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The Rules of Engagement for Overcoming Your Past: Breaking Free From Guilt, Rejection, Abuse, and Betrayal

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When you have a specific issue in your life, you need a specific strategy.
We all have things in our past that can derail our futures if we don't learn how to overcome them. Strongholds and emotional attachments we allow in our lives--passed down to us from the culture, our education, and even our families--that can keep us going in circles. In her powerful style, Cindy Trimm identifies the spiritual setbacks we experience and provides practical biblically based techniques and strategies for securing your breakthrough.

There is a spiritual war going on for your future. The Rules of Engagement for Overcoming Your Past is a manual to help you effectively wage every battle. Using the authority you have been given by God, you can break free from...

- Guilt
- Rejection
- Abuse
- Betrayal
- Isolation, and more!

130 pages, Kindle Edition

First published June 4, 2013

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Cindy Trimm

74 books395 followers
Dr. Cindy Trimm is a sought-after empowerment specialist, revolutionary thinker, and transformational leader. She has earned a distinguished reputation as a catalyst of change and voice of hope to the nations.

As an author, Dr. Trimm has repeatedly topped bestsellers lists with what have become renown classics, such as: Commanding Your Morning, The 40 Day Soul Fast, The Rules of Engagement for Overcoming Your Past, and Prevail: Discover Your Strength in Hard Places.

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June 6, 2018
This book is very clear and compact though not very comprehensive despite of beginning with defining basic Christian concepts such as repentance, confession, soul ties, overcoming and being born again. Unfortunately I found her given solutions to the issues stated in the book more idealistic than practical though she did give a couple of practical solutions including joining a church. Cindy Trimm is the only spiritual leader so far that has influenced concrete changes and breakthrough in my life but yet I find myself slightly disappointed with the book. Apart from her in-depth analysis of the orphan spirit I can't find anything too new and groundbreaking in the book. She's mostly leaning on to simple, idealistic solutions that are vastly covered in Christian literature (forgiveness, courage, gratitude, prayer) that are often easier said than done and HEARD BEFORE. My point is that despite my high expectations I don't think she dug deep enough compared to her previous Rules Of Engagement for example. It's an inspiring page-turner read within a week or two but I wish it had more coverage.
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December 9, 2017
This was an outstanding book by Cindy Trimm. The first four chapters really set the groundwork for the remainder of the book. If you have ever been abused, rejected, abandoned, or betrayed, this is the book that will set you free from the yoke of bondage that is choking the life out of you. Chapter 5 talks about this thing called an "orphan spirit," and how you can break from it by being adopted by God (Chapter 6 to the end). This is by far one of the best books I've read this year.
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July 16, 2018
Wonderful book. This book has some amaizing truths. The author does a soul laiser scan that will allow you to see the world clearly as you deal with soul issues especially in relation to pain. Greatly recommend it for those that have gone through a lot of pain especially from the lost os a loved one or something. This book helped me I can now see the world clearly when it comes to dealing with past pains.
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October 2, 2022
Fantastic

This is another life altering book , by Cindy Trimm . This book is packed full of truth that had me taking notes and seeing myself in a better light. A true self help book for Christians that truly want to change their behavior and model true Christian behavior , not to please anyone but for God and themselves . Everything else will fall into line.
5 reviews
August 16, 2017
Excellent and pragmatic book

Great practical applications and fundamental truths in this book. Easy to read and filled with great practical advice and life tools to deal with the past.
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February 24, 2019
Fed my soul

I highly recommend this book to all reader's. This book will not only encourage you but help you grow in many areas of your life, that we struggle with on a day to day basis.
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November 8, 2019
Great Read!

This book is for anyone who is mentally trapped. It breaks down the ways to free yourself and be intentionally. Knowing God’s word and who he is are the keys to overcoming your past!
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January 4, 2018
HIGHLY RECOMMEND! If you suffer from guilt, rejection, and/or betrayal this book will help overcome these areas.
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January 28, 2018
Breaking Free

This book is awesome! It gets to the core of pulling out the hurt from the past and how to handle it!
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209 reviews
March 13, 2019
"Courage is not the absence of fear, but rather the judgment that something else is more important than fear." -Ambrose Redmoon
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32 reviews3 followers
April 11, 2020
This book really helped me pull myself out of a dark place.
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December 13, 2020
Insightful and powerful

On to the next one. Phenomenal woman of God! Once we have knowledge we can be better equipped for the battle we are waging.
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1 review4 followers
April 13, 2021
Love this book!!!

This book will give you what you need to restart and restore your life! This is a great read, I recommend it!
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December 30, 2020
Amen

Love this book! It fell in line with my counseling sessions! Happy that I am praying praying and going through deliverance.
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September 24, 2022
overcoming my past

If you’ve ever been derailed, setback or setup. This book is for you. Take another look there is life on the other side of pain
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September 5, 2014
Trimm has done a good job of giving readers the tools to deal with past hurts. It takes rewiring our mind and retraining our thinking. She deals with many issues, shame, repentance, overcoming rejection, etc. I found her writing on spiritual orphans to be enlightening. She is a little bit too much of creating your own future for me but otherwise a good book.
See my complete review at http://bit.ly/1lFRynr.
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher for the purpose of an independent and honest review.
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