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308 pages, Paperback
First published March 19, 2024
The category of “woman” does not say in advance how many people can participate in the reality it describes, nor does it limit in advance the forms that that reality can take. In fact, feminism has always insisted that what a woman is an open-ended question, a premise that has allowed women to pursue possibilities that were traditionally denied to their sex.
Imagine if you were Jewish and someone tells you that you are not. Imagine if you are lesbian, and someone laughs in your face and says you are confused since you are really heterosexual. Imagine if you are Black and someone tells you that you are white, or that you are not racialized in this ostensibly post-racial world. Or imagine you are Palestinian and someone tells you that Palestinians do not exist (which people do).Who are these people who think they have the right to tell you who you are and what you are not, and who dismiss your own definition of who you are, who tell you that self-determination is not a right that you are allowed to exercise, who would subject you to medical and psychiatric review, or mandatory surgical intervention, before they are willing to recognize you in the name and sex you have given yourself.
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Perhaps we should all just retreat from such a person who denies the existence of other people who are struggling to have their existence known, denies the use of the categories that lets many of us live, but if such a person has allies, if they have power to orchestrate public discourse and occupy the position of victim exclusively, and if they seek to deny you of basic rights, then probably at some point you will feel and express rage, and you will doubtless be right to do so.
Stock’s valid concern is that no woman should be subject to possible rape, and I agree that everyone should share that concern. And yet, if securing women against rape in prison were her main focus, should she not [before focusing on violence enacted by trans women in women’s prisons] consult the statistics on male prison guards engaging in precisely that activity, which, given their magnitude, should, according to her logic, lead to a policy in which no man ever works as a prison guard in any women’s prison? Perhaps she has signed petitions to this effect or written on this policy, but I am not finding it in my research
To manufacture fear for the purposes of stripping trans people of their rights of self-determination is to mobilize the fear of having one's sexed identity nullified in order to nullify the sexed identities of others.
the structuring of uganda as a debt economy not only undermines its autonomy but also makes social issues into financial demands. that is, it makes the acceptance of nondiscriminatory policies a precondition of its debt repayment plan. at which point can one rightly distinguish to the objection between gay and lesbian sexuality or transgender identity and an objection to being subjugated by international banking systems? the world bank is not the messenger we need to communicate the importance of lgbtqia+ rights, for the message gets obscured by the carrier. similarly, countries that apply for entrance to the european union and its markets must also show compliance with its anti-discrimination policies. the opposition to gender that emerged in countries dependent on the eu almost always indexes a financial situation of dependency. compliance with nondiscrimination policies is a form of coercion imposed by lenders which can lead to the perception that accepting gender is a form of unacceptable coercion and even extortion: no entrance without gender. no loan forgiveness without gender. it is surely hard to embrace a policy freely, no matter how reasonable and right, if one is compelled to do so from a position of debt bondage or unwanted financial dependency on brokers of financial power.
"Rather than regard gender as the cultural or social version of biological sex, we should ask whether gender is operating as the framework that tends to establish the sexes within specific classificatory schemes. If so, gender is then already operative as the scheme of power within which sex assignment takes place. When a designated official assigns a sex on the basis of observation, they rely on a mode of observation generally structured by the anticipation of the binary option: male or female, They do not answer the question "What gender?" Rather, they answer the question "Which gender?" The marking of sex is the first operation of gender, even though that obligatory binary option of "male" or "female" has prepared the scene. In this sense, gender might be said to precede sex assignment, functioning as a structural anticipation of the binary that organizes observable facts and regulates the act of assignment itself"Biological sex is mutable, and cannot be defined by reproductive capacity alone, which changes across the course of a lifetime and may not even exist for some. Binary sex is further complicated by hormonal, anatomical, biological, and chromosomal differences between members of the same sex. Further, 'corrective' surgery enforcing dimorphism on intersex people shows that sex is not a natural fact but a normative ideal. Butler also shows us the problem with the nature/ culture differentiation, which is often used to justify homophobic rhetoric and has historically been used quite literally as a basis for racial subjugation of black and brown people – who were seen as ‘closer to nature’ – towards developing a ‘cultured’ white heterosexual ideal in opposition to their ‘natural’ sexual deviance.
"The gap between the perceived or lived body and prevailing social norms can never fully be closed, which is why even those who happily embrace their sex assigned at birth still have to do performative work to embody that assignment in social life. Genders are not just assigned. They have to be realized or undertaken, or done, and no single act of doing secures the deal."
"…to the extent that the reference to sex is enveloped in norms and conventions about what sex should be, what limits are implied by sex, and what forms of appearance should go along with sex, sex is already in the process of being gendered. If sex is framed within cultural norms, then it is already gender. That does not mean it is fake or artificial, but only that it is being mobilized in the service of one power or another. The claim that sex is immutable invokes a religious and linguistic frame for thinking about sex. Wherever there is such a frame, gender is at work. To say that there is a cultural construction of sex in such an instance does not mean that culture produces sex out of thin air. It does mean, however, that the matter of sex is being framed in a certain way and for a political purpose."
If you're in a coalition and you're comfortable, you know it's not a broad enough coalition.
—Bernice Johnson Reagon
We may understandably feel disrespected if we are referred to in the wrong way, but why have we asked people to enter into our own frame of reference?
My own view is that we should seek to bring about a world where the many relations to being socially embodied that exist become more livable, and people generally become more open to the ways that gender can be done and lived without judgment, fear, or hatred.