly demands attention.
The book unfolds through all four perspectives, and that choice makes the whole thing feel extremely real. Paige is overwhelmed. Rob is conflicted. Darcy is tired of being sidelined. And Emmett gets to speak for himself with honesty and a clear sense of identity. Knowing Thomas has a son with a rare genetic disorder made the emotional accuracy hit even harder. He writes with understanding, not performance.
This is funny, touching, sharply observed, and never sentimental in the cheap way. Thomas handles disability, marriage, parenting, and Hollywood nonsense with a mix of humor and sharp insight.
People with great taste are already talking about this one, and for good reason. I want everyone to feel like they have a book friend steering them toward something they’ll love, and this is absolutely one of those books. It’s heartfelt, it’s smart, it’s entertaining, it’s laugh-out-loud funny, and it will stay with you.
Though I read it with my eyeballs, people in the know are recommending the audiobook, narrated in part by Ted Moseby and Robin (Sparkles) Scherbatsky. The part of Emmet is narrated by a Kevin Iannucchi, an actor with Down Syndrome.
Put it on your list. You’ll be glad you did.
Thank you to @netgalley and @hanoversquarepress for the advanced reader copy. All opinions are my own.
November 7, 2025
Paige became a stay at home mom when she and her screenwriting husband Rob, had their first child, Emmett, who has Down syndrome. Their daughter Darcy was born a few years later and Paige took on the lion’s share of the parenting, especially since Rob was constantly traveling to LA for his work. Once the kids are older, Paige writes a memoir about being the mom of a special needs child. The book goes viral and is optioned for a movie. Rob’s career has not been doing as well and this new project could revive his screenwriting career. In this funny and heartfelt novel, all four family members’ perspectives of the family’s dynamics and the journey to getting the movie made are shared.
The author of this is Craig Thomas, who co-created How I Met Your Mother. I grabbed this one because I have always enjoyed the humor of HIMYM but I didn’t really know what to expect. Let me start by saying this is a book where the audio is the way to go - not because the book isn’t fun to read but because the audio is amazing (maybe my favorite of the year). The narrators are Robin and Ted from HIMYM as the parents, and the kids’ narrators are wonderful as well (Emmett is played by an actor with Down Syndrome). The story felt authentic and was a relatable story about a couple while showing some of the challenges and joys of having a special needs child. The fun of hearing each family member’s perspectives of the same events was done so well and the humor embedded in the writing brought an additional level of enjoyment to the story. I finished it Wednesday night and have already recommended it to so many of my friends.
4.5 stars
The author of this is Craig Thomas, who co-created How I Met Your Mother. I grabbed this one because I have always enjoyed the humor of HIMYM but I didn’t really know what to expect. Let me start by saying this is a book where the audio is the way to go - not because the book isn’t fun to read but because the audio is amazing (maybe my favorite of the year). The narrators are Robin and Ted from HIMYM as the parents, and the kids’ narrators are wonderful as well (Emmett is played by an actor with Down Syndrome). The story felt authentic and was a relatable story about a couple while showing some of the challenges and joys of having a special needs child. The fun of hearing each family member’s perspectives of the same events was done so well and the humor embedded in the writing brought an additional level of enjoyment to the story. I finished it Wednesday night and have already recommended it to so many of my friends.
4.5 stars
November 21, 2025
When a handful of my favorite reader friends all raved about this audiobook, I quickly moved it to the top of my TBR list. And I was not disappointed! That’s Not How it Happened is a DEBUT novel written by Craig Thomas, the co-creator of How I Met Your Mother. This family drama oozes authenticity and heart. I found it especially compelling because it was narrated through the individual voices of the family members - mom Paige, dad Rob, adult son Emmett, who has Down syndrome, and teenage daughter Darcy. I loved seeing their steadfast love for each other despite their many flaws.
