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297 pages, Paperback
First published June 11, 2021
"People don’t change just because they grow old. Being old simply means you’ve been on this planet for longer, but people always treat us like we’re from the past. Trapped there. But really, we live in the present, just like everyone else."I'm not gonna talk about the obligation that one should always look after their parents because they took care of them when they were young and that it's the right thing to do and all. What I wanna say is that dementia is becoming more common in Korea and many other countries now, and even though looking after someone who's slowly losing their sense of self is hard (trust me, I know), we should at least make an attempt to let them know that we're there for them and would come to their aid if things get worse. Cuz as terrifying and exhausting as it can be to care for someone with dementia, it's even more painful and scary for the person going through it - to wake up somewhere other than home and have an internal conflict with their own memories every single day, trying to function without the familiarity of their home and family.