“I will [action] for [duration].”
That’s a tiny experiment; it constitutes this book’s key recommendation—namely, to make a pact (either with yourself or publicly) to complete some specific, doable action repeatedly (e.g., every day) over a set time period (10 days to 3 months), and track whether you did it binarily (yes/no). The tiny experiment tests the hypothesis that the specific action will improve the quality of your life. You generate such hypotheses by collecting data on yourself in the form of “field notes” (self-anthropology).
“Inspired by the experimental mindset taught in scientific training, I asked myself: What experiment could I run on my own life that would bring me an intrinsic sense of fulfillment, whatever the outcome?”
There are a few other useful insights in this book, such as the recommendation to conduct weekly “Plus Minus Next” evaluations (i.e., reviewing what went right, what went wrong, and what the plan is for the upcoming week) and the discussion of “affective labeling” (i.e., naming and writing down the emotions we are feeling at a particular time).
“[L]abeling our emotions relieves our brains of the burdensome task of processing them. Once you have those words, it’s much easier to investigate their cause and address the issues underlying those feelings.”
The problem with the book, however, is that most of it is self-help handwaving, interspersed with loosely related success stories (e.g., Amelia Earhart), quotes from other people, and brief discussions of abstract psychological concepts (e.g., self-complexity, sunk cost fallacy, transactive memory). In other words, most of the chapters include very few practical steps for improving your life, and instead contain generalized, “duh” statements such as:
“Communities can provide critical help when you are navigating new or difficult situations.”
MEMORABLE QUOTES:
“We each have within us unlimited possibilities; purpose is therefore never a singular discovery.”
“You could experiment with mediating, running, writing, taking phots, giving presentations at work, learning how to code, playing games with your kids.”
“Let’s be honest: Nobody really wants to live a productive life.”
“It means that instead of staring at a gruesome countdown clock, our most expansive, fruitful weeks may yet lie ahead. The shift from a quantitative view of time to a qualitative one is the first huge step toward a healthier approach to getting things done and finding a meaningful answer to how to make the most of our weeks.”
“We need to shift the focus form what we do with our time to how we experience each moment—what you might call mindful productivity. It’s a simple idea, that making the most of our time isn’t about doing more but about being more: more present, more engaged, and more attuned to the quality of our experiences.”
“Rather than being an indication of laziness or lack of discipline, procrastination points to nuanced psychological roadblocks that need addressing.”
“Decide on the parts of your life and work where you will drop the ball to achieve excellence in other areas.”
“That’s why the bravest thing you can do, sometimes, is to admit that a course of action is no longer serving you and to bow out gracefully.”
“Procrastination is not an enemy to be conquered but a meaningful signal that something is amiss—a mismatch between your rational aspirations (head), your emotional needs (heart), and your practical skills (hand).”