The audio version of this book is an absolute must. It is voiced by a talented full cast that includes Cobie Smulders, Josh Radnor, Marli Watson, and Kevin Iannucci, a young actor with Down syndrome. The actors do an outstanding job of bringing these characters to life. I had to pause several times to remind myself that they are characters and not actual people. Do yourself a favor and listen to this delightful, funny, heartwarming story! 4.5/5⭐️
The audio version of this book is an absolute must. It is voiced by a talented full cast that includes Cobie Smulders, Josh Radnor, Marli Watson, and Kevin Iannucci, a young actor with Down syndrome. The actors do an outstanding job of bringing these characters to life. I had to pause several times to remind myself that they are characters and not actual people. Do yourself a favor and listen to this delightful, funny, heartwarming story! 4.5/5⭐️
November 6, 2025
I love a good story of family dysfunction and resentments plus I’m a HUGE How I Met Your Mother fan so That’s Not What Happened was destined to be right up my alley. I loved that we got the POV of each family member and it was so interesting to see different situations and family stories through different perspectives and memories. I felt like that was done so well here, especially with Paige and Rob. There was so much fantastic humor that I found myself cackling as I read, but there were also some incredibly heartwarming and sweet moments. I enjoyed every character, but Paige really resonated with me as a mother. I felt like the book had really great pacing and I was so excited to see where this family would end up! I also really loved the Down syndrome representation and I felt like I really learned a lot, especially what happens in adulthood with a system that doesn’t really help much. The ending was absolutely beautiful and perfect. I teared up multiple times. If you like complicated family dynamics and enjoy reading about Hollywood turning books into movies, this one’s for you!
Thank you to Hanover Square Press for the digital reader’s copy.
Thank you to Hanover Square Press for the digital reader’s copy.
November 16, 2025
First off: audiobook is the way to go. The 4 narrators work so well together and it flows so smoothly. It truly captures the personalities of the narrators.
Second: I am a huge HIMYM fan, I’ve seen the show at least 15 times; it’s my comfort show. And there are SO many parallels between the show and the book, even though they have nothing to do with each other besides Craig Thomas who was the co-creator of the show and the author of the book. So if you’re a HIMYM fan, it’s kinda fun to listen/read it and find Easter eggs.
Third: this book grabs you and doesn’t let go until the very last word. As someone who wanted to go into special education when I was in high school, my heart couldn’t handle the sweetness of this book and family.
Second: I am a huge HIMYM fan, I’ve seen the show at least 15 times; it’s my comfort show. And there are SO many parallels between the show and the book, even though they have nothing to do with each other besides Craig Thomas who was the co-creator of the show and the author of the book. So if you’re a HIMYM fan, it’s kinda fun to listen/read it and find Easter eggs.
Third: this book grabs you and doesn’t let go until the very last word. As someone who wanted to go into special education when I was in high school, my heart couldn’t handle the sweetness of this book and family.
November 11, 2025
This book was advertised as witty - true enough, I let out my first cackle at around page three.
But what I would say that I loved in this book is the raw reality of parenting. While I'd never know what it's like to be a parent to a disabled child, I do relate to a few hard truths in this book.
I don't want to spoil anything for those who would like to read it, but to summarize - it's funny, kind of heartbreaking, semi-anger-inducing, and easily one of the best feel-good books to end my year.
Clearly, Craig Thomas is *not* a fascist motherf*cker who must be stopped - I obviously can't wait for his next work.
(go read the book, you'll get the reference)
But what I would say that I loved in this book is the raw reality of parenting. While I'd never know what it's like to be a parent to a disabled child, I do relate to a few hard truths in this book.
I don't want to spoil anything for those who would like to read it, but to summarize - it's funny, kind of heartbreaking, semi-anger-inducing, and easily one of the best feel-good books to end my year.
Clearly, Craig Thomas is *not* a fascist motherf*cker who must be stopped - I obviously can't wait for his next work.
(go read the book, you'll get the reference)
November 18, 2025
Loved it! It reminded me of a mix of a Laurie Frankel book and a How I Met Your Mother episode. It’s part a behind the scenes look of Hollywood and how movies are made. It’s part a family story about 4 family members who are just living through a moment of complete disconnect with one another. And it’s part a story of loving a young adult with a disability and both how joyous and difficult that is. In between the funny scenes, the moments where the author spoke earnestly about the complexities of parenting a child with Down Syndrome brought me to tears. The audio narration was perfection, and given the cast (go look them up), I’m not surprised. This one deserves SO much more attention than it’s getting. Go read it!
